15 Lies You Should Never Believe About Your Wife

Dear Men,

Your wife is not just a companion but a vital part of your journey. She is your partner, your confidante, and the one who shares in your triumphs and struggles. The way you perceive and treat her determines the peace, progress, and longevity of your marriage. Here are 15 common lies you should never believe about your wife misconceptions that can ruin a relationship and cause irreversible damage.

1. Your Wife Is a Mistake in Your Life

She is not a mistake but a blessing. If you made the choice to marry her, then she has a purpose in your life. Learn to appreciate and nurture that bond instead of regretting it.

2. You Can Succeed by Neglecting Your Wife

A neglected wife becomes an unhappy wife. Ignoring her needs, emotions, and presence will only create resentment and distance. A man’s success is often linked to the peace and support he receives at home.

3. You Can Cheat on Your Wife and Go Scot-Free

Infidelity always comes with consequences. You may think you’re getting away with it, but emotional damage, broken trust, and even karma will catch up with you.

4. You Did Your Wife a Favor by Marrying Her

Marriage is a partnership, not charity. You both chose each other. She brings value to your life just as you bring value to hers. Marriage should never be seen as a one-sided privilege.

5. Sex with Your Wife Will Destroy Your Anointing

Intimacy in marriage is not a sin; it is a divine gift. A loving and fulfilling sexual relationship with your wife strengthens your bond it does not weaken your spirituality.

6. Sex with Another Woman Is Better Than with Your Wife

Desire fades, but love, trust, and emotional connection last. Seeking excitement outside your marriage is a dangerous illusion that often leads to regret.

7. Your Wife Is Your Slave

She is your partner, not your servant. Marriage is built on mutual respect, love, and shared responsibilities, not control and oppression.

8. Your Wife’s Opinion Does Not Matter

Her voice is valuable. Ignoring her wisdom, concerns, and advice weakens the foundation of your marriage. A wise man listens to his wife.

9. Your Wife Knows Nothing

Underestimating her intelligence is a mistake. She has insights, instincts, and experiences that can help you grow. A man who dismisses his wife’s wisdom loses a powerful ally.

10. There’s Something in Another Woman’s Body That Your Wife Doesn’t Have

Every woman is unique, but the idea that someone else’s body offers something ‘better’ is misleading. If you are constantly seeking something different, the problem is not your wife—it’s your mindset.

11. Your Wife Can Raise Your Children Alone

Parenting is a shared responsibility. A father’s presence, guidance, and love are just as crucial as a mother’s. Leaving the burden of child-rearing solely on her weakens the family structure.

12. The Best Way to Correct Your Wife Is to Beat Her

Violence is never a solution. A real man communicates, corrects with love, and builds his wife up rather than tearing her down with abuse.

13. Your Wife Is So Strong That She Doesn’t Need Your Help, Attention, and Affection

She may be strong, but she still needs your love, care, and support. Strength does not mean she doesn’t get tired, feel unloved, or need reassurance.

14. God Is Not Aware of How You Treat Your Wife

Every action, word, and treatment you give your wife is seen by God. A man who mistreats his wife cannot expect divine favor and peace in his life.

Final Thought

Your wife is your partner, your helper, and your support system. Marriage flourishes when built on love, respect, and mutual appreciation. When you honor your wife, you honor your marriage.

"A real man loves his wife and places his family as the most important thing in life. Nothing has brought me more peace and contentment in life than simply being a good husband and father.

*𝐄𝐗𝐀𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐋𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐄𝐑𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐏 𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐓𝐔𝐒*

*1.  A leader is a servant to all. If you don't have the heart to serve others without looking for a reward, you are not yet a leader.*

*2.  If you can't withstand criticism and can't withstand and survive the havoc of hate speech, you are not yet a leader.*

*3.  If you don't have the power of forgiving and forgetting, you are not yet a leader.*        

*4.  If you stop doing good because nobody recognizes your kind gesture, you are not yet a leader.*

*5. If you see your followers making mistakes, but you keep quiet saying, "If they don't call me for advice, I will allow them to learn by experience." Your attitude depicts that you are not yet a leader.*

*6. Do you have the "Pull Them Down Syndrome (PhD)"? When you see someone doing better than you, what do you do, encourage or pull them down?*

