ST. ANTHONY'S 13 MIRACLES

ST. ANTHONY'S 13 MIRACLES

1) SERMON TO THE FISH

The story goes that one day Anthony went to Rimini where there were a lot of heretics. He started to preach, but they did not want to listen to him, and they even mocked him. In a dramatic gesture, Anthony went to the seashore, saying, “Because you show yourself unworthy of God's word, behold, I turn to the fish so that your unbelief may be shown up more clearly”. As he spoke of God's care for those creatures that live in the waters, a shoal of fish swam near to the bank, partly thrusting themselves out of the water and appearing to listen carefully. At the end of his sermon, the Saint blessed them and they swam away. In the meantime, so deep was the impression made upon the onlookers that many hurried back to the city imploring their friends to come and see the miracle, while others burst into tears asking forgiveness. Soon after a great multitude gathered around the Saint, who exhorted them to turn back to God. So through this sermon, the city of Rimini was purged of heresy.

2) ALEARDINO'S GLASS

During the Renaissance, artists drew inspiration from the remains of Greco-Roman antiquity, and this is why all the characters of the scene are dressed as ancient Romans. One day a knight called Aleardino da Salvaterra arrived in Padua. This knight had always despised Catholics, believing them to be ignorant and gullible. One day, while dining, his tablemates started telling him with great enthusiasm of the many miracles performed by St Anthony. As a reaction, Aleardino emptied his glass and said, “If he whom you consider to be a saint will prevent this glass from breaking when it hits the ground I will believe everything you are telling me about him.” He then threw the glass to the floor with all his strength, and quite unbelievably, the glass did not break. It is even said that the hard tiles on which it fell broke instead of the glass. Faced by this inexplicable phenomenon, Aleardino believed and was converted.

3) THE HERETIC'S MULE

The city of Toulouse was a centre of the Cather heresy, which denied the goodness of the material world and also the Real Presence of Christ in the Eucharist. Anthony engaged in several public debates with them but, although they could not out-argue him, they were not yet ready to give in. One day one of them demanded a miraculous proof, “If you can make my mule bow down before what you call the Body of Christ, I will believe”. Anthony didn't want to put God to the test, but naturally there was no way he could avoid this challenge, and so he agreed, leaving the outcome to God. For three days the heretic kept his mule penned up without food. On the third day, a great crowd gathered in the city square. Anthony celebrated Mass in a little chapel and at the end he came out carrying the Blessed Sacrament. Meanwhile, the hungry mule had also been brought along, and a suitable fodder was placed in front of the starved animal. Anthony called out, “Mule! Come here and show reverence to your Creator!” At once the animal came towards Anthony and bowed its head and knees before the Sacrament. The owner of the mule and many heretics were reconciled to the Church.

4) THE RE-ATTACHED FOOT

A young man of Padua, called Leonardo, went to St Anthony to make his confession. Among his other sins, he confessed that he had once kicked his mother so hard that she had suffered a nasty fall. Anthony muttered under his breath, “The foot that strikes father or mother deserved to be cut off.” Of course he did not intend his words to be taken literally. The young man, not understanding the meaning of his words, returned home, took a hatchet and chopped off his foot. The news soon reached the ears of the poor Anthony. He followed the youth's grieving parents to their house and made his way to the young man's bedroom. He prayed, holding the severed foot close to the leg, made the sign of the cross, and instantly the foot became attached to the leg. The young man jumped up, giving praise to the Lord and thanksgiving to Anthony, who had healed his leg in this truly miraculous way.

5) THE DROWNED CHILD

We are in Lisbon, Portugal. A boy called Parrisio decides to go on a boat trip with other boys, but without telling his parents. Suddenly, a violent storm breaks out and the boat capsizes. While the other boys, who were older and knew how to swim, managed to save themselves, Parrisio drowned. Upon hearing this tragedy, the boy's mother ran to the beach and pleaded with the sailors to recuperate the body. They lowered their nets and soon were able to draw out Parrisio's lifeless body, which they gave to the desperate mother. On the next day the family wanted to take the body to church for the funeral and subsequent burial, but the mother did not allow this. She continued to pray to St. Anthony, promising that if her child were brought back to life she would consecrate him to the Franciscan Order. On the third day, in front of his parents and relatives, the boy suddenly awoke as though from a deep sleep; the mother's prayers to the Lord, through the intercession of St. Anthony, had been answered. When he became older Parrisio entered the Franciscan Order, and always joyfully told his fellow friars of the wonder God had performed for him through the intercession of St. Anthony.

6) TOMMY & ST. ANTHONY'S BREAD

Tommy was a 20-month- old boy who lived with his parents near the Basilica. His mother had left him playing in the kitchen, where there was a large pot on the fire with boiling water in it. The little boy took a stool and started to peep into pot. He saw his own reflection and wanted to touch it, but in doing so he fell into the boiling water. Immediately afterward, the mother was back, and when she saw Tommy's feet sticking up out of the pot, she run to pull him out, but the boy was already dead.

The poor mother's screams roused the whole neighbourhood, and soon a crowd had gathered at the house, including some friars from the Basilica. Seeing the friars, the woman was reminded of the wonderful miracles done by St. Anthony, and began to pray loudly for his help, promising to donate her child's weight in bread to the poor if he were restored to life. While the mother was still praying, Tommy arose as if from a deep sleep.

7) EURILIA COMES BACK TO LIFE

A young girl in Padua called Eurilia had followed her mother in one of her visits to an old lady. Eurilia however, stayed outside to gather sticks and twigs for the fire. After a while, at the end of her visit, the mother came out and found her daughter floating on a muddy pond, face up. Somehow Eurilia had slipped into the water and drowned. The poor woman waded in and dragged the body up on to the road, but the young girl seemed lifeless. The poor mother started to cry and a small crowd gathered around her. One of the men present saw that the girl was cold and rigid, and said that she was dead. At this point in her anguish the mother begged the Saint to pray to Christ to save her daughter, “Oh please, St. Anthony, give me back my daughter.” Shortly after this simple prayer everyone could see that Eurilia's lips began to twitch, and then she started to throw out the water she had swallowed. And so, after a short while, through the merits of St. Anthony, Eurilia grew warm again and came back to life.

8) A DEAD MAN SPEAKS

In Lisbon, the city where St. Anthony was born, there were two people who hated each other to death. One evening the son of one of them met the son from the rival family, which was living close to St. Anthony's parents. Filled with hatred, and seeing that no one else was around, he stabbed the other young man to death.

He then buried the corpse in the garden of Anthony's father. Martin, Anthony's father, tried to prove his innocence, but the grisly evidence found in the family garden was enough to convict the poor man of the murder.

Just when things were at their worst, God revealed to Anthony, who was in Padua, the plight of his father. Immediately, the Saint obtained permission to go away for a night. The distance from Padua to Lisbon is approximately 1,200 miles, but Anthony was there in a couple of hours through divine intervention. In the court room the Saint asked that the body of the murdered man be produced immediately. Anthony approached the corpse and, in a firm voice, asked the man to tell who had killed him. To the amazement of all, the corpse sat up and clearly said the name of the murderer and attested the innocence of Anthony's father, who was freed at once. The revived man then turned to Anthony and asked absolution from his sins, then he died again. Miraculously, the next day the Saint was back in Padua. After all, he had asked permission to be away only over night.

