The Truth About Fake Catholic Churches in Nigeria: How to Spot a Genuine Catholic Mass.

Earlier today, I made a post saying, “Not all Catholic priests are Roman Catholic priests.” Sounds confusing, right? Well, that was exactly the point—to get people thinking! I wanted to open up a conversation with my online parishioners about the beautiful diversity within the Catholic Church, especially when it comes to the different rites and traditions.

But guess what? The comment section and My Dm  turned into a mini investigation room! From what I gathered, there are already quite a number of churches in Nigeria calling themselves “Catholic”—but many of them are not in communion with Rome, and some aren’t even part of the 23 legitimate Eastern Catholic Churches. They’re independent groups started by individuals who simply attach “Catholic” to their names to sound authentic or authoritative.

Let’s be real: not everyone who wears a collar or celebrates “Mass” under the name Catholic is actually connected to the Roman Catholic Church or any of the Eastern Catholic Churches in union with the Pope.

Take, for instance, the Old Catholic Apostolic Church (OCAC). They operate in Nigeria and claim to follow the original teachings of the Church, but they’re not under the authority of the Pope. In fact, in 2024, the Diocese of Ahiara (Imo State) had to issue a statement distancing themselves from someone claiming to be a priest from the OCAC. Why? Because he's not a Roman Catholic priest, and his sacraments aren’t valid according to our faith.

Another example is from Enugu, where a group calling themselves the Old Roman Catholic Church have been holding liturgies that mimic the Roman Rite. The Catholic Diocese of Enugu came out clearly and said, “These guys are NOT us.” Despite dressing the part and using familiar prayers, they’re not in union with the Universal Church.

So here’s my gentle pastoral advice:

Be vigilant. Before attending a Mass or receiving any sacrament, 

make sure the church is truly Roman Catholic—or at least one of the 23 legitimate Catholic Churches in communion with the Pope. If you’re unsure, ask a trusted priest or check with your local diocese.

Remember, using the word "Catholic" doesn’t automatically make something Catholic in truth. Let’s stay alert, informed, and faithful.

Stay blessed and guided!

The 23 are as follows;

1. Alexandrian Tradition

1. Coptic Catholic Church

2. Eritrean Catholic Church

3. Ethiopian Catholic Church

2. Antiochian (West Syrian) Tradition

4. Maronite Church

5. Syriac Catholic Church

6. Syro-Malankara Catholic Church

3. Armenian Tradition

7. Armenian Catholic Church

4. Chaldean (East Syrian) Tradition

8. Chaldean Catholic Church

9. Syro-Malabar Catholic Church

5. Byzantine (Constantinopolitan) Tradition

10. Albanian Greek Catholic Church

11. Belarusian Greek Catholic Church

12. Bulgarian Greek Catholic Church

13. Greek Catholic Church of Croatia and Serbia

14. Greek Catholic Church of Macedonia

15. Greek Catholic Church of Hungary

16. Italo-Albanian Catholic Church

17. Melkite Greek Catholic Church

18. Romanian Greek Catholic Church

19. Russian Greek Catholic Church

20. Ruthenian Greek Catholic Church

21. Slovak Greek Catholic Church

22. Ukrainian Greek Catholic Church

23. Latin (Western) Church

©Fada Prince Chidi

The Catholic Knights – Warriors for God or Occultic Brotherhood in Disguise?

Let’s talk about something people whisper about but rarely say out loud: What’s really going on with the so-called Catholic “Knights” in our churches today?

I mean, let’s be honest. When you hear “Knight of Saint Mulumba” what comes to mind? Is it a prayerful servant of God… or a rich man in agbada with a big ring, bigger stomach, and even bigger secrets?

Let’s talk about a group in the Catholic Church that everyone knows—but few truly understand: The Knights. You’ve seen them in big robes, sitting in front during Mass, sometimes moving like VIPs. But who are they really?

A knight is traditionally a military warrior who has been granted an honorary title for service, bravery, or loyalty—often tied to religious and moral codes like chivalry.

In the Catholic Church context, a knight is typically a lay member of a religious order or brotherhood who pledges to live out Christian values through charity, service, and defense of the faith.

Historically, the idea of knights started in Europe during the Crusades (around 11th–13th century). These were not just rich men in robes—they were real warriors who protected Christians traveling to the Holy Land, fought in battles to defend the Church, and even helped the poor and sick. Think of Knights Templar, Knights of Malta, and Knights Hospitaller.

These men took vows—yes, like priests!—of poverty, chastity, and obedience. They were known for discipline, prayer, and courage but they are not priests. 

Today’s Knights: What Happened?

In modern times, we still have knight groups like:

• Knights of Columbus (worldwide)

• Knights of Saint Mulumba (common in Nigeria)

These are laymen (not priests) who vow to defend the Church, support charitable works, and live good Catholic lives.

But let’s be honest—many people don’t trust them anymore. Why?

From Knights to Night Men – What Nigerian Movies like "The Mighty Men, Occult Knights, and The Order" depict supposed Catholic knights as wealthy men masking occultic activities behind a cross and title. While dramatized, these stories reflect real societal fears: that some “knights” use their positions for influence, not faith.

In many Nigerian movies, knights are portrayed as rich men hiding behind the cross, using their title to cover up occult practices. Some may say, “Father, is this not true?” And I say: in some cases, yes. Some have used their titles for manipulation, politics, and control, not for Christ.

But there are still many genuine Catholic knights:

• Men who sponsor poor children through school.

• Knights who help build churches in villages.

• Knights who pray the Rosary daily and lead their families in faith.

• Knights who give generously—not to show off, but to serve God.

So, Are Knights Still Important?

Yes—but only when they are true to Christ.

The Church needs men of courage, faith, and love—not just title holders who disappear when there’s work, but show up when there’s praise.

We need knights who:

• Defend the weak

• Speak truth in corrupt systems

• Serve the poor without expecting applause

• Live holy, humble lives

If you're already a knight, ask yourself:

• Am I representing Jesus or just chasing status?

• Do people see light in me—or darkness?

And if you're not a knight, remember: Every Christian is called to be a spiritual knight—a warrior for truth, justice, and love.

Don’t just wear the robe. Wear the armor of God. 

Rev Fr Prince Chidi Philip

Not All Catholic Priests Are Roman Catholic Priests!

Wait—Did You Know? Not All Catholic Priests Are Roman Catholic Priests!

Sounds wild, right? But it’s true!

Most of the time when people hear “Catholic priest,” they think of a man in black with a Roman collar, probably under the Pope’s leadership in Rome. That’s the Roman Catholic priest. But here’s the catch:

There are Catholic priests who aren’t Roman Catholic. And they’re just as Catholic!

So, who are these “other” Catholic priests?

They belong to what's called the Eastern Catholic Churches—these are Catholic Churches with different traditions, different styles of Mass, and even… wait for it… some married priests!

These churches include:

• Maronite Catholic

• Byzantine Catholic

• Chaldean Catholic

• Melkite Catholic, and more!

They are fully united with the Pope in Rome, believe in the same core teachings, and receive the same Eucharist—but they don’t always follow the Roman (Latin) way of doing things.

How Did This Happen?

It goes all the way back to a church breakup in 1054 AD, called the Great Schism. The Church in the West (Rome) and the Church in the East (Constantinople) had some major disagreements:

• Who’s in charge? (Rome or Constantinople?)

• Can priests marry?

• What’s the correct wording in the Creed?

• And how much authority should the Pope really have?

So, the Church split—some went the Roman way, and others the Eastern way. Over time, some Eastern groups came back into unity with Rome, but they kept their unique styles, including their own Catholic priests who are not Roman Catholic.

So, What Should We Remember?

• All Roman Catholic priests are Catholic.

• But not all Catholic priests are Roman Catholic.

• And that’s okay! The Church is one big family with many rooms—same faith, different expressions!

Now you can impress your friends at Bible study or catechism class:

“Hey, did you know Catholic priests aren’t all Roman?”

©Rev Fr Prince Chidi Philip

Holy Thursday: A Sacred First for MePriestly vows/promises Renewal Day

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Today isn’t just another day in Holy Week—it’s Holy Thursday, a day rich in meaning, tradition, and grace. But for me, it carries a special, once-in-a-lifetime significance: it’s my first time participating in the Chrism Mass and renewing my priestly vows as a newly ordained priest.

So, what exactly is the Chrism Mass?

Held in cathedrals around the world, the Chrism Mass is a beautiful liturgy where the bishop gathers with all the priests of the diocese. During this Mass, three sacred oils are blessed:

• The Oil of Catechumens (used in baptism),

• The Oil of the Sick (for anointing the sick), and

• The Sacred Chrism (used in baptism, confirmation, and ordination).

These oils will be used throughout the year in parishes—so in a way, today's Mass is a spiritual supply day for the entire Church!

But there's more.

The Chrism Mass is also when priests renew their priestly promises. Standing shoulder to shoulder with brother priests, we respond to the bishop's invitation to renew our commitment to serve God’s people with love, integrity, and joy. It's like a spiritual anniversary reminder—a chance to go back to the "why" of our vocation and rekindle the fire that led us here.

And for me—this year—it’s my first.

My first Chrism Mass.

My first renewal of vows.

My first Holy Thursday as a priest.

