UNCLEANED WINDOW

A young couple moved into a new neighborhood. The next morning while eating breakfast, the young woman saw her neighbor through the window hanging the wash outside.

"That laundry is not clean," she said. "She doesn't know how to wash correctly. Perhaps she needs better laundry soap".

Her husband looked on, but remained silent. Every time the neighbour would hang laundry to dry, the young woman would make the same comments.

About one month later, the woman was surprised to see nice clean wash on the line and said to her husband: "Look, she has learnt how to wash correctly. I wonder who taught her this!"

The husband replied: "I got up early this morning and cleaned our windows."

And so it is with life.

What we see when watching others depends on the purity of the window through which we look.

Easy to discuss other people, their lives and things that don't really concern us. Yet we tend to forget that our window isn't that clean after all.

Clean up your window. Good morning brethren!

AVOID THE MARRIED MEN

SOME MARRIED MEN ARE ALL OVER ROAMING AND DECEIVING LADIES EVERYWHERE.

*LIES MARRIED MEN USE TO HIT ON YOU*

1# I AM NOT HAPPY IN MY MARRIAGE.

This is the topmost lie that men lie to woo naive girls into dating them.

If he is not happy he should leave, not bringing a sob story to make you swallow the line and hook up.

My bluv sister, if he is unhappy, you are not his happiness either.

2#. I WILL LEAVE HER.

You have heard this statement a thousand times from married men.

He says, he is fed up with his wife and will leave her for you.

It's a lie!

3#. I AM WITH HER FOR THE SAKE OF THE KIDS.

You' ve already heard this comment gazillion time.

He will lie that, he is with the wife for the sake of the kids, while in the real sense, they are very happily married.

Visit his social media accounts and you'll be met by pictures of a perfect family.

4#. I DON'T LOVE HER

This is a lie that most married men are fond of using if he doesn't love her.

What makes you think he will love you?

Wake up girl, he just want to slide you to the sacks.

5#. I WILL MARRY YOU.

What makes you believe that he will leave his wife for you?

Some married men use this lie to lure you into accepting his demands knowing very well he will never leave his wife for you.

The only way to avoid this is to avoid him.

6#. SHE'S NOT AS BEAUTIFUL AS YOU.

No one hates to be told that, they are beautiful, but using this lie to get you is just lame.

Everyone is beautiful in their own ways, sweetie.

He's just making you feel good so that you fall into his trap head first.

7#. I WILL MOVE OUT.

He will lie to you that he will find a place for you and leave his matrimonial home.

Men use this lie to make you feel that he's more interested in making a future with you.

It's a lie, be wise!

God Bless You.

WHO SHOULD I MARRY, ELKANAH OR ISAAC?

In marriage my daughter, you need to be prayerful. You cannot afford to joke with prayer. Some women can go away with it but it is not every woman that can afford that. It all depends on who your husband is. It depends on whether your husband is an Elkanah or an Isaac.

In case you marry an Elkanah you cannot afford to live a prayerless life. Elkanahs are very religious people but they are not spiritual. They love to do the religious activities that come with fanfare. They are quick to do their offerings or take the communion even though they may not know the spiritual implication of what they do. Every year they will go to Shiloh without miss. Every Sunday they will go to Church but they are not praying people. And so an Elkanah would not pray for himself let alone pray for you and for your needs (physical, spiritual, emotional or psychological). If you finally realized that you need to take your destiny into your own hands and rise up and pray, he would discourage you or even prevent you. He would complain about why you attend prayer meetings. He would tell you it is not necessary. Even if you tell him why you have to pray, he would tell you he should be more valuable to you than any need in your life. When Hannah could not have a baby and was seriously praying for it, Elkanah asked her in 1Samuel 1:8 that “Why are you crying, Hannah? Why aren’t you eating? Why be down hearted just because you have no children? You have me-isn’t that better than having ten sons?” If your husband is an Elkanah who thinks that you should not have any other need or priority but rather you should be satisfied because you are married to him then you better be on your knees daily. He does not recognize that you should have a need. Even when he knows your need he would play it down by describing it as JUST. He trivializes your most important need. By the way he talks, you should know that he would not pray about your issue for you. He does not see your need as important. He thinks that he should be the most important thing you ever wanted in this world.

But If you are married to an Isaac, lucky you. You can afford to go to bed and sleep comfortably because an Isaac, unlike an Elkanah, will be on his knees for you. Isaacs are not religious people but very spiritual. They are very sensitive to things of the spirit. In Genesis 25:21, the Bible says that “Isaac pleaded with the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was unable to have children, and Rebekah became pregnant with twins”. An Isaac is an intercessor. An Isaac would recognize your deepest need and will not rest until it is fulfilled. They do not go to Shiloh every year like Elkanahs but they are connected to the Throne of grace and when they pray Heaven responds with more than you can carry results. His prayers produced twin, the first of its kind in human history then.

