As much as one could never fully understand the affairs of the heart and the kind of people it chooses to fall for, some things would be better if they are rationally reviewed. Love is a very beautiful thing we must say, it could also become a point of pain if things do not go as planned in the relationship.
In this part of the world, men are proclaimed to be the head, this also applies in relationships. No one is asking a man to prove his manliness by beating up the women in his life in order to prove to the world that he is in charge. However, certain things are not expected of the man when it comes to relationships which is what we are about to discuss here.
Some men have failed because of the role they played in their relationships. This is mostly as a result of the overbearing attitude they put up when it comes to women. They go overboard when expressing their feelings and emotions. They trade their positions for the love they have for the women and end up being ridden in the process.
Later we will still have to discuss some of the things women should never do to please men, because it would be unfair not to help the women know their limitations when it comes to pleasing men too.
Find below some of the things you should never do to please your woman:
Never steal or commit a crime for a woman: Yes you heard me! No matter how bad things are never think of stealing because you want to please a woman, because you will end up in jail and then before you come out another has taken your place, and u will take all the blame. Of course no woman wants to end up with a thief. You will watch her walk away when you are behind the bar. Be guided in your choice of actions and know that there should be limits to every sacrifice in love.
Never buy a woman car or house when you don't have one: Over the years some men think buying expensive gifts will make a woman stay for you in a relationship lol truth is that they will only dump you after you are done fooling yourself. Why love people more than you love your self? Or were you forbidden to buying expensive stuffs for yourself? The truth of the matter is that you will end up being seen as a fool and a womanizer as well when you do all this. There are better things to do for the one you love and not being a fool. Is not bad to get her a car or a house but make sure you have one!
2 :Fighting another man because of her: What will even make you fight your fellow man for any reason not to talk of a woman that might leave you tomorrow if things gets worst. Two things are involved is either the guy beat you up and she laugh at you or you beat the guy up and end in jail and still lose her. To me I don't think any woman is worth fighting a fellow man for. You can handle it with a maturity by talking things out with him and not by fighting him.
3:Reject your family because of her: So many women wish for this, some pray all your people are even dead before they meet you but no matter how they wish and drag you never you in your wildest dreams think of rejecting your family because of any woman. There a saying that is better to marry a bad wife than have a bad child! Yes your child is your family, your wife is also your family but then don't forget she has a family she can always go back to when things get tougher. You should be able to state and define the love for your woman and the love for your family.
4: Give up your dreams: Alot has happened, so many dreams have died all because you think you love her. My brother never give up that dream is either she wait while you pursue your dreams or you let her slide. Truth is you will always see someone who will cherish that dream of yours after a while. Is better to give up on her than to give up on your dream!
5:Never become suicidal because of her: Emotional depression has lead so many into committing suicid, never in you life harbour this thought just because of the pains that you your love left you or because you are passing through some emotional blah blah blah! No matter the depth of your love, do not ever let it take you to a plain where you lose the desire to live. Do not become a martyr for a woman; do not die for love. In the same line, do not kill for a woman.
There are lots of women in the society; if you get rejected by a woman, work on yourself and you would have lots of women bidding for your attention. Never let your emotions control you, always be open to failure, accept it, learn the lessons and move on with your life! It takes only the living the love again!
Love is beautiful but never be a fool to love. Love yourself first, Never let anyone deceive you with the word "If you love me, you will do this and that" Don't be deceived my brother. Love with your eyes wild open forget that saying that love is blind this is only true when u see less of your partners wrong and appreciate the good thing in them and not when you start fooling yourself around. Walk majestically into any love as a king with your eyes open!
What are other things that you think is not worth doing for love?
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