As the oils are lifted, and the promises echoed, I silently pray:

"He who calls me is faithful, and He will do it." (1 Thess 5:24)

May this Holy Thursday pour out fresh oil on every priest, every faithful heart, and may the spirit of service and joy be renewed in us all.

© Fada Prince Chidi Philip

Why Nigeria Catholic Church Doesn’t Have Permanent Deacons (Yet) – And Why That Might Change.

One day you might be calling your neighbor not just “Mr. Okonkwo,” but “Deacon Okonkwo”—and that wouldn’t be a bad thing at all. Let's scoop deeper..

In the Catholic Church, when you hear "deacon," most people think of someone on their way to becoming a priest. You know, the transitional deacon—the pit stop before the altar. But lo and behold, there's another type that doesn’t always get the spotlight: the Permanent Deacon.

Think of the permanent deacon as the Church’s version of a Swiss Army knife. He's ordained, wears the clerical collar, preaches at Mass, baptizes, officiates weddings, conducts funerals, and sometimes even pulls double duty as your favorite uncle at family events. But here’s the twist—he doesn’t become a priest, and he might even have a wife and kids at home!

So, who is he? 

A permanent deacon is a man (often married) who feels called to serve the Church not just for a season but for a lifetime—permanently, hence the name. He lives among the people, works like the people, and yet serves like Christ the Servant. He’s a bridge between the sanctuary and the street, the pulpit and the people.

Why is this awesome? 

Because the Church gets more workers in the vineyard! With priests often stretched thin, the permanent deacon can take some pressure off, allowing the priest to focus more on the sacraments and pastoral care. It’s teamwork, really—divine teamwork.

Now, let’s talk Nigeria… You might ask, “If this is so good, why don’t we see more of them in countries like Nigeria?” Good question.

Here’s the scoop: In many African countries—Nigeria included—the idea of the permanent diaconate hasn’t fully taken root. Not because the people aren’t worthy, or the Church doesn’t care, but because of a mix of cultural, pastoral, and practical reasons.

Cultural Perception: In Nigeria, many still see the hierarchy as priest-or-nothing. If you’re wearing a collar, people assume you’re on your way to priesthood. A deacon who stays a deacon? It’s unfamiliar territory. People might start whispering, "Did he fail seminary?" 

Clerical Identity: Some bishops are cautious. They fear that introducing married clergy (even in the form of deacons) could confuse the faithful or blur the lines in a country where clerical respect is deeply tied to celibacy.

Vocations Abundance: Ironically, Nigeria has been blessed with a high number of priestly vocations. So some bishops may feel there’s no urgent need to “supplement” with permanent deacons.

Formation and Structure: Establishing a permanent diaconate program isn’t just about saying “yes.” It requires proper formation, support systems, ongoing training, and clear roles. Some dioceses are still building this infrastructure.

But times are changing… As parish populations grow, priests become fewer in some regions, and communities need more outreach—some bishops are starting to reconsider. The idea of a married man who knows village life, local culture, and Church doctrine is sounding more like a blessing and less like a theological headache.

Permanent deacons may not yet be a common sight in Nigeria, but their time might be coming. They are the Church’s servant-leaders, ready to preach, baptize, and even help set up the church tent when the choir gets too loud. They are proof that the Church has room for more than one path to holiness and service.

Rev. Brothers vs. Permanent Deacons:

Rev. Brothers vs. Permanent Deacons: Who Can get married,  Raise a Family and Who Can’t Even Date?

Rev. Brother

A Rev. Brother is like that super-dedicated guy who said to Jesus,

"I’m all in. No wife, no wealth, just You and Your mission."

He lives in a religious community (like the Franciscans, Salesians, etc.).

He takes vows—usually poverty, chastity, and obedience.

He doesn’t get married. Nope. Not even maybe.

No wife, no dating, no “future Mrs. Just a rev Brother.”

He’s not a priest. That means:

No Mass, no Confession, no Anointing.

But he does a LOT of other amazing things: teaching, helping the poor, youth ministry, you name it!

Now, Meet Permanent Deacon

And yes—he’s a clergy member too!

A Permanent Deacon is ordained through the Sacrament of Holy Orders. He’s the real deal. Clergy with a capital “C.”

He can preach homilies, baptize babies, marry couples, bless stuff, etc

But he can’t say Mass, can’t consecrate the Eucharist, and can’t hear confessions.

That’s the priest’s lane.

Permanent Deacons can be married—but only if they were married before being ordained.

Once ordained, if they’re single, they stay single. If they’re married and their wife dies… sorry, no remarriage.

Ten sexual rules for men.

1. Do not sleep with your students, employees, staff, or anyone you have considerable power over. It will definitely not end well.

2. So not be foolish enough to indulge in one night stands.

You could easily be set up or killed if you are known to indulge perpetually.

3. If you must have sex outside your relationship or marriage, make sure you pay for it and ensure there is a virtual receipt of the transaction.

Just in case.....

4. Refrain from promising a woman marriage in order to sleep with her.

It is a gutter behavior.

Also refrain from making promises when you are naked.

90% of the time you will be unable to keep them.

5. Do not sleep with a woman who is in a lower social standing than you. I don't care how beautiful she is.

Especially if you have nothing serious intended with her.

Because all her hopes and dreams will be entrusted to you.... And it is a dangerous place to be.

6. Do not sleep with lady who has nothing going on for herself.

(i.e; No job, No career, No skills, No ambition.... Etc.)

They are most likely to trap you with a pregnancy, to ensure you continue to feed them.

7. If you find yourself using a condom, then you probably shouldn't be sleeping with that particular woman.

8. Stay away from the Ex's of your friends, brothers or family.

Because, human emotions are complicated. Your friends and family may verbally give you the go ahead but deep down they may resent you for it; especially if there are still lingering feelings for the so called Ex'es.

9. In the course of your life, a lot of women will willingly offer you sex.

Be highly selective. Not out of pride, but out of responsibility.

Because the result of sex is pregnancy.

Sleep only with women you are sure can effectively raise your kids.

10. A high body count will mess you up mentally. Many times you will find yourself out of the blue craving sex with a sexual partner from the past.

This is because of the highly chemical and spiritual nature of sex.

Keep your body count low.

A wise king in the bible who Married a thousand wives came out to say...

It's all vanity.

And he died badly....

Learn from his mistakes.

Shei you grab!!!!

Your virgin sharwama husband!!!

#Saimaster

Wealth Looks Like a crime in Africa

In Nigeria — and most parts of Africa — we have mastered the art of demonizing success. We equates poverty with holiness and wealth with wickedness

If a young man is rich:

“Yahoo boy!”

If it’s an older man:

“Ritualist!”

If a young woman is living well:

“Runs girl!” or “Prostitute!”

If she’s older and still doing well:

“Retired prostitute” or “witch!”

At this point, I’m wondering — must someone be hungry and tattered before we believe they are holy?

We have romanticized poverty and baptized it as spirituality — forgetting that riches, too, are a blessing from God.

Let’s flip through the Bible real quick:

Abraham was very rich in livestock, silver, and gold (Genesis 13:2).

Isaac sowed in the land and reaped a hundredfold — the man became rich, and continued to grow richer until he became very wealthy (Genesis 26:12-13).

Jacob left with a staff and returned with a nation.

Joseph moved from prison to prime minister, handling the entire wealth of Egypt.

David and Solomon? Their riches would make billionaires today look like beginners. Solomon literally made silver "as common as stones" (2 Chronicles 1:15)!

Now flip to the New Testament:

The wise men who came to Jesus brought gold, frankincense, and myrrh — expensive gifts. They didn’t come with suffering and salt.

Joseph of Arimathea, who gave Jesus his tomb, was a rich man and a disciple (Matthew 27:57).

Lydia, the seller of purple, was a businesswoman who hosted Paul — and purple wasn’t cheap back then (Acts 16:14-15).

Even Jesus Himself had a treasurer (Judas), which means… there was something to manage!

So tell me again — where did we get the idea that being rich means being evil?

God blesses those who worship Him, not only with peace and salvation but also with provision.

Wealth is a tool, not a trap — it depends on the heart of the holder.

Instead of casting stones at the wealthy, let’s ask:

“God, bless me too — and prepare my heart to carry it wisely.”

Because poverty is not a spiritual gift. And heaven is not broke.

Rev Fr Prince Chidi Philip

100 EXAMPLES OF ALLITERATION IN ENGLISH!!!

DEFINITION OF ALLITERATION AS A FIGURE OF SPEECH:

Alliteration is a figure of speech in which two or more words in a phrase or sentence begin with the same consonant sound. It is used to create rhythm, emphasis, and mood, especially in poetry and literature. The repetition is usually of the initial consonant sound in closely connected words.