9) THE MISER'S HEART

According to the story, the funeral of a rich man was being celebrated with great pomp in a city in Tuscany. Anthony was present, and is said to have commented that the dead man did not deserve such honour since he had exploited and oppressed the poor. “His heart is in his money-box”, said the Saint, echoing our Lord's words that “where your treasure is, there your heart will be too”.

So far, so good; but the story goes on to say that, following Anthony's words, a surgeon was called in, who cut open the dead body and found no heart! A little later, when the family opened the dead man's treasure chest, there was the heart! As a result, the dead man was not buried in the splendid mausoleum that he had prepared for himself, but in a cave by the river. In the center of the fresco you can see the surgeon opening the body of the miser, and on the left a relative of the rich man who has just found his heart in the money-box.

10) A VIOLENT HUSBAND

This miracle took place in a city in Tuscany. There was a knight in the area who was outstanding for his nobility and his wealth, but he easily gave way to outbursts of anger. One day, his wife, a virtuous lady, probably replied to him harshly, and he was overcome with rage. He beat her, raining punches and kicks upon her; he dragged her by her hair all throughout the house; eventually he stabbed her, leaving her at the point of death.

Servants and family members picked the woman up and gently laid her down on her bed.

In the meantime, the knight began to regret his beastly behaviour, and ran to St. Anthony, who was living in the city in that period. The man fervently begged St. Anthony to come and help his poor wife. The saint hurried to the house together with the husband; he knelt down, asking God to give the dying woman life and health. When Anthony prayed over her, she rose up completely well again.

11) THE SPEAKING INFANT

A nobleman was very jealous of his wife. He had no reason to doubt of her love and fidelity, but he was easy prey to slander, and so, when his wife had their first child, he refused to recognize the baby as his own. He was more than sure that the child was the fruit of his wife's infidelity.

No matter how much the woman tried to assure him that she had not been with another man, he continued to reject his infant son.

In her desperation the wife and mother came to St. Anthony for help. The Saint talked to the nobleman for hours, and finally succeeded in making him see the absurdity behind his jealousy. Just then a nurse brought in the infant. Instantly, his old state of mind returned. At this point Anthony turned to the child and said, "In the name of Jesus Christ, speak and tell who your father is!" The infant pointed to the nobleman and, in a voice of a child years older, he said, "There is my father!" With that the father broke down in tears and took the child in his arms. This is how Anthony saved a family and a marriage from the pitfalls of gossip and slander.

12) THE LIBERATION OF PADUA

A few years after St. Anthony's death, Ezzelino extended his dominion by brute force to all of the main cities in the Veneto Region: Verona, Vicenza, Treviso, Feltre, Belluno and Padua.

In 1254, four years after the death of Emperor Frederick II, Ezzelino was excommunicated by Pope Innocent IV, who also launched a crusade against him. Padua was therefore besieged by the Pope's forces, which wanted to free the city of Ezzelino's tyranny. The Blessed Luke asked for St. Anthony's help so that the pope's army may be successful. Naturally, it's not only Blessed Luke who was praying, but with him were praying the citizens of Padua who were still in bondage within the city's walls.

St. Anthony appeared to two Franciscan friars (one of them is probably the Blessed Luke Belludi), and foretold them about the imminent liberation of Padua from Ezzelino's tyranny. And this is what actually occurred in 1256 when Ezzelino's troops were driven out from Padua. The citizens of the city were finally free; their prayers had been answered through the intercession of St. Anthony.

13) THE SAINT OF MIRACLES

As we know Anthony died in 1231 and was buried for the time being in a little church dedicated to the Virgin Mary Mater Domini, Mother of God, while waiting for the Basilica to be at least partially completed so that the body could be kept in a much worthier tomb. His funeral took place on the following Tuesday. Thousands and thousands of people followed his coffin, and they were all crying like babies because they saw him as a father, and not because he was a priest, Father Anthony, but because he was a real father to them. He had generated faith in them, and was constantly defending them. On the day of the funeral, a woman came whose name deserves to be remembered. She was called Cunizza, and had been ill for a year. A great tumor had formed on her shoulder, and she was only able to walk by hobbling along with the aid of crutches. Coming to the tomb, where Anthony had just been buried in, she prostrated herself in prayer. A short while later she realised that the swelling had disappeared, leaving her skin smooth and clear. She threw aside her crutches and stood upright, with tears of joy, and she went home giving thanks to God and her dear friend St. Anthony.

And this was the first miracle that happened here, around St. Anthony's Tomb. The news spread rapidly, and people who were sick in the soul and body started coming to the Tomb in ever greater numbers. 

ABOUT HER SOUTHERN LADY PARTS (Because this conversation needs to be had)

12 THINGS I WISH EVERY LADY KNEW ABOUT HER SOUTHERN LADY PARTS (Because this conversation needs to be had)

This might be the most informative and empowering post you’ll read on this topic.

There is so much silence, shame, and silliness surrounding women’s bodies, especially when it comes to the vagina. For many of us, we were raised to treat it like some ‘secret place’ nobody should mention. And even now as grown women, some of us still carry unnecessary guilt, fear, or confusion about this part of our body. 

It is time we changed that.

So here is a list of 12 things I really wish every lady would know (and believe) about her lady bits:

First things first.

Let us get our names right. What we usually call the vagina is actually the vulva(the clitoris, labia, urethra and all that you can see on the outside). The vagina is the stretchy tunnel inside. It is important you know this because it helps you understand your own body better, and not feel lost in conversations about your own health.

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1. YOUR VAGINA IS NOT DIRTY

Let me start here because society has done a number on us. It is a self-cleaning organ, meaning that it doesn’t need your ‘help’ to be clean. The discharge you sometimes see is proof that it is doing its job. You don’t need to use any fancy soaps, douching products, or herbal concoctions. 

Stop scrubbing your vulva like it is a bathroom tile.🙄 Just rinse with clean water when you bathe, and maybe use mild, unscented soap. Anything more than that is an overkill. And quite honestly, most infections come from all these unnecessary things we’re using to ‘clean’ it. Please, respect its supreme intelligence and just let it be.

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2. VAGINAL DISCHARGE IS NORMAL

You are not ‘abnormal’ because you see discharge in your pants. In fact, it’s a sign that your body is functioning properly. Vaginal discharge helps keep things clean and balanced. It can change throughout your cycle. Sometimes it is stretchy and clear, sometimes thick and white, sometimes more than usual. That is very normal. It only becomes a problem if it starts itching, smelling fishy, burning, or turns greenish, grey, or thick and chunky like cheese. Then it’s time to see a doctor. But discharge in itself is just your body being a genius.😉

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3. YOU DON’T NEED TO SMELL LIKE FLOWERS

There’s a whole industry harvesting women’s bodily insecurity for profit. They try to convince women to spray, perfume, and powder themselves down there. Please, your vagina is not a bottle of air freshener. It has a natural scent, and that scent changes depending on where you are in your cycle, your sweat, your hormones, your activity levels, and even what you eat. 

A healthy vagina will smell like a body part, not a garden. A clean vagina should smell like… a clean vagina, not strawberries or vanilla. A vagina that smells like perfume is probably irritated or imbalanced. As long as it doesn’t smell foul or fishy, you’re fine. Do not let anyone sell you shame wrapped in fragrance.

