THINGS WOMEN SHOULD DO TO KEEP THEIR HUBBY AND HOME

1. The Use Of Word

Honestly Speaking, every woman has the power to make her marriage or break it by the way she speaks with her husband. If a Woman is careless with her manner of speaking to her husband when talking together, she may provoke him often, and this is very bad for couple.

Meanwhile, A woman who knows how to use the word of the mouth will make an excellent wife. A woman that must keep other adventurous women away from her husband must be meek and kind to her husband and be ready to watch her language always.

Sometimes your husband will really be the one provoking you, yes he really want to get you mad so that you can behave rashly and he would be able to deal with you, Some men are like that. All you need to do is switch to amiable tone and tell him “Honey, please help me to really understand what you want me to do right now, i’m begging”, then you move on.

2. Learn To Say “I am Sorry”

There is no way a man and a woman will live together all their lives without a time of disagreement. In such circumstance, always remember the saying “we disagree to agree”. Those who do not understand how marriage works will always think that quarrel with their husband is an opportunity to show everyone that they are street fighters, they want to show people they can fight.

If a woman must keep her marriage and scare away intruders, she must be eager to apologize to her husband. Whenever she does what is wrong, A woman must learn How to say “I am sorry”. Your ability to apologize is a proof of your maturity and intelligence.

Do not provoke your husband because it can expose your marriage to danger of collapse.

3. Sustain Your Beauty

Today on roads,environment & other places are full of women, ladies that are gorgeously dressed, beautiful looking, who are still single and searching. This group had become a great threat to married women who loves to dress shabbily simply because they have one or two kids at home they are nursing.

The fact still remains that women must retain their unique outlook which the man saw in them before he picked interest and ask them out in the first place. A woman should endeavour to sustain her internal and external beauty at all time, as this is what gives the woman her real appeal as a wife.

4. Give Him Attention

Many women take pride in having their way in any issue that comes up between them and their husband. Some families are being affected because the wife had choose to take the place of the husband, she does not listen to anyone except she done it her own way.

Men are scared are scared by such women, who will never listen to them. If a woman desires to enjoy her marriage and keep other women away, listening to your husband is the beginning of a great marriage

5. Respect His Relations

It is not possible for a woman to be married to just only her husband and not have anything to do with the husband’s family.

If a woman is trying to prevent the family of the husband from coming nearer to her husband, she might annoy her husbands family to conspire against her. Blood is thicker than water, the man is likely to become irritated by his wife. A woman must love and honour her husbands relation.

6. Prayers

A prayer less woman is a powerless woman. It is expected that a woman should be strong in prayers. You must regularly pray for your husband.

You can destroy every seen and unseen enemies of marriage through prayers. Intercede for your husband.

7. Never Use The Word “Divorce”

Divorce is one of the weapons that bring shame and sorrow to any family.

When a woman decides to be headstrong and continually willing to have her way and never think of divorce as alternative (unless the husband is maltreating you badly).

Accept your husbands uniqueness, there is no perfect man out there.

8. Good Cooking

A woman is expected to be a soul provider in all ramification to the need of her household.

Any woman that knows how to cook has already won the heart of her husband. A woman that doesn’t know how to cook delicious meal may be endangering her marriage

4-6 BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE

Secret 4:

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. Two marriage can look IDENTICAL, but can never be EQUAL. I hope you are hearing me? Never compare the love level from another marriage with yours. Learn to be patient, and keep sprinkling water where you want the green grasses to grow.

Secret 5:

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

- Ignorance

- Prayerlessness

- Unforgiveness

- Third party influence

- Stinginess

- Stubbornness

- Lack of love

- Rudeness

- Laziness

- Jezebels

- Delilahs

- Disrespect

- And Cheating.

To keep your marriage you have to be willing to fight DIRTY with prayer and hardwork. A happy marriage is not for couples who want to be CLEAN.

Secret 6:

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

7-8 BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE

Secret 7:*

God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of a raw materials for you to mould into the person that you desire. Do you remember that God is a Potter? And as He is so are you too? This means that you are also a creator just like Him, and God is counting on your creative ability. Build each other up through prayer, love and Patience.

Secret 8:*

Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, your marriage will remain permanently unavailable to dispense joy!

1-3 BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE!*

*Secret 1:*

Everyone you marry has a weakness. No spouse is perfect, the one who comes in all shades of perfection is the one who is alive in your spouse, and that person is God. So if you focus on your spouse's weaknesses you will never get the best out of his or her strength.

See, the couples that last are the ones who magnify each others strength, rather than the weaknesses.

Secret 2:

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future you are building together.

Secret 3:

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Fight, Fight, Fight until the enemy steps out of the ring. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse through the ups and the downs.

*EVERY MAN DESERVES A 4G WIFE*

(Interesting and worth sharing)

I have met 1G wives, 2G wives, 3G wives and 4G wives, but only the 4G wives are making lasting positive impacts.

Some sisters would say but I am not married yet... You are supposed to be a wife material before marriage. The Bible says, "he that findeth a wife..." Therefore, let's learn one or more from these to add values to our lives.

