Thursday, 9 May 2024

FACTS ABOUT WOMEN.

FACTS ABOUT WOMEN.

A woman will block you, delete your number and tell you never to call her again and still expect you to call her. Don't ask me how, it's only women can explain it better πŸ’―

In the midst of argument with her, don't bother exchanging words with her because it's not her that's speaking instead listen to her and let her continue vomiting. And when she's cool, embrace her and let her know how much you love her ❤️πŸ₯°

Listen bro, a woman that truly love you will block you on Whatsp, Facebook and still use her friends Facebook account to see how you are holding up. 🀦

They may breath fire in front of you and break down in tears in a Conner πŸ€” their hearts are softer than a new born babys feet's🀦 HONESTLY

Until you realized and understand that most women speak in opposite meanings whenever they are mad and angry at you, then you will forever fall in same trap of counting your Ex's.πŸ™„

A woman that truly love you will have a fight with you sleep in the same bed with you and gave space for 10 people's in the middle and still be turning slowly to check if you turned your back at her or face her.

What am trying to say... Don't act upon angry women's words. Most of the times, that gender don't really mean what they say.

May God give our men more understanding 

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JESUS IS EVER PRESENT WITH US

⏰Solemnity of the Ascension of the Lord - Year B (09 May 2024)

πŸ“–Acts 1:1-11; Ps 47:2-3, 6-7, 8-9 (R.v.6); Eph 1:17-23; Mark 16:15-20

🎀JESUS IS EVER PRESENT WITH US

May the grace of Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God and the communion of the Holy Spirit be with you always.

Since the time Jesus began his earthly life, a lot of miracles, signs, and wonders accompanied his actions. Now, he is prepared to return back to the Father from who he had come. His impending departure was very disheartening to his disciples. Hence, he decided to explain to them the meaning of his departure.

He has ascended into heaven (Acts 1:9-11), yet he is ever present to them, as he is to us. We believe so because he said so (Matt 28:20), and no lie is ever found in his mouth since he the truth par excellence (John 14:6). In essence, his ascension only means a change in the form of his existence. Now, he is no longer going to be bound by geographical boundaries, nor contained by time nor opposed by the Jews.

Do you remember what he earlier told his disciples about his hour? He had said, The hour has come for the Son of man to be glorified (John 12:20). The truth that we celebrate today is that God has glorified him and raised him above all dominions on the earth (Eph 1:17-23).

By his incarnation, he brought the Divine into humanity, and by his ascension, he takes our body with him into heaven and reunites humanity with the divinity. He has gone to prepare a place for us so that we may also be where he is (cf. John 14:2-3). Those who belong to him will follow him.

We are privileged to be part of those he has chosen as his very own. But that comes with great responsibility. He charges us, "Go into all the world and preach the Gospel to the whole creation" (Mark 16:15). 

The content of that Gospel is found in Luke 4:18-19, where Jesus informed us that he has come to liberate us from every form of bondage. Remember that he goes on working among us (cf. John 5:17) even as he has ascended. So, he is still available to liberate you from your own confusions and life challenges. Are you going to let him work on you?

Moreover, he wants us to join him in liberating others who are having different kinds of challenges. This demands faithfulness on our part. To help achieve that great responsibility of remaining faithful to his call, he promised us the Holy Spirit (Acts 1:8). 

May this Holy Spirit fall afresh upon us and renew in us, the zeal of remaining faithful witnesses of Christ in the world. Amen.

Have a beautiful celebration in the company of the ascended Christ. Amen. Peace be with you.

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Wednesday, 8 May 2024

NEVER JUDGE THE LOVE OF A WOMAN πŸ‘©

NEVER JUDGE THE LOVE OF A WOMAN πŸ‘© 

1-She may catch you in bed with another woman and storm out of the bedroom and leave. 

2-Then you call  her several times but no answer. 

3-A few days later, you will receive her call back. 

4-My brother never think that she can't live without you,  that lady really loves you, it is not some kind of stupidity. 

5-Ladies get hurt,  but sometimes they choose to believe you  and think that you might change to become a better person. 

