FROM BED OF FORNICATION TO ALTAR OF WORSHIP🎤:*

*▪️Confession Of Sister Onyeche.*

This is True Life Confession Of our Beloved Sister Onyeche .....who thought she can dine 🍽 with Devil 😈 and also feast at the table of the Lord ✝.

I advice you take whatsoever belong to you in tonight confession of our Sister And use it to impact your life and start making amendment because whatsoever a man sow shall he ready.

*📍FROM BED OF FORNICATION TO ALTAR OF WORSHIP:*

That Friday Night, I was supposed to be in the vigil leading the worship song 🎤 but there, I was in Fred's bed moaning in painful pleasure as he cuddled and caressed me 😢.

Being the choir mistress, I was the one to take the worship songs that night but I manoeuvred my way to his home.

"Can we go another round?" .....Fred asked teasingly.

"You don't get tired? Oliver Twist," I said staring at the wall clock. It was few minutes before 1 a.m.

"I need to join them in the church," ....I said uncovering myself from the bedsheets and hurriedly picked up my dress from the floor 😲

"It's already late and dangerous out there. Just pass the night here again please."

"Akuna! ....It's better late than never. Don't forget, I'm the one taking the worship."

"Do you want to get raped out there? The one I gave you is not enough for you, right?" he asked mockingly as he sat upright on his bed placing a pillow on his laps to hide his erected stuff.

"I won't get raped because we are going together. Dress up please."

"Have you gone insane?" he giggled. "I just finished feasting with the devil 😈 and you expect me to go to the presence of God? Come on babe, I still have conscience."

"What are you insinuating? Are you saying I don't have conscience? Thank you for reminding me that I'm Jezebel." I said trying to ease the guilt.

I hurriedly picked my Bible 📖 and my scarf from the floor and dashed out of the room.

"Onyeche, wait let me see you off," I heard his voice from a distance.

That was not the first night I spent in his house in the name of vigil, neither was it the second nor third.

You may think that was the worst thing I have done. No, I did worse than that.

I aborted two babies for Fred, the assistant prayer band leader who was always leading the prayer section .....Chimoooo 🙆‍♂

My Father who was a well thought of elder in the church ⛪ was glad that her daughter was burning for God.

I was not just deceiving my father, I was deceiving the members of the church, I was deceiving the pastor whose favourite I was.....Chaiiiiii 😔

Never had he ministered without me acting as the backup singer. He trusted and believed so much in me. And above all, I was deceiving myself as my self-worth was dwindling.

When I got to the church, Agnes was still leading the praise section.

It seemed she was stylishly waiting for my arrival to take the worship section as I was considered to be the most fire-branded member of the church.....Inukwa 😢

As the choir mistress, I was supposed to be seated at the front seat, but I sat behind so that my incoming would not be noticed.

I glanced through the pulpit, the pastor's gaze was on me and I trembled within as he signaled an invitation.

"Onyeche, what happened?" he asked affectionately.

"Daddy I slept off," I lied kneeling beside him without any iota of the fear of God.

"I wanted to rest before time but when I woke up, it was already very late. I told myself that it's better late than never."

"I know you 'll come regardless what. Thank you," he said smiling and patting me on my shoulder. "Hope you are prepared." "I'm always prepared daddy."

Right at the pulpit I was confidently lying to the man of God. Yet, unlike the days of Peter, there was no discernment, I would have fallen dead like Ananias and Sapphira but there, I was being praised....(May God have mercy 😭)

Like the pastor's praise was not enough, when I climbed the podium, I was welcomed with a standing ovation 👏👏by the congregation.

They yelled and shouted my name. Others jumped to their feet shouting and clapping.

My head was becoming larger like I was sharing the glory of God with him, that's if I did not steal it all. Had they known that I just left Delilah's lap, or maybe I was even the Delilah.....😓

Had they known I just left the dungeon of sin, just like the lady of Magdalene, they would have picked up stone.

I struck the mic with a finger and the sound was pleasant to my hearing.

"Alleluuuuuuuia!" I shouted into the mic, stressing my word and the crowd yelled even louder.

"Can we just compose ourselves as we worship the El shaddai, the Elohim, The King of kings, the Lord of lords, the I am that I am, mandalekatushaldaba," I burst into tongue. ....."The Bible says, God is a Spirit and they that must worship God must worship Him in spirit and in truth."

As I was trying to elate the crowd, I saw Fred enter the church...😲 Well built, muscular and light in complexion. Like the Biblical Joseph, very handsome and good to behold.

I still doubt if I were the only one in the church ⛪ he was having an affair with..... Many of those young girls flopped around him calling him papa and M.O.G.

He was also very much adored and loved in the church because of his activeness yet, my partner in sin......... (Holy Father Have Mercy 😢)

"Close your eyes and lift up your hands unto the Lord as we worship him."

As I began to sing deeper, those emotional tears began to pour from my eyes.

Some of the people were also singing and crying while others were blasting in tongues.

I glanced at Fred, with hands akimbo, he was shaking and nodding his head in all direction as though he was translated to another realm.

His voice was louder than every other person. It seemed he was trying to tell them that he prayed in tongue more than any of them as he seldom pray in the language of men.

It may surprise you to know that Fred was not the only person I was sleeping with.....😲

I did those abominable acts outside the church too. I was scared that my evil deeds would one day be exposed if I involve other members.

So, whenever those decent boys in my church asked me out, even for a serious relationship, I will politely turn them down preaching the gospel to them......Telling them how it's going to affect our relationship with God but there was never a no from me to the outsiders: the fallen brethren as they will never be in my church to see me pray or sing.

You may think I did not feel sad for myself. You may think I loved what I was doing.

....
No, to me, it was also disgusting. It made me look so dirty like a pig. It made feel like I did not belong to the family of the true children of Jesus Christ.

