Monday 21 February 2022

No one was born to sell Vegetables

No one was born to sell Vegetables at the Market no one was born to wake up every morning to go stand next to the traffic lights and sell newspapers , nobody wished to be a cashier at Shoprite or Spar and nobody wished to be a security guard . . We all have dreams and goals... do you think the guy who makes noise in the taxi park wanted to live that life? Do you think those women who stand with boards looking for females to change their hairstyles in Portharcourt wanted to do that? . The guys you see every morning on your way to school/work at the Taxi park selling snacks... They too never wished to do that. Even the women who voluntarily cooks for kids at schools because they got no better Jobs never wished for that. . But because they don't let Pride come in their way of putting food on the table. They do it with a passion, they appreciate the little they can do for their kids to smile at the end of the day. They don't wake up in the early hours of the morning to steal from anyone. . They understand that not all of us will be Qualified Doctors, Lawyers or Engineers. Men and ladies for as long as you don't do criminal activities to make money... May God bless your hustle.. AMEN

THE PREGNANT DEER


In the forest a pregnant deer went near a flowing river in search of a good place to give birth, it finds the area safe. Suddenly labor pain begin!
At the same moment the dark cloud fall and the lighting strike cause fire in the forest, when the dear turn left it saw a hunter creeping with an arrow pointed towards it, when it turns right the deer saw a hungry lion coming towards it, in front of the deer there where the flowing river was.
What will this deer that is in pain do?
Will she survive?
Will she give birth to the fawn (Young deers)?
Will the fawns survive?
Will the fire consume them?
Will she die from the hunter's arrow?
Or will the hungry lion tear her to pieces?
The fire, the hunter, the lion and the river all surrounded her,
What will she do?
The Deer has nothing to do so it focuses on giving birth to a new life.
This is what happens as the deer give birth to the fawn
_The lightning strike and put darkness in the eyes of the hunter.
_He releases the arrow and it miss the deer and hit the hungry lion dead.
_It starts to rain heavenly and the forest fire went off totally
And the deer give birth to a healthy fawn
In life, there are times we are confronted with so many difficulties that confuses our mind and give us negative thoughts and impossibilities, some of the thoughts are so powerful that it overcome and overwhelm us. Maybe we can learn from the Pregnant deer.
The only thing that was on the mind of the deer at that time was to give birth to a baby. The rest wasn't in her hands, so any action or reaction that would have changed her focus that moment would have resulted in death or disaster.
Ask Yourself, Where is your Focus?
Where's your Faith or Hope?
In the midst of the storm, keep focus on your Creator always, he will never ever forsake or let you down,
NEVER
Remember, your Creator never make mistake(s), neither does he sleeps.
A strong person always keep their focus, even with tears running down their eyes, they always say I am OK with a smile .
I want you to be strong and keep the faith, so share it on your time line that someone can read it too and be strong.

RELATIONSHIP ADVICE TO MARRIAGE PILLS LADIES.


Always Give Him Space.
If he doesn't call you for 2 weeks that shouldn't stop you from not calling him.
Manage to call him even if he doesn't.
Be Loyal.
Always be loyal to him, if he forgets your birthday - buy him a gift on his birthday.
Be Patient.
If you don't learn to be patient, then you have no business been in a relationship with a man, because once he noticed you are not the patient type, he take to his heels.
By the time 10 men run away from you in quick succession, on one would tell you how to adjust.
Don't Ask For Things Your Dad Can't Afford.
This sounds funny.
Please, don't ask for things your dad can't afford- all those ice-cream, ShopRight, Shawama, Re-charge cards, Brazillian Hair, even Teddy Bear, should never be demanded from a man.
The moment you start demanding, be rest assured that he will gassing out from that relationship.
Don't Nag.
The minute you start nagging, he would leave you no matter what.
As far as he doesn't cheat to your face or take her calls in your presence, don't complain, manage it because your next might not be the best.
Be proud of him, even in his present predicaments.
It's well!
Pray for him.

MARRIAGE DOES NOT NEED LOVE


A successful marriage has little to do with love.
Love is not the qualification for marriage.
Love is a dangerous thing.
Love can make you think you can make it. Every divorce person was first in love with the person they divorce. So, don't tell me love keeps you together.
Love does not guarantee success in marriage.
Love brings happiness but doesn't bring what it takes to make marriage work. The only thing that makes marriage work, is knowledge.
You feel like you love someone, but you better get knowledge on how to live with them. And we are such a feeling culture that our insanity takes us to the alter, making commitments we know we can't keep. Marriage is not protected by love, Marriage is protected by knowledge.
Myles Munroe
Do you agree with him

*VALUE RELATIONSHIP*


*Don't be too quick to shut the door against anyone.*
*Don't be too quick to conclude that someone can not add value to your life again.*
*Don't be too quick to end friendship.*
*Don't be too quick to hold and sustain grudges and more importantly*
*Don't be too quick to draw a battle line with someone for you can never know how battle will end and you might end up fighting your helper.*
*And you know what? The bridge you burn now might be the one you need to climb to your destination.*
*The ladder you break now out of anger might be the one you need to climb to that your desired height just as the friendship that you yanked off from because of small offence can make you stranded for the rest of your life.*
*Even if you need to back out from an organization or friendship, it should be done politely not aggressively as if you will never need the person again.*
*No one knows tomorrow and no one can exist alone except God.*
*We need ourselves so let's tread with caution that we may not be fighting unnecessary battle.*
*LOVE ONE ANOTHER*
*LOVE IS ALL WE NEED*
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_What will they do for themselves?_*



A 1963 Harvard graduate said this:
*_"My one big mistake in life has been providing a trust fund for my five' children. I'm very comfortable paying for an education for as long as they want to study in a reputable university. However, providing additional funds so they could have a lifestyle beyond what they have achieved on their own was a mistake."_*
A leadership teacher, John Maxwell says and I quote:
*_"If you do everything for your children, what will they do for themselves?"_*
By the time they finish university education, we have slaved and built houses for them, put car keys in their hands and bankrolled their wedding.
*_What will they do for themselves?_*
In the course of doing these for them, some people develop hypertension and all sorts of illnesses. Some slump and die. Some even steal to achieve these for their children.
*I submit to you all that inheritance goes beyond material things. Give your children the right values, strong character and a revelatory knowledge of the power they carry as a creature of God!*
*_Then they will create water to sell in the dessert and sell sand to the Arabs to build mansions for themselves._*
Do something for your children to make them have a softer take off.
The keyword is *_"take off"._*
Do not *_take over_* their lives because you yourself have your life to live.
*Think about these things critically and adjust your approach religiously. Above all teach them the word of God!!!*
A word to parents and would be parents.