6-Flowers πŸ’  and expensive gifts won't make her forget the bad things you once did to her.  That smile she gives you doesn't mean that everything is now okay,  it still hurt inside her. 

7-Pain is something that ladies can live with; no matter how much you break her heart, she always find a way to keep on loving you. 

8-Never take her for granted; she might be the last one to give you that much love in your life. 

9-Loving you doesn't make her stupid but having you to laugh at her does. 

10-My fellow brothers let us love and respect our women.  They only need real love and care from us. 

GENTLEMEN ARE WE TOGETHER

THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T DO WHEN ANGRY

THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T DO WHEN ANGRY

1. TELL YOUR SPOUSE THINGS YOU WILL REGRET
In moments of anger, hold your tongue. Don't speak insults, don't bring up your spouse's past as an attack. When tempers calm down, you cannot take those words back 

2. CHEAT
Don't run into the arms of another to hurt your spouse or to get relief. It complicates and escalates the problems in your marriage 

3. SAY YOU WANT A DIVORCE
During moments anger, it is easy to forget the wonderful journey you two have had and lose objectivity. When angry, it is easy to want to cut yourself from the one who has hurt you; but you won't be angry forever. You cannot build a lasting marriage if your first option is to quit, you two will offend each other, love is learning to reconcile and build better from offense. Divorce is not something to rush into irrationally, it affects so many lives and so many aspects of you. Be sober and composed when making life-altering decisions

4. GO AND TELL OTHERS YOUR SPOUSE'S DIRTY SECRETS 
Don't rush to tell your friends and family members your spouse's faults and expose your spouse. When you two sort things out, it will be difficult to undo the image you have created of your spouse to others 

5. WALK AWAY AND NOT RETURN
Don't leave the house in a fit and get a new house or a new place to stay. This is dangerous as your ego might keep you from coming back and your spouse's ego might keep him/her from reaching out and before you know it, you two will be comfortable with being far from each other

6. TELL YOUR SPOUSE YOU REGRET GETTING MARRIED TO HIM/HER
Don't make your spouse feel useless, as if he/she adds no value to your life. If you were honest, you will see the many ways your spouse has been a blessing to you (and the children)

7. KICK YOUR SPOUSE OUT OF THE HOUSE
Don't order your spouse out of the house, whether you are the woman who feels entitled to the house, or you are the man who pays rent/has built or bought the house. This only ruins teamwork going

HOW TO HANDLE YOUR WIFE DURING HER MONTHLY PERIODS

HOW TO HANDLE YOUR WIFE DURING HER MONTHLY PERIODS

1. Buy her what she craves for, chocolates, ice cream, her favourite pastry

2. Understand when she gets moody, sometimes it is not her, it is her emotions. Don’t react to her reactions

3. Help her out at home, she struggles when in pain

4. Rub her belly, it shows care

5. Stock her up with painkillers if she uses them during periods

6. Understand her, that sex might not happen for some few days (although some couples make love during periods, some women get horny during periods)

7. Don't be mad at her because the periods confirm she has not concieved when you two have been trying to get a child. She is not God to guarantee conception 

8. Keep her company at night when her periods keep her from sleeping at night 

9. Pray for her. Thank God for her womanhood 

10. Give her good stories, make her laugh, get her mind away from the discomfort 

11. Compliment her, affirm her. Some women don't feel so beautiful when mensing 

The pain might be a lot, but with you it is easier

©  Dayan Masinde

WHY YOUR MARRIAGE NEEDS PRAYERS

WHY YOUR MARRIAGE NEEDS PRAYERS

1. To tap into the blessings meant for the both of you 

2. To access wisdom to navigate the various seasons your marriage will go through 

3. To protect your home from forces unseen 

4. To foster unity in Spirit between you two as a couple

5. To subdue the flesh which can make both of you selfish, difficult and hardened

6. To communicate love and worship to God as a couple

7. To be revealed the word in season and will of God for your lives

8. To bring about submission to God from the both of you

9. To make you both peacemakers and apply the spirit of reconciliation in your home 

10. For you both to be at peace in the midst of storms
 

© Dayan Masinde