*7. A genuine leader should not desire the downfall of his followers who are better than him/her.*

*8. If you close doors for your subordinates because you are afraid they will be far better than you, you are not yet a leader.*

*9. If you don't produce your kind. You are the only champion doing great and mighty things, you are not a good leader. Never forget that every good leader must have a better successor.*

*10.  As a leader, you must feed on knowledge. Don't be stagnant, improve yourself personally, spiritually, emotionally, professionally, mentally, relationally, sincerely, and educationally, so you can make an impact.*

*11.  As a leader, be a ladder for others to climb to the top. Don't pull them down. Your desire should be to make your followers better than yourself.*

*12. Be humble, let them learn from your mistakes. Do not watch them grope in darkness when you can guide them as light.*

*13.  A leader should be compassionate. How can you be comfortable when your followers are living in abject poverty?*

*14.  A leader should have the heart of a father. A father leads and ensures his family is safe. A good leader should provide for his people sacrificially without using them for his agenda.*

 

*15.  A leader should have the heart of a mother. When the child is sick, the mother runs helter-skelter to ensure his/her quick recovery. Why do you pretend you don't know your followers are suffering?*

*16.  A leader should not allow evil people to make him wicked. No matter how good you are, some people will not like you.*

*17.  A leader should not allow evil to prevail in the land because of his interest. Sinful associates will want to build a nest of sin around an honest leader and entice him into it. Don't allow that. Do what is right for conscience's sake and leave the rest.*

*18.  A leader should not be partial in judgment. There is always the need for honest, sincere, and forthright leaders. We always need leaders who can be fair in judgment.*

*19. Be a voice for the voiceless in society without fear or favour. Treat the rich and the poor alike with love and kindness. Do you have the loving heart of a leader?*

*20. You are probably wondering if this article is meant only for our leaders over there. You are wrong. It is meant for you. I mean you that is reading it now. You are a leader in your sphere of influence.*

*21. You wonder, "Really, I don't think so. I am just a follower." You are far from the truth. Believe it or not,  you are a leader. You might be under training but know that you are a leader all the same.*

*22. Do you intercede for your people? A good leader lifts his followers to God in sincere heart-felt prayers all the time.*

*In your home etc, you are a leader. Start making an impact from there.*

*Remember charity begins at home.*

*Wherever you are placed to watch over people, please be a good leader.🙏*

*Don't just be a leader, be a great one. Don't be selfish, greedy, and a cheat, subordinates are watching you.*

*Being a leader is a privilege. Don't misuse it,  and neither should you take undue advantage of your subordinates.*

Choice

Choice🛡

Sometime ago, A friend of mine was so much in love with a girl, and that was his dream girl😍 

She gave him hope and taught him alot about life that he never seen. She showed him the true meaning of love and friendship. She opened a way for a better living for him and showed him God and taught him how to pray. 

 He saw his life revolving around the girl. Nothing, I mean life is nothing without her, me too saw it😁

The girl was loved and welcomed by his family.  They (family) were waiting for him to introduce her to them as his fiancee. 

One day, the girl called him on phone, telling him they needed to see. When they met, she broke the news that she'll be getting married to someone else soon. That was the sickest news and worst heartbreak of his life. He couldn't feel himself anymore, all of his body was shaking as he was speechless. 

He came back and told me everything with tears. I was seeing a man in pain, losing what he cherished most. I felt like crying with him but I couldn't. 

He said to me: Junior, I will fight for love this time. She can't marry him. I will stop the marriage. 

Wow... He was ready to lose any other thing but not her. I asked him to calm down first, but he say that he can never find a girl like her again. It was a hell for him to let her go in his heart. We talked severally before he understood that she made her choice and that's the best for her. 

At times, things doesn't go as we plan, but that doesn't mean the doors are close. 

That you were not chose doesn't mean that you are not good enough or she was not making her choice right. 

All of us knows what is better for for ourselves. You don't have to convince someone they'll accept you. 

 

There are things you don't have to fight for. Ask yourself, is it worth fighting for? 

Is what am fighting for truly mine? 

Yes, she can be the queen of your heart but her throne is in another person's heart. Don't give yourself to someone who doesn't deserve you because you feel you so much love him or her. 