1. Young yonder yard yelled. All words start with 'Y'.

2. Red ran raging rocks. All words start with 'R'.

3. High hearts hopped held. All words start with 'H'.

4. Pink played peacefully pond. All words start with 'P'.

5. Long loudly lazy low. All words start with 'L'.

6. Kind kites kept knowledge. All words start with 'K'.

7. Great green giants grow. All words start with 'G'.

8. Fast furry foxes fled. All words start with 'F'.

9. Jolly jungle jumps joyful. All words start with 'J'.

10. Tiny tigers tiptoed today. All words start with 'T'.

11. Silly snakes slide silently. All words start with 'S'.

12. Big brave bears bounced. All words start with 'B'.

13. Naughty nurses nodded near. All words start with 'N'.

14. Dark dreams dropped deeply. All words start with 'D'.

15. Vast valleys vanished very. All words start with 'V'.

16. Wild wolves wandered west. All words start with 'W'.

17. Cold clever cats chased. All words start with 'C'.

18. Mighty mountains moved mice. All words start with 'M'.

19. Zany zebras zoomed zealously. All words start with 'Z'.

20. Quick quails quarreled quietly. All words start with 'Q'.

21. Glowing grapes grew greatly. All words start with 'G'.

22. Happy hollow hills hopped. All words start with 'H'.

23. Bright bold birds bounced. All words start with 'B'.

24. Clever clouds climbed calmly. All words start with 'C'.

25. Soft snow silently slipped. All words start with 'S'.

26. Fierce foxes fought fearlessly. All words start with 'F'.

27. Peaceful pink pandas played. All words start with 'P'.

28. Tall trees trembled tonight. All words start with 'T'.

29. Loud lions laughed long. All words start with 'L'.

30. Deep dark dreams drifted. All words start with 'D'.

31. Jumpy jaguars joked joyfully. All words start with 'J'.

32. Quick quiet queens quested. All words start with 'Q'.

33. Kind kings kept kites. All words start with 'K'.

34. Noisy nightingales nodded nightly. All words start with 'N'.

35. Violet vines vanished vividly. All words start with 'V'.

36. Witty weasels wandered widely. All words start with 'W'.

37. Crazy cats clawed couches. All words start with 'C'.

38. Hollow hills held hope. All words start with 'H'.

39. Zebras zigzagged zealously zones. All words start with 'Z'.

40. Loving lions lounged lazily. All words start with 'L'.

41. Bright blazing bonfires burned. All words start with 'B'.

42. Foolish frogs flipped fast. All words start with 'F'.

43. Daring dogs danced delightfully. All words start with 'D'.

44. Raging rivers rushed rapidly. All words start with 'R'.

45. Singing sparrows soared silently. All words start with 'S'.

46. Gentle giants gathered grapes. All words start with 'G'.

47. Mice met moonlit mountains. All words start with 'M'.

48. Jealous jellyfish jumped joylessly. All words start with 'J'.

49. Wonderful white wolves wandered. All words start with 'W'.

50. Quiet quokkas questioned quickly. All words start with 'Q'.

51. Bright blue birds burst. All words start with 'B'.

52. Lazy leopards lounged long. All words start with 'L'.

53. Cheerful children chased chickens. All words start with 'C'.

54. Dark days delivered doubt. All words start with 'D'.

55. Friendly frogs fished freely. All words start with 'F'.

56. Grumpy goats grabbed grapes. All words start with 'G'.

57. Happy hippos hopped heavily. All words start with 'H'.

58. Icy igloos isolated instantly. All words start with 'I'. (Note: Rare alliteration with vowels)

59. Joyful jesters juggled jellies. All words start with 'J'.

60. Kind kangaroos kicked kindly. All words start with 'K'.

61. Moody monkeys marched madly. All words start with 'M'.

62. Nifty narwhals navigated north. All words start with 'N'.

63. Odd owls observed openly. All words start with 'O'.

64. Playful parrots pecked pears. All words start with 'P'.

65. Quiet quokkas quickly quit. All words start with 'Q'.

66. Rowdy roosters raced rapidly. All words start with 'R'.

67. Sneaky snakes slithered slowly. All words start with 'S'.

68. Tired tigers took turns. All words start with 'T'.

69. Ugly urchins urged upward. All words start with 'U'.

70. Violent vultures veered violently. All words start with 'V'.

71. Wandering whales whistled wildly. All words start with 'W'.

72. Xenophobic xylophones xeroxed xenon. All words start with 'X'. (A stretch, but used poetically)

73. Youthful yaks yawned yearly. All words start with 'Y'.

74. Zebra zookeepers zigzagged zestfully. All words start with 'Z'.

75. Angry ants ate apples. All words start with 'A'.

76. Big balloons burst boldly. All words start with 'B'.

77. Clean cats climbed cliffs. All words start with 'C'.

78. Dizzy ducks dove deep. All words start with 'D'.

79. Eager eagles eyed earth. All words start with 'E'.

80. Fluffy foxes fetched feathers. All words start with 'F'.

81. Golden geese glided gracefully. All words start with 'G'.

82. Hungry hyenas hurried home. All words start with 'H'.

83. Iridescent iguanas ignored insects. All words start with 'I'.

84. Jumpy jackals juggled jellybeans. All words start with 'J'.

85. Keen koalas kept keys. All words start with 'K'.

86. Loyal lambs leaped lightly. All words start with 'L'.

87. Merry meerkats mimicked melodies. All words start with 'M'.

88. Neat newts navigated nests. All words start with 'N'.

89. Open otters observed oceans. All words start with 'O'.

90. Proud peacocks paraded proudly. All words start with 'P'.

91. Quiet queens questioned quakes. All words start with 'Q'.

92. Rapid rabbits raced rivers. All words start with 'R'.

93. Shy sheep shared shelters. All words start with 'S'.

94. Tiny turtles trotted timidly. All words start with 'T'.

95. Unique unicorns used umbrellas. All words start with 'U'.

96. Vain vampires vanished voluntarily. All words start with 'V'.

97. Wise wolves watched waterfalls. All words start with 'W'.

98. Xylophones x-rayed xenophobic xenops. Poetic use of 'X'.

99. Young yaks yelped yesterday. All words start with 'Y'.

100. Zigzagging zombies zipped zealously. All words start with 'Z'.

CAN AN IMPOTENT MAN BECOME A ROMAN CATHOLIC PRIEST?

 My Answer may surprise you…”

According to Church law, impotence is not an impediment to priesthood. Since priests are celibate, sexual function isn’t required for ordination.

But in Nigeria, it’s common for dioceses to require an impotence test before ordination. And not everyone is okay with that.

Take My friend Emeka, a seminarian in his final year. After 9 years of formation, prayer, and study, he received a letter from the diocesan office:

“All candidates are to undergo a full medical exam, including an impotence test.”

He was shocked. Why test something I’ll never use? he wondered. Isn’t celibacy enough? Emeka felt hurt — like his spiritual journey was being reduced to a medical report. 

In places like Nigeria, where priests are deeply visible figures, this step is more than medical — it’s pastoral prudence. It guards the Church, the priest, and the people of God.

So yes, an impotent man can become a priest. But in some places, the path includes unexpected tests — not out of mistrust, but out of love and responsibility.

Before ordination: Can impotence affect a man’s ordination?

Yes and No

According to Canon Law, there is no requirement for a man to be sexually potent in order to be ordained a priest.

But… in practice, it can become a concern if:

1. It’s linked to deeper medical or psychological issues

If the impotence is part of a larger health condition (e.g., hormonal imbalance, severe anxiety, trauma, or a congenital disorder), the bishop or superiors may pause or postpone ordination — not because of the impotence itself, but to assess:

Can he handle the rigors of ministry?

Is he emotionally and mentally stable?

Will he need ongoing treatment or support?

2. It raises questions about transparency or maturity

If the seminarian hides his condition or is dishonest about it, that can be more problematic than the impotence itself. The Church values truthfulness, transparency, and readiness.

3. Local customs or expectations apply

In some dioceses (like parts of Nigeria), the impotence test is a local requirement. If a candidate fails the test, the bishop may delay or withhold ordination — not because of Canon Law, but because of pastoral concerns, cultural expectations, or the potential for scandal.

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Placebo Effect

A prisoner was sentenced to death by hanging, but a group of scientists wanted to test the limits of human belief and the power of the mind. They told him that instead of a hanging, he would be killed by a venomous snakebite. 

To make it more convincing, they showed him a large, terrifying cobra. The prisoner, filled with fear, was then blindfolded. Unbeknownst to him, the scientists used a sharp needle to prick his hand in the same spot where a snake's fangs would strike, simulating a snakebite. 

As they watched from a distance, the prisoner, believing he was poisoned by the snake, began to feel the effects of venom coursing through his body. 

Despite there being no actual venom, the man’s belief in the snakebite led to his rapid physical decline. Within minutes, the man collapsed and died.

This phenomenon, though shocking, is known as the placebo effect where belief and expectation can bring about real physical outcomes. It illustrates just how powerful the mind can be. 

The mind can shape our reality, either for better or for worse. In this case, the prisoner’s belief in his fate was so strong that it caused his body to react as though the bite had truly occurred, even though it had not.

This story teaches us a crucial lesson: our thoughts, beliefs, and perceptions have a profound impact on our well-being. What we believe about ourselves and our lives can either uplift us or tear us down. 

Therefore, it’s essential to maintain a positive outlook, as our minds have the potential to shape our realities. Never underestimate the power of your thoughts. Choose to believe in your strength and potential, for your mind can be your greatest ally in overcoming challenges.

300 ENGLISH IDIOMS AND THEIR MEANINGS:

1. A piece of cake - Something very easy to do.

2. Hit the nail on the head - To describe exactly what is causing a situation or problem.

3. Break the ice - To initiate conversation in a social setting.

4. Cost an arm and a leg - To be very expensive.

5. Let the cat out of the bag - To reveal a secret.

6. Barking up the wrong tree - To pursue the wrong course of action or to have a mistaken belief.

7. Don't cry over spilled milk - Don't waste time worrying about something that has already happened and cannot be changed.

