Wednesday 19 July 2023

THE BOY IN RAGS



A Touching Story With Morals.

A wealthy father and his son went shopping in an expensive shopping mall. On their way back to their car, a poor boy approached them. He cried. 

"Please help me sir! I don't have any more clothes to wear" 

The rich father threw a glance at the poor boy and felt compassion for him. His clothes were ripped and shredded.

"How old are you, little boy?" he asked him. 

"I'm ten, sir" he responded. 

Then the rich father said.
"Well, my son is ten too, and I presume that his new clothes would fit you" 

The father turned to his posh-looking son. 

"Jeff, don't you think it would be generous of you to spare some of your new clothes we have bought? We could still come shopping tomorrow"

The boy whispered.
"It's fine, dad"

The rich father then opened their shopping bag and took out few clothes which he handed to the poor boy. His face lit up in excitement.

The father then inquired.
"May I know where you live?" 

The poor boy replied.
"I live under the bridge, right down the street"

He expressed deep gratitude, and watched the father and his son as they walked into their car and drove away. 

Three months later, the rich father drove down the street, looking for the poor boy under the bridge. When he found him, he took him to the car and brought out boxes of clothes, shoes, bags and toys. He said.

"They're my son's belongings but I'm giving them all to you now" 

The poor boy was surprised and couldn't stop crying. He said. 

"But how about your son? Wouldn't he need these any longer?" 

The rich father uttered.
"No, because he is in heaven now. My sweet little boy died some weeks ago of terminal cancer. He had lived with cancer for three years, and we had known all along that he was going to die, so it was emotionally very difficult to watch him enter the final days of life. Do you know that on his deathbed, Jeff said to me 'daddy when I'm finally gone, could you give all my belongings to the poor boy we met outside the mall, the boy who has nothing, wears rags and sleeps under the bridge" 

The father paused for a moment, with tears in his eyes, he concluded. 

"You may be poor, but you have no idea how blessed you are to have life, something that money cannot buy. I could have bought a hundred lives for my son if it was possible, but no. You may have envied my son's lifestyle, but I'm sure you didn't know about all his struggles and health challenges. That's how life is. We often compare our lives to others, forgetting that life doesn't come with perfection, reason why everyone goes through difficult times. So, instead of envying others, we should focus on watering our own grass and building our own path, for as long as there is life, hope follows. And always remember the story of the poor boy who didn't have clothes to wear, but was gifted clothes by a rich boy who didn't have life ahead of him.

Author: Chima_Dickson Official

Saturday 15 July 2023

RELOADED FEELINGS



1 ๐Ÿคท------   There's really no shortcut to forgetting someone. You just have to endure missing them everyday until you don't anymore. 

2 ๐Ÿ’˜------   Once we have feelings for someone, it will always be there. We may not like them anymore, but we still care. 

3 ๐Ÿ’”-----   The Partner we want are so hard to get, but the ones we don't want are so hard to get rid of. 

4 ๐Ÿ’-----  So many ways to say "I love you", but not enough words in the world to say how much. 

5 ๐Ÿ’------   Be careful who you take for granted , someone else is waiting to appreciate them. 

6๐Ÿคฆ------    If things are meant to happen, it will happen... just be happy and expect less so that in the end, you'll be able to stand again. 

7-๐Ÿ’”----  Pain makes you stronger, tears makes you braver, heartbreak makes you wiser, so thank the past for a better future.

EMOTIONAL ACCESSIBILITY

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1๐Ÿคท__ They say you  should never give up, but the truth is, you should give up on things or people that aren't worth it. 
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2๐Ÿšถ__ Sometimes, you just have to move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. 
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3.๐Ÿคฆ__ Sometimes, People play hard to get to make sure that person's feelings are real. 
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4..๐Ÿ™‹__ When you say Goodbye it doesn't end there. Feelings remain, memories linger. When it's True Love, no one really ends it completely. 
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5..๐Ÿ’__ Psychologically, one of the most painful Goodbye is when you know that next time you meet, the "Hello" won't be the same. 
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6..๐Ÿ™Ž__ Life is super frustrating when you always respond to what people say about you. 
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7..๐Ÿง–__ Just because you care about someone, doesn't mean you'll do everything to make them happy. Don't make them take you for granted. 
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__ The funny irony of life at times, the things he will never remember are things she will never forget. 
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__ Never close your lips ๐Ÿ’‹ to those whom you have Opened your Heart ♥ to.

๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฐ ๐—ฃ๐˜€๐˜†๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ด๐˜† ๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐˜€ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ž๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ง๐—ผ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—น ๐—”๐—ป๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป.


1. When someone answers your questions partially. Wait. Don't interrupt.

Chances are high that they will complete the answer when you say nothing

2. When you want to get something from someone, frame it as an offer/opportunity instead of a request.

Anyone will be ready to accept an offer/opportunity.

3. When you meet people, notice their eye color while you smile at them.

Don't mention anything about it. It's a good way to make sure that you really look them in the eyes.

4. A person's name is the sweetest sound in the world to that person.

To make a person feel very special, remember and repeat their name.

5. Have zero expectations when you are first trying something new, it prevents disappointment.

6. To judge a person's character, notice the way they treat people - who can't do anything for them.

7. After you state your position in a negotiation.

Wait for a while. If you continue to speak, you are not speaking in your favor.

8. Chewing gum while doing nerve-racking things calm your brain.

It somehow gets your brain to calm down.

9. When you are learning something, teach someone about it.

You will remember it easily and explore more in the process of teaching.