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4. YOUR VAGINA’S APPEARANCE IS NORMAL

Just like faces, vaginas come in all shapes, sizes, and colours, and every variation is beautiful and normal. Some labia are small and tucked in. Some are big and hang out. Some are dark. Some are pinkish. Some are uneven. Some look like nothing you’ve ever seen on the internet. All of them are normal. There’s no such thing as a 'perfect' vagina. The ones they show in the media have often been edited or surgically altered…or just naturally plain different, not better or more beautiful. Please stop comparing yours. Your vagina is fine just the way it is. No one should make you feel otherwise.

You can even sing for it in Bruno Mars’ voice: ‘You are beautiful, just the way you are’.😂

Moving on.

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5. YOUR COLOUR IS BEAUTIFUL 

The skin around your vagina may be darker than the rest of your body. That’s normal. It is even more common in women of colour like black women. Bleaching can damage your skin and open you up to risks. In fact, if you have a vaginal delivery, stitching you up will be a problem because the skin there will have been thinned out by bleaching. You must not be the same shade all over, my lady. Please don’t chase a beauty standard that was never meant to honour you. It’s not like the men themselves are the same shade all over.😏

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6. PUBIC HAIR IS NOT A PROBLEM 

Pubic hair is not dirty, it is not shameful, and it is not disgusting. That hair is there to protect your vagina from friction and bacteria. Whether you shave, wax, trim, or leave it completely natural is completely up to you. If you want to grow a jungle there or clear the field totally, just keep a good intimate hygiene. Dazzol.

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7. COTTON IS YOUR FRIEND

I know we all love to slay, but please let your vagina breathe. Constant tight jeans, nylon pants, and non-cotton underwear can cause sweating and irritation, which may lead to infections. Breathable, cotton underwear helps to reduce moisture and prevent infections. Choose comfort and health over fashion whenever you can. And do not be afraid to go pantless at night to allow for express ventilation down there. T-for Tenks.😊

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8. YOUR HYMEN IS NOT A CERTIFICATE OF YOUR VIRGINITY

A virgin is someone who has not had sexual relations, not merely someone with a present hymen. Please let this sink in.

The hymen can stretch or tear from many things like sports, use of tampons, or even naturally. It doesn’t mean you are no longer a virgin. Also, some women are born without a hymen. Does it mean they were born ‘unvirgined’?😂

Virginity is a concept, not a body part. Let’s be guided, please.

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9. AGEING IS NORMAL DOWN THERE TOO

Your vagina will change just like your face changes. The skin may not look the same at 40 as it did at 15. The colour may darken, it may sag, it I may fold, and that is perfectly fine. All those changes are proof of life lived. Stop stressing and warring with your own body.

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10. IT IS OKAY TO LOOK AT IT

I’m certain that a good number of you reading this do not even know what you look like down there. A lot of women feel awkward or even ashamed exploring their own body, yet still want to feel confident and in control. Sis, it starts with knowing. Get a mirror. Get familiar. That’s your body. There’s nothing unholy about it.

You don’t yet love and accept your body but you want somebody’s son to love and accept it. No be juju be that?🙄

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11. YOUR UNDERWEAR CAN TELL YOU SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR VAGINAL HEALTH.

If you have ever noticed your panties looking a bit bleached or faded in the crotch area, relax. It’s not your detergent, and nothing is wrong with you.

Vaginal discharge is naturally acidic, with a typical vaginal pH ranging from 3.8 to 4.5. This acidity is mainly due to the presence of lactic acid-producing bacteria which help keep harmful bacteria and infections in check. 

Over time, it can lighten or fade dark-coloured underwear. That’s normal.

Here is what to look out for:

- If the bleaching happens gradually over multiple wears, you’re good.

– If it happens after just one wear, or way too frequently, it might mean your vaginal pH is a bit too acidic. Could be stress, dehydration, or even a bacterial imbalance.

– If your underwear never bleaches at all, it could also mean your pH is off… maybe you have slight less acidic discharge, which can be normal as well.

So yes, your panty can be your low-budget pH tester. Pay attention. If anything feels off, check in with your body (or your doctor).

Generally, the fading is not dirt. It is simple chemistry, and your body doing exactly what it's meant to. 

But if it bothers you, wear pantyliners or rotate your underwear more often. Be careful to not overuse pantyliners because the nylon part that sticks to your panty can prevent ventilation and trap in moisture. This can lead to imbalance of PH, leading to overgrowth of harmful bacteria, and subsequent infections.

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12. YOU NEED REGULAR MEDICAL CHECK-UPS

We have talked about washing, bleaching, pantyliners, all of that, but let us talk about actual health care.

A lot of people think if you’re not sexually active, you don’t need to worry about infections or anything going wrong. That’s not true.

You do not have to be sexually active to get certain infections. Let me say it louder for those at the back: Virgins can get infections too.

Things like bacterial vaginosis (BV) or yeast infections don’t always come from sex. BV just simply means your vagina’s good bacteria got disturbed somehow, and yeast infections happen when fungus decides to throw a party down there without permission.

If you do any of the forbidden practices I mentioned earlier that hurt your vaginal health, these infections are likely to come. In addition, stress and high sugar consumption can contribute, because yeast loves sugar. Taking too much antibiotics can kill even the good bacteria and cause problems. Wearing damp panties or staying in damp clothes too long (like after working out or swimming) too.

Sometimes, what starts as ‘ordinary’ discharge or itching can mess up your cycle, mess with your fertility, or even increase your risk for cervical cancer if left untreated.

Some infections don’t even make noise. They hide and cause long-term issues silently.

What to do:

If you're sexually active:

Start getting Pap smears from age 21. This checks for cervical cancer.

Run STI tests regularly, even if ‘he's faithful’.

Pay attention if sex suddenly hurts, or if there's bleeding, odour, or anything weird.

If you're NOT sexually active:

You might not need Pap smears or invasive pelvic exams yet. But if something is itching, smelling off, or giving you funny signals, please don’t just pray it away. Go and see a doctor.

You can do external ultrasounds or simple, gentle exams that don’t require going inside if needed.

Going for checkups doesn't mean you've done something wrong. Your vagina deserves medical care.

And don’t Google symptoms and declare yourself finished. Google will tell you it’s cancer even if it's yeast infection from your high sugar consumption. Just go see a doctor.

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Bonus for the married: 

SEX SHOULD NOT BE PAINFUL.

If you feel pain consistently during sex, something may be off. It could be dryness, trauma, lack of foreplay, tight pelvic muscles, an infection, or an underlying condition. Pain is your body’s way of talking. Please, listen. Seek help. Don’t endure in silence. You deserve comfort and pleasure too.

A lot of us grew up thinking that if you don’t orgasm during penetrative sex, something is wrong with you. It’s not true. The clitoris is where most women experience pleasure. In fact, there is no other known function of this small but mighty organ. Methinks God put it there solely for women to enjoy.☺️ 

So, no, you are not ‘difficult’ if penetration doesn’t do it for you. Penetration alone does it for a small percentage of women. You’re just human. This marriage thing is for a long time, so explore, get attuned with your body, communicate, and don’t feel shame about your needs.

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I hope I have done something for you today. If you found this information useful, do well to share to inform and empower other women.