I have judged myself enough, so you don't have to judge me again. If there's anything to do, it's to pray for me because secretly, I was dying.

Just like the church of Sardis, I had the reputation of being alive but I was dead.

Yes, I had the reputation of being vibrant and burning for God but I was on my way 🏃 to Hell 🔥 .

You may think I was not Born Again. Well, I was genuinely born again.

I spoke in the tongues of angels, I've received the gift of the Holy Spirit, yet, I was swimming in sin..... Who can rescue someone like me? ...Chaiiiii 😭.

On Facebook and other social media, I was an apostle of Holiness as I never ceased preaching and posting scriptures on my wall.

My WhatsApp status was always preaching Christ ✝ but my lifestyle was contrary to the faith.

Apostle Paul said that he's the worst of all sinners. I don't want to drag that position with Elder Paul but one thing is certain, nobody can drag the second slot with me 😢

My situation became critical when I became addicted to sex. Sex became my driving force.
I was always happy during weekly fellowship as it was the only opportunity to visit Fred before heading to church together.

After fellowship, we'd return to his home for more fun before he would see me off.

When I could not make it to Fred's home, I resorted to masturbation....🙆‍♂

There was no single day passed by without me masturbating as I began to find it more pleasurable than sex.

Even on Sunday morning, before service, I would masturbate at home before handling the microphone 🎤 on the pulpit to lead the praise and worship.....I was the serpent 🐍 invoking God's wrath upon the church ⛪ ....buy who can actually delivered? 😭

Don't think I ever felt comfortable at the pulpit.

I hated myself for what I was doing. I only needed a way out of my predicament but I was imprison.

I was always kneeling at the front of the altar for every altar call. But that same evening, I would be in my room thrusting myself with cucumber in masturbation 😔

I have gone days without food and water in the name of fasting but to no avail.

You see! Haven't I tried? 🤷‍♂

You that want to judge me, how many days have you gone fasting and praying for your own secret sin? Or do you want to tell me that you're not battling with any private sin?

Man may not be watching you but God watches everything that happens even in the most secret place.

So, please don't judge me. I understand hypocrisy already.... Or have you not read that you should get rid of the log in your own eye; then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye?

Oh young minister, put yourself right with God first and then we can sit down and talk judgment.

There was this day I rounded off my seven days fasting and prayer. I made up my mind never to see Fred again, never to masturbate again and never to see any guy again.

My determination worked perfectly well for weeks but after a month, I found myself in Fred's bed again and again, again and again 😭.

Pathetic, right? Very pathetic indeed.

Fred shouted at me with rage and almost hit me for keeping him for a whole month without sex.

He threatened to quit the relationship but I begged with tears. The only thing that calmed him down was when I promised to spend the night with him instead of going to the vigil.

When it was dawn, I carried my Bible 📖 and went home. I did not just return to Fred, I returned to my old way of life.

For years, I continued living such a wayward and bitter life until one particular night...Chaiiiiii 😳

After satisfying my inordinate desire, I picked up my Bible as usual and began to flip through its pages just to fulfill all righteousness and ease the guilt I was feeling.

I read several pages randomly. The urge to study that night was stronger than the urge for masturbation, even stronger than the urge for sex.

I continued reading carelessly until I came across Psalm 145:18-19.

I read it over and over, then over and over and over and over. For more than a dozen time, I was reading just these two verses.

I read it until it sank so deeply to my innermost being.

As I continued reading, tears 😢 began to wet up in my eyes.

These were not the emotional tears I used to shed at the pulpit. These were tears I even tried to control but couldn't.

When my Bible was getting soaked, I closed it and dropped it on my bed.

The next thing that happened was mysterious. I found myself on the floor, rolling, crying and praying.

"Lord, it's either now or never. I die here tonight......"Tonight, I bring into captivity every thought and fleshly pleasure to the obedience of Christ.

"My strength, my ability, my will, my wisdom, everything has failed me. It's just you now oh Lord.

"Lord, may I never see the rising of the sun again until I'm delivered from every devourer.

"Lord Jesus, except you want me to die in my sin, you will deliver me tonight."

I knew I was disturbing my parents and probably, neighbours but my problem was bigger than one sleepless night...😔

I thought I was disturbing my parents, but it didn't take much time before I heard them blasting in tongues from their room.

That night, I didn't sleep. Even when I wanted to sleep , I could not. I prayed till dawn then slept off.

When I woke up, it was around 9 a.m. I switched on my phone 📱 and it was Fred's message that came in.

"Gud mrning lov,
D tot of U cudn't allow,
me sleep last 9t.
I mesmerized ova ur beauty & ur magical touch till dawn.
Wherever U ar is exactly where I wnt 2 b.
I've wasted too much time already.
I dnt wnt 2 waste anoda single day without U & I'm ready 2 make it up 4 d lost time.

Baby do U mind comin ova later in d day?
I no U wudnt mind.
I love U.
Expecting U dear, kisses"

I stared at my phone a bit confused if to reply or not. After a second thought, I pulled off my sim card and broke it into pieces...🤔

"I'm starting afresh,"....I murmured.

And as if pushed by an external force, I opened my drawer. I stared at the cucumbers and the toys I bought and shame overwhelmed me. Slowly, I began to break everything.

"I'm done with you," .......I spoke to the toy as though it could hear.

"I'm done with sin,"...... I continued talking to myself.

As I searched my room thoroughly for all the instruments of sin, a song came to my lips.

"🎶 I'm no longer a slave
To sin (fear),
I am a child of God 🎶"

I sang only the chorus for hours reminding myself who I've become.

Days rolled into weeks and weeks into months, I did not go to Fred's home neither did I do anything stupid.

I thought of Fred several times and the urge came powerfully sometimes. Of course, I'm human.

