RULES FOR COUPLES WHEN BEING MAD.

It is not a bad thing to be angry against each other. There are things that can make you or your wife angry. To be mad against your spouse is not bad, but your action can mar your relationship.

These should be your attitude when you are mad towards him or her:

1. Be mad at him or her, but don't insult each other. Anger is not a ticket to speak carelessly

2. Be mad at him or her, but tell each other why you are mad. Don't assume he or she know.

3. Be mad at him or her, but don't broadcast it to others. Cover him or her. Cover your nakedness.

4. Be mad at him or her, but don't forget the many good things about him or her. Be objective and fair.

5. Be mad at him or her, but also remember the many other times he or she have forgiven you

6. Be mad at him or her, but don't give each other silent treatment. Keep the communication lines open.

7. Be mad at him or her, but don't use it as an excuse to cheat on him or her

8. Be mad at him or her, but don't hurt each other to even the score. Love doesn't revenge

9. Be mad at him or her, but don't stay mad for long. Sort thing out quickly.

10. Be mad at him or her, but don't stop praying for each other. He or she still need your prayers.

11. Be mad at him or her, but don't threaten to quit what you have together. Ending it is not the solution

12. Be mad at him or her, but don't punish each other using sex. Keep intimacy special, don't weaponize it.

13. Be mad at him or her, but don't keep reminding each other of things you said you forgiven.

14. Be mad at him or her, but don't develop a bad attitude or view of yourself. Take responsibility for offending him or her, endeavour to make it work.

Please feel free to add yours. We are here to learn.

May richly bless, lead, guard, light your paths, conquer your laxitie and grant you patience needed in marriage

HOME CONTROL.

A daughter wore a skimpy skirt one morning and her father told her to go and take it off that it was too short.

She walked to the room and reported her father to her mother .

“Mummy daddy said that I should take off this skirt”.

Her mother replied “is this like a report or what? KEMISOLA! that was an instruction and it needed an immediate action, so go and take it off immediately"

She quietly walked away and complied.

1. Dad / Mum, please turn them back when they are reporting either of you to the other.

2. Let them know instructions from any parent are not reportable.

3. As a parent, do not summon your partner to find out whether the report was true or not.

4. Do not tell your partner he/she was wrong before your child/children.

5. If you see no reason why such instructions were given, conclude it with your partner in secret and let same person correct it.

6. If you did not give him/ her a punishment, let the one who gave it do the release and if the person is not around and you can’t reach on phone (try and do the call before the child if possible) then release the child when appropriate and tell him/her that it is with the permission of your husband or wife. Both of you are same.

7. Let us do this together so we train and raise Godly children properly.

PARENTING IS A COLLECTIVE RESPONSIBILITY

Remain blessed.

*COMMON SENSE FOR MINISTERS*

*When you are sick, Don't fast.

*When you are fasting and you become unwell, break the fast immediately and treat yourself because it's only the living that can Fast.

*If you are a preacher and you are not strong enough to preach,don't force yourself to impress your members. Don't pretend to be a supper-man. Allow someone else to preach. If you die in the pulpit, your members will be the first to say "I told him to be resting, he refused"

Only the living can preach.

*If you are sick and you are demonstrating faith, after three days, you are not healed, take medications. Its not a sin.

*If you are doing dry fasting and you discovered that you have started seeing 'The burning bush', drink water fast and break your dry fasting, then try it another day.

Don't go and die before your time because of unnecessary competitions with a fellow pastor.

*If you are ageing and All Nite Prayers is having effect on your health, stop it.

*If your wife or someone is sick at home, don't leave the person unattended to and rush to church.Treat them first, before church: God is FIRST. Family is SECOND. Church etc are THIRD.

*Always check your sugar level and your blood pressure.

*If you are told that Robbers are operating on the road, park your car some - where, pray, then hide.

When they finished their madness, start your journey or return home. Don't faith it..

*Always remember: WISDOM IS THE PRINCIPAL THING.

I wish you long life with good health. None of us will die careless deaths in Jesus name.

Excellent morning God's people.

MARRIAGE THERAPY

if you leave your husband because of one thing.get ready to marry 6 husband in your life time. go and check if you have the first divorce it takes the grace of God to stay married. because by the time you get involved in the second marriage you now discover that the man you left is an angle. the one you left have never bitten you before but the other one is a Jackie Chan. then by the time you now leave jackie chan you now meet another one .you now see that he is a gambler. he is a drunkard.he doesn't come home on time.he smokes in your presence and the one you left doesn't do such and all of that. hear this .when you see a man or a woman said I've been married for 50 years. is 50 year of forgiveness. 50 years of tolerance.50 years of love. 50 years of joy.50 years of letting go. 50 years of pains. if you are not ready for pain in marriage you are not ready for marriage. some times your husband can mess-up but you cover him.your wife can mess up you cover her it is only a fullshe woman that announces the husband . sometimes your WIFE can offend you that of you dont have the spirit of GOd in you. you will want to explode... tolerate her or him so that your marriage will be void of divorce ....together we stand

WISDOM WORD FOR HUSBAND

Dear husband, you can make your wife the most loving, romantic, admirable and beautiful woman on earth.

Ask her what you can do to make her happy. This is the most important question you will ever ask your wife.

Spoil her with your love. Pamper her.

Treat your wife with dignity.

Don't be her headache. Don't be her pain

Make her happy. Never let her regret getting married to you.

Never compare her to anyone living or dead

Never cheat on her.

There is nothing you desire from side chic that your wife does not have. Don't put your life in danger because of momentary sexual pleasure from side chic

Never beat her no matter what she does. Your wife is not a goat. Real men don't beat women.

Understand her love language and give it to her. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your wife you love and appreciate her. If it is action: regularly do things that she appreciates

Never allow any member of your family to insult her or make life difficult for her.

Be gentle and tender with her.

Make her your priority. Be 100% committed to her.

Pray for her always.

Play with her. Never create a hostile environment for her.

Listen to her. Drop your phone and be attentive to whatever she has to say.

Forgive her no matter her offense. Love forgives

Support her vision. Never bury her dreams because she is married to you.

Encourage her. You should be her number one encourager

Protect her from every physical and spiritual attack.

Satisfy her sexual needs. Never deny her of your body.

Always tell her she's beautiful.

Celebrate her always both online and offline

Spend money to beautify her.

Treat her like your beauty queen.

Give her gifts constantly.

Buy her new sets of undies: buy her bags, shoes, clothes, creams, perfume, chocolate, fruits, cakes, ice cream, shortbread biscuits or snacks for her.

Women’s love for shoes, bags & clothes are incurable no matter how spiritual they are! Don’t wait for your wife to demand for them

No gift is too small or too big for your darling wife.

Your Marriage Is What You Make It To Be!

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May The Lord Bless Your Marriage.

YOUR PARTNER DESERVES LOVE NEVER WAIT TILL HE/SHE ASK

One of the major problem of so many people in relationships and marriages, is waiting for the partner to complain or demand for love and attention before given it to him or her

Everyone in a relationship or marriage needs love, care and attention and it is your personal responsibility to see, you give it to him or her as at when due, so you wouldn't starve him or her the love and attention that is his it her right.

If you starve him or her the rightful love, care and attention, it would be easy for outsiders to come in and deceive him or her with theirs, remember every person who is hungry may not be able to wait till food comes their way from their partners, some may not wait till they get home, some would eat at any offer made to there anywhere, anytime and anyday, to avoid such give your partner love before he or she ask for it, and you guys would enjoy each other till the end of life

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