It is not a bad thing to be angry against each other. There are things that can make you or your wife angry. To be mad against your spouse is not bad, but your action can mar your relationship.
These should be your attitude when you are mad towards him or her:
1. Be mad at him or her, but don't insult each other. Anger is not a ticket to speak carelessly
2. Be mad at him or her, but tell each other why you are mad. Don't assume he or she know.
3. Be mad at him or her, but don't broadcast it to others. Cover him or her. Cover your nakedness.
4. Be mad at him or her, but don't forget the many good things about him or her. Be objective and fair.
5. Be mad at him or her, but also remember the many other times he or she have forgiven you
6. Be mad at him or her, but don't give each other silent treatment. Keep the communication lines open.
7. Be mad at him or her, but don't use it as an excuse to cheat on him or her
8. Be mad at him or her, but don't hurt each other to even the score. Love doesn't revenge
9. Be mad at him or her, but don't stay mad for long. Sort thing out quickly.
10. Be mad at him or her, but don't stop praying for each other. He or she still need your prayers.
11. Be mad at him or her, but don't threaten to quit what you have together. Ending it is not the solution
12. Be mad at him or her, but don't punish each other using sex. Keep intimacy special, don't weaponize it.
13. Be mad at him or her, but don't keep reminding each other of things you said you forgiven.
14. Be mad at him or her, but don't develop a bad attitude or view of yourself. Take responsibility for offending him or her, endeavour to make it work.
Please feel free to add yours. We are here to learn.
May richly bless, lead, guard, light your paths, conquer your laxitie and grant you patience needed in marriage
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