Do you know that someone can feel pity for you as she or he is dating you and you assume it as love. 

Bro, you don't have to lie about your business before she accepts you. You don't need to pretend to show that you love her. You don't need to get the whole world to her feet to prove your love for her to give you green light. You don't have to wear expensive clothes before she finds attractive. Be the better man you have to be. 

A President's daughter can choose a barrow pusher over a billionaire. It's just choice of heart. A good man doesn't beg for love, his own loving heart attracts love. 

If someone doesn't see as that person for him, even if you give your life him he will still blame you for your death. You have to check if you are truly needed.

Choice must be made no matter what. As they say; Good things never end. What is yours will come and you won't even struggle to have it. 

The man said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh... ~ Genesis 2:23

This is a man that found peace and what he asked from God. Adam knew it that this is the real and right thing for him. 

~ Ifeanyi Valentine Okeke 

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WOMAN

The problem of most families today points finger at the woman, and the bible says something about it "A wise woman builds her home but the foolish woman pulls it down by her hand".

 It's obviously true, not that they're wicked, but sometimes, something can pop up such arrogant attitude and it's how the husband treats them. Love is reciprocative and can achieve respect and care. 

Men, Don't think she doesn't love you jwith that her attitude, she only need your care, love and attention. She might have flaws but she still loves you with it, that's why she accepted to marry you 'big head'. 

I can say after God is the women because they have the life of their husband even at their palm. 

Okay listen... 

You sleeps in the same bed with her but she wake up while you are still sleeping, she chooses to kiss you and cover you from cold instead of stabbing you to death at that moment. 

She cooks every food you eat and all of them digests in your system. she can add any toxic substance that will harm you, but she chose to  bring in the ingredients that will make it sweeter and nourishing for her lovely husband. 

You beat her everyday, hurt her emotions and she never regret saying yes to you.

You bring her out from her own family who can sacrifice everything and anything for her. Make her to change her name to your own name. She's loving people (your family) that she planned or dream of loving and still take care of all of them. 

She passed through the hard times of pregnancy to secure your future, and nurture your offspring with her own life. 

What else do you need to understand her love and sacrifices that she has made.

  

Think, my man... She love you 

Stop calling her names, she is a gift to you dear. Stop hating her because she is not getting it right, she is still the best. 

   Do you want to see her real love, shower with care.

~ Ifeanyi Val Okeke Jr 

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A GODLY PARTNER

 

Why do most men always go for God fearing women? Why are they not going for their side chicks when they want to settle down? 

They always want a good woman for their family. A good mother for his children. 

Men are more conscious in choosing a partner. They always go for Godly women to raise their children. Someone to back them up. Someone to with a mind of God to cope with their flaws. Someone that will fill in to their spiritual weakness and cover up for them. 

Most men knows the quality of a woman that prays.

What of having a Godly and prayerful man as a partner? That's where men lose it at times. 

Women rely on their pastors when it comes to hard times than their husbands. A husband is the high priest of his home_ Being the leader both spiritual and physical. 

Genesis 18. Abraham was the one that received God in their home, and God blessed them with a nation and riches. He step up to the door and  saw God. 

Now I ask... How many are standing at the door of intercession for their family? 

How many of them sees God? 

Anything you want your wife to be for you, be it for her. 

If you want an intercessor as a wife, be an intercessory husband. 

If you want a good woman, be the good man.

As you pray for the right person to come by, be the right fellow. Two wrongs can never a make a right. 

I wonder why some wives will have bad dreams when they wake up, the first person they will call is their pastor. But, the husband is the nearest person to share the thing with. Never you lose spiritual intimacy with your partner. 

Who said is not sexy or romantic to have have a praying partner who knows his or her spiritual role. 

Coddling her while she is sleeping at night, blasting in prayers as her husband and pastor. Is it that romantic? 

Holding his hands and blessing his day while looking into his eyes before he leave for work. Isn't it romantic? 

Kneeling before her to anoint you as a king before going out in the morning. Is it not romantic? 

The most peaceful home is where they have God. You won't lack love, for God is love. 

Just imagine God being your father in-law, because you have a child of God as a wife or as a husband. 

~ Ifeanyi Valentine Okeke 

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