The urge was there but the power and grace to overcome was stronger....Praise God!!!

I would stare at the mirror and applaud myself for not going back to the way it used to be 😁

I would use my right hand to shake my left hand in jubilation 🤝 congratulating myself 🤭

I still remember when I took myself out on a date... Funny, isn't it? 😅 That's what we called self-cruh nah 🤣

You may think I over acted. I don't really mind.

You will never know what it is like to be free until you have found freedom in Christ Jesus ✝. I am sure you will celebrate more than I did.

One of the mistakes the devil 😈 made was that he still allowed me to fellowship with the brethren even in my sin.
He still allowed me to pray and study even after committing those evil acts.

If he was wise, he would have cut me off from the gathering of the brethren.

Had he known, he would have sealed my lips from praying to God who was actually waiting for me to call upon Him...👏

And because he was not all knowing, he couldn't stop me from praying and he couldn't have ever stopped God from answering my prayer.

After three months, I found myself in Fred's house again.....😲

I was surprised too because I thought I'd never go there again but it's like I was compelled.

No! It's not what you are thinking Oooo 😁

Habaaa na!

I did not go alone. I went with the Most High. I went to offer him Christ ☺

I stood at the door feeling reluctant to knock. After a while, I did.

He opened the door and was surprised to see me. He stood at the door confused whether to let me in or not. We stood in total silence staring at each other.

After awhile, I broke the silence, "Fred, I'm...."

"No! No! No!" he cut in. "You don't need to be sorry," he said emphatically. I should be the one apologising.

"Onyeche, I'm sorry, it's over between us."
"Over?" I asked faking the surprise just to hear more.

"Please forgive me Onyeche, you're now my past."

"Fred, what happened?

Did I do anything wrong?"

The woman in me wouldn't tell him the reason I visited. I wanted to feed my curiosity.

"No Onye, you didn't do anything wrong. It's just that I have found true love."

"Fred will never change," I chuckled.

"Is that why you couldn't even welcome me in? Is she inside?"

"Nobody is in," he said paving the curtain to give me a better view of the room.

"You mean your love for me was never true?

Where did I get it wrong Fred?" I enquired just to hear his opinion because from onset, I knew we were into an illicit love affair that will lead to nowhere except Hell🔥.

"Onyeche, I must confess, you were not my first love. I left my first love for you. I thought I could hold on to both of you at a time but it's never possible. I've decided to return and start all over again with my first love."

"Hmm! Who could that be Fred? You told me you love me and promised never to let me go."

"This love is different from what I felt for you then," he said confidently exuding great joy.

— "This love is genuine.
— This love is pure.
— This love doesn't fail.
— This love has covered my past and given a future.
— This love is shed abroad in my heart."

He was nodding his head as he spoke with total peace.

"Onyeche," he called placing his hands on my shoulders. "I HAVE FOUND TRUE LOVE IN CHRIST JESUS. I have returned to my first love. Onyeche, there is no better love than the love of Christ.

There is no love outside Christ. What have we gained from the sin we called love? What has fornication added to our lives? Why not give this love a chance to find its expression in your life?"

The joy I felt in my spirit knew no bounds when I heard those words from Fred.

"Fred, this love is what brought me here. This love found me some months back. I came here just to offer you this love but I'm overwhelmed with joy to know that this love has found you too. This is miraculous."

"It is the Lord's doing," he said. "Do you mind coming in?" he added leading the way.

"No, I don't mind," I replied as I followed from behind.

This time around, I was not on his bed. We knelt beside his bed in prayer thanking God for His unfailing love, amazing grace and His undeserved mercy...🙌

I was dead, and now alive again; I was lost, and found.

I am Sister Onyeche and this is my confession on how God saved and transformed my life Previously from the Bed Of Fornication To Altar Of Worship.

*🚦 CONCLUSIONS:*

You have just read the True Life Story Of sister Onyeche and her encounter with the Lord and right now...... I Evang Paulinus Paul is ministering ....To all those in the church of God but still struggling with one sin or the other.

Please don't just relax in that sin. Hold on to Christ ✝ for a little while.

The Lord is more interested in helping you than you are interested in helping yourself.

Honestly my beloved you can't help yourself to overcome that secret tormenting sin that has infested on your spiritual bone marrow for years and you still pulling weight in the church ⛪

❇ Now listen to me...

⏩ You can speak in tongues and miss Heaven.

⏩ You can win souls and miss Heaven.

⏩ You can see vision
and miss Heaven.

⏩ You can cast out Devil and miss Heaven.

⏩ You can perform miracles and still miss Heaven.

⏩ You can read the whole Bible 📖 and miss Heaven.

⏩ You can attend all church ⛪ services, fellowship activities and camp meetings and still miss Heaven.
⏩ You can have anointing and miss Heaven.

⏩ You can have all spiritual gifts and miss Heaven.

⏩ You can be rich 💰, prosperous and wealthy and still miss Heaven.

⏩ You can give and sow seeds and still miss Heaven.

⏩ You can wield power and be influential in the church ⛪ and still miss Heaven.

⏩ You can have a powerful voice to sing 🎶 and people will broke down in tears 😢 for altar call and still miss Heaven.

⏩ You can also have fame and popularity in the church and miss Heaven.
⏩ You can prophesy and still miss Heaven....for Christ sake 🤦‍♂

••• But you can't be a fervent man or woman of addicted Prayer 👏 with serious Personal Relationship with God and Miss Heaven.... It's Absolutely impossible!!!!

The Devil 😈 can perform perfectly better in everything .....more than everybody... including all those spiritual exercise and activities in the household of faith but I hate Prayer 😲.

....and when I say "PRAYING PRAYER" ..... I don't mean praying for 20—30 minutes, I mean setting your whole Heart ♥ aflame 🔥 in Prayers and never wish to stop.

