Forgiving a cheating woman is an argument that has been raised for many years and different people have come up with different reasons why they feel most men don't really want to forgive their woman when they cheat on them.
It is very rare for a man to forgive a woman who cheated on him but you can find a good number of women who have forgiven their man after he cheated on them.
_Why do most men find it difficult to forgive a woman who cheated on them:_
*MEN ARE GENERALLY POSSESSIVE*
Men are naturally possessive, protective and extremely jealous of anything that belongs to them, men hate to share especially when it comes to something they love. So, when a woman cheats on them, the woman loses his possessiveness, without which he wouldn't want to have anything to do with her anymore.
*UNFORGIVENESS*
Most men don't have forgiving spirits, especially men in Africa, immediately a woman cheats on them forgiveness is far from their scripture. They immediately close up their mind and soul towards her.
*SOCIETAL AND UPBRINGING*
In most part of the world women are seen as inferior, the society teaches men to understand that they are superior and that a woman is their property and if she cheats she has lost her rights in the family. So, men are raised with such mentality that even if he is willing to forgive her the society would see him as a weak man for doing so.
*MEN CAN'T TAKE OFF THE PICTURE OF ANOTHER MAN SLEEPING WITH THEIR WOMAN OFF THEIR HEAD*
A man is naturally moved by what he sees, If man catches his woman cheating on him, it's very difficult to get the memory out of his head, he would always vitualize the incident anytime he is with the woman, this would make him angry all the time, so most men feel like it's the best to let the woman go.
*THE AVAILABILITY OF OTHER WOMEN*
The consciousness that there are thousands of women out there for him to pick up is another reason .
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