Who have you married or who are you planning to marry? Do you know whether he is an Elkanah or an Isaac? Every woman would be looking forward to marrying an Isaac but in case you marry an Elkanah be a Hannah, rise and pray.

Food for thought

MY ADVICE TO SINGLES...

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𝐒𝐄𝐗 𝐁𝐄𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐄 𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐀𝐆𝐄

He Care for you. He called you every time. He always checked on you. He promised never to leave you. He promised to stand by you no matter what. He was kind and handsome. He promised to marry you.

𝐁𝐎𝐎𝐌

He asked you for sex. You were shocked. You hesitate to agree. But you later agree because you don’t want to make him angry. You thought he was a good guy. You thought he will keep all his promises. He saw you fully naked. He did whatever he wanted to do with you. You gave him all your pride and dignity and he was happy.

𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐇𝐀𝐃 𝐒𝐄𝐗 𝐁𝐄𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐄 𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐀𝐆𝐄

Then he started asking for more. He had sex with you times without number. He suddenly start to act strange! He began to show less care. He began to get mad at you over small things. He began to cheat. He began to use harsh words on you. And he began to see you as a disturbance to him.

𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐊𝐍𝐎𝐖 𝐖𝐇𝐘?

Just because you have nothing special to to give him anymore. Just because you have nothing for him to crave anymore! Just because you seem so cheap to him.

Sweetheart, what were you thinking before. Were you expecting him to treat you the same way while you have nothing for him to crave? Were you expecting him to value you while you have proven to be cheap to him? Where you expecting him to stay after he has used you and gotten every exciting part about you? What else would you have to offer? What else would you have to be proud of? He’s gonna move on and start chasing other girls.

He’s gonna move on like he has never had any relationship with you. He is gonna move on unaffected He can’t marry because you are valueless and have nothing to offer so he thought. Stop wondering where things went wrong. It’s straight, things went wrong when you let him had sex with you.

Now you are left with regret, tears, broken heart, disappointments and wonders.

Let me tell you this my dear, most guys are afraid of breaking up with a lady he never had sex with. But once they have that sex, the fear is now “you breaking up with him”.

Sweetheart, it’s far better to break up with him because you refused to have that sex than breaking up with him because you had the sex.

Remember if he truly loves you, he can patiently wait.

Don’t agree even when your parents know him. Don’t agree even if he introduced you to his parents and whole generation.

𝐃𝐎𝐍’𝐓 𝐀𝐆𝐑𝐄𝐄! 𝐈 𝐑𝐄𝐏𝐄𝐀𝐓 𝐃𝐎𝐍’𝐓 𝐀𝐆𝐑𝐄𝐄

Some Guys are very good at faking feelings.

𝐈 𝐃𝐎𝐍’𝐓 𝐖𝐀𝐍𝐓 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐓𝐎 𝐂𝐑𝐘 𝐅𝐔𝐋𝐋 𝐎𝐅 𝐑𝐄𝐆𝐑𝐄𝐓.

And those who have made the mistake “it’s okay” don’t let it happen again!

𝐍𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑 𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑 𝐓𝐑𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐀𝐍𝐘 𝐆𝐔𝐘 𝐖𝐇𝐄𝐍 𝐈𝐓 𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐄𝐒 𝐓𝐎 𝐒𝐄𝐗.

Not all guys are the same but only few are different. So to be at safer side, ASSUME ALL OF THEM ARE THE SAME.

Don’t let him turn you to a prostitute because you’re not and never will

*SINGLES, IF YOU MUST MARRY THIS YEAR, U MUST AVOID THESE THINGS THAT SOMETIMES CAUSES DELAY*

*1. BOY-FRIEND*

*The last thing on a Boy's Mind is Marriage.*

*Boys don't think of marriage, they want to make money first, they enter into relationship just for fun and sex, that's why if the lady should get pregnant, they ask her to abort it, or they'll deny her, because they aren't ready for Marriage.*

*Stop dating boys.*

*Boyfriends will keep scaring away serious and well-meaning suitors because they'll be thinking that the boyfriend that always hangs around you actually wants to marry you.*

*2. ENGAGEMENT RING*

*This is that spirit that makes you keep raising your finger to show the world that one young man engaged you and when the serious suitors that are ready to settle down see the ring, they'll pass over you because the ring tells them you have been taken.*

*And time is going and uncle isn't saying anything again. The ring have started to rust on your finger in protest.*

*Many engagement rings are actually handcuffs, some are not better than key holders.*