However, if you have already fallen a victim of sexual secret immoral Lifestyle and still ministering and officiating in the Church ⛪ or involved in stealing, telling lies, abortion etc.....

My dear... you may likely not survive your own encounter.....and the world may not opportune to read your own confessions because tomorrow isn't promised.

"You May Even Died Tonight If God Withdrew His Grace 😢 ... and that is why you need to rededicate your life to Christ NOW!!!..... by saying below "Salvation Prayer" and feel free to contact me for counseling.

*🚦CONFESSION AND ACCEPTANCE OF CHRIST:*

Dear Lord Jesus Christ; I admit that I am a sinner. I have done many things that don’t please you. I have lived my life for myself only. I am sorry, and I repent. I ask you to forgive me. I believe that you died on the cross for me, to save me.

You did what I could not do for myself. I come to you now and ask you to take control of my life; I give it to you. From this day forward, help me to live every day for you and in a way that pleases you. I love you, Lord Jesus, and I thank you that I will spend all eternity with you in Jesus name i pray. Amen 🙌

I DROP MY PEN... 

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Dear women trying to conceive .

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If you have done alot of things trying to conceive and have not been successful , this one thing may be what you have not done .

Go and sleep with your husband during your period .

I know it's funny right now the way I sound.

Alot of you don't know certain women ovulate during their periods especially women with short menstral cycles .

If you avoid your husband during your ovulation day which happens to fall on your period days , you can never get pregnant .

No jokes here .

It is not a curse , you cannot .

Some persons will come to this comment section to tell you it's not biblical or it's dirty .. ( I have already talked about this in my previous post ) but I can't choose for you who you will listen to .

Do you want to have your child or you will sit still praying and fasting to God for a miracle , when you infact are the hindrance to that miracle . ?

I am not saying avoiding your partner during your MENSTRATION is the reason why you don't have a child yet .
No .

I am rather saying , this is one option that is available and you may not have used it .

What's there in trying ?

So , Go ahead . Period or no period , Go ahead with your husband .

The most important thing for you and me is to carry your own baby and be happy .

I hope this helps you .
Pls make sure to tell us here once you have your testimony . We will rejoice with you.

I love you

#peace
#ijeoma Njoku

LIFE OF A PROMISCUOUS MAN

Any man that cannot control his feelings towards the opposite sex already has a major problem in life.

Normally, problem no dey finish, but you see for a promiscuous man ba...His own problems is raised to power 20. They usually have very disorganised and meaningless life; from loosing their self worth before their mistresses and the society, having to sponsor and supervise numerous abortions, spending foolishly, to giving rise to children that are uncared for.

Let's not even talk about the married ones, their life is usually very miserable, no peace of mind. As dem dey hide their devices, dem dey hide condom, dem dey do HIV (and other STI) tests, small small girls dey bill them, insult wey their wives no ever fit give them for house, small girls go give them add jara on top.

Promiscuous men are never satisfied, they are never contented. The more they get, the more they want.

Even after a promiscuous man dies, his family inherits his problems. It is then that his wife would find out he has another woman that has given birth to 3 children for him.

Kai, devil is truly a bastard, how he successfully packaged real suffering and restlessness but made these men believe it's enjoyment is something that beats my imagination.

You're really loosing too much by being promiscuous. You chase away the spirit of God. You're vulnerable. You're like a pilot flying a plane with a blindfold. Crashing is sure.

Just try being faithful in your relationship/marriage for few months, you'll never want to go back to the other side again. The difference is clear. I have tasted both sides. I suffered for many years, thinking I was having fun, until I finally met Christ. That genuine peace is what the devil does not want you to experience. Don't let him continue to cheat you.

Unfaithfulness is very hard to maintain oo, those that have once been unfaithful will understand better. Very expensive and no peace. Na so so running from pillar to post. Men have died untimely, many great destinies have been cut short. I don't know how the devil has managed to convince the men caught in this trap that such deadly adventure is fun.

Even if a flirt is wealthy, the problems created by his flirtatious escapades won't allow him enjoy his wealth.

No wonder, the Bible says there's no peace for the wicked. (You can remove "wicked" and put "promiscuous"). 😁😁

Fortunately or unfortunately (choose one 😄😀), there are so many beautiful ladies everywhere! Abeg how many you wan toast? How many you wan sleep with? How many you wan collect their number? How many you wan follow chat? How many you wan date?

Fine girls no go ever finish o, Las Las, na you go waste your life. Na you go dey run rat race. No reward at the end.

You'll invest your precious time, energy and resources pursuing ladies about because of ordinary sex? And while you're not through with one, you have spotted another one that you like. What kind of torture have you subjected yourself? Do you want to die before your time? Try and rest small now, rest in Jesus name!

Of course, there are also women that are caught up in this kind of wayward lifestyle, sleeping around with different strange men....but we'll address their own issue later.

My brother, time dey go oo, you can't continue like this, this kind lifestyle wey no get bearing no fit end well. You need Christ, He's the one that can give your life a purpose. He's the one that can deliver your from this time wasting addiction.

Seek Him and you'll find Him, because that is where your true liberation and peace lie.

Indeed, you deserve a better life. Let God know you're tired, confess your helplessness to Him and He'll give you rest.

Parenting

DADDY*

Daddy, don't wear ordinary boxer at home, you sit down, your 'thing' is dangling and your daughter is seeing it. There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom, just for your spouse. Don't say because you want to enjoy your freedom in your house. It's not your house alone, it's a family house/home. You are putting your children into sexual bondage through these acts. The initiation starts from home.

Mummy, wearing ordinary bra around the house in the presence of your sons is dangerous. Yes, they won't lust after you, but you might be messing up with their sensuality; and increasing their curiosity to see the breasts of ladies out there.