10. Most people's favorite subject to talk about is themselves.

If you don't know what to talk about, or have awkward silence, just ask them questions.

11. Emotional expression causes emotion.

If you force yourself to smile, your mood will actually improve.

12. Stand up straight. It makes you look more confident and you will actually feel more confident.

13. With kids, frame things in a way that always gives them a choice. It makes them feel like they are in control.

For eg., "Do you want to wear red shirt or blue shirt? "

Either way, they know it's time to put on a shirt.

14. When asking for favours use the world "because". No matter how simple the reason.

The word "because" makes them think it must be okay because there is a reason.

Thank you for reading.

#psychology
#mindset
#ahgulany
AH Gulany

EMOTIONS VERSUS COMMONSENSE.... ...


1 ๐Ÿ’ญ.. Falling in love and being in a Relationship are two different thing. 
2 ๐Ÿ’ญ..  Females like it when you're overprotective,  NOT Possessive.  There's a thin line➖ 〰 between the two. 
3 ๐Ÿ’ญ..  True love it's not Love at first sight, it's feeling the same at every sight. 
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4 ๐Ÿ’ญ...  It's not hard to find someone who tells you they Love you, it's hard๐Ÿ˜ข finding someone who actually mean it. 
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5 ๐Ÿ’ญ..  Falling for the wrong person doesn't makes you stoopid๐Ÿ‘Ž.  At times, the Wrong person says๐Ÿ—ฃ the right thing from the beginning of the relationship. It's hard not to fall when that person pretend to be everything you wanted. 
6 ๐Ÿ’ญ.. A Real man only lies to his woman when he want to surprise her

Wednesday 12 July 2023

*WHY A MAN FINDS IT DIFFICULT TO FORGIVE A WOMAN WHO CHEATED ON HIM*


Forgiving a cheating woman is an argument that has been raised for many years and different people have come up with different reasons why they feel most men don't really want to forgive their woman when they cheat on them. 

It is very rare for a man to forgive a woman who cheated on him but you can find a good number of women who have forgiven their man after he cheated on them.

_Why do most men find it difficult to forgive a woman who cheated on them:_

*MEN ARE GENERALLY POSSESSIVE*

Men are naturally possessive, protective and extremely jealous of anything that belongs to them, men hate to share especially when it comes to something they love. So, when a woman cheats on them, the woman loses his possessiveness, without which he wouldn't want to have anything to do with her anymore. 

*UNFORGIVENESS*

Most men don't have forgiving spirits, especially men in Africa, immediately a woman cheats on them forgiveness is far from their scripture. They immediately close up their mind and soul towards her. 

*SOCIETAL AND UPBRINGING*

In most part of the world women are seen as inferior, the society teaches men to understand that they are superior and that a woman is their property and if she cheats she has lost her rights in the family. So, men are raised with such mentality that even if he is willing to forgive her the society would see him as a weak man for doing so.

*MEN CAN'T TAKE OFF THE PICTURE OF ANOTHER MAN SLEEPING WITH THEIR WOMAN OFF THEIR HEAD*

A man is naturally moved by what he sees, If man catches his woman cheating on him, it's very difficult to get the memory out of his head, he would always vitualize the incident anytime he is with the woman, this would make him angry all the time, so most men feel like it's the best to let the woman go.

*THE AVAILABILITY OF OTHER WOMEN*

The consciousness that there are thousands of women out there for him to pick up is another reason .

EMOTIONAL ACCESSIBILITY..


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1๐Ÿคท__ They say you  should never give up, but the truth is, you should give up on things or people that aren't worth it. 
.
2๐Ÿšถ__ Sometimes, you just have to move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. 
.
3.๐Ÿคฆ__ Sometimes, People play hard to get to make sure that person's feelings are real. 
.
4..๐Ÿ™‹__ When you say Goodbye it doesn't end there. Feelings remain, memories linger. When it's True Love, no one really ends it completely. 
.
5..๐Ÿ’__ Psychologically, one of the most painful Goodbye is when you know that next time you meet, the "Hello" won't be the same. 
.
6..๐Ÿ™Ž__ Life is super frustrating when you always respond to what people say about you. 
.
7..๐Ÿง–__ Just because you care about someone, doesn't mean you'll do everything to make them happy. Don't make them take you for granted. 
.
__ The funny irony of life at times, the things he will never remember are things she will never forget. 
.
__ Never close your lips ๐Ÿ’‹ to those whom you have Opened your Heart ♥ to.

Friday 7 July 2023

Business war



Dr Strive Masiyiwa had taught us to always watch business wars and learn from them 

Have you heard of Threads?  It is an app that was launched by Meta Business on Wednesday to break into the monopoly of Twitter.

Threads App functions mostly like Twitter expect some few features on Twitter that are yet to be integrated into it. 

Twitter lawyers have sued Meta too for invading their trade secrets. According to Twitter CEO, Elon Musk, he called the birth of threads Cheating.

Twitter is on hot seat now for the head to head competition that will come by Meta threads. 

How will Twitter manage this business threat by threads is what you (as entrepreneurs or business owners) need to learn from

Strategies threads will use to wrestle with Twitter is what you (as entrepreneurs or business owners ) need to observe and learn from.

I have opened an account on thread too, you can look for me and follow too (Engr YUNUSA Aliyu)

There are other business wars and head to head happening around the world. Stay updated and learn from them. That’s another way you can learn to develop your own competitive advantage.

#LetsGrowTogether #businessmindset #financialintelligence