8. Kick the bucket - To die.

9. Jump on the bandwagon - To join a popular trend or activity.

10. Bite the bullet - To endure a painful or difficult situation.

11. Break the camel's back - To be the final straw that causes a situation to become intolerable.

12. Cut to the chase - To get to the main point without wasting time.

13. Fish out of water - To feel uncomfortable in a new or unfamiliar situation.

14. It's raining cats and dogs - It's raining heavily.

15. Kill two birds with one stone - To accomplish two tasks with a single action.

16. Miss the boat - To miss an opportunity.

17. Once in a blue moon - Very rarely.

18. Paint the town red - To go out and have a wild or enjoyable time.

19. Pull someone's leg - To tease or joke with someone.

20. Take the bull by the horns - To confront a difficult situation directly.

21. All ears - Fully attentive and eager to listen.

22. Burn the midnight oil - To work late into the night.

23. Don't judge a book by its cover - Don't form an opinion based solely on appearances.

24. Get cold feet - To become nervous or hesitant about doing something.

25. Keep an eye on - To watch or monitor closely.

26. Make a long story short - To summarize something briefly.

27. Out of the blue - Unexpectedly or without warning.

28. Put all your eggs in one basket - To risk everything on a single venture.

29. Spill the beans - To disclose secret information.

30. Under the weather - Feeling unwell or sick.

31. A dime a dozen - Very common and not valuable.

32. Back to the drawing board - To start over again because a previous attempt was unsuccessful.

33. Don't put all your eggs in one basket - Do not risk everything on one opportunity.

34. Go the extra mile - To make additional effort or do more than what is expected.

35. Hit the sack - To go to bed.

36. Kick the can down the road - To postpone dealing with a problem.

37. Make hay while the sun shines - To take advantage of an opportunity.

38. On the ball - Alert, competent, and efficient.

39. Piece of the pie - A share in something, especially profits.

40. Take it with a grain of salt - To be skeptical about something or not take it too seriously.

41. Break a leg - A way to wish someone good luck, especially before a performance.

42. Cut corners - To do something in the easiest or cheapest way, often sacrificing quality.

43. Drive someone up the wall - To irritate or annoy someone greatly.

44. Get off on the wrong foot - To start a relationship or activity badly.

45. Keep your chin up - To stay optimistic in a difficult situation.

46. Make a mountain out of a molehill - To exaggerate the importance of something small.

47. Penny for your thoughts - A way to ask someone what they are thinking about.

48. Put your best foot forward - To make a good impression by trying your hardest.

49. Save face - To avoid embarrassment or humiliation.

50. The ball is in your court - It's your turn to make a decision or take action.

51. Beat around the bush - To avoid addressing an issue directly.

52. Don't count your chickens before they hatch - Don't assume success before it's certain.

53. Elephant in the room - An obvious problem or issue that everyone ignores.

54. Feather in one's cap - An accomplishment or honor to be proud of.

55. Give someone the cold shoulder - To intentionally ignore or snub someone.

56. Hit the ground running - To start something quickly and with great energy.

57. In hot water - In trouble or facing difficulties.

58. Jump the gun - To act prematurely or before the appropriate time.

59. Let sleeping dogs lie - To avoid stirring up old conflicts or problems.

60. Needle in a haystack - Something extremely difficult to find.

61. On thin ice - In a risky or precarious situation.

62. Play devil's advocate - To argue the opposite side of an issue for the sake of debate.

63. Rule of thumb - A general principle or guideline.

64. Straight from the horse's mouth - Directly from the original or authoritative source.

65. Time flies when you're having fun - Time seems to pass quickly during enjoyable activities.

66. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush - It's better to have something certain than to risk losing it by trying to get something better.

67. Blood is thicker than water - Family bonds are stronger than other relationships.

68. Don't put the cart before the horse - Don't do things out of order.

69. Get a taste of your own medicine - Experience something negative that you have inflicted on others.

70. Have your cake and eat it too - To want more than is reasonable or possible.

71. Keep your fingers crossed - To hope for good luck or a favorable outcome.

72. Make waves - To cause trouble or disruption.

73. No pain, no gain - You have to work hard and endure difficulties to achieve success.

74. Play it by ear - To handle a situation without a definite plan.

75. Rome wasn't built in a day - Great things take time to accomplish.

76. The early bird catches the worm - Those who act promptly and decisively will have an advantage.

77. A penny saved is a penny earned - It's wise to save money rather than spending it needlessly.

78. Actions speak louder than words - What someone does is more important than what they say they will do.

79. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater - Don't discard something valuable while getting rid of something undesirable.

