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Friday, 26 April 2024

Men are protective by nature. When a man loves, he protects. Men protect what is valuable.

Protect your wife from other women, don't make other women feel comfortable to bad mouth your wife or disrespect her just because you allow it. Females will treat your wife based on how you treat her.

Protect your wife from your parents and siblings. When you hear them talking badly about the woman you chose and who bore you children tell them "Mom, dad I honour you but kindly show respect to the woman I am building a home with"

Protect your wife from your friends who mock her and speak so casually about her. Those friends might leave you in a few months but your wife is with you for life. If anything happens to you, she will be there for you. When they make fun of her, they are making fun of you, you two are one.

Protect your wife from physical abuse, yes you are masculine and have the ability to inflict physical pain, but don't abuse that physical power. If you are angry, walk away; if you two have a disagreement, find a mature way to talk about it; if you get caught doing wrong, own up to your mistake, don't silence your wife through violence to get away with it.

Protect your wife emotionally. Don't call her names and hurl insults at her to kill her self esteem and get her to do what you want her to do. Inspire to be better, don't intimidate her to be lesser; that is what it means to be a leader.

Protect her in the spiritual realm. Pray for her and the children. Go to war for your family. Mark your territory where angels operate and declare no weapon formed against your family shall prevail. Put your deep voice to purposeful use.

Protect your children from bullies. When your children come home crying because someone called them ugly, pathetic, good for nothing; push back and speak life and power to your children, tell them they are good looking, blessed, great and special. Don't be silent when your loved ones are under attack.

WHY MANY WOMEN ARE NOT HAPPY IN THEIR MARRIAGES...

Why is your woman not happy with you? Why is she easily angry, irritable, depressed, frustrated and very bitter towards you? Why did she lose respect for you in marriage? Why is she so emotionally, hates sex and lost her charm?

1. YOU DON'T APPRECIATE HER: Some men are perfect complainers and critics. They believe praising a woman will make her head swell and misbehave, even when she s slaving to death, they will rather attack, abuse, complain, criticize than appreciate her. If you are that type of man, you can never have a happy woman under your roof. A simple "Thank you"," You are doing a great job", "It's great having you in my life" will do a great magic and turn your marriage around. Learn to appreciate your wife when she goes out of her way to please you. She will be happy and that gloom in your marriage will automatically disappear.

2. YOU DON'T LISTEN TO HER: We are communication beings. I mean women love to talk, be listened to and well understood. When you are too busy to communicate with her, look into her eyeball and let her know she is the most important person to you after God, you will have a frustrated, depressed wife. We understand you can be so busy and needs time to unwind and think, yes! We know but don't make a habit of ignoring your wife. She needs to talk to her daily.

3. YOU CHEAT ON HER: Double dating is not allowed in courtship, if you cheat on her, she will end it. Chasing side chicks, having emotional/sexual chats with other women may make your wife lose her mind. No wife will ever be happy with an adulterer. Stop it now and work on your marriage or you may end up divorced.

4. YOU DON'T ADMIRE HER: Some men will look at their very beautiful wife, acknowledge her beauty and attractiveness but to open their mouths and say it is big problem. Some men need to be taught how to admire their women. Learn to open your mouth and tell your wife she's beautiful daily.

HOW TO COVER YOUR SPOUSE

1. By not hurting your spouse the same way their ex did

2. By covering him/her from shame by not behaving badly in public

3. By praying a prayer of physical, emotional and spiritual protection

4. By being in control of your anger so that you don't do or say hurtful stuff on account of your temper

5. By protecting your spouse from misunderstandings, attacks or bullying from your parents and relatives. Don't leave your spouse exposed

6. By assuring your spouse so that he/she doesn't have to be suspicious of you and your friends of the opposite gender

7. By speaking a blessing of your spouse's great future, not focusing on your spouse's past mistakes

8. By honouring your spouse by telling off people who try to lure you or seduce you

9. By covering your spouse's weaknesses instead of broadcasting them to others

10. By giving your body in physical contact to cover your spouse from cold and loneliness

WHY FINANCIAL SUCCESS IS GOOD FOR YOUR MARRIAGE

1. It reduces the amount of fights. Most fights in marriage are about money

2. It releases you to enjoy sexual intimacy. Stress and worry about money is a libido killer, it is why some men struggle to erect or sustain an erection and why some women are too anxious to think about love making