Let's stop being 'pornographic materials' to our children. Raising sexually pure children, it begins at home.' It begins with me and you.

My Counsel:

Thank you very much for the issues raised in family porn. It is still our responsibility to build virtue into our family. We need to learn from others.

Still on building virtuous homes. Look at this:

*HABITS THAT SHOW IMPROPER UPBRINGING IN CHILDREN*

Please, carefully look into the list below to see where you may want to make amends on yourself or the young ones you are caring for.

Children, if not properly groomed may never get to the top in life, even if the parents are at the top of their career.

Manners take you to where your education can't take you, irrespective of your status, money or the "who you know" factor

This is not meant to hurt anyone or pinpoint on someone for their upbringing. Its a general message targeted to all the parents of today.

*1.* Going to your child's school dressed indecently? Think again.

*2.* Speaking rashly to your child's teacher.

*3.* Cursing, using foul words or swearing in front of your children.

*4.* Using makeup on children.

*5.* Dressing with tight clothes and indecently for children (they loose the sense of their princesshood and may not listen to you in future)

*7.* Your child holds the cup or glassware by the brim and you don't make a correction.

*8.* Your children don't greet and you just feel they will come around one day because they have a mood swing. (You will be blamed for it)

*9.* Your children eat with their mouth opened and you feel they will grow up some day.

*10.* Your children brought home something you did not buy for them and you said nothing. (That is the beginning of stealing)

*11.* They talked back at you and you concluded it's okay since you're a 21st century mummy. (You will hate yourself if they do that outside and they are disciplined)

*12.* They interrupt when you are speaking with another adult and you think they are bold and clever. (It's really bad manners)

*13.* They exercise authority over their nanny and domestic staff and you let them be. (That is bad parenting)

*14.* They say things like "my driver is on his way..."

I am not an advocate that children should call your domestic staff aunty or brother but, calling them by names when they are not young people is not poise either. The use of Miss, Mr or Mrs will look good on them.

*15.* Your children don't say- 'Thank you' when they have been helped or served something. They don't know how to say "please" when they need someone for help; and you are cool with that. (Bad parenting)

*16.* When your children cannot stand children who are less privileged.

*18.* When they pick their nose with their hands.

*19.* When they don't wash their hands after visiting the washroom.

*20.* When your children take something from the fridge without taking permission. (Bad parenting)

*21.* When your children don't knock on closed doors.

*22.* When your children don't collect from your hands the stuff you brought in as you walk in through the door.

*23.* When your children request for a bribe to carry out their home chores or extra task. (That is disgraceful)

*24.* When your children act like their grandparents are irritating them.

*25.* When your children have not learnt to get up from the chair for the elderly or visitors to sit.

*26.* When your child tells a lot of lies. (You will both cry in the future if such is not put to check)

*27.* When your child asks "who is that?" at a knock on your door instead of "please, who is there."

*28.* When your child is always seated by your visitors when being served drinks etc.

*29.* When your children still point their fingers at other people.

*30.* When your children play and jump around when prayers are going on. (age 4 above).

Don't be a 21st Century parent who cannot correct a child. Train your child in the way of the Lord, so that when he grows up he will not depart from it.

*IT IS BETTER TO LET YOUR CHILDREN CRY AT AN EARLY AGE WHEN YOU CORRECT THEM, IF NOT YOU WILL BOTH CRY AT NIGHT WHEN THEY BRING DISGRACE TO THE FAMILY WITH BAD AND TERRIBLE BEHAVIOURS!*

May Almighty God never let this be our portion. Amen

THE MOST RECKLESS LOVE EVER DEMONSTRATED

Good morning my neighbours 😀😀😀😀
I trust we all slept well. As for me, body just dey sweet me this morning, so I say make I share something with una, I go try make the post no long today 😁😁😁😁😁😀

Sometimes ago, while we were having our personal devotion, some thoughts struck my heart. It's about the love of God demonstrated through our Lord Jesus.

*For God loved the world so much that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not die but have eternal life.*
John 3:16 GNB

This verse that is so popular (like National Anthem) made a different meaning to me.

I tried putting myself in the scenario decribed in the verse above.

Now, I have only one son, I love that boy like my breath. People who have only one child will be able to relate.

Now, imagine that some other people sinned (not even my son). Then I'll now be asked to give up my only son to die for the sins of others......I CAN'T DO IT. THOSE SINNERS WOULD RATHER PERISH THAN TO HAVE MY DEAR SON DIE FOR THEIR SINS. And as a matter of fact, anyone that wants to reach my son would have to go through me and kill me first. Over my dead body would I leave my son to be sacrificed for the sins of others. Sebi na you sin your sin abi? Tor, na you go die your die and go your hell.

Hmmmm, this scenario made me understand the kind of sacrifice God made. He gave HIS ONLY SON......HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, JESUS, TO DIE FOR OUR SINS........looking at it as human, it doesn't even make sense........No wonder, the Bible says only those who fear the Lord understand His ways.

Now, looking at Jesus himself, I believe God also gave Jesus His will (just as he gave everyone). We learned that satan was an angel and second in command to God, but because God gave him his will, he misused it and he was thrown to the world.

So that means, Jesus had the chance to say NO. He had the power to command thunder to strike those who came to seize him......but no, because of his unending love, he chose to die for sins he did not commit. He chose to die so that you and I can have life.
If Jesus had said no, what would have been our fate today as children of God?

One big lesson to learn from the event of the death of Jesus is that as humans, it is *NOT EVERY TIME* that we should stand on our rights. We should let some things go, even when we are on our right. If Jesus had wanted to claim right, he would not have died for our sins.