80. Get your act together - To organize yourself and start behaving in a more responsible or effective way.

81. Have a chip on your shoulder - To be easily offended or to hold a grudge.

82. In the same boat - In a similar situation or predicament.

83. Kill time - To pass time idly.

84. Make a silk purse out of a sow's ear - To turn something of low quality into something of high quality.

85. Put the cat among the pigeons - To cause trouble or upset a stable situation.

86. Sleep like a log - To sleep deeply and soundly.

87. Take the cake - To be the most outstanding or remarkable.

88. Wear your heart on your sleeve - To show your emotions openly.

89. All bark and no bite - To act tough or aggressive but not follow through with action.

90. Burn bridges - To damage relationships or opportunities to the extent that they cannot be repaired.

91. Cut the mustard - To meet expectations or perform satisfactorily.

92. Fish or cut bait - To make a decision or take action one way or another.

93. Go down in flames - To fail spectacularly.

94. Have a frog in your throat - To have a hoarse or strained voice.

95. Keep something at bay - To keep something under control or prevent it from happening.

96. Make a clean breast of it - To confess or admit to something.

97. Put the kibosh on - To put an end to something or to prevent it from happening.

98. Save the day - To prevent a disaster or resolve a difficult situation successfully.

99. Take the wind out of someone's sails - To deflate or undermine someone's confidence or enthusiasm.

100. You can't judge a book by its cover - You can't accurately assess something or someone based solely on appearance.

101. Bury the hatchet - To make peace or end a conflict.

102. Catch someone red-handed - To catch someone in the act of doing something wrong.

103. Drive someone round the bend - To annoy or irritate someone greatly.

104. Every cloud has a silver lining - There's something positive to be found in every negative situation.

105. Give it your best shot - To make the maximum effort to achieve something.

106. Hit the jackpot - To achieve a great success or win a large prize.

107. In the same boat - In a similar situation or predicament.

108. Jump through hoops - To go through a lot of effort or difficulty to achieve something.

109. Keep something under wraps - To keep something secret or confidential.

110. Live and let live - To accept other people's differences and beliefs without interference.

111. Make ends meet - To have enough money to cover expenses.

112. No stone left unturned - To make every possible effort to find or achieve something.

113. Pay the piper - To face the consequences of one's actions.

114. Queer the pitch - To spoil someone's plans or efforts.

115. Rub someone the wrong way - To irritate or annoy someone.

116. Take a rain check - To decline an offer or invitation but suggest that it could be accepted later.

117. Under the thumb - Under someone's control or influence.

118. Variety is the spice of life - Diversity and change make life interesting.

119. Weather the storm - To survive a difficult situation.

120. X marks the spot - A phrase used to indicate the location of something important or hidden.

121. Zip your lip - To remain silent or keep a secret.

122. A penny for your thoughts - A way to ask someone what they are thinking about.

123. Back to square one - To return to the starting point or to start over again.

124. Cut and dried - Something that is settled and unchangeable.

125. Devil's in the details - The important or critical aspects of something are found in the details.

126. Eat humble pie - To admit one's mistakes or faults publicly.

127. Fly by the seat of one's pants - To act without a clear plan or preparation.

128. Go off the deep end - To become irrational or extremely upset.

129. Have a skeleton in the closet - To have a secret or embarrassing past.

130. In the nick of time - Just in time, at the last possible moment.

131. Jump on the bandwagon - To join a popular trend or activity.

132. Keep something at bay - To keep something under control or prevent it from happening.

133. Like a bull in a china shop - Clumsy or reckless behavior that causes damage.

134. Make hay while the sun shines - To take advantage of an opportunity.

135. Not playing with a full deck - Not mentally or emotionally stable; lacking intelligence or common sense.

136. On cloud nine - Extremely happy or euphoric.

137. Paint oneself into a corner - To put oneself in a difficult or inescapable situation.

138. Quick on the draw - Very quick to react or respond.

139. See eye to eye - To agree or have the same opinion as someone else.

140. The apple of someone's eye - Someone's favorite person or thing.

141. Turn over a new leaf - To start anew or make a fresh start.

142. When pigs fly - Something that will never happen.

143. You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours - Mutual cooperation or assistance.

144. A wolf in sheep's clothing - Someone who appears harmless but is actually dangerous or deceitful.

145. Bells and whistles - Extra features or embellishments that are not necessary.

146. Cry over spilled milk - To lament something that has already happened and cannot be changed.

147. Donkey's years - A very long time.

148. Get bent out of shape - To become excessively upset or angry about something minor.

149. Have a heart of gold - To be kind, generous, and compassionate.

150. Keep your powder dry - To be prepared for future challenges or opportunities.

151. A dime a dozen - Very common and not valuable.

152. All in the same boat - Sharing the same situation or circumstances.

153. Behind the eight ball - In a difficult or unfavorable position.

154. Bite off more than you can chew - To take on more responsibility than one can handle.

155. Cut to the chase - To get to the main point without wasting time.

156. Devil is in the details - The important or critical aspects of something are found in the details.

157. Eat crow - To admit that one was wrong or mistaken.

158. Fish out of water - To feel uncomfortable in a new or unfamiliar situation.

159. Green thumb - A talent for gardening or growing plants.

160. Hit the nail on the head - To describe exactly what is causing a situation or problem.

161. In the same boat - In a similar situation or predicament.

162. Jump on the bandwagon - To join a popular trend or activity.

163. Keep your nose clean - To stay out of trouble or avoid causing problems.

164. Let the cat out of the bag - To reveal a secret.

165. Money talks - Wealth has influence and power.

166. Not a spark of decency - Lacking basic manners or morals.

167. On cloud nine - Extremely happy or euphoric.

168. Pull someone's leg - To tease or joke with someone.

169. Rock the boat - To disturb the status quo or cause trouble.

170. Shoot the breeze - To engage in casual or idle conversation.

171. Spill the beans - To disclose secret information.

172. The early bird catches the worm - Those who act promptly and decisively will have an advantage.

173. Turn over a new leaf - To start anew or make a fresh start.

174. A wolf in sheep's clothing - Someone who appears harmless but is actually dangerous or deceitful.

175. Add insult to injury - To make a bad situation worse.

176. All ears - Fully attentive and eager to listen.

177. Back to square one - To return to the starting point or to start over again.

178. Cat's out of the bag - The secret has been revealed.

179. Devil's advocate - Someone who argues against a popular opinion or belief.

180. Elephant in the room - An obvious problem or issue that everyone ignores.

181. Get the ball rolling - To start or initiate something.

182. In the same boat - In a similar situation or predicament.

183. Keep your chin up - To stay optimistic in a difficult situation.

184. Let sleeping dogs lie - To avoid stirring up old conflicts or problems.

185. Make a long story short - To summarize something briefly.

186. No harm, no foul - If there is no damage done, there is no reason for blame or punishment.

187. Out of the blue - Unexpectedly or without warning.

188. Penny for your thoughts - A way to ask someone what they are thinking about.

189. Play it by ear - To handle a situation without a definite plan.

190. Rain on someone's parade - To spoil someone's plans or celebrations.

191. Save face - To avoid embarrassment or humiliation.

192. Take a rain check - To decline an offer or invitation but suggest that it could be accepted later.

193. Under the weather - Feeling unwell or sick.

194. You can't judge a book by its cover - You can't accurately assess something or someone based solely on appearance.

195. A fish out of water - Someone who is out of their element or uncomfortable in a particular situation.

196. All bark and no bite - To act tough or aggressive but not follow through with action.

197. Break a leg - A way to wish someone good luck, especially before a performance.

198. Catch someone's eye - To attract someone's attention.

199. Don't count your chickens before they hatch - Don't assume success before it's certain.

200. Every cloud has a silver lining - There's something positive to be found in every negative situation.

201. Fish or cut bait - To make a decision or take action one way or another.

202. Go down in flames - To fail spectacularly.

203. Have a frog in your throat - To have a hoarse or strained voice.

204. Keep something at bay - To keep something under control or prevent it from happening.

205. Make a clean breast of it - To confess or admit to something.

206. Put the kibosh on - To put an end to something or to prevent it from happening.

207. Save the day - To prevent a disaster or resolve a difficult situation successfully.

208. Take the wind out of someone's sails - To deflate or undermine someone's confidence or enthusiasm.

209. You can't judge a book by its cover - You can't accurately assess something or someone based solely on appearance.

210. A fish out of water - Someone who is out of their element or uncomfortable in a particular situation.

211. All bark and no bite - To act tough or aggressive but not follow through with action.

212. Break a leg - A way to wish someone good luck, especially before a performance.

213. Catch someone's eye - To attract someone's attention.

214. Don't count your chickens before they hatch - Don't assume success before it's certain.

215. Every cloud has a silver lining - There's something positive to be found in every negative situation.

216. Beat around the bush - To avoid addressing an issue directly.

217. Don't cry over spilled milk - Don't waste time worrying about something that has already happened and cannot be changed.

218. Elephant in the room - An obvious problem or issue that everyone ignores.

219. Feather in one's cap - An accomplishment or honor to be proud of.

220. Give someone the cold shoulder - To intentionally ignore or snub someone.

221. Hit the ground running - To start something quickly and with great energy.

222. In hot water - In trouble or facing difficulties.

223. Jump the gun - To act prematurely or before the appropriate time.

224. Let sleeping dogs lie - To avoid stirring up old conflicts or problems.

225. Needle in a haystack - Something extremely difficult to find.

226. On thin ice - In a risky or precarious situation.

227. Play devil's advocate - To argue the opposite side of an issue for the sake of debate.

228. Rule of thumb - A general principle or guideline.

229. Straight from the horse's mouth - Directly from the original or authoritative source.

230. Time flies when you're having fun - Time seems to pass quickly during enjoyable activities.

231. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush - It's better to have something certain than to risk losing it by trying to get something better.

232. Blood is thicker than water - Family bonds are stronger than other relationships.

233. Don't put the cart before the horse - Don't do things out of order.

234. Get a taste of your own medicine - Experience something negative that you have inflicted on others.

235. Have your cake and eat it too - To want more than is reasonable or possible.

236. Keep your fingers crossed - To hope for good luck or a favorable outcome.

237. Make waves - To cause trouble or disruption.

238. No pain, no gain - You have to work hard and endure difficulties to achieve success.

239. Play it by ear - To handle a situation without a definite plan.

240. Rome wasn't built in a day - Great things take time to accomplish.

241. The early bird catches the worm - Those who act promptly and decisively will have an advantage.

242. A penny saved is a penny earned - It's wise to save money rather than spending it needlessly.

243. Actions speak louder than words - What someone does is more important than what they say they will do.

244. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater - Don't discard something valuable while getting rid of something undesirable.

245. Get your act together - To organize yourself and start behaving in a more responsible or effective way.

246. Have a chip on your shoulder - To be easily offended or to hold a grudge.

247. In the same boat - In a similar situation or predicament.

248. Kill time - To pass time idly.

249. Make a silk purse out of a sow's ear - To turn something of low quality into something of high quality.

250. Put the cat among the pigeons - To cause trouble or upset a stable situation.

251. Sleep like a log - To sleep deeply and soundly.

252. Take the cake - To be the most outstanding or remarkable.

253. Wear your heart on your sleeve - To show your emotions openly.

254. All bark and no bite - To act tough or aggressive but not follow through with action.

255. Burn bridges - To damage relationships or opportunities to the extent that they cannot be repaired.

256. Cut the mustard - To meet expectations or perform satisfactorily.

257. Fish or cut bait - To make a decision or take action one way or another.

258. Go down in flames - To fail spectacularly.

259. Have a frog in your throat - To have a hoarse or strained voice.

260. Keep something at bay - To keep something under control or prevent it from happening.

261. Make a clean breast of it - To confess or admit to something.

262. Put the kibosh on - To put an end to something or to prevent it from happening.

263. Save the day - To prevent a disaster or resolve a difficult situation successfully.

264. **Put your best foot forward** - To make a good impression by trying your hardest or presenting oneself in the best possible way.

265. Take the wind out of someone's sails - To deflate or undermine someone's confidence or enthusiasm.

266. You can't judge a book by its cover - You can't accurately assess something or someone based solely on appearance.

267. A fish out of water - Someone who is out of their element or uncomfortable in a particular situation.

268. All bark and no bite - To act tough or aggressive but not follow through with action.

269. Break a leg - A way to wish someone good luck, especially before a performance.

270. Catch someone's eye - To attract someone's attention.

271. Don't count your chickens before they hatch - Don't assume success before it's certain.

272. Every cloud has a silver lining - There's something positive to be found in every negative situation.

273. Beat around the bush - To avoid addressing an issue directly.

274. Don't cry over spilled milk - Don't waste time worrying about something that has already happened and cannot be changed.

275. Elephant in the room - An obvious problem or issue that everyone ignores.

276. Feather in one's cap - An accomplishment or honor to be proud of.

277. Give someone the cold shoulder - To intentionally ignore or snub someone.

278. Hit the ground running - To start something quickly and with great energy.

279. In hot water - In trouble or facing difficulties.

280. Jump the gun - To act prematurely or before the appropriate time.

281. Let sleeping dogs lie - To avoid stirring up old conflicts or problems.

282. Needle in a haystack - Something extremely difficult to find.

283. On thin ice - In a risky or precarious situation.

284. Play devil's advocate - To argue the opposite side of an issue for the sake of debate.

285. Rule of thumb - A general principle or guideline.

286. Straight from the horse's mouth - Directly from the original or authoritative source.

287. Time flies when you're having fun - Time seems to pass quickly during enjoyable activities.

288. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush - It's better to have something certain than to risk losing it by trying to get something better.