3. It gives you the opportunity to live in the best neighborhood conducive for raising your vision of a family

4. It gives you the capacity to pursue your personal dreams and aspirations; be it going to school, advancing your career or starting a business. Personal fulfillment then leads to marital fulfillment

5. It equips you to give your children the best life has to offer. Best in education, technology, events and tools

6. It makes you worry less so that you focus on wholesome parenting. There are some parents who are so stressed about money that they are causing neglect, harshness, discouragement and trauma on their children

7. It makes you feed your family healthy meals consistently because you can afford it

8. It allows you to do memorable things outside the home such as trips and dates, spicing up your marriage and family. There are couples who all they do is spend time at home due to lack of money leading to dryness and familiarity

9. It exposes you to higher experiences and interests. When your basic needs are easily met, it releases you to dream and indulge on other interests leading to more growth

10. As you financially grow as a couple, you naturally find yourself in the company of other people and couples growing leading to more growth

11. It exposes your children to wealth leading to confidence and minds that think big. Wealth is not strange to them. There are adults who don't pursue wealth and goals because it is foreign to them

12. It empowers you to touch lives as a couple. With financial wealth, you can choose to support or sponsor any project, group or individuals in need.

HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FEEL LIKE A KING

1. Be a Queen in your own right. Be confidently you. This makes him feel he has a strong person who can hold her own next to him

2. Be proud of his achievements and efforts, especially when he goes out of his way to be there for the family

3. Don't greet him with issues when he comes home. Greet each other warmly when he comes home, when he has relaxed and you have found out how each other has been, then talk about issues

4. Don't let the home be filled with drama. It is easier for the wife to stay in the house but for husbands, when there is drama, they easily tend to avoid being at home

5. Don't make major decisions without consulting with him, not because you need his approval but to demonstrate you are doing life with him. Don't be Miss Independent. Marriage is about interdependence

6. Don't gossip about him to your friends or bad mouth him behind his back. A King values loyalty

7. Stay faithful to him. Just because you are beautiful and sexy doesn't mean you entertain other men. Show him your sexiness and beauty belongs to only him

8. When he does wrong, correct him with love, know when is the right time to let him know he is on the wrong. Don't let that wrong cancel all the other good he has done for you for years

9. Speak to him with a tone of love and respect. It's not what you say but how you say it

10. Have great intimacy with him, you are the one he comes to for comfort, relaxation, pleasure, rejuvenation and rest; don't push him away

11. Make him feel needed. Ask for his help and assistance even when you can do it on your own. A King loves to save the day of his Queen and feel like he is adding value

12. Talk Kingdom talk. Talk great things about the two of you and your family; your investments, your goals as a couple, how can you two maximize your potential, how can you raise great children of excellence. A King loves vision-driven conversations, not talks full of complaints, past mistakes, fea

IN A RELATIONSHIP/ MARRIED?DO THESE TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH

IN A RELATIONSHIP/ MARRIED?

DO THESE TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH

1) GIVE YOUR EX HOLY SPACE

Especially the Ex that still loves You.

To Avoid "I don't know how it happened?"

Thw ex that keeps sending you flirty messages, showing up where you are, when your partner is not around.

He or she will tell you different things.

"I just want us to hang out, nothing will happen". Lori Iro

"I won't bite, just a peck, for old times sake". Lori Iro

Run oh....

Before your X becomes Y your Relationship or Marriage crashed.

2) AVOID "BESTIE" OF THE OPPOSITE GENDER OTHER THAN YOUR PARTNER

Your Partner is alive, breathing and kicking, you're doing bestie with somebody else from the opposite gender, your Fiance/fiancee/Husband/Wife is not bestie material?

You are looking for trouble.

"He's just my Prayer Partner." Oshei oh,

Prayer Partner kor, Black Panther ni

"She's just my Confidant".

"We are just hangout buddies."

Egungun be kaiful.. Express is not far oh.

3) DON'T ALLOW YOUR HEART CATCH FEELINGS.

The moment you notice that you are getting attracted physically/Sexually/emotionally to someone else other than your partner,

You can't wait to see them, hear them, hang out with them, touch them and vice versa, Withdraw from such an individual.. Before your Relationship/Marriage will withdraw from you.

#MG

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