Please pause and imagine something; imagine that Jesus went to consult people for advise that time that he was to die for the sins of the world, as in, he went to ask people that God wants Him to die for the sins of others, but He has the power to say no, so what should he do? I am very sure people would call Him "MUMU" for even putting such into consideration. They'll be like "wetin be your own? Me I no follow those you wan die for abeg"

Sir, have you been called mumu because of your unusual service for Christ? People don ever look you say e be like say you dey mad because you decide to follow the hard and lonely but the right way to accomplish a task? Dem never call you holy holy? Dem never carry you do joke?
If not, then your Christianity never do. Be a proud mumu for Jesus. He was once a mumu for you too.

Again, I put myself in Jesus' situation after he has died for our sins and resurrected, I saw that it was a total display of reckless love.

Now, imagine dying for someone who is not willing to even thank you for it.

Imagine dying for someone who feels like "I send you make you go die for me?"

Imagine dying for someone who is not willing to repent. Meaning, such person has allowed the death of Christ to go in vain. I'm sure Christ knew some people would still not accept the free gift of life, but that didn't change his mind.

Now, imagine that I allow my beloved son to die for the sin of the world, with the aim that whoever accepts him and adopt a righteous lifestyle shall have everlasting life.......after this huge sacrifice, you now have the effrontery to sin again?......I will kill you immediately. I will strike you dead, I will command angel Micheal to cut you into tiny pieces, I will send thunder to roast you alive, I will avenge the death of my son on you right there and then........I am just being human.

But thank God that God is not man......His mercies endures FOREVER!
See what God is still saying in the book of Ezekiel 33:11 , even after giving up His only son 👇

"Tell them that as surely as I, the Sovereign LORD, am the living God, I do not enjoy seeing sinners die. I would rather see them stop sinning and live. Israel, stop the evil you are doing. Why do you want to die?"

What kind of matchless and incomprehensible love is this?

The heart of Jesus is so full of love that he even asked that God should forgive those crucifying him.

Luke 23:34 GNB
Jesus said, “Forgive them, Father! They don't know what they are doing.”

How do you relate with your own enemies? Don't you pray for their downfall or even death on a daily basis?
Would you not kill them yourself if you are presented with the chance?

Imagine the earthly mother of Jesus, watching her only son being humiiiated, disgraced and killed for the sins of others. Don't forget that just like every other mother, she also carried Jesus in her womb for nine months and she went through the pains of pregnancy and childbirth.......our mothers will understand this part better........even science confirms it that no pain is more excruciating than the pains of a mother in labour. I was there in the labour room with my wife when she delivered, it is no longer news, I saw everything myself. That day, na my wife dey born, but na me everybody dey tell sorry because of the way I dey cry like baby.....story for another day.

Do you desire to love the way God loves?

Take a look at this 👇
Whoever does not love does not know God, for God is love.
1 John 4:8 GNB

The grace to replicate the love of Christ is given only to those that know Him. For you to love the way He loves, you have to seek to know Him first, because He is love.

Something that is worthy of note is that although, His mercies endures forever, He's a consuming fire.
Rejecting His love can unleash that part of Him.....and trust me, no one can survive His wrath.

If you die a sinner, you have missed out from His eternal love and have incured His wrath, you have rejected the free gift of eternal life and accepted death. The Bible says there's no repentance in the grave, If you can read this, I say CONGRATULATIONS, because you still stand a chance to repent and choose life.

Think about this deeply, make up your mind today to accept Jesus and enjoy the real, genuine and unadulterated love.
Do not let his death over you be in vain. Don't waste His love for you.
Accept him so that you can receive the grace to love just like him.

STOP ABUSING YOUR WIFE EMOTIONALLY!

Sir, stop abusing your wife emotionally.

Yes, you have never raised your hand to beat up your wife 🤔🤔 truly, you are giving her money for upkeep and food but what you are doing to her emotionally is worst than beating her.

You treat your wife like trash, you never treat her like a human,
you never value or respect her, you never consult her in your decision making, you come home as you please, you go to work in the morning, come back home late at night leaving your wife awake waiting for your arrival.

Your wife is not your friend, you never spend time with her, you never appreciate anything she does for you, you shatter and call her bad names before your friends and family.

You never want to know if she is in the mood sexually, you always have your way.

Your wife doesn't have a say, you never listen to her advice, you never for once assist her with domestic work.

You are the type that believes in the worldly fallacy that when you give a woman a chance, she will take you for granted, that is why you never allow her to be close to you because you don't want to be taken for granted🤔

You never crack jokes with your wife but you are jovial outside your home and on social media.

You never call your wife sweet names but you address other women with sweet names.

You yell at her every time you have a little misunderstanding.

It's a crime for your wife to sit down in the sitting room every time you are around, she must bury her face in the bedroom or be busy moving up and down with domestic work🤔

Weldone Mr Tyrant.

Your wife never enjoyed you since you married her, she doesn't have a good memory of you, she never misses you every time you travel, in fact, she always wishes you stay long on your journey.

You don't show care and concern to your wife every time she is sick.

You call her lazy and yell at her every time she's pregnant.

Can you count the number of times you have rejected your wife's food because of a baseless issue?

Every time you have a little misunderstanding with your wife, you always leave the house and stay for days before you come back home.

You never connect or have the heart to heart discussions with your wife.

Your communication with your wife is very poor, you always refer to past occurrences every time your wife offended you.

To you, it's taboo to call your wife on phone and ask about her well being every time you are not around, you only call her when you have information to pass across to her.

You don't even know how your children are fed, your children's school fee is not your concern.

You don't want her on social media and you have chased friends and family away from her.

When last did you eat together on the same plate with your wife?

When last did you pray together with your wife?

When last did you play together?

When last have you slept together on the same bed in the same room as husband and wife?

You only sleep together whenever you want to have sex with her, no foreplay, no talking, no touching...you always go straight to what you are after (sex).

No forgiveness in your dictionary, you even have a diary for your wife's wrongdoing 🤔

Your wife always cries silently praying to God to touch your heart.