Much love,

Chinaza Favour

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P.S: Can I use feminine washes?

Well, you don’t need them, but if you prefer to use one, make sure it is fragrance-free, gynecologist-approved, gentle, and for external use (the vulva) only. If it itches or irritates for any reason and at any point, just remember that your vagina was fine before anyone tried to sell you cucumber-mint freshness.

You’re welcome.❤️

A PSYCHOLOGICAL AND TRAUMATOLOGICAL ANALYSIS OF MRS. CHINASA ODIKA’S INTERVIEW AND PUBLIC RESPONSE

A PSYCHOLOGICAL AND TRAUMATOLOGICAL ANALYSIS OF MRS. CHINASA ODIKA’S INTERVIEW AND PUBLIC RESPONSE

An Exordium

The recent interview granted by Mrs. Chinasa Odika to E-Parrot Umelechi has sparked widespread public reaction. Many critics have condemned her tone, asserting that she showed no remorse, particularly because she boldly stated that "all women are doing it," referring to extramarital affairs. However, such a reaction overlooks the psychological depth of trauma, shame, and defense mechanisms that often manifest in the face of public humiliation and social stigma.

1. Understanding Defense Mechanisms: Freudian Perspective

In Freudian psychology, defense mechanisms are unconscious strategies the ego uses to protect itself from anxiety, guilt, shame, or unacceptable feelings. These are not signs of evil or defiance they are signs of a soul trying to survive inner or outer collapse.

From the interview, Mrs. Odika’s boldness and her generalizing statement about other women "all women are doing it" can be understood through several possible defense mechanisms:

a. Projection

By attributing her own wrong behaviour to others ("all women are doing it"), she may be unconsciously attempting to distribute the guilt so as not to carry the crushing weight of shame alone. Projection helps reduce self-blame, especially when one feels morally isolated.

b. Rationalization

She might be justifying her past actions by normalizing them, framing them within a broader societal context where such behavior is not unusual. This is a psychological survival response to mitigate internal dissonance and public ridicule.

c. Reaction Formation or False Bravado

What appears as boldness may actually be false courage, masking deep emotional pain. In trauma psychology, people often display exaggerated strength or denial to avoid being emotionally overwhelmed. Her boldness could be a shield, not an absence of remorse.

d. Dissociation

In severe public shame, individuals can dissociate from the intensity of the moment, appearing numb or unaffected not because they are heartless, but because the emotional overload is unbearable.

2. Psychological Effects of Public Shaming

Public shaming, especially of a sexual nature, can have devastating psychological consequences. The act of her sex video being recorded years ago according to her interview and only recently leaked indicates intentional harm by others. Research in trauma psychology shows that non-consensual exposure of private life, particularly sexuality, often leads to:

1. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): Flashbacks, nightmares, fear of public spaces, paranoia, and a loss of basic safety.

2. Depression and Anxiety Disorders: Helplessness, despair, social withdrawal, and even suicidal ideation.

3. Complex Trauma (C-PTSD): Prolonged exposure to humiliation and verbal abuse, such as the kind she’s facing now, can impair self-esteem, emotional regulation, and identity formation.

Shaming someone in such a way especially a woman in a deeply patriarchal society results in double victimization: first by the sexual act being exposed, and second by the mob justice of the public.

3. Trauma, Gender, and Cultural Violence

In cultures where women are disproportionately shamed for sexual "sins", a woman like Mrs. Odika becomes an archetypal scapegoat. While men involved often escape scrutiny (Ichie Obiora, in this case, has received less public outcry), the woman becomes the symbol of moral failure. This is psychological violence disguised as cultural righteousness.

4. Clinical Perspective on Healing

If society continues to shame her, this woman could spiral into self-hatred, suicidal thoughts, or a complete psychological breakdown. What she needs now is not condemnation but professional support, compassionate pastoral care, and community reintegration.

The task of a compassionate society is not to mock the wounded, but to bandage the bleeding. If we continue to laugh while someone psychologically bleeds, we are no longer moral we are cruel.

Finally, Mrs. Chinasa Odika’s response in the interview is best understood as a complex defense against psychological annihilation. Her boldness is not a lack of remorse, but a desperate form of self-preservation. Public shaming is never a tool of healing it is a weapon of destruction. Her healing, like that of any broken soul, must come through truth, justice, mercy, and love.

As psychologists, pastors, and citizens, we must ask ourselves: What kind of society do we become when we devour the wounded instead of helping them stand again?

Shalom Haverim! 

© Rev. Fr. Peter Uche Onuoha

THE MORE SEX YOU HAVE WITH HER, THE MORE POWER SHE HAS TO DESTROY YOU

THE MORE SEX YOU HAVE WITH HER, THE MORE POWER SHE HAS TO DESTROY YOU.(Sexual access without purpose is emotional suicide for men).Let’s talk like men, Because many of you are confusing orgasm with victory. You think frequent sex means you’re in control?No. You’re the one being played.Every time you sleep with her, something happens in your mind that you can’t control.You bond.You soften.You start to tolerate nonsense.Your masculine edge? Gone.Your emotional balance? Hijacked.Your purpose? Now competing with her body.She doesn’t need witchcraft. Sex is the spell.She gets inside your head without touching your brain.She starts living rent-free in your thoughts.You wake up thinking of her.You sleep craving her.You obey her just to keep the access flowing.You think you’re in a relationship. But really—you’re in a trap.You’re negotiating your self-worth in exchange for physical pleasure.You’re tolerating disrespect because you “don’t want to start over.”You’re holding on to her out of fear, not love.The more sex you have, the more emotionally compromised you become.You ignore the red flags.You excuse her bad behavior.You start asking her for direction instead of leading.And guess what?She notices.And she loses respect.Because no woman respects a man she controls with her body.You’ve turned from her protector to her puppet.From a man with a mission, to a man with a mattress.Some of you are in relationships that only still exist because of sex.You don’t even like her personality.You don’t trust her character.You can’t see a future with her.But the sex?It got you hypnotized.Now you’re stuck in a cycle of emotional suicide.Let me be clear: Sex isn’t bad. But sex without purpose is dangerous.If she’s not your wife or part of your long-term vision,You’re not “winning”—you’re wasting.Wasting time. Wasting energy.Wasting destiny.Discipline is the true flex.Any man can chase women.But it takes a real KING to walk away from good sex for a better future.Control your appetite, or your appetite will control you.Choose purpose. Not pleasure.Choose power. Not puppetry.Choose your mission. Not her mattress.Because the more sex you have with her, the more power she has to destroy you.And by the time you realize it…She’s already walking away with your mind, your energy, and youry potential.Copied from Samuel O. Samuel's wall..

REASONS WHY YOU'RE ALWAYS BROKE EVEN THOUGH YOU WORK HARD

REASONS WHY YOU'RE ALWAYS BROKE EVEN THOUGH YOU WORK HARD

(Hard work alone no be enough. You need sense, strategy, and discipline to win.)

You wake up early every morning, hustle till your body complain, but at the end of the month, your bank balance still looks like an empty pocket thief struck. You ask yourself, “Why  are rich like those guys?”

 I get news for you:your habits and mindset does not sabotage your grind. Village people are not your problem, your own lifestyle is.

