MARRIAGE IS NOT A SCAM.
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Thursday, 14 January 2021
MARRIAGE IS NOT A SCAM.
Saturday, 12 December 2020
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LIFE STORY
Thursday, 16 April 2020
Things Men Should Never Do to Please a Woman When in Love
Love is indeed a beautiful thing! The feelings when u are truly in love is next to none. People express love in different ways, some people especially men particularly are over expressive. Women become overly expressive when they see their man being expressive too. Though most women find men who are expressive to be very annoying because men who are like that are usually emotional and perceived to be weaklings.
We have been suffering from poor education about love and I think is time we learn to do things the right way!
As much as one could never fully understand the affairs of the heart and the kind of people it chooses to fall for, some things would be better if they are rationally reviewed. Love is a very beautiful thing we must say, it could also become a point of pain if things do not go as planned in the relationship.
In this part of the world, men are proclaimed to be the head, this also applies in relationships. No one is asking a man to prove his manliness by beating up the women in his life in order to prove to the world that he is in charge. However, certain things are not expected of the man when it comes to relationships which is what we are about to discuss here.
Some men have failed because of the role they played in their relationships. This is mostly as a result of the overbearing attitude they put up when it comes to women. They go overboard when expressing their feelings and emotions. They trade their positions for the love they have for the women and end up being ridden in the process.
Later we will still have to discuss some of the things women should never do to please men, because it would be unfair not to help the women know their limitations when it comes to pleasing men too.
Find below some of the things you should never do to please your woman:
Never steal or commit a crime for a woman: Yes you heard me! No matter how bad things are never think of stealing because you want to please a woman, because you will end up in jail and then before you come out another has taken your place, and u will take all the blame. Of course no woman wants to end up with a thief. You will watch her walk away when you are behind the bar. Be guided in your choice of actions and know that there should be limits to every sacrifice in love.
Never buy a woman car or house when you don't have one: Over the years some men think buying expensive gifts will make a woman stay for you in a relationship lol truth is that they will only dump you after you are done fooling yourself. Why love people more than you love your self? Or were you forbidden to buying expensive stuffs for yourself? The truth of the matter is that you will end up being seen as a fool and a womanizer as well when you do all this. There are better things to do for the one you love and not being a fool. Is not bad to get her a car or a house but make sure you have one!
2 :Fighting another man because of her: What will even make you fight your fellow man for any reason not to talk of a woman that might leave you tomorrow if things gets worst. Two things are involved is either the guy beat you up and she laugh at you or you beat the guy up and end in jail and still lose her. To me I don't think any woman is worth fighting a fellow man for. You can handle it with a maturity by talking things out with him and not by fighting him.
3:Reject your family because of her: So many women wish for this, some pray all your people are even dead before they meet you but no matter how they wish and drag you never you in your wildest dreams think of rejecting your family because of any woman. There a saying that is better to marry a bad wife than have a bad child! Yes your child is your family, your wife is also your family but then don't forget she has a family she can always go back to when things get tougher. You should be able to state and define the love for your woman and the love for your family.
4: Give up your dreams: Alot has happened, so many dreams have died all because you think you love her. My brother never give up that dream is either she wait while you pursue your dreams or you let her slide. Truth is you will always see someone who will cherish that dream of yours after a while. Is better to give up on her than to give up on your dream!
5:Never become suicidal because of her: Emotional depression has lead so many into committing suicid, never in you life harbour this thought just because of the pains that you your love left you or because you are passing through some emotional blah blah blah! No matter the depth of your love, do not ever let it take you to a plain where you lose the desire to live. Do not become a martyr for a woman; do not die for love. In the same line, do not kill for a woman.There are lots of women in the society; if you get rejected by a woman, work on yourself and you would have lots of women bidding for your attention. Never let your emotions control you, always be open to failure, accept it, learn the lessons and move on with your life! It takes only the living the love again!
Love is beautiful but never be a fool to love. Love yourself first, Never let anyone deceive you with the word "If you love me, you will do this and that" Don't be deceived my brother. Love with your eyes wild open forget that saying that love is blind this is only true when u see less of your partners wrong and appreciate the good thing in them and not when you start fooling yourself around. Walk majestically into any love as a king with your eyes open!
What are other things that you think is not worth doing for love?
Sunday, 5 April 2020
My compatible partner
Saturday, 4 April 2020
Why men ????