1G Wives:

The First G stands for Good. Every Man deserves a Good wife. I will explain what I meant by being Good. The Bible says "he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing..."

Prov. 31:12 says,

"She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life."

A Good wife does 6 things to her husband. The dictionary defines being Good as having desirable or positive qualities. How do you recognize a good wife?

1. She is kind to her husband. She speaks kind words and do kind things.

I was with a wife one day and I called her a witch to her face. I said "You don't have to be flying to be a witch, you are behaving like one already" do you know what she did?

Her husband came back from work and the man was still outside with dirty clothes and body and she was screaming that he brought money for food home what about money for school fees?

I said "this man has gone out since morning, he has worked hard and is tired already, can't you be kind enough to give him water for bathing and give him food before collecting money and screaming at him?

Some wives treat strangers better than they treat their husband.

2. A Good woman is a true Help Meet.

She doesn't put the burden of the family on her husband alone.

Some women want their husband to pay house rent, give them household allowance, take care of their family and his family and still pay school fees.

The poor man will still buy them clothes and shoes and he is in trouble if he forgets to pay electricity bills or renew DSTV subscription. Kukuma kill the man.

Women should take time to study Proverbs 31 diligently. A virtuous woman is not lazy and dependent on her husband alone for survival.

3. A Good woman is loving to her husband and appreciates her in-laws. She loves them because they are the reason she has a great man who loves her.

Someone trained that man, sent him to school, teach him manners and how to treat a woman well. You are enjoying the fruit of other people's labour. Don't call them pests or parasites.

4. A Good wife is a peaceful woman. She treats her neighbours well and hospitable.

5. A good woman is a good cook and a good caretaker.

She understands that the way to her Man's heart is through his stomach. Men love good food.

6. A good woman grooms her home and tend her garden.

When she is Good she has 1G, we all know that 1G cannot get you anywhere, hence, the need to upgrade.

2G Wives:

The 2nd G is Gorgeous.

Psalm 45:10-11

10. Listen, O daughter,

Consider and incline your ear;

Forget your own people also, and your father’s house; 11. So the King will greatly desire your beauty; Because He is your Lord, worship Him.

Prov. 31:22

"She makes tapestry for herself;

Her clothing is fine linen and purple".

There was a period that I equated Holiness with wearing oversized clothes and wearing colour riot. Thank God for knowledge.

A Gorgeous wife:

1. Dresses beautifully to attract her husband

2. Wins him over and nurture his affection

3. Reverence her husband and places him on a pedestal. Yes, she is biased and partial to her husband because they have got each other's back.

4. She is charming and pretty

5. She fascinate her husband

6. She knows and maintain her place in his heart

7. She knows that the way she dresses is the way people will address her husband.

When a wife is Good & Gorgeous, she has 2G. We all know that 2G cannot do much for you as well, you need more than that.

3G Wives:

The 3rd G is GREAT.

The dictionary defines Great as achieving Distinction and Honor. A Great wife is a distinctive wife not a destructive wife.

A Great Wife does the following:

1. She honours her husband publicly and privately.

I know a woman that used to call her husband her lord. How will you feel as a husband if your wife calls you my lord? Will you beat such a woman or starve her?

2. A Great woman Praises her husband, she does not put him down.

I was with a couple one day and I told the wife jokingly while admiring her new phone that "Your husband is trying O! How many husbands will buy their wife a phone at this time when the economy is hard?" She said "Se iru phone eleyi lawon egbe e n ra fun iyawo won?" Meaning is this the type of phone his Mates buy for their wife?

3. A Great woman preserves her husband by giving him peace of mind.

A man has gone to work since morning and when he comes home at night what you use to welcome him is "Thank God you are home, I would have killed somebody but trust me Sha, I showed her pepper"

There are too many Madam pepper working around parading themselves as wives, God will save men.

Many men are so fed up that they are praying for death.

4. A Great Wife romances her husband and seduce him.

We were told that as a Christian woman, you must be ready to be your husband's prostitute. If you can serve him dinner in the bedroom and in the sitting room you can do anything with him.

5. A Great woman guide her husband into greatness.

She dusts him up and encourages him.

We know that 3G is great but nothing can beat 4G because it is much more better.

4G Wives:

The 4th G is Godly.

Every man deserves a Godly wife.

Prov. 31:30 says,

"Favour is deceitful and beauty is vanity but a woman that fear the Lord should be praised".

A Godly wife:

1. Has a Christlike character and humble disposition.

2. Guard her tongue and does not use it to inflict pain on her husband.

3. Put God first in everything she does.

4. Builds her home prayerfully

5. She honours her husband

6. She forgives her husband

7. Train her children in the way of the Lord and gently groom her husband to love the Lord more.

The Benefit of having a 4G wife.

3G is better but 4G is the best because it connect to the heart of God and her husband efficiently and consistently.

A 4G wife is

1. Good

2. Gorgeous

3. Great

4. Godly

May God give you such a wife as a man if you are not married, and if you're already married, receive grace for upgrade in your marriage.

Also, if you are a lady and not on the 4G network yet, connect with your maker and receive the grace to

upgrade to 4G now in Jesus' Name

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