1. YOU WORK HARD, BUT YOU DON’T WORK SMART

You hustle physically, you run errands, you do odd jobs, but you never think about how to multiply that hustle. You run like rat with no  cheese.

Meanwhile, other guys are using their brains to invest small small, learn skills, start side hustles, build passive income.

Working hard is good. But working smart is the key to escape a poverty trap.

What to do: Learn skills that pay well. Invest in knowledge, not just sweat.

2. YOUR MONEY HAS NO PLAN, NO TRACKING

When salary enter, you just  spend anyhowly—no budget, no savings, no investment. 

This is why every month, you are broke before payday.

What to do: Budget your money like a CEO. Know where every coin will go.

3. YOU CARRY TOO MANY PEOPLE ON YOUR BACK

Your salary is not just for you — it’s for mama, uncle, cousin, friend, street people... you are playing Minister of Finance for everybody.

But no one does the same for you.

Reality: You can’t build wealth carrying 10 people. You must build yourself first.

What to do: Help when you fit, but put your future first.

4. YOU’RE ADDICTED TO SPENDING, NOT INVESTING

You spend on luxury, new gadgets, slay queen maintenance, designer labels… but when time to invest come, you suddenly “have no money again.”

This lifestyle is a silent killer. You  build others’ businesses, not yours.

What to do: Switch your mindset from consume to invest. Use money to grow assets.

5. YOU LIVE PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK WITH NO EMERGENCY FUND

Every little emergency crashes your finances—no backup, no plan B.

So when things go wrong, you borrow, borrow, borrow until you fall into debt trap.

What to do: Save at least 3 months salary as emergency fund. Build cushion.

6. YOU FAIL TO MULTIPLY YOUR INCOME SOURCES

Relying on one salary? That’s like sitting on one leg and expecting to run marathon.

True wealth comes from multiple income streams—business, investments, side hustles.

What to do: Start small side hustles. Learn to create money streams outside salary.

7. YOU WAIT FOR MIRACLE WHILE DOING NOTHING

You pray and wait for miracle money. But no action follows.

Prayers without hustle and procrastination with spiritual flavour.

What to do: Pray with your legs and hands. Action is the partner of blessing.

FINAL TRUTH:

Hard work is important, but without planning, discipline, and smart decisions, you will remain broke.

Village people are not the cause of your poverty; your habits and choices are.

If you want to escape the poverty cycle:

Hustle smart, not just hard.

Budget and track your money.

Cut unnecessary spending.

Build emergency funds.

Multiply your income sources.

Stop carrying unnecessary financial burdens.

Pair prayer with action.

If this post hit you hard, don’t just scroll. Change your mindset, change your life.

Class dismissed.

SEX IS THE MOST EXPENSIVE FREE THING, IT WILL COST YOU A LOT

(How lust keeps men distracted and broke)

Let’s tell the truth a lot of men won’t admit:

It’s not village people holding you back — it’s vagina.

You’re not broke because of bad luck…

You’re broke because you keep trading focus for pleasure.

Every time you chase sex, you’re pushing success further away.

Let’s break it down like men:

1. Sex Is the Most Expensive Free Thing

You think it’s just “ordinary” sex?

No problem.

But check your life…

Since you started jumping from woman to woman, what has grown?

Your goals?

Or your excuses?

You’re wasting time, money, and mental space trying to impress women…

While your destiny is stuck on pause.

2. Lust Makes Men Lazy

You were meant to build.

You were born to conquer.

But now you’re just horny, hungry, and distracted.

Instead of chasing purpose, you’re chasing panties.

Instead of building skills, you are building body counts.

No great man was ever built in a woman’s DM.

3. Every Round Is a Round Lost

Every round of sex you’re having with women you don’t love, don’t respect, and don’t plan to marry…

You’re losing time, clarity, and ambition.

Your mates are investing in business — you’re investing in waists.

They’re building empires — you’re building libido.

This is why you’re always tired. Foggy. Empty.

You’re draining your greatness in hotel rooms with nothing to show for it.

4. The Most Dangerous Woman Is the One Who Feels Like “Escape”

She’s soft. She’s sweet. She listens. She rubs your back.

You feel like a king in her arms — but you wake up with nothing.

That’s not a woman. That’s a distraction with makeup.

She’s not building you. She’s draining you.

And you’re addicted to the illusion of comfort.

5. Women Are Not the Problem — Your Discipline Is

Sex is not evil. Women are not the enemy.

But lack of control? That’s your downfall.

You can’t blame women when it’s your zipper that won’t stay up.

You can’t blame seduction when it’s you that keeps answering “Come over.”

You don’t need more women. You need more focus.

6. You Can’t Plant in Every Soil and Expect a Harvest

Your energy is like a seed.

And you keep planting it in toxic soil — broken girls, unserious women, emotionally damaged distractions…

And you expect to reap success?

No sir.

You’ll reap confusion. Poverty. Setbacks.

Every orgasm with the wrong woman is a step away from your purpose.

7. Great Men Aren’t Sex-Addicted — They’re Purpose-Addicted

Want to rise in life?

Start saying NO to cheap pleasure.

Start saying YES to late nights building.

Early mornings grinding.

Weekends learning.

Your mates are focused. You’re horny.

That’s why they’re succeeding… and you’re just scrolling, chasing, and struggling.

Final Word:

Sex will always be there. But opportunity waits for no man.

You must decide:

Will you chase the temporary rush of sex — or the long-term reward of success?

Because you can’t serve two masters.

You either build… or you keep begging

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Men, Listen up!WHY MOST WOMEN LOSE INTEREST AFTER WEDDING

Most Women Lose Interest After Wedding. It’s not because you changed. It’s because the fantasy expired.

Let’s kill the illusion.

You didn’t fall off.

You didn’t stop being attractive.

You didn’t “switch up.”

She just realized the wedding is over—

and reality doesn’t come with filters.

Because most women weren’t in love with you.

They were in love with how you made them feel while you were chasing them.

Once you got her?

She started asking—“Where’s the thrill?”

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1. Her Love Was Never Rooted in Duty—It Was Rooted in Dopamine

She loved the pursuit.

The attention.

The feeling of being wanted.

But dopamine fades.

And once the likes, the engagement buzz, the proposal ring glow die down—

so does her interest.

She was chasing butterflies.

You were chasing legacy.

That’s where you both missed each other.

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2. She Got What She Wanted—Now She’s Bored

You saw marriage as the beginning.

She saw it as the peak.

You wanted to build.

She wanted to enjoy.

So when the selfies stopped trending,

when the vacations turned into school runs,

when you started focusing on the grind—

she started checking out.

Not because you failed.

But because the fantasy was fulfilled.

Now she’s waiting for the next fairytale chapter.

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3. She Was Trained to Secure—Not Sustain

Modern women are experts at getting a man.

Slay. Smile. Submit on demand.

Strategically soft until the ring lands.

But no one taught her how to keep a man.

How to serve without ego.

How to show up when it’s no longer fun.

How to be consistent when life gets real.

Now every conversation feels like criticism.

Every correction feels like control.

Every leadership move feels like domination.

She’s not “losing interest.”

She’s just out of her depth.

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4. She Still Thinks It’s Day One—You Know It’s Day 3,000

You’ve had two kids.

You’ve got bills, school fees, a job that’s draining your soul.