*Aunty, refuse to be Lord of the Rings.*

*3. HARD TO GET*

*This spirit tells you not to accept a marriage proposal in a hurry, to do plenty unnecessary shakara so that the brother will not think you are cheap or desperate.*

*It tells you to tell him to give you nine months to pray, don't pick his calls, ignore his WhatsApp messages, behave as if you are not interested even though you are dying on the inside and truly love the brother.*

*This spirit will not leave you until you hear the brother is getting married to another sister, then your eyes will open and you will start saying "can't he even wait for me?"*

*Wait for you? Because you are Jesus Christ?*

*Aunty, If you love the brother and you perceive he is God's will for you, accept the proposal and leave Matter for Matthias.*

*4. PROUD SPIRIT*

*That spirit that tells you to always talk to brothers anyhow because you are beautiful, educated, and anointed.*

*That spirit that tells you that every brother that greets you is not your class, so you keep ignoring and looking down on them.*

*That spirit that doesn't allow you to greet brothers except those that ride exotic cars.*

*Aunty, calm down and be humble.*

*You won't marry yourself oh.....*

*5. DENOMINATIONAL/TRIBAL SPIRIT*

*I am a Catholic and must marry a Catholic.*

*I'm a Deeper Lifer and must marry one who's a Deeper Lifer as well so our marriage will be Deep.*

*I am a Redeemer and must marry a Redeemer, any other Brother isn't Redeemed.*

*Even if God is leading you to him.*

*I'm from Rivers state and must marry from Rivers. River will soon carry you.*

*This spirit has kept many bound, they entered menopause and are about to join the Women's fellowship because of their age.*

*Aunty, understood that every believer is from one tribe called Christ.*

*If God is leading you to another denomination, kindly obey Him, stop delaying yourself by yourself*

*6. BAD CHARACTER*

*The character of some ladies shocks even the devil.*

*They will open their mouth to insult someone and you will cry for the person..*

*They quarrel and fight in public, no shame, no self respect and no dignity.*

*Their pride, their arrogance, and their attitudes is making all the brothers to run, sorry, FLEE from them like ants running away from fire.*

*Who wan die?*

*This spirit has kept many ladies single, by the time any brother gets close because of her beautiful MASCARA, her CHARACTER will chase him away.*

*Aunty, this year, work on your character, your date will be fixed this year in Jesus Name.*

*7. POOR DRESS SENSE*

*That spirit that tells you not to dress well because you are going to heaven, and that you are special Heavenly candidate, is the spirit responsible for your marital delay.*

*You dress and add 10 years to your age.*

*You dress and you look like grandma.*

*You dress and brothers will be greeting you "Good afternoon Ma.", "Yes Ma.", "Thank you Ma"*

*This spirit tells you to use tarpaulin to sew your dress, wear green skirt, yellow blouse and lemon head tie.*

*You are a lady but dress like a man; Sister, no Man wants to marry his fellow man.*

*You dress like a masquerade* .

*Dress well, don't under dress and don't over dress.*

*Dress modestly, smell good because it's not a sin.*

*Bible said don't dress indecently, it never said don't dress well.*

*8. SPIRITUAL PROBLEM.*

*This is for real, this is why I encourage everyone to be prayerful, prayer isn't only for Pastors, Things are happening. Be spiritual*

*There are people whose marriages have been hijacked in spirit realms and only prayers and God can break such yokes.*

*There are people whose wedding gown has been stolen in the spirit realm and it's only God that can help them recover it.*

*There are people who are operating under evil family pattern and curses, it's only God that can set them free.*

*There are ladies that have been married with children in the spirit realm, it's only God that can deliver them. Be guided!*

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BLIND MARRIAGE

A Man Married a Beautiful Girl. He Loved Her Very Much. One Day She Developed a Skin Disease. Slowly She Started to Lose Her Beauty. It So Happened That One Day Her Husband Left for a Tour.

While Returning He Met With an Accident and Lost His Eyesight. However Their Married Life Continued as Usual. But as Days Passed She Lost Her Beauty Gradually. Blind Husband Did Not Know This and There Was Not Any Difference in Their Married Life.

He Continued to Love Her and She Also Loved Him Very Much. One Day She Died. Her Death Brought Him Great Sorrow. He Finished All Her Last Rites and Wanted to Leave That Town.

A Man From Behind Called and Said, Now How Will You Be Able to Walk All Alone? All These Days Your Wife Used to Help You. He Replied,

I AM NOT BLIND.

I Was Acting, Because if She Knew I Could See Her Ugliness It Would Have Pained Her More Than Her Disease. So I Pretended to Be Blind. She Was a Very Good WIFE. I Only Wanted to Keep Her Happy.

MORAL:

*Sometimes It Is Good for Us to Act Blind and Ignore One Another's Shortcomings, in Order to Be Happy*