#Stop #torturing #your #wife #emotionally, put yourself in her shoes 👠...

Remember, she is a human being like you, it's the blood that flows through her vein too, she needs care and love.

She needs affection and attention.

She wants you to be intentional in your commitment to her.

She wants to be valued and respected.

She wants you to be proud of her.

She wants you to praise, appreciate and call her sweet names.

She wants to connect and be more intimate with you.

She wants you to be responsible and available.

She wants you to see her as a wife, companion, confidant, soul mate, companion, friend...and not as a baby-making machine, not a roommate, cook, not as a maid, not as an enemy...

Turn a new leaf 🍂

Be more responsible and love your wife unconditionally.

Watch out for part 2👉STOP ABUSING YOUR HUSBAND EMOTIONALLY!

Baby's Actions

Your 3years old son gets angry whenever you give him a food he doesn't want and throws it on you, you laugh and say "😃😃 children ehh"

Baby boy will lift his hands and slap you when he wants you to drop him... All you'd say is "you're beating mummy 😃"

No other child in that area messes with him... And you're calling him "A no- nonsense boy"

He picks up things from the ground and hits people whenever he's stopped from doing something... You smile and call him "action boy😃🤾🏿‍♂️🤸🏽‍♂️"

You expose him to all manner of violence and say "He's a man, man suppose get mind"

Few years down the line the teenage boy bullies his sisters, commands them around, shares slaps as souvenirs to anyone that dares to challenge him. You call him "man of the house"😃

He grew up having his way all through. Now he's a full grown man in the society. And it's not funny anymore

Abusive husbands didn't fall from the sky, someone raised a boy wrongly.

*It's easier to train a son than to correct a husband*.
We could address a lot from the root.

8 SPIRITS THAT CAUSE DELAY IN MARRIAGE FOR LADIES

1. BOY-FRIEND SPIRIT

The last thing on a Boy's Mind is Marriage.

Boys don't think of marriage, they want to have fun first, and marry later, they enter into relationships only for fun and sex,

Dear Lady, if you want marriage, stop dating boys, you'll only end up as a baby mama.. A Boy is different from a Man.

A Boy wants only Relationship.

A Man wants Marriage.

2. LORD OF THE RING SPIRIT

Aunty, say NO to Lord of the Rings oh.

Engagement ring will celebrate 7 years anniversary on someone's finger. No be juju be dat?

You're even planning to celebrate your engagement anniversary again this year. Kai.

When will he do the needful?

3. HARD TO GET

This spirit tells you not to accept a marriage proposal in a hurry, to do plenty unnecessary shakara so that the brother will not think you are cheap or desperate.

It tells you to tell him to give you nine months to pray, don't pick his calls, ignore his WhatsApp messages, behave as if you are not interested even though you are dying on the inside and truly love the brother.

This spirit will not leave you until you hear the brother is getting married to another sister, then your eyes will open and you will start saying "can't he even wait for me"

Wait for you? Because you are Jesus Christ?

4. PROUD SPIRIT

That spirit that tells you to always talk to brothers anyhow because you are beautiful, educated, and anointed.

That spirit that tells you that every brother that greets you is not your class, so you keep ignoring and looking down on them.

That spirit that doesn't allow you to greet brothers except those that ride exotic cars and wear expensive clothes.

You have use pride to look down on and trivialize all the ones God sent to you.

5. DENOMINATIONAL/TRIBAL SPIRIT

I'm a Deeper Lifer and must marry one who's a Deeper Lifer as well so our marriage will be Deep.

I am a Redeemer and must marry a Redeemer, any other Brother isn't Redeemed.

I'm from Rivers state and must marry from Rivers. River will soon carry you.

Aunty, if God is leading you to another denomination or state, kindly obey and marry, stop delaying our wedding rice.

6. BAD CHARACTER

The character of some ladies ehn.

This spirit has kept many ladies single, by the time any brother gets close because of her beautiful MASCARA, her ugly CHARACTER will chase him away.

Aunty, this year, work on your character, your date will be fixed this year in Jesus Name.

7 POOR DRESS SENSE

That spirit that tells you not to dress well because you are going to heaven. Special Heavenly candidate.

You dress and add 10 years to your age .

You dress and brothers will be greeting you "Good afternoon Ma." "Yes Ma" "Thank you Ma"

This spirit tells you to use tarpaulin to sew your dress, wear green skirt, yellow blouse and red head tie.

You dress like egungun that is going to the express to collect.

Dress well, we said don't dress indecently, we never said don't dress well.

8 SPIRITUAL PROBLEM.

This is for real, this is why I encourage everyone to be prayerful, prayer isn't only for Pastors,

Be spiritual

WHEN YOUR WIFE ENJOYS TALKING WITH YOU

Women love conversations. In fact, the worst thing you can ever do to your wife is to make her feel lonely, single and ignored in marriage.

Make your wife enjoy talking with you.

