IMPORTANT OF OSE OJI AND OJI

By OLUEBUBE S C@Igbo bu igbo facebook group

In promoting our beautiful culture and tradition, I made a post about ose orji Igbo and orji ugo on how to make prayers with it and for blessings but I now understand that we igbos are very good in promoting others culture than ours.. when I made the post, thou has deleted it cuz of much friend request and questions and am only one person,some asked questions which I sincerely answer the one I could while some were like saying.. I believe in God, Jesus is stronger e.t.c

You believe in God abi? So who do I believe in.. Ekwensu odu ogologo okwaya?

I laugh and decide to keep mute but later change my mind for them not to give cold mind to others with their comments. If you are among those that said what I teach that day is evil that means you are inother way round saying that our culture (ur own) is evil and you are trying to say that God planted evil in our land and give the white good things .. check godiya

You can't pray with ose orji but you can drink one trailer of Goya olive oil given to you to pray chai! Who do us?

You can't use ose orji to pray to God and chase evil away from ur home but you can use sticker , handkerchief,water mix with salt ur Rev. Give to you and you see no evil in it but our own ose orji is evil.. for instance my dad buy me a red shoe and my uncle that lives abroad came back home and bought me a yellow shoe as well, so should I now throw away the one my dad gift me and say is no longer good, no no no

Rather I use both and that's make me has two shoes

Have you seen or heard that someone is been killed with ose orji ? Then what makes you think is evil

Please if you know how you pray with Oliver oil, water and sticker , pray same with ose orji it works .

Everything is now fetish to us ndi Igbo even ogu Igbo(native drugs ) is now fetish to us , we throw away everything in a twinkle of an eye..

Please umunnem let's go back to our root that didn't stop you from been a Christian taht you are .. read ur Bible very well

23 THINGS TO DO TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND UNDER THE CONTROL OF YOUR LOVE

1. Call him by a pet name

2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family.

3. DO not challenge him when he is hurt.

4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his happy moment with apology and explain why you behave that way that annoyed him.

5. Be quick to say "I'm sorry dear" when ever you offend him, insist on his forgiveness, appreciate and kiss him when he does.

6. Speak good of him before his Friends and siblings.

7. Honor his mother

8. Insist that he buys gift for his parents and in so doing be he will do same for your parents

9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when he has no money at hand and never delay his food.

10. Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. Because u may lose him to her.

11. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.

12. Smile when you look at him and give him occasional pecks when you are out socially.

13. Praise him before your children sometimes.

14. Wash his back while he is in the shower.

15. Put love note in his pocket or briefcase.

16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.

17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello" just tell him I love you.

18. If he is a public figure or a politician, gently wake him at the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point he want no more, give him sex. He will not be entice by any other woman that day.

19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband.

20. Give him a hug for no reason, a surprise Hug.

21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life.

22. Always remember to pray for him.

23. Pray together and also pray together before going to bed in the night.

May God bless your marriages. Singles may you experience true love today and forever. May non-serious people that will waste your time be disconnected in your life In Jesus Name

 NEVER FIGHT A MAN WHO SAID NOTHING

"What kind of a man is Ezenwankwo?" The people of Zulu had always wondered. Where perches his loyalty, to his people or to the cursed white men?

''He is a man of courage and wisdom, but when the issues concerning the white men are raised, he becomes as cold as the ice that capsized the Titanic ship" Nduka said.

Ezenwankwo's father had staked his life and paid the ultimate sacrifice during the fight with the people of Amesi over a land tussle. That was true patriotism.. Did our people not said that a fruit does not fall far from its tree? Indeed, Ezenwankwo did not take after his father.

People still found it befuddling that the same Ezenwankwo that had always tacitly dissociated himself from launching an agressive assault against the white men was still the same man that chased the white men away with cutlass when they had paid him a visit. He ran after them and hurled pejoratives on them.

It was also heard that he had sworn in the name of the mother earth which he stood upon that none of his household, not even any of his livestock will have anything to do with the white men.

It was 'Eke' market day, when the sun had gone to sleep, a meeting was called to decide on how to ambush the white men so as to stop them from further infesting the land with all manners of abomination of which the ancestors were already angry with.

Ezenwankwo after knowing the reason behind the sound of the 'ekwe', he quietly stood up and left the meeting.

"Leave him! We can do without him. Who does he even think he is?" There was chorus of shouts and anger.

Very early in the morning, the war drum had sounded and the group had set out to execute their mission.

The youths were the vanguards leading the frontal attack, while the elders remained at the rear brandishing strategic words. It was a mission to ambush the white men.

They were surprised to have seen scribblings on the earth. They saw traces of footsteps, but at that moment, it meant nothing to them.

As they approached the parsonage, it was empty. It sounded hollow, a clear indication that no one was there. Those footsteps must be theirs.

No other person! Ezenwankwo had betrayed their plans to the white, so they thought!

'I saw him walking alone along the stream path last night' a man admitted.. with bitterness and anger, they stamped their feet heavily towards his house.

'Where is you traitorous husband?'

His wife and children shivered.

'I swear by the gods, I don't know' his wife cried.

At the other end, the huts were crumbled and the dusts became visible in the air.

"Tell us the truth, where has that bush meat you call your husband hidden?''

''I swear by the land, I don't know'' her voice roared louder in cry.

That was her last statement before the poor children were rendered motherless.. Her blood watered the earth that had not seen rain for five market days..

'Only the chief priest can tell us where to get him now.. he must not leave to see the next day' a man suggested.

They left the poor children to weep for the dead.

The chief priest was in the shrine. He motioned them not to say anything.. he looked up to the sky and moved his head like that of the agama lizard.

' Ezenwankwo had been here more than any of you to enquire what shall happen to the white men.. the gods had always insisted that only a willing human self-sacrifice can save this land'

He paused, with the white chalk in his eyes, he looked at the iroko tree as if he was searching for a lion there..

He continued; 'Ezenwankwo has paid the ultimate sacrifice.. there, is his corpse, he freely offered it for our liberation.'

The cutlasses and the hard sticks dropped one after the other.. the voice of wailings, bitterness and regrets filled the air.

The chief priest finally spoke ' Never fight a man who said nothing.. for what you have done without enquiry, this land shall experience a greater suffering that no eyes has ever seen, and not many eyes will see its end.'' he pierced his wand into the earth and left.

~ Okpala Chukwuemeka.