HUSBAND SCARCITY has become one of the challenges faced by many young ladies today. If you go to prayer houses,churches and native doctors shrine majority of the intentions are prayers for life partner, and this calls for concern.
Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of "HUSBAND SCARCITY" problem or there were more men than women? i don't think so....maybe then, women had values and were prepared and preferred to build a home and not to pack into a built home. I was told that, in those days, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciate him and help him to build a future but these days...All ladies prefer to marry a ready made man.
Honestly, ladies created husband scarcity themselves and now reverse is the case. Go to social media the first time you are chatting with a lady the next thing is can you help me with (airtime,money for one thing or the other). When you said no they will blocked you and give you a tittle (broke or stingy man). Ask an average girl to define her dream husband, you get things like...he has to be tall, handsome, fair, rich, own a house, be presentable, and will add GOD fearing in order not to sound worldly.
Just imagine 40 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is one and he gonna pick one, then what becomes of 39 others?
You hear them saying,i can't suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man. That is why some of them fall into the hands of evil men because of the standerd.
My dear, let me tell you the truth MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAMME, it's a mission of building the family of God here on earth.
You don't even know you maybe the person that will help him to that destination fast.
NOTE: I am not saying you should pick any man that comes your way(a man that can not feed himself) or if a rich guy comes you should not marry him. Get me right.
PLEASE Look beyond the physical.
Work by faith not by sight.
May God give us better Understanding.
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