DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them. 

Grow with your kids and succeed with

your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans. 

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children. 

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see

my childhood friends play with their kids.. 

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your

happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With

a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem? 

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you

settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus

Fellow me Maxwell Derrickson

DIFFERENT TYPES OF SEX IN MARRIAGE!

1. RECONCILIATION SEX:- Sex is a most potent weapon for diluting and difusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If you don't use SEX to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and not maximising it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the person at fault could initiate sex as a way to make up to the other who was on the receiving side of the conflict.

2. HEALING SEX:- There are some sicknesses and diseases that are cured by good Sex I mean very good Sex. Healing sex is gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don't rush it. Mbanu. You do it softly and it hits the bull's eye. Please Husbands, don't throw your weight on her if it's for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%.

3. PUNISHMENT SEX:- When I counsel couples, are times I hear spouses say "Since he did that, I decided to punish him by depriving him of sex", or "since she refused me, I decided not to touch her again". That is as senseless as saying "since my child failed a Test, I punished him by withdrew him from school". It's foolishness. The wise thing to do is to give your spouse more sex as punishment rather than depriving him or her. When your husband or wife misbehaves, correct them using sex. That is the best punishment. Not slapping or fighting or public disgrace. Punishment sex is very hot. 

4. MEMORABLE SEX:- This is a very special kind of sex that you organise and plan for. Every couple must be doing this once in a while. Honeymoons should be organised at least once is a quarter (once in 3 months). If you have means, do it once a month. You book a hotel for say 3-7 days and retreat to help build your marriage. A kind of Intimacy Retreat. You mustn't go to hotel if you can't afford it. Just send the kids somewhere and make it memorable. Light Candles around and on the blue or green bulb. Use good perfume and the Angels will bear you witness.

5. QUICK SURPRISED SEX:- This is a sex that married couples should do often to build their love life. One "Quickie" is stronger than 100 Love Charms from India or Kitui. A Quickie is that very fast sex that a couple does in ODD places or in ODD position. Usually one spouse surprises the other with it. You don't take formal permission quickies. You just start it just like that. MARRIAGES WITHOUT QUICKIES HAVE QUICK PROBLEMS AND BREAK QUICK. Spouses who don't believe in surprise sex are analogue and expired. Quickies can be done in the car. Drive her to a corner and pretend as if the car didn't start. It can take place on kitchen sink or at the balcony or inside swimming pool or in garden.

6. EXERCISE SEX:- This type should happen frequently especially in the mornings. God did it that the male organ wakes up in the morning erect to greet it's Owner - the Wife. So as much as humanly possible, let every wife answer the morning greeting. God's mercies are New Every Morning. Great is His Faithfulness. Mercy and Faithfulness are co-joined twins.

7. ENCOURAGEMENT SEX:- You use this type of Sex to encourage your Spouse to do something or Not to do something. There are times he wants to do something that you think is not the best of decision, just come in the most seductive way and delay him. When he is exhausted after you have drilled him, speak softly and he will say "I didn't know that was what you were saying before, now I understand you".

8. REWARD SEX:- This is the type that you reward your spouse for achieving something unique or for exceeding expectations. Reward Sex is not just one round but extended over a period of time. Reward Sex is an open check to do whatever he or she loves. It's extra ordinary.

9. PROCREATION SEX:- This is sex you do purely for pregnancy. When you need child, the best style is the one that gives the husband maximum penetration. Support your wife with pillow is you aren't a longman. But you must make sure it is as wet as wetness can be. Sperm needs wetness to swim inside the womb. When he releases he must remain inside there for a few minutes. Don't pull fast.

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18 TRUTHS ABOUT THE WIFE'S CLITORIS

1. The clitoris is a God-created organ, created only for sexual pleasure. Don't be shy about it

2. Alot of men ignore the clitoris not knowing how powerful a woman's clitoris is

3. The clitoris is more sexually sensitive than the vagina. Ignoring it is missing out on a lot 

4. The husband's tongue and the wife's clitoris make a perfect match 

5. The husband's tongue is suitable because it is naturally lubricated and can bend and do acrobatics on her throbbing clitoris. The lubrication is good because the clitoris is senstive 

6. The fingers of the husband can also be used to rub and please the clitoris as he kisses her 

7. The husband can also rub his hardened penis on her clitoris for pleasure 

8. Playing with the clitoris is good foreplay, it makes your wife sufficiently wet to receive your hardened commando 

9. Dear wives, do not be self conscious about your clitoris. Spread your legs and let your husband see you in all your glory to play with that sweet centre of yours. A rigid and closed up wife will not enjoy love making. Confidence and freedom is attractive to your husband 