But she’s still quoting relationship gurus:

“Date her like it’s the first day.”

“Keep courting her forever.”

“Be spontaneous.”

I’m sorry, today is not day one.

It’s Tuesday.

Your rent is due.

Your toddler just spilled pap on your shirt.

And the car battery is dead.

Disney lied to her.

Every romance movie ends with “happily ever after.”

No one shows the chaos after the credits.

You thought marriage meant you could be yourself now.

Drop the bad boy act.

Be mature.

Be present.

But she still wants the man who made her tingle on day one.

Not the man who pays the light bill.

You left the game.

She’s still watching the replay.

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5. There’s No Romance Without Finance

If you haven’t figured out your numbers,

you’re setting yourself up to fail.

Most women won’t suffer with a man.

And the few who try?

They’ve got an internal countdown.

She’ll stay while it’s “cute.”

But when the pressure gets real,

and her lifestyle starts shrinking,

she’s gone—faster than the money disappeared.

Love doesn’t pay rent.

Cuddles don’t fuel generators.

And “we’ll figure it out” doesn’t pay school fees.

If you’re broke—prepare to lose both her and your peace.

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6. Her Friends Are the Whisperers of Greener Grass

Once your wife surrounds herself with single mothers, bitter exes, and run-girls?

Brace yourself.

Because girls’ night is no longer about small chops and gist.

It’s about planting seeds of dissatisfaction.

“You’re still cooking for him?”

“Girl, you deserve soft life!”

“You’re too loyal. He’s not even romantic.”

She starts comparing.

She starts doubting.

She starts wondering what she’s missing.

Bad company corrupts good morals.

But bad company with a weak woman?

That’s a guaranteed relationship death sentence.

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7. You Didn’t Do a Background Check—Now You’re Paying Generational Debt

Her mother cycled through four men before settling for one.

Or none.

Now that same mother is her advisor.

Teaching her how to “never let a man control you.”

How to “always have a backup plan.”

How to “never suffer like she did.”

You thought you married your dream girl.

You actually married her mother’s unfinished trauma.

Without strong, virtuous foundations—

a woman becomes a product of pain, not principles.

No present father to model restraint.

No wise pastor to call her to order.

No structure. No self-discipline.

So when things get hard,

she doesn’t dig deeper.

She downloads divorce papers.

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8. When Love Becomes Labor, Most Women Clock Out

She doesn’t want struggle.

She doesn’t want pressure.

She doesn’t want anything that looks like patience.

And the moment love feels like work—

she files for emotional leave.

That’s why 80% of divorces are initiated by women.

They don’t stay through storms.

They cancel subscriptions at the first inconvenience.

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So What’s the Real Reason She Lost Interest?

Because reality showed up—

and it wasn’t as exciting as the fantasy she created in her head.

You were a project.

She was the architect of a fairytale.

The day you stopped playing the role—

she started deleting the story.

It’s not about “you changed.”

It’s about “her dream died.”

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Final Warning to Men:

Don’t marry a vibe.

Marry values.

Don’t chase butterflies.

Plant roots.

Don’t assume a ring means forever.

It only means “for now” until tested.

Because once the illusion fades,

only the real ones stay.

And if you’re unlucky?

You’ll be the husband…

she uses as a stepping stone to her second phase.

Comments are open.

Let the fantasy lovers defend their script.

My Missing Ribs 

Timothy Obafemi

DID YOU KNOW WHY THE BOOK OF THE GOSPEL IS PLACED ON POPE FRANCIS' COFFIN?😲🤔

You see that Book of the Gospel placed on the coffin of Pope Francis, it isn’t just a symbol,  it is a message.

That book is the Book of the Gospels, the Word of Life that guided him every day. It represents how he lived: carrying the Gospel close to his heart, preaching it with his words, and even more with his life.

As it rests on his coffin, it is as if the Church is saying: “Here lies a man who lived and breathed the Good News. Now the Word he loved carries him home.” 

It is not just a tribute; it is a final mission, the Gospel standing watch, testifying that he fought the good fight, kept the faith, and now receives the crown of eternal life.

A silent, powerful reminder for us all: Live the Gospel so deeply that when you die, it speaks louder than any eulogy ever could.

#catholicsonlineclass

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Can a Relationship Survive Without Physical Intimacy?

This question sparks a lot of debate. 

Physical intimacy, like cuddling, kissing, and sex, is important in many relationships. It’s one of the ways partners express love, build connection,yh and maintain closeness. But for others, emotional intimacy, communication, trust, and companionship are the foundation and that can be enough.

Relationships can absolutely survive (and thrive) without physical intimacy if both partners are on the same page.  obThat’s the key. However, problems arise when one partner craves intimacy while the other doesn't. In such cases, unmet needs can lead to frustration, resent ument, or infidelity.

So, can a relationship survive without physical intimacy? Yes—but only when there's open communication, deep emotional connection, and mutual agreement. At the end of the day, intimacy isn’t just physical; it’s also emotional, spiritual, and intellectual.

What matters most is finding what works for you and your partner.

PHINATION.

WHY SEAL THE APARTMENT OF THE POPE AT DEPARTURE?

The sealing of the Pope’s apartment door (specifically the Apostolic Palace in the Vatican) upon his departure; especially after his death or resignation is a symbolic and traditional act rooted in Catholic custom and protocol. 

This is why this happens. 

1. Symbol of the Sede Vacante

When a Pope dies or resigns, the Holy See enters a period known as "Sede Vacante" (“the seat being vacant”). During this time, the papal apartment is sealed to indicate that the Pope no longer occupies it and that the papal authority is temporarily suspended until a new Pope is elected. 

2. Security and Preservation

The sealing of the Pope’s private quarters is also done to:

• Secure the area from unauthorized entry.

• Preserve the Pope’s personal documents and belongings, which may later be reviewed or archived.

• Prevent tampering or removal of any important items before an official inventory is taken.

3. Canonical and Ceremonial Protocol

Traditionally, the Camerlengo (the cardinal who administers the Church during the interregnum) plays a central role in this process. He formally confirms the Pope’s death, then places a wax seal on the door of the papal apartments.

REST ON PAPA FRANCESCO 

©FADA Ebubedike 

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The Truth About Fake Catholic Churches in Nigeria: How to Spot a Genuine Catholic Mass.

Earlier today, I made a post saying, “Not all Catholic priests are Roman Catholic priests.” Sounds confusing, right? Well, that was exactly the point—to get people thinking! I wanted to open up a conversation with my online parishioners about the beautiful diversity within the Catholic Church, especially when it comes to the different rites and traditions.

But guess what? The comment section and My Dm  turned into a mini investigation room! From what I gathered, there are already quite a number of churches in Nigeria calling themselves “Catholic”—but many of them are not in communion with Rome, and some aren’t even part of the 23 legitimate Eastern Catholic Churches. They’re independent groups started by individuals who simply attach “Catholic” to their names to sound authentic or authoritative.

Let’s be real: not everyone who wears a collar or celebrates “Mass” under the name Catholic is actually connected to the Roman Catholic Church or any of the Eastern Catholic Churches in union with the Pope.