289. Blood is thicker than water - Family bonds are stronger than other relationships.

290. Don't put the cart before the horse - Don't do things out of order.

291. Get a taste of your own medicine - Experience something negative that you have inflicted on others.

292. Have your cake and eat it too - To want more than is reasonable or possible.

293. Keep your fingers crossed - To hope for good luck or a favorable outcome.

294. Make waves - To cause trouble or disruption.

295. No pain, no gain - You have to work hard and endure difficulties to achieve success.

296. Play it by ear - To handle a situation without a definite plan.

297. Rome wasn't built in a day - Great things take time to accomplish.

298. The early bird catches the worm - Those who act promptly and decisively will have an advantage.

299. A penny saved is a penny earned - It's wise to save money rather than spending it needlessly.

300. Actions speak louder than words - What someone does is more important than what they say they will do.

15 Lies You Should Never Believe About Your Wife

Dear Men,

Your wife is not just a companion but a vital part of your journey. She is your partner, your confidante, and the one who shares in your triumphs and struggles. The way you perceive and treat her determines the peace, progress, and longevity of your marriage. Here are 15 common lies you should never believe about your wife misconceptions that can ruin a relationship and cause irreversible damage.

1. Your Wife Is a Mistake in Your Life

She is not a mistake but a blessing. If you made the choice to marry her, then she has a purpose in your life. Learn to appreciate and nurture that bond instead of regretting it.

2. You Can Succeed by Neglecting Your Wife

A neglected wife becomes an unhappy wife. Ignoring her needs, emotions, and presence will only create resentment and distance. A man’s success is often linked to the peace and support he receives at home.

3. You Can Cheat on Your Wife and Go Scot-Free

Infidelity always comes with consequences. You may think you’re getting away with it, but emotional damage, broken trust, and even karma will catch up with you.

4. You Did Your Wife a Favor by Marrying Her

Marriage is a partnership, not charity. You both chose each other. She brings value to your life just as you bring value to hers. Marriage should never be seen as a one-sided privilege.

5. Sex with Your Wife Will Destroy Your Anointing

Intimacy in marriage is not a sin; it is a divine gift. A loving and fulfilling sexual relationship with your wife strengthens your bond it does not weaken your spirituality.

6. Sex with Another Woman Is Better Than with Your Wife

Desire fades, but love, trust, and emotional connection last. Seeking excitement outside your marriage is a dangerous illusion that often leads to regret.

7. Your Wife Is Your Slave

She is your partner, not your servant. Marriage is built on mutual respect, love, and shared responsibilities, not control and oppression.

8. Your Wife’s Opinion Does Not Matter

Her voice is valuable. Ignoring her wisdom, concerns, and advice weakens the foundation of your marriage. A wise man listens to his wife.

9. Your Wife Knows Nothing

Underestimating her intelligence is a mistake. She has insights, instincts, and experiences that can help you grow. A man who dismisses his wife’s wisdom loses a powerful ally.

10. There’s Something in Another Woman’s Body That Your Wife Doesn’t Have

Every woman is unique, but the idea that someone else’s body offers something ‘better’ is misleading. If you are constantly seeking something different, the problem is not your wife—it’s your mindset.

11. Your Wife Can Raise Your Children Alone

Parenting is a shared responsibility. A father’s presence, guidance, and love are just as crucial as a mother’s. Leaving the burden of child-rearing solely on her weakens the family structure.

12. The Best Way to Correct Your Wife Is to Beat Her

Violence is never a solution. A real man communicates, corrects with love, and builds his wife up rather than tearing her down with abuse.

13. Your Wife Is So Strong That She Doesn’t Need Your Help, Attention, and Affection

She may be strong, but she still needs your love, care, and support. Strength does not mean she doesn’t get tired, feel unloved, or need reassurance.

14. God Is Not Aware of How You Treat Your Wife

Every action, word, and treatment you give your wife is seen by God. A man who mistreats his wife cannot expect divine favor and peace in his life.

Final Thought

Your wife is your partner, your helper, and your support system. Marriage flourishes when built on love, respect, and mutual appreciation. When you honor your wife, you honor your marriage.

"A real man loves his wife and places his family as the most important thing in life. Nothing has brought me more peace and contentment in life than simply being a good husband and father.

*𝐄𝐗𝐀𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐋𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐄𝐑𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐏 𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐓𝐔𝐒*

*1.  A leader is a servant to all. If you don't have the heart to serve others without looking for a reward, you are not yet a leader.*

*2.  If you can't withstand criticism and can't withstand and survive the havoc of hate speech, you are not yet a leader.*

*3.  If you don't have the power of forgiving and forgetting, you are not yet a leader.*        

*4.  If you stop doing good because nobody recognizes your kind gesture, you are not yet a leader.*

*5. If you see your followers making mistakes, but you keep quiet saying, "If they don't call me for advice, I will allow them to learn by experience." Your attitude depicts that you are not yet a leader.*

*6. Do you have the "Pull Them Down Syndrome (PhD)"? When you see someone doing better than you, what do you do, encourage or pull them down?*

*7. A genuine leader should not desire the downfall of his followers who are better than him/her.*

*8. If you close doors for your subordinates because you are afraid they will be far better than you, you are not yet a leader.*

*9. If you don't produce your kind. You are the only champion doing great and mighty things, you are not a good leader. Never forget that every good leader must have a better successor.*

*10.  As a leader, you must feed on knowledge. Don't be stagnant, improve yourself personally, spiritually, emotionally, professionally, mentally, relationally, sincerely, and educationally, so you can make an impact.*

*11.  As a leader, be a ladder for others to climb to the top. Don't pull them down. Your desire should be to make your followers better than yourself.*

*12. Be humble, let them learn from your mistakes. Do not watch them grope in darkness when you can guide them as light.*

*13.  A leader should be compassionate. How can you be comfortable when your followers are living in abject poverty?*

*14.  A leader should have the heart of a father. A father leads and ensures his family is safe. A good leader should provide for his people sacrificially without using them for his agenda.*

 

*15.  A leader should have the heart of a mother. When the child is sick, the mother runs helter-skelter to ensure his/her quick recovery. Why do you pretend you don't know your followers are suffering?*

*16.  A leader should not allow evil people to make him wicked. No matter how good you are, some people will not like you.*

*17.  A leader should not allow evil to prevail in the land because of his interest. Sinful associates will want to build a nest of sin around an honest leader and entice him into it. Don't allow that. Do what is right for conscience's sake and leave the rest.*

*18.  A leader should not be partial in judgment. There is always the need for honest, sincere, and forthright leaders. We always need leaders who can be fair in judgment.*

*19. Be a voice for the voiceless in society without fear or favour. Treat the rich and the poor alike with love and kindness. Do you have the loving heart of a leader?*

*20. You are probably wondering if this article is meant only for our leaders over there. You are wrong. It is meant for you. I mean you that is reading it now. You are a leader in your sphere of influence.*

*21. You wonder, "Really, I don't think so. I am just a follower." You are far from the truth. Believe it or not,  you are a leader. You might be under training but know that you are a leader all the same.*

*22. Do you intercede for your people? A good leader lifts his followers to God in sincere heart-felt prayers all the time.*

*In your home etc, you are a leader. Start making an impact from there.*

*Remember charity begins at home.*

*Wherever you are placed to watch over people, please be a good leader.🙏*

*Don't just be a leader, be a great one. Don't be selfish, greedy, and a cheat, subordinates are watching you.*

*Being a leader is a privilege. Don't misuse it,  and neither should you take undue advantage of your subordinates.*

Choice

Choice🛡

Sometime ago, A friend of mine was so much in love with a girl, and that was his dream girl😍 

She gave him hope and taught him alot about life that he never seen. She showed him the true meaning of love and friendship. She opened a way for a better living for him and showed him God and taught him how to pray. 

 He saw his life revolving around the girl. Nothing, I mean life is nothing without her, me too saw it😁

The girl was loved and welcomed by his family.  They (family) were waiting for him to introduce her to them as his fiancee. 

One day, the girl called him on phone, telling him they needed to see. When they met, she broke the news that she'll be getting married to someone else soon. That was the sickest news and worst heartbreak of his life. He couldn't feel himself anymore, all of his body was shaking as he was speechless. 

He came back and told me everything with tears. I was seeing a man in pain, losing what he cherished most. I felt like crying with him but I couldn't. 

He said to me: Junior, I will fight for love this time. She can't marry him. I will stop the marriage. 

Wow... He was ready to lose any other thing but not her. I asked him to calm down first, but he say that he can never find a girl like her again. It was a hell for him to let her go in his heart. We talked severally before he understood that she made her choice and that's the best for her. 

At times, things doesn't go as we plan, but that doesn't mean the doors are close. 

That you were not chose doesn't mean that you are not good enough or she was not making her choice right. 

All of us knows what is better for for ourselves. You don't have to convince someone they'll accept you. 

 

There are things you don't have to fight for. Ask yourself, is it worth fighting for? 

Is what am fighting for truly mine? 

Yes, she can be the queen of your heart but her throne is in another person's heart. Don't give yourself to someone who doesn't deserve you because you feel you so much love him or her. 

Do you know that someone can feel pity for you as she or he is dating you and you assume it as love. 

Bro, you don't have to lie about your business before she accepts you. You don't need to pretend to show that you love her. You don't need to get the whole world to her feet to prove your love for her to give you green light. You don't have to wear expensive clothes before she finds attractive. Be the better man you have to be. 

A President's daughter can choose a barrow pusher over a billionaire. It's just choice of heart. A good man doesn't beg for love, his own loving heart attracts love. 

If someone doesn't see as that person for him, even if you give your life him he will still blame you for your death. You have to check if you are truly needed.