Am at the point of committing murder because I have never been this angry. In this locked down my husband brought his girlfriend into our home without my knowledge. The babe came prepared. We have a two bedroom flat in our basement. Is a kind of guest chalet that my husband always use when he is doing research,writin
So this babe and my husband planned to come and stay in the basement . She bought food stuffs, brought her clothing and she came in when no one could see her and checked into the guest chalet. I noticed my husband spent so much time in the basement all in the name of writing his book that he needs quiet time away from the kids. I didn't suspect anything until now. I just finished cooking and I decided to take the food to surprised him there. As I gained access to the flat, I started perceiving smell of food. Lo and behold I met my husband and his babe naked and asleep having eaten food cooked by her in the living room. I went round the house and saw her clothings, shoes, toiletries in the bedroom. I screamed and the both rushed into the bedroom and met me. I bounced on him and started beating him. They were both naked. I feel so hurt and betrayed. Bringing her into my home is a huge slap on my womanhood. Now the problem is she can't leave as Abuja is locked down. How can I handle this? Will she stay here for 14 days. I feel like killing the both of them now. My husband said the babe is pregnant and insisted she can't stay alone during the lock down so they both decided she come and stay in the guess chalet. Someone should tell me what to do before I kill the two of them. ππππ.
NK talk
I am 30yrs old. My story is a very long one butI will just cut everything short. I met this man in 2010 and we started dating and I got pregnant for him few months after. He decided to go to my place and pay my bride price but my people refuse to collect the bride price because I was pregnant. So they told us to go back to lagos and come back after I have given birth so that was how we started living together and after 2years, I gave birth to another baby and we started having issues that led to break up in 2016.to just cut long stories short, when we were still apart he called me one day and proudly told me dat for my information, he is HIV positive and for that, I should stop doing shakara. Initially I thought he was just trying to say that to make me feel bad because I have done so many HIV test even when I was with him and after I left him. Infact this story is too long. All this while he has collected the kids from me since 2016 so I normally go to the east to visit them. Last year I visited my kids and spent two months with them. During that process I don't sleep in his room so he stated complaining and doing everything to get me back even went as far as trying to convince me to go down with him. But I reduced to do so. I told him we should go the hospital and I will do all the inquiries b4 I will accept. To my greatest surprise th secret cam up. After all long stories, he confess to me that he had HIV in 2004 and he met me in 2010 and his motive was to infect me with it and wen I get to know, I won't be able to liv him again. But God almighty has proven himself in my life and my kids. I am negative and my kids are negative too. But this man still don want leave ealone. He is beginning me to come back to him and let him go and pay my bride price. I don't want him again he is a wicked man. I have moved on with my life but his father and mum keep begging me to come back to him.
Wednesday, 1 April 2020
Cheated wife
Nigerian Nigerian woman (Name withheld) narrates how she sleeps with her husband’s girl friend, because her husband stopped having time for her.
READ BELOW:
“I have been married to John, my husband for about two years now but I find myself sleeping with his best friend.
“My husband and I started dating when we were in the university. John has a best friend from his school days called Dave.
“John, Dave and I were all friends in those days until I later got married to John.
“To be honest, I had a crush on Dave back then in school but due to some circumstances, I had to bottle up the feelings. However, I never stopped admiring him from afar.
“John was an outspoken guy. He came from a wealthy family. He virtually did not lack anything while in school.
“John was very supportive financially when we were in school. He helped out with my school fees and other expenses. I owe him a lot for the assistance he rendered throughout my education.
I guess I accepted his proposal for a relationship with me because I felt I was indebted to him.
“After our graduation, we got married. I thought my feelings for his best friend would die down and I will learn to love John but I was wrong. The feelings never left.
“Barely a year after our marriage, my husband completely changed towards me. He started keeping late nights. He barely had time for me, his wife.
“I confronted him several times but he gave me sarcastic and insulting responses that he was out there making money for the both of us since that was what attracted me to him in the first place.
“I was beginning to lose interest in the marriage. I decided to contact his best friend, Dave to help me talk to him but all his friend’s effort were unsuccessful.
“Dave was very sympathetic and caring. He call to check up on me almost every day.
He could tell I wasn’t enjoying my marriage which was just two years old.
“Dave kindness towards me reignited the feelings I have tried so hard to bury. Whenever, my husband was away on business trips, I invite him over to keep me company.
“At first, I kept it strictly on old times friendship level only but at time went on, I couldn’t hold my feelings any longer. I opened up to Dave about it and how I waited for him to ask me on a date then before his friend won me over.
“Dave’ response surprised me. He told me that he also had feelings for me but couldn’t tell me about it because his friend had interest in me back then in school.
“It was in this moment of truth that for the first time I cheated on my husband with his best friend.
“I felt bad about it but the absence and attitude of my husband wasn’t helping matter.
Rather, it made me go back to his best friend for more.
“I know this is wrong. I am a married woman sleeping around with another man who happens to be my husband’s best friend.
“I want to stop but the feelings are just too strong. Right now, I’m caught up in the middle and I don’t know what to do.
“Despite the fact that I am not enjoying my marriage with John, I still feel guilty for cheating on him severally.
“What should I do now? I am so confused because I love Dave but I also have an obligation to my husband.
UNFORGIVEN COUPLE
Saturday, 28 March 2020
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