1. Create time to be with her, don't let it get to the point where she has to beg you to be with her

2. Have emotional conversations with her, listen. Do not be Mr. Facts all the time. Even you as a man have an emotional and vulnerable side, embrace it

3. Ask her how her dreams and life goals are going. Most husbands expect the wife to help him achieve his dreams but have no idea about the dreams of the wife. Show concern and be supportive

4. As much you can, come home early to her and the children. Don't give her the exhausted you where she is trying to make a connection but you black out to sleep on the sofa. Don't tip toe into the home late at night when she is asleep, she will feel ignored

5. Use the bed, not just for sleeping and sex but also for intimate conversations: pillow talks

6. Give her eye contact when she is talking to you. Don't let her compete with your phone or the television

7. Don't shout at her or intimidate her. A wife is not supposed to live in fear. You ought to be her safe spot

8. Don't belittle her conversations, ideas or feelings. If something is important to her, let it be important to you

9. Randomly call her or text her, not to give her a task, but just because you thought of her

10. Call her by a sweet name; "Hun", "Love", "Sherrie"... and don't call any other woman by that name. A woman who is made to feel special enjoys to talk

11. Know when it is time she just wants to be listened to and when she is in need of your advice. Discern. Sometimes she just wants to be heard

12. Start the day on a good note with her, tell her something like "Good morning Beautiful" and end the day on a good note, tell her something like "Good night Love". How a woman starts and ends the day with her husband means a lot to her

13. Touch her when you two are talking. Caress her, rub her hands, let her lay on your chest.. She will open up more and more, at home in your arms

14. Flirt with her. In every woman there is a naughty side. Connect with her flirty self and you will reap the benefits

15. Ask her open ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer. A woman is like a novel, she wants you to explore her by asking questions that show you are interested in her

16. Apologise to her when you wrong her. A woman who loves you wants to quickly forgive you and go back to warmth with you, make it easy for her by saying "I am sorry"

17. Have a good laugh with her. Anyone a woman laughs with she grows close with

18. Compliment her, tell her how beautiful she is and how great she is. Other people might tell her this but the one she wants to hear this from is you

As you do this, as you water your wife, you will see her glow in your presence, you will fall in love over and over again, you will look at her and be proud of yourself because of how you love her. Making your wife smile should bring you pleasure like it did the days you freshly pursued her.

The man who loves his wife loves himself

BE _OPEN _BUT _DON'T_BE_LOOSE

To have total control over your life, learn to have good control over your mout

Real talk is from the brain not from opening the mouth

Two things will make people listen to you. Either you tell them what they love to hear or you talk to them with problems facing their lives

What's the point of sleeping when you can't close your eyes, there's no point in singing where nobody wanna hear your voice. Knowledge is knowing what to say while wisdon is knowing where and when to say it. Whoever sings an obituary song at a wedding ceremony wil blame himself

The dangers of the mouth is more poisonous than the bite of snake

To whom brain is given, common sense is expected

Whoever wants to talk should talk with sense and whoever wants to listen should listen with brain

Never get carried away by the sweetness of mouth. Pay more attention to the actions and listen less to words

Think now and talk later. A keyless mouth can lead to a valueless lif

You don't have to be nude to be naked

No amount of clothing can cover a person whose mouth lacks control

Never trust a new friend with all your mouth

If you have a secret keep it to yourself

Once its out of your mouth, its already in the news

Never allow anyone to subject you to silence in life

A problem shared is half solved, but be very careful from who and where you seek advice. A listening ear is better than a running mouth, always make sure your confidant is also not a loud speaker

Remember everybody in life has a dirty linen in their close

Never wash your own in public

Learn to keep to yourself whatever brings you happiness

Not all those who tells you good morning wish you good morning in life

There are three sides to every stories in life. Not everybody will say the truth when it comes to self defense

Everybody has a right to freedom of speech, but if you are not feeling what you are saying, stop saying what you feel

Never feel sorry for saying truth, but be true to yourself when saying the truth

When you add sentiments to the truth it becomes attack

Whoever you accused wrongly may never forget

When you're short of words, use silence. Silence doesn't always mean you are afraid or weak

Remember your words may be misinterpreted but no one in this world can misquote a silent person

A closed mouth can also be a closed destiny. BE OPEN BUT DONT BE LOOSE...........t........e........h.*

Funny battle

So when I was 3years old my mother had a fight with Mama Nkechi

I was playing with my sand outside the house when my mother returned angrily from the market and dropped the items she had bought from the market. She then told my dad how mama Nkechi mocked her and how she was going to deal with her.

I stood up and went inside to see what was happening.

My mother was asking my dad to come with her so they can fight the battle together, but my dad insisted that the matter is a woman's matter and since her husband is not involved in the fight, she should handle it woman to woman.

This was how my mother grabbed my hands and landed me on her back. She carried wrapper and tied me on her back.

Fear gripped me.

I could not talk. I kept looking at my father who watched in shock.

"So where are you taking my son to?"

"If you are not coming with me, Chidera will follow me and fight the battle."

"Don't injure my son o."

Tears started coming out of my eyes.

I started talking in Baby's language.

"Mummy I don't want battle."

My mother wasn't listening. She kept walking fast.

"We would fight the battle with my son. You want to show me you have a baby who is 1year old. My baby is 2year old. We would see.

We arrived at Mama Nkechi's shop and my mother went straight to her and slapped her with iron fist.

Mama Nkechi who was backing her baby behind stood up and dropped her child in her shop. My mother also dropped me on the floor and the both women started fighting.

The fight was going well and my mother was winning the battle until Mama Nkechi lost balance and fell on me. Her armpit which was smelling crayfish covered my nose and I started shouting.

On seeing this, my mother Ran to her daughter Nkechi and used her armpit to clean Nkechi's face.

"Fight me and leave my child alone. If you touch my son, I will touch your daughter. Shey you want to tell me you have pikin."

Mama Nkechi did not like this. So she ran to me and poured me saliva.

My mother did not waste time.

She accumulated her own saliva and wired it on Nkechi's face.

That was when Mama Nkechi removed her trouser and started approaching me with her naked buttocks.

On seeing this, knowing that my mother will retaliate, Nkechi shouted "Jesus Christ" and ran into the shop to hide under the bench.

I don't know where energy came from. I stood up for the first time and started running home to meet my father.

My mother kept shouting.

"Chidera come here. Does she want to clean her nyansh on your face? Don't be afraid. Be a man. Come here let me see what she will do to you. If she do it to you, I will catch her pikin and do it to her pikin."

I was crying for my life and running with all my energy.

Battle I did not plan for.

COPIED