Choice must be made no matter what. As they say; Good things never end. What is yours will come and you won't even struggle to have it. 

The man said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh... ~ Genesis 2:23

This is a man that found peace and what he asked from God. Adam knew it that this is the real and right thing for him. 

~ Ifeanyi Valentine Okeke 

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WOMAN

The problem of most families today points finger at the woman, and the bible says something about it "A wise woman builds her home but the foolish woman pulls it down by her hand".

 It's obviously true, not that they're wicked, but sometimes, something can pop up such arrogant attitude and it's how the husband treats them. Love is reciprocative and can achieve respect and care. 

Men, Don't think she doesn't love you jwith that her attitude, she only need your care, love and attention. She might have flaws but she still loves you with it, that's why she accepted to marry you 'big head'. 

I can say after God is the women because they have the life of their husband even at their palm. 

Okay listen... 

You sleeps in the same bed with her but she wake up while you are still sleeping, she chooses to kiss you and cover you from cold instead of stabbing you to death at that moment. 

She cooks every food you eat and all of them digests in your system. she can add any toxic substance that will harm you, but she chose to  bring in the ingredients that will make it sweeter and nourishing for her lovely husband. 

You beat her everyday, hurt her emotions and she never regret saying yes to you.

You bring her out from her own family who can sacrifice everything and anything for her. Make her to change her name to your own name. She's loving people (your family) that she planned or dream of loving and still take care of all of them. 

She passed through the hard times of pregnancy to secure your future, and nurture your offspring with her own life. 

What else do you need to understand her love and sacrifices that she has made.

  

Think, my man... She love you 

Stop calling her names, she is a gift to you dear. Stop hating her because she is not getting it right, she is still the best. 

   Do you want to see her real love, shower with care.

~ Ifeanyi Val Okeke Jr 

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A GODLY PARTNER

 

Why do most men always go for God fearing women? Why are they not going for their side chicks when they want to settle down? 

They always want a good woman for their family. A good mother for his children. 

Men are more conscious in choosing a partner. They always go for Godly women to raise their children. Someone to back them up. Someone to with a mind of God to cope with their flaws. Someone that will fill in to their spiritual weakness and cover up for them. 

Most men knows the quality of a woman that prays.

What of having a Godly and prayerful man as a partner? That's where men lose it at times. 

Women rely on their pastors when it comes to hard times than their husbands. A husband is the high priest of his home_ Being the leader both spiritual and physical. 

Genesis 18. Abraham was the one that received God in their home, and God blessed them with a nation and riches. He step up to the door and  saw God. 

Now I ask... How many are standing at the door of intercession for their family? 

How many of them sees God? 

Anything you want your wife to be for you, be it for her. 

If you want an intercessor as a wife, be an intercessory husband. 

If you want a good woman, be the good man.

As you pray for the right person to come by, be the right fellow. Two wrongs can never a make a right. 

I wonder why some wives will have bad dreams when they wake up, the first person they will call is their pastor. But, the husband is the nearest person to share the thing with. Never you lose spiritual intimacy with your partner. 

Who said is not sexy or romantic to have have a praying partner who knows his or her spiritual role. 

Coddling her while she is sleeping at night, blasting in prayers as her husband and pastor. Is it that romantic? 

Holding his hands and blessing his day while looking into his eyes before he leave for work. Isn't it romantic? 

Kneeling before her to anoint you as a king before going out in the morning. Is it not romantic? 

The most peaceful home is where they have God. You won't lack love, for God is love. 

Just imagine God being your father in-law, because you have a child of God as a wife or as a husband. 

~ Ifeanyi Valentine Okeke 

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3 THINGS YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE STARTING YOUR DATA ANALYTICS JOURNEY:

1. Data Analytics Is About Problem-Solving, Not Just Tools:

Companies don’t just want people who know how to use Excel or Power BI, they need analysts who can make sense of data and solve real-world problems.

For example, imagine a hospital wants to know why patient wait times have increased. A good data analyst won’t just create a chart; they’ll:

✔️ Identify relevant data sources (patient records, staff schedules, appointment logs)

✔️ Clean and structure the data for analysis

✔️ Use insights to suggest solutions—like hiring more staff during peak hours

Before focusing on tools, learn how to ask the right questions and think critically about data.

 2. Data Cleaning is 80% of the Work:

Raw data is often messy and incomplete. Before you can analyze it, you must clean and prepare it.

For example, if you’re analyzing customer purchase data but some records are missing prices, you can:

✔️ Remove the missing data if it’s insignificant

✔️ Fill in gaps using averages (mean, median, mode)

✔️ Use advanced techniques like regression imputation to estimate missing values

Without proper data cleaning, your analysis can lead to wrong conclusions, which can be costly for businesses.

3. Storytelling with Data Is a Game-Changer:

Numbers alone don’t drive decisions—clear insights do. Imagine a CEO looking at a spreadsheet with thousands of numbers, will that help them make a decision? No of cause.

This is why data analysts use:

✔️ Charts & Graphs to make insights easy to understand

✔️ Dashboards to track key business metrics in real-time

✔️ Reports & Presentations to communicate findings effectively.

 4. You Don’t Need a Tech Degree to Succeed!

Many people think you need to be a programmer or a math genius to succeed in Data Analytics, this is a myth!

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SEX AND SUCCESS DON’T MIX – WHY UNDISCIPLINED MEN NEVER BECOME GREAT

Some men dream of success.

Some men work for success.

Some men destroy their success before it even starts.

And guess what? For many men, the biggest distraction is SEX.

A man who chases pleasure over purpose will always be left behind.

A man who controls his desires will always be ahead.

Success requires discipline.

Sexual indulgence destroys discipline.

If you can’t control your lust, you will never control your future.

BRUTAL THREAD:

1. POWERFUL MEN AVOID SEXUAL DISTRACTIONS, WEAK MEN CAN’T SAY NO

Every great man in history had one thing in common: They had discipline.

Alexander the Great conquered the world by 30—he didn’t waste time chasing women.

Elon Musk works 100 hours a week—he doesn’t waste time texting girls.

Muhammad Ali refused sex before fights—he knew discipline was power.

But look at many men today:

Wasting hours daily on porn and masturbation.

Spending their last money just to impress women.

Crying over a girl instead of building their future.

No great man was ever a slave to lust.

2. SEX DRAINS YOUR ENERGY, FOCUS, AND DRIVE

Every time you release, you are losing more than just a few seconds of pleasure.

You are losing:

Testosterone (your natural energy for success).

Motivation (your hunger to win).

Mental clarity (your ability to stay focused).

That’s why after sex, many men feel weak and lazy.

Now imagine:

Doing this every day.

Wasting hours texting, chasing, and begging women.

Spending money just to get a few minutes of pleasure.

That’s why broke men chase sex, and rich men chase success.

3. EVERY MINUTE SPENT CHASING WOMEN IS A MINUTE LOST BUILDING YOUR FUTURE

Look at your daily habits.

How much time do you spend scrolling through women’s pictures?

How much time do you waste flirting and simping in DMs?

How much time do you spend watching porn and draining your strength?

Now imagine using that time to:

Learn a high-income skill.

Work on your business or career.

Go to the gym and improve your body.

If you focused on building, you wouldn’t need to chase—women would come to you.

4. HISTORY PROVES THAT SEXUAL WEAKNESS DESTROYS GREAT MEN

Ask yourself: What destroyed the strongest men in history?

Not war. Not enemies. Not poverty.

It was sexual weakness.

Samson lost his power because of Delilah.

King Solomon was the wisest man, but women led him to destruction.

Tiger Woods lost millions in endorsements due to a sex scandal.

Bill Clinton’s career was almost ruined by a woman.

A man without discipline is a man waiting for destruction.

5. WOMEN DON’T RESPECT MEN WHO CAN’T CONTROL THEMSELVES

You think a woman respects a man who chases her all day?

You think she values a man who is always available and begging?

No.

A woman respects men who have:

Purpose.

Self-control.

A bigger mission in life.

When you focus on your purpose, women will focus on you.

6. PORN, MASTURBATION & CASUAL SEX ARE MAKING MEN WEAKER

The modern man is weak, lazy, and broke because he is addicted to cheap pleasure.

Porn kills your brain.

Masturbation destroys your energy.

Casual sex makes you undisciplined.

That’s why so many men are:

Unmotivated.

Struggling financially.

Depressed and directionless.

If you want to be great, you must cut off sexual distractions.

7. A MAN WHO CAN’T CONTROL HIS URGES CAN’T CONTROL HIS DESTINY

You say you want to be rich, powerful, and successful.

But you can’t even:

Go a week without sex or porn.

Focus on work without being distracted by women.

Stop simping and chasing after every woman you see.

If you can’t master your own body, how can you master the world?

8. SUCCESSFUL MEN CONTROL SEX, BROKE MEN ARE CONTROLLED BY SEX

Sex is a tool.

The weak use it for pleasure.

The strong use it for power.

A successful man controls when and how he engages in sex.

A broke man lets sex control him.

That’s why the world is run by disciplined men, not by men who chase pleasure.

9. WOMEN COME AND GO, BUT SUCCESS STAYS

A man can have 100 women today, and they can all leave tomorrow.

But if you have money, power, and status, even more women will come.

That’s why powerful men never lack women.