Take, for instance, the Old Catholic Apostolic Church (OCAC). They operate in Nigeria and claim to follow the original teachings of the Church, but they’re not under the authority of the Pope. In fact, in 2024, the Diocese of Ahiara (Imo State) had to issue a statement distancing themselves from someone claiming to be a priest from the OCAC. Why? Because he's not a Roman Catholic priest, and his sacraments aren’t valid according to our faith.

Another example is from Enugu, where a group calling themselves the Old Roman Catholic Church have been holding liturgies that mimic the Roman Rite. The Catholic Diocese of Enugu came out clearly and said, “These guys are NOT us.” Despite dressing the part and using familiar prayers, they’re not in union with the Universal Church.

So here’s my gentle pastoral advice:

Be vigilant. Before attending a Mass or receiving any sacrament, 

make sure the church is truly Roman Catholic—or at least one of the 23 legitimate Catholic Churches in communion with the Pope. If you’re unsure, ask a trusted priest or check with your local diocese.

Remember, using the word "Catholic" doesn’t automatically make something Catholic in truth. Let’s stay alert, informed, and faithful.

Stay blessed and guided!

The 23 are as follows;

1. Alexandrian Tradition

1. Coptic Catholic Church

2. Eritrean Catholic Church

3. Ethiopian Catholic Church

2. Antiochian (West Syrian) Tradition

4. Maronite Church

5. Syriac Catholic Church

6. Syro-Malankara Catholic Church

3. Armenian Tradition

7. Armenian Catholic Church

4. Chaldean (East Syrian) Tradition

8. Chaldean Catholic Church

9. Syro-Malabar Catholic Church

5. Byzantine (Constantinopolitan) Tradition

10. Albanian Greek Catholic Church

11. Belarusian Greek Catholic Church

12. Bulgarian Greek Catholic Church

13. Greek Catholic Church of Croatia and Serbia

14. Greek Catholic Church of Macedonia

15. Greek Catholic Church of Hungary

16. Italo-Albanian Catholic Church

17. Melkite Greek Catholic Church

18. Romanian Greek Catholic Church

19. Russian Greek Catholic Church

20. Ruthenian Greek Catholic Church

21. Slovak Greek Catholic Church

22. Ukrainian Greek Catholic Church

23. Latin (Western) Church

©Fada Prince Chidi

The Catholic Knights – Warriors for God or Occultic Brotherhood in Disguise?

Let’s talk about something people whisper about but rarely say out loud: What’s really going on with the so-called Catholic “Knights” in our churches today?

I mean, let’s be honest. When you hear “Knight of Saint Mulumba” what comes to mind? Is it a prayerful servant of God… or a rich man in agbada with a big ring, bigger stomach, and even bigger secrets?

Let’s talk about a group in the Catholic Church that everyone knows—but few truly understand: The Knights. You’ve seen them in big robes, sitting in front during Mass, sometimes moving like VIPs. But who are they really?

A knight is traditionally a military warrior who has been granted an honorary title for service, bravery, or loyalty—often tied to religious and moral codes like chivalry.

In the Catholic Church context, a knight is typically a lay member of a religious order or brotherhood who pledges to live out Christian values through charity, service, and defense of the faith.

Historically, the idea of knights started in Europe during the Crusades (around 11th–13th century). These were not just rich men in robes—they were real warriors who protected Christians traveling to the Holy Land, fought in battles to defend the Church, and even helped the poor and sick. Think of Knights Templar, Knights of Malta, and Knights Hospitaller.

These men took vows—yes, like priests!—of poverty, chastity, and obedience. They were known for discipline, prayer, and courage but they are not priests. 

Today’s Knights: What Happened?

In modern times, we still have knight groups like:

• Knights of Columbus (worldwide)

• Knights of Saint Mulumba (common in Nigeria)

These are laymen (not priests) who vow to defend the Church, support charitable works, and live good Catholic lives.

But let’s be honest—many people don’t trust them anymore. Why?

From Knights to Night Men – What Nigerian Movies like "The Mighty Men, Occult Knights, and The Order" depict supposed Catholic knights as wealthy men masking occultic activities behind a cross and title. While dramatized, these stories reflect real societal fears: that some “knights” use their positions for influence, not faith.

In many Nigerian movies, knights are portrayed as rich men hiding behind the cross, using their title to cover up occult practices. Some may say, “Father, is this not true?” And I say: in some cases, yes. Some have used their titles for manipulation, politics, and control, not for Christ.

But there are still many genuine Catholic knights:

• Men who sponsor poor children through school.

• Knights who help build churches in villages.

• Knights who pray the Rosary daily and lead their families in faith.

• Knights who give generously—not to show off, but to serve God.

So, Are Knights Still Important?

Yes—but only when they are true to Christ.

The Church needs men of courage, faith, and love—not just title holders who disappear when there’s work, but show up when there’s praise.

We need knights who:

• Defend the weak

• Speak truth in corrupt systems

• Serve the poor without expecting applause

• Live holy, humble lives

If you're already a knight, ask yourself:

• Am I representing Jesus or just chasing status?

• Do people see light in me—or darkness?

And if you're not a knight, remember: Every Christian is called to be a spiritual knight—a warrior for truth, justice, and love.

Don’t just wear the robe. Wear the armor of God. 

Rev Fr Prince Chidi Philip

Not All Catholic Priests Are Roman Catholic Priests!

Wait—Did You Know? Not All Catholic Priests Are Roman Catholic Priests!

Sounds wild, right? But it’s true!

Most of the time when people hear “Catholic priest,” they think of a man in black with a Roman collar, probably under the Pope’s leadership in Rome. That’s the Roman Catholic priest. But here’s the catch:

There are Catholic priests who aren’t Roman Catholic. And they’re just as Catholic!

So, who are these “other” Catholic priests?

They belong to what's called the Eastern Catholic Churches—these are Catholic Churches with different traditions, different styles of Mass, and even… wait for it… some married priests!

These churches include:

• Maronite Catholic

• Byzantine Catholic

• Chaldean Catholic

• Melkite Catholic, and more!

They are fully united with the Pope in Rome, believe in the same core teachings, and receive the same Eucharist—but they don’t always follow the Roman (Latin) way of doing things.

How Did This Happen?

It goes all the way back to a church breakup in 1054 AD, called the Great Schism. The Church in the West (Rome) and the Church in the East (Constantinople) had some major disagreements:

• Who’s in charge? (Rome or Constantinople?)

• Can priests marry?

• What’s the correct wording in the Creed?

• And how much authority should the Pope really have?

So, the Church split—some went the Roman way, and others the Eastern way. Over time, some Eastern groups came back into unity with Rome, but they kept their unique styles, including their own Catholic priests who are not Roman Catholic.

So, What Should We Remember?

• All Roman Catholic priests are Catholic.

• But not all Catholic priests are Roman Catholic.

• And that’s okay! The Church is one big family with many rooms—same faith, different expressions!

Now you can impress your friends at Bible study or catechism class:

“Hey, did you know Catholic priests aren’t all Roman?”

©Rev Fr Prince Chidi Philip

Holy Thursday: A Sacred First for MePriestly vows/promises Renewal Day

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Today isn’t just another day in Holy Week—it’s Holy Thursday, a day rich in meaning, tradition, and grace. But for me, it carries a special, once-in-a-lifetime significance: it’s my first time participating in the Chrism Mass and renewing my priestly vows as a newly ordained priest.

