Tuesday 19 April 2022

STOP ABUSING YOUR WIFE EMOTIONALLY!


Sir, stop abusing your wife emotionally.

Yes, you have never raised your hand to beat up your wife πŸ€”πŸ€” truly, you are giving her money for upkeep and food but what you are doing to her emotionally is worst than beating her.

You treat your wife like trash, you never treat her like a human,
you never value or respect her, you never consult her in your decision making, you come home as you please, you go to work in the morning, come back home late at night leaving your wife awake waiting for your arrival.

Your wife is not your friend, you never spend time with her, you never appreciate anything she does for you, you shatter and call her bad names before your friends and family.

You never want to know if she is in the mood sexually, you always have your way.

Your wife doesn't have a say, you never listen to her advice, you never for once assist her with domestic work.

You are the type that believes in the worldly fallacy that when you give a woman a chance, she will take you for granted, that is why you never allow her to be close to you because you don't want to be taken for grantedπŸ€”

You never crack jokes with your wife but you are jovial outside your home and on social media.

You never call your wife sweet names but you address other women with sweet names.

You yell at her every time you have a little misunderstanding.

It's a crime for your wife to sit down in the sitting room every time you are around, she must bury her face in the bedroom or be busy moving up and down with domestic workπŸ€”

Weldone Mr Tyrant.

Your wife never enjoyed you since you married her, she doesn't have a good memory of you, she never misses you every time you travel, in fact, she always wishes you stay long on your journey.

You don't show care and concern to your wife every time she is sick.

You call her lazy and yell at her every time she's pregnant.

Can you count the number of times you have rejected your wife's food because of a baseless issue?

Every time you have a little misunderstanding with your wife, you always leave the house and stay for days before you come back home.

You never connect or have the heart to heart discussions with your wife.

Your communication with your wife is very poor, you always refer to past occurrences every time your wife offended you.

To you, it's taboo to call your wife on phone and ask about her well being every time you are not around, you only call her when you have information to pass across to her.

You don't even know how your children are fed, your children's school fee is not your concern.

You don't want her on social media and you have chased friends and family away from her.

When last did you eat together on the same plate with your wife?

When last did you pray together with your wife?

When last did you play together?

When last have you slept together on the same bed in the same room as husband and wife?

You only sleep together whenever you want to have sex with her, no foreplay, no talking, no touching...you always go straight to what you are after (sex).

No forgiveness in your dictionary, you even have a diary for your wife's wrongdoing πŸ€”

Your wife always cries silently praying to God to touch your heart.

#Stop #torturing #your #wife #emotionally, put yourself in her shoes πŸ‘ ...

Remember, she is a human being like you, it's the blood that flows through her vein too, she needs care and love.

She needs affection and attention.

She wants you to be intentional in your commitment to her.

She wants to be valued and respected.

She wants you to be proud of her.

She wants you to praise, appreciate and call her sweet names.

She wants to connect and be more intimate with you.

She wants you to be responsible and available.

She wants you to see her as a wife, companion, confidant, soul mate, companion, friend...and not as a baby-making machine, not a roommate, cook, not as a maid, not as an enemy...

Turn a new leaf πŸ‚

Be more responsible and love your wife unconditionally.

Watch out for part 2πŸ‘‰STOP ABUSING YOUR HUSBAND EMOTIONALLY!

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