12 LESSONS FROM PSYCHOLOGY OF MONEY

1. Spending money to show people how much money you have is the fastest way to have less money.

2. Getting money is one thing. Keeping it is another.

3. Be nicer and less flashy. No one is impressed with your possessions as much as you are.

4. You might think you want a fancy car or a nice watch. But what you probably want is respect and admiration.

5. Saving is the gap between your ego and your income.

6. Use money to gain control over your time.

7. The freedom to do what you want, when you want, with whom you want, for as long as yo want, is true freedom.

8. Warren Buffett’s net worth is $84.5 billion. Of that, $84.2 billion was accumulated after his 50th birthday.

9. Independence, to me, doesn’t mean you’ll stop working. It means you only do the work you like with people you like at the times you want for as long as you want.

10. Happiness is just results minus expectations.

11. Doing well with money has a little to do with how smart you are and a lot to do with how you behave

12. A genius who loses control of their emotions can be a financial disaster.

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Don't treat your partner's family like they are nothing to you.

*READ IT CAREFULLY!*

*A husband said to his wife: I miss my family, I hope you will prepare lunch tomorrow, so I can invite them, it's been a while.*

*The wife said with a sigh: God willing, it will be good.*

*The husband said: OK, I will invite them.*

*The next morning, the husband went to work and at one o'clock he came home, and said to his wife: Did you cook lunch? My family will come in an hour.*

*And the wife said: No, I did not cook, because your family are not strangers, they can eat what is in the house.*

*The husband said: God forgive you! Why didn't you tell me yesterday that you won't cook and they will soon be arriving, what will I do?😒*

*The wife said: Call them and apologize to them, after all, they are not strangers.*

*The husband left the house upset and after a few minutes, there was a knock on the door. The wife got up, opened the door and was surprised to see her family, brothers, sisters and children!*

*Her father asked her, "Where is your husband?"*

*She said to him: He left a while ago.*

*HER FATHER SAID,* *"Yesterday, your husband invited us for lunch. Is it possible for him to invite us and leave the house?"*

*The wife was stunned by the news, and began rubbing her hands, puzzled that the food in the house was not befitting for her family. She called her husband and said to him: Why didn't you tell me that you intended to invite my family for lunch?*

*He said to her: My family is your family, and yours is mine. There's no difference.*

*She said to him: Please bring ready-made food with you when coming, there is no food at home.*

*The husband said: I am very far from home and your family are not strangers, feed them from the food in the house as you wanted to feed my family.*

*MORAL LESSONS*

*1. Support your partner's well-being and happiness it will definitely return back to you.*

*2. Don't treat your partner's family like they are nothing to you. You have exchanged families immediately you get married.*

*3. Do unto others what you want them to do to you. This is the greatest humanitarian aid human relationship blueprint in the scriptures.*

*4. Love and treat others  as much as you love yourself.*

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LADY, CHERISH THIS KIND OF MAN:

LADY, CHERISH THIS KIND OF MAN:

1. Cherish the man who loves his mum. He has been brought up well

2. Cherish the man who loves to read, and not just for exams. He is wise and deep

3. Cherish the man who is funny. You will never be bored

4. Cherish the man who treats strangers and the less privileged with dignity. He has a kind heart

5. Cherish the man who listens. You will be understood

6. Cherish the man whose idea of fun is constructive, not endless drinking and clubbing. He is mature

7. Cherish the man who is a family man ready for responsibility and clear about what he wants with you. Your time will not be wasted 

8. Cherish the man who respects his father no matter how his dad is. He has learned true manhood

9. Cherish the man who doesn't insult his ex or your ex even if the break up was messy. He is someone who enters into love for the right reasons

10. Cherish the man who needs you. He will hold on to you

11. Cherish the man who lets you love him, who lets you see the nakedness of his weaknesses and strengths. He trusts you 

12. Cherish the man who accepts correction and changes his ways if he offends you. He will make himself better to love you

13. Cherish the man who prays for you. He knows you are a gift from God

14. Cherish the man who treats other women with respect. He will show you even more respect

15. Cherish the man who loves the children you and also is a father figure to those not his. That man will have an honourable legacy 

16. Cherish the man with a vision. He will challenge and build you, he knows where he is going

17. Cherish the man who has a good set of friends.You can tell the character of a man by the friends he keeps

18. Cherish the man who values intimacy above sex. He will be faithful to you

19. Cherish the man who is interested in your dreams. He cares about your future

20. Cherish the man who respects your decisions and doesn't rush you. He sees you as a life partner, not someone to dominate 

21. Cherish the man who corrects you when you wrong and inspires and pushes you to do better. He sees your potential and will not rest until your potential is lived out. That man is a keeper

22. Cherish the man who has been consistent on his focus. You can depend on him

23. Cherish the man who works hard, is self motivated and is diligent even when he has little. That man is going places and one day he will make you proud

24. Cherish the man who is not intimidated by other men when they notice your beauty. He is a secure man

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A COUNSEL FROM A FATHER TO A DAUGHTER.

1. No matter how much a man loves you he will never love your indiscipline: Your financial indiscipline, sexual looseness, carelessness etc.