So, what exactly is the Chrism Mass?

Held in cathedrals around the world, the Chrism Mass is a beautiful liturgy where the bishop gathers with all the priests of the diocese. During this Mass, three sacred oils are blessed:

• The Oil of Catechumens (used in baptism),

• The Oil of the Sick (for anointing the sick), and

• The Sacred Chrism (used in baptism, confirmation, and ordination).

These oils will be used throughout the year in parishes—so in a way, today's Mass is a spiritual supply day for the entire Church!

But there's more.

The Chrism Mass is also when priests renew their priestly promises. Standing shoulder to shoulder with brother priests, we respond to the bishop's invitation to renew our commitment to serve God’s people with love, integrity, and joy. It's like a spiritual anniversary reminder—a chance to go back to the "why" of our vocation and rekindle the fire that led us here.

And for me—this year—it’s my first.

My first Chrism Mass.

My first renewal of vows.

My first Holy Thursday as a priest.

As the oils are lifted, and the promises echoed, I silently pray:

"He who calls me is faithful, and He will do it." (1 Thess 5:24)

May this Holy Thursday pour out fresh oil on every priest, every faithful heart, and may the spirit of service and joy be renewed in us all.

© Fada Prince Chidi Philip

Why Nigeria Catholic Church Doesn’t Have Permanent Deacons (Yet) – And Why That Might Change.

One day you might be calling your neighbor not just “Mr. Okonkwo,” but “Deacon Okonkwo”—and that wouldn’t be a bad thing at all. Let's scoop deeper..

In the Catholic Church, when you hear "deacon," most people think of someone on their way to becoming a priest. You know, the transitional deacon—the pit stop before the altar. But lo and behold, there's another type that doesn’t always get the spotlight: the Permanent Deacon.

Think of the permanent deacon as the Church’s version of a Swiss Army knife. He's ordained, wears the clerical collar, preaches at Mass, baptizes, officiates weddings, conducts funerals, and sometimes even pulls double duty as your favorite uncle at family events. But here’s the twist—he doesn’t become a priest, and he might even have a wife and kids at home!

So, who is he? 

A permanent deacon is a man (often married) who feels called to serve the Church not just for a season but for a lifetime—permanently, hence the name. He lives among the people, works like the people, and yet serves like Christ the Servant. He’s a bridge between the sanctuary and the street, the pulpit and the people.

Why is this awesome? 

Because the Church gets more workers in the vineyard! With priests often stretched thin, the permanent deacon can take some pressure off, allowing the priest to focus more on the sacraments and pastoral care. It’s teamwork, really—divine teamwork.

Now, let’s talk Nigeria… You might ask, “If this is so good, why don’t we see more of them in countries like Nigeria?” Good question.

Here’s the scoop: In many African countries—Nigeria included—the idea of the permanent diaconate hasn’t fully taken root. Not because the people aren’t worthy, or the Church doesn’t care, but because of a mix of cultural, pastoral, and practical reasons.

Cultural Perception: In Nigeria, many still see the hierarchy as priest-or-nothing. If you’re wearing a collar, people assume you’re on your way to priesthood. A deacon who stays a deacon? It’s unfamiliar territory. People might start whispering, "Did he fail seminary?" 

Clerical Identity: Some bishops are cautious. They fear that introducing married clergy (even in the form of deacons) could confuse the faithful or blur the lines in a country where clerical respect is deeply tied to celibacy.

Vocations Abundance: Ironically, Nigeria has been blessed with a high number of priestly vocations. So some bishops may feel there’s no urgent need to “supplement” with permanent deacons.

Formation and Structure: Establishing a permanent diaconate program isn’t just about saying “yes.” It requires proper formation, support systems, ongoing training, and clear roles. Some dioceses are still building this infrastructure.

But times are changing… As parish populations grow, priests become fewer in some regions, and communities need more outreach—some bishops are starting to reconsider. The idea of a married man who knows village life, local culture, and Church doctrine is sounding more like a blessing and less like a theological headache.

Permanent deacons may not yet be a common sight in Nigeria, but their time might be coming. They are the Church’s servant-leaders, ready to preach, baptize, and even help set up the church tent when the choir gets too loud. They are proof that the Church has room for more than one path to holiness and service.

Rev. Brothers vs. Permanent Deacons:

Rev. Brothers vs. Permanent Deacons: Who Can get married,  Raise a Family and Who Can’t Even Date?

Rev. Brother

A Rev. Brother is like that super-dedicated guy who said to Jesus,

"I’m all in. No wife, no wealth, just You and Your mission."

He lives in a religious community (like the Franciscans, Salesians, etc.).

He takes vows—usually poverty, chastity, and obedience.

He doesn’t get married. Nope. Not even maybe.

No wife, no dating, no “future Mrs. Just a rev Brother.”

He’s not a priest. That means:

No Mass, no Confession, no Anointing.

But he does a LOT of other amazing things: teaching, helping the poor, youth ministry, you name it!

Now, Meet Permanent Deacon

And yes—he’s a clergy member too!

A Permanent Deacon is ordained through the Sacrament of Holy Orders. He’s the real deal. Clergy with a capital “C.”

He can preach homilies, baptize babies, marry couples, bless stuff, etc

But he can’t say Mass, can’t consecrate the Eucharist, and can’t hear confessions.

That’s the priest’s lane.

Permanent Deacons can be married—but only if they were married before being ordained.

Once ordained, if they’re single, they stay single. If they’re married and their wife dies… sorry, no remarriage.

Ten sexual rules for men.

1. Do not sleep with your students, employees, staff, or anyone you have considerable power over. It will definitely not end well.

2. So not be foolish enough to indulge in one night stands.

You could easily be set up or killed if you are known to indulge perpetually.

3. If you must have sex outside your relationship or marriage, make sure you pay for it and ensure there is a virtual receipt of the transaction.

Just in case.....

4. Refrain from promising a woman marriage in order to sleep with her.

It is a gutter behavior.

Also refrain from making promises when you are naked.

90% of the time you will be unable to keep them.

5. Do not sleep with a woman who is in a lower social standing than you. I don't care how beautiful she is.

Especially if you have nothing serious intended with her.

Because all her hopes and dreams will be entrusted to you.... And it is a dangerous place to be.

6. Do not sleep with lady who has nothing going on for herself.

(i.e; No job, No career, No skills, No ambition.... Etc.)

They are most likely to trap you with a pregnancy, to ensure you continue to feed them.

7. If you find yourself using a condom, then you probably shouldn't be sleeping with that particular woman.

8. Stay away from the Ex's of your friends, brothers or family.

Because, human emotions are complicated. Your friends and family may verbally give you the go ahead but deep down they may resent you for it; especially if there are still lingering feelings for the so called Ex'es.

9. In the course of your life, a lot of women will willingly offer you sex.

Be highly selective. Not out of pride, but out of responsibility.

Because the result of sex is pregnancy.

Sleep only with women you are sure can effectively raise your kids.

10. A high body count will mess you up mentally. Many times you will find yourself out of the blue craving sex with a sexual partner from the past.

This is because of the highly chemical and spiritual nature of sex.

Keep your body count low.

A wise king in the bible who Married a thousand wives came out to say...

It's all vanity.

And he died badly....

Learn from his mistakes.

Shei you grab!!!!