10. Dear husbands, give clit jobs as much as you request for blow jobs

11. Pleasing your spouse sexually and creatively is not ungodly as long as both of you are comfortable and enjoy it

12. Most loving husbands get turned on by sexually pleasing their spouse. If your husband loves licking you and rubbing your clitoris, don't refuse him 

13. A lot of wives wish their husbands licked them more and for longer. If your wife likes it, give it to her generously 

14. For your husband to enjoy licking you, maintain good hygiene and shave often

15. For your wife to enjoy being licked by you, maintain good hygiene, especially oral hygiene 

16. Most women climax more through clit jobs than penetration 

17. Dear husbands, if after pumping and penetration you ejaculate but your wife is yet to reach her climax, consider licking or rubbing her clit till she screams your name as she reaches orgasm 

18. Love making in marriage doesn't have to be boring

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MY SPOUSE LET ME MAKE YOUR SEXUAL FANTASIES COME TRUE

1. Tell me your favourite sex position; it's not just about me

2. Tell me which places on your body you want me to play with. I am your student 

3. Tell me your naughtiest desire, I will not judge you. I will serve you as you want it

4. If something is missing in our sex life, don't look for it outside; bring it here in our marriage

5. If there is something I do that turns you off, tell me. I will stop it immediately

6. If ever you are horny and you want to get some, let me know. You will never be sexually frustrated in our marriage

7. If ever we have arguments. I promise to keep our sex-life sacred and not allow it to be affected

8. Don't turn to pornography or self-pleasure. Keep your focus on me. I will feed you well

9. People make time for what they value. I value making love to you, in fact, I enjoy it so I will make time for it

10. Do not be ashamed to be dirty and kinky with me. I am your naughty partner in crime

11. Sex has a shelf life, our libido will not last forever. Let's enjoy it while we can. Let's make use of our organs and pleasure 

12. I give you permission to desire me in any way you want. Grab me, touch me, kiss me without permission; my body is yours 

13. Boring will never be used to describe our sex-life, no matter how many years we will be in marriage 

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19 ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE SEX

When romance is often mentioned, many think it is all about sex. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples. 

1. Calling your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"

2. Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer 

3. Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations

4. Pulling up her seat or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case.  Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her 

5. Singing love songs together.  This warms the heart 

6. Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit 

7. Holding each other's hand as you walk.

8. Going out for walks, picnics and plays

9. If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire

10. Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is sex then you are missing out on depth 

11. Writing each other love letters.  Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age. Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away 

12. Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind 

13. Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love 

14. Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense 

15. Writing each other poems, love songs or warm messages of how much you mean to each other 

16. Sitting next to each other in church services as you read from the same Bible

17. Talking with your child/children about how you two met. Children love those stories of mom and dad. This reminds you two of how far your love has come 

18. Wishing each other a good night and a good morning. Simple words but they mean alot 

19. Having pillow talks on your marriage bed as you cuddle and be vulnerable with each other 

Remember that is your life partner. Do and say things that communicate love. If you two are dating and your coming together is because of sex, then you are missing out on a chance to build on a strong foundation on which your future will be built.

 If you two are married and you stopped making each other feel special especially since the children came, or the only time you pay attention to each other is when you want sex then you are weakening your marriage. 

Bring true romance back.

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DON'T WAIT...

1. Don't wait until your spouse is sick, for you to serve him/her

2. Don't wait until your wife is pregnant, for you to help her in the home 

3. Don't wait until your husband is rich, for you to appreciate his contribution 

4. Don't wait until you are caught, for you to stop having an affair 

5. Don't wait until your spouse serves you divorce papers, for you to start fighting for your marriage 

6. Don't wait for your to lose your spouse, for you to start valuing your spouse

7. Don't wait for others to praise your spouse, for you to notice how amazing your spouse is 

8. Don't wait to have an accident, for you to start listening to your spouse's warning about driving while drunk 

9. Don't wait until you get into a huge mess, for you to finally seek for advice and help from your spouse 

10. Don't wait for your parents and spouse's parents to sit you down and lecture you, for you to start taking your marriage seriously 

11. Don't wait until someone else starts to give your spouse attention, for you to start treating your spouse special 

12. Don't wait for the pastor to preach hundreds of sermons of rebuke, for you to love your spouse right 

13. Don't wait until your children move out as adults, for you to remember your spouse 

14. Don't wait until the people you are having an affair with dump you, for you to go back to your spouse 

15. Don't wait for your spouse to die, for you to wish he/she was still alive for you to love better 

16. Don't wait till it's too late, to be the best spouse 

Choose to love from your personal and internal conviction, not due to external pressure 

© Dayan Masinde