2. No matter how stunning your look is, if your character is ungodly and unwelcoming your suitor will be unwilling to pay your bride price. Character looks good on you than cosmetics.

3. A man always wants you to be a wife before he can take you to his home. Being a wife is more than being a sexual toy but neatness, spirituality, discipline, insight, kindness etc.

4. Always know what you want in a man before saying YES I DO. There is no such thing as "I JUST LOVE YOU I DON'T KNOW WHY"

5. Any man you can compromise for will find it hard to believe you after wedding. If you can offer him your virginity before wedding then you've traded your value. If you can't stand for "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE" You have sold your trust after wedding.

6. You can't change any man because you're not the Holy Spirit. Why will you ignore all good and spiritual brothers in fellowship, church and your group only to claim you're attracted to a carnal, sensual and whore on the street then you want him to change? You're very sick!

7. You don't look for money in a man but his manliness and the dignity of manhood in him. Be wise! Papa Zion gives you this eye opening keys.

17 THINGS YOUR SPOUSE WANTS TO HEAR YOU SAY IN THE BEDROOM

1. "Please don't leave the bed just yet"

- It feels good when your spouse can't get enough of you

2. "What do you recommend I wear today? This or this?" 

- It feels good when your spouse asks for your opinion

3. "Do me doggie"

- Alot of women and men love changing sexual positions. Whether husband or wife, tell your spouse to make love to you a different style

4. "Kiss me"

- Yes ladies, it excites your husband when you are sexually aggressive

5. "Shall we pray?"

- Blessed are you if you have a spouse that loves to pray

6. "You look so beautiful"

- Husbands, your wife longs to hear you say this especially when naked with you. She never gets tired of you admiring and wanting her

7. "Mmh, I love your penis"

- The penis is the one organ every man is sensitive about. Lady, praise his penis and he will feel so good with you in bed

8. "How are you my love?"

- The bedroom should be the place for intimate conversations

9. "We go another round?"

- How special it is to have a spouse that longs to make love to you again. How sweet it is to cool down then touch, kiss, rub and start another session of love making

10. "Good morning my love"

- There is unspeakable joy waking up to the face of the one you love in a brand new day

11. "Good night honey"

- These little words have a huge impact. Don't just get to bed and turn then sleep. Close the day properly. Even kiss goodnight

12. "That was so good"

- After making love, tell your spouse how much you enjoyed it

13. " Relax my love, I will attend to our baby"

- Husbands, when you have a small baby, your wife will feel good when you offer to attend to the crying baby sometimes. Allow her to rest as you have a daddy-baby moment

14. "Everything will be alright"

- In the bedroom, your spouse will open up to you about his/her fears and concerns. Allay those fears

15. "You will have a great day my love"

- Before your spouse steps out of the bedroom, speak a blessing into each other's day. Words are powerful

16. "I love you"

- In the bedroom is where 'I love you' should be said the most. It is your joint haven and island

17. "That feels so good"

- When your spouse is massaging you, s*xually licking you, su*cking you or rubbing you; let him/her know how good you are feeling. It motivates him/her to do it more

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In the love book called GOOD S*X BAD S*X, I reveal how to get the most out of intimacy and also show what happens when you ab*use, misuse or use s*x wrongly.

20 WAYS TO BEFRIEND YOUR PARTNER:

I decided to write this list because someone asked  " How can I be a friend to my Lover?"

A friend is someone who understands you and adds value to your life.

The popular saying says" Marry your friend or Befriend anyone you marry".

1. Speak to her softly instead of shouting.

2. ‍Always make her smile and crack jokes for her. Stare at her face and Smile, if she asks why smiling. Tell her she's beautiful;  laugh when she cracks jokes or says something funny. Frowning always is not spiritual.

3. Walk a distance together.

4. Hang out together at eateries.

5. Watch movies( wrestling, football, and Christian films) and play games together.

6. Fulfill purpose by going into ministration together.

7. Write love letters to each other.

8. Read books together.

9. Read the Bible together.

10. Pray together.

11. Sing praises and worship together.

12. Shop for her.

13. Speak your dialect.

15. Call her sweet names ( Honey, Gem, Gold, my heartbeat, my sugar...)😂😂😂

16. Coauthor a book.

17. Cook for her.

18.  Seek her advice and follow it as the spirit leads.

19.  Discuss your plans with her.

20.  Keep your money with her. Support him financially.

Above all thy getting, befriend her, and watch things work for you in your relationship. 

Marriage is too long for you to journey with your boss, not a friend.

It's absurd for you to be in a relationship and still have opposite sex Bestie somewhere else.

A relationship thrives when you start with friendship!

Marry your friend!

Befriend your Lover!

Marry your talking mate!

Marry your purpose mate!

Marry your spiritual mate!

Marry your genotype mate! (You should marry someone your genotype is compatible with. AA should marry AS. AA should marry SS)

Marry your academic mate!

Marry your playmate!

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#Be_friend_your_lover

#Be_his_or_her_closest_friend

Finally, 

Prov 27:17 said "

Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend"

©Oluwaniyi Aderopo Hezekiah