And that’s why weak men are always chasing.

10. DISCIPLINE FIRST, PLEASURE LATER

There is nothing wrong with sex.

But if you put pleasure before purpose, you will always struggle.

If you master self-control, you will always be ahead.

The choice is yours.

BOTTOM LINE:

If you want to be great, wealthy, and powerful, learn to control your lust.

Because in the end…

Men who control their desires, control their future.

Men who chase pleasure, lose everything.

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SCRIPTURAL FOUNDATION OF HOLY ROSARY

Rosary can be viewed primarily as the summary of the New Testament.

The Our Father – part of the Rosary–is literally biblical (The Lord’s Prayer: Matt. 6:5-13) 

The first part of the “Hail Mary” corresponds to the Angel’s salutation at the Annunciation and that of Elizabeth the Visitation (Lk 1:28 and 2:42 respectively).

 The second half, “Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death,” might be understood as follows: 

“Holy Mary” again corresponds to the biblical passage of the Annunciation (Lk 1:28: “full of grace”) “Mother of God” is the very meaning of the biblical annunciation even if the term as such was approved at Ephesus (431).

Luke 1:43 “And how does this happen to me, that the Mother of my Lord (Blessed Virgin Mary) should come to me?”

Pray for us: the intercession can be related to the Wedding Feast at Cana where Mary intercedes with her Son for the young couple in trouble. (John 2:5 “His mother said to the servers, “Do whatever he tells you.)

Finally, the “Glory be to the Father” makes direct reference to the Trinity; Father, Son and Spirit and the praise due to them.

✅️✅️The mysteries 

✅️Joyful Mysteries:

1. The Annunciation (Humility) Luke 1: 26-38; John 1:14

2. The Visitation (Charity/Love of Neighbor) Luke 1: 39-56

3. The Nativity (Poverty) Luke 2: 6-20; Matthew 1:18-25

4. The Presentation (Obedience) Luke 2: 22-39

5. The Finding of the Child Jesus in the Temple (Joy in finding Jesus; prudence) Luke 2: 41-51

✅️Luminous Mysteries:

1. The Baptism of Jesus (Fidelity to our baptismal promises) Matthew 3:11-17; Luke 3:15-22; John 1:22-34

2. The Wedding Feast at Cana (Faith in Mary‘s intercession and maternal care)

John 2: 1-12

3. The Proclamation of the Kingdom (Conversion of heart) Mark 1:14-15; Matthew 5:1-8; Matthew 6:33; Matthew 7:21

4. The Transfiguration (Become a new person in Christ) Luke 9:28-36; Matthew 17:1-8

5. The Institution of the Eucharist (Love of the Eucharist; active participation at Mass); Matthew 26:26-28; John 6: 33-59

✅️Sorrowful Mysteries:

1. The Agony in the Garden (True sorrow for sin; repentance) Matthew 26: 36-46;

Mark 14:32-42; Luke 22: 39-46

2. The Scourging at the Pillar (Modesty and purity; mortification or self-denial) Matthew 27:26; Mark 15:15; John 19:1

3. The Crowning of Thorns (Moral courage; love of our enemies) Matthew 27:29-30;

Mark 15:16-20; John 1: 2-3

4. The Carrying of the Cross (Patience, especially when suffering; fortitude)

Luke 23: 26-32; Matthew 27:31-32; Mark 15:21; Luke 23: 26-32

5. The Crucifixion (Perseverance; mercy) Luke 23: 33-46; Matthew 27: 33-54;

Mark 15: 22-39; Luke 23: 33-47; John 19: 17-37

✅️Glorious Mysteries:

1. The Resurrection (Faith) Matthew 28: 1-10; Mark 16: 1-18; Luke 24: 1-49;

John 20:1-29

2. The Ascension (Hope) Mark: 16: 19-20; Luke 24: 50-51; Acts 1: 6-11

3. The Descent of the Holy Spirit (Love of God; gifts of the Holy Spirit)

Acts 2: 1-41

4. The Assumption* (Grace of a happy death; eternal happiness)

Revelation 12:1

5. Crowning of Mary as Queen of Heaven and Earth* (True devotion to Mary)

Revelation 12:1

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Things That Look Like Love

 • Sex

 • Constant phone calls

 • Dependence/attention

 • Always going out together

 • Photos on social media

 • Gifts and money

What Love Really Is

 • Respect

 • Forgiveness

 • Trust

 • Commitment

 • Supporting each other

 • Shared goals

 • Growing together

 • Heartfelt conversations

 • Emotional and physical intimacy

If you have to keep telling a man the same thing about your feelings over and over, and nothing ever changes, understand that he doesn’t respect you. It’s not because he doesn’t hear you—it’s because he doesn’t want to hear you.

Try stopping the explanations and accept that this is simply how things will stay. How does that feel?

Six Leadership Principles that we can learn from an Eagle

Six Leadership Principles that we can learn from an Eagledm

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1. Eagles fly Alone and at High. Altitudes.

They don't fly with sparrows, ravens, and other small birds.

I'm Ixkeirx TNst where it belongs, in the past.

4. Eagles Love the Storm.

When clouds gather, the eagle gets excited, the eagle uses the storms wind to lift itself higher. Once it finds the wind of the storm, the eagle uses thoe raging stornm to lift itself above the colouds. This gives the eagle an opportunity to up and rest its wings. In the meantime, all the other birds hide in the  byh and leaves of the tree.

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5. Eagles Prepare for Training;

They remove the feathers and soft grass in the nest so that the young ones get uncomfortable in preparation for flying and eventually flies/ wwhen it becomes unbearable to stay in the nest./

MEANING; Leave your  hi ranches Zone, there is No Growth there. 

6. When the Eagle Grows Old,

His feathers becomes weak and cannot take him as fast and as high as it should. This makes him weak and could make him die. So he retires to a place far away in the mountains. While there, he plucks out the weak feathers on his body and breaks its beaks and claws against the rocks until he is completely bare; a very bloody and painful process. Then he stays in this hiding place until he has grown new feathers, new beaks and claws and then he comes out flying higher than before.

MEANING; We occasionally need to shed off old habit no matter how difficult, things that burden us or add no value to our lives should be let go of.

HAVE A GREAT DAY AHEAD ❤️👍

EYA Oliver Uchenna®️

10 THINGS YOU MUST DISCUSS IN COURTSHIP

10 THINGS YOU MUST DISCUSS IN COURTSHIP

1. WHERE ARE YOU GOING TO LIVE AFTER WEDDING? Compulsory! So the guy won't drag you back to his father's house or squat with a friend. Discuss the type of apartment: a room,  room and parlour,  a mini flat,  2 bedroom flat,  3 bedroom,  duplex,  complex,  whatever,  talk,  thoroughly. Don't forget to discuss how rent will be paid. If he has built his house and you are moving in,  excellent.

2. WILL YOU HAVE BABIES IMMEDIATELY OR YOU WILL WAIT? Discuss thoroughly. If you will wait,  find out the best family planning method that will suit your body. Not all injections and pills are suitable for you. Withdrawal is not advisable for first time sex on honeymoon likewise cond0m. First sex should be done with abandon and also get used to each other's bodies especially as virgins. Singles who are sexually active right now are digging their marital grave. If you are already having sex like mad and taking family planning pills as a single lady,  it is a big shame and a disgrace to womanhood. Marry with dignity. Save sex till your wedding night.

3. HOW WILL BILLS BE PAID?

Who will pay the rent,  take care of bills and groceries? Is it the man? The woman or both of you? At how many percentage if it is a joint responsibility? 50/50? 80/20? 60/40? Discuss.

4. WILL ANY FAMILY MEMBER LIVE WITH YOU AFTER WEDDING? Discuss. Who and who will live with you? Why? For how long?  Can you cope having a family live with you immediately after honey moon? Can your type of accommodation allow such? It is not advisable for the opposite sex sibling to live with you after honey moon in a room apartment. It is more dangerous if it is the wife's very mature younger sister. Use your head!

5. WILL YOUR WIFE WORK OR STAY AT HOME AS A FULL TIME HOUSE WIFE? Discuss. It is not good for anyone to stay idle. Eve was idle when the serpent came to deceive her!  Many local gossips and over talkative,  quarrelsome women are idle. If she can't go to work,  she can do business from home and make some money for herself.

6. WHAT IS YOUR VISION? This should be the number one on the list. Very important. If she wants to be a world renowned neuro surgeon and you want her to assist you in your full time ministry. You are looking for serious trouble. Your vision should tally. Don't make the same mistake some great men of God made, talk!

7. WHAT ARE YOUR YEARLY GOALS? You should set goals every year and work towards achieving them. What are your yearly goals for the next five years? Discuss.

8. HOW MANY PERCENTAGE OF YOUR INCOME WILL YOU SAVE MONTHLY AND FOR WHAT PURPOSE? Talk!

9. WHICH CHURCH WILL YOU BE ATTENDING AFTER WEDDING? The guy's church,  yours or another denomination entirely? Thoroughly discuss and come to an agreement.

10. WHO ARE YOU? Empty yourself. Your family background,  past mistakes,  bodily defects,  etc so somebody won't die of shock in marriage when certain revelations begin to swim in in torrents. Many never recover from the shock! Some divorce from honey moon and never reconnect for life!

So,  there you go! 

There are more important things to discuss but these are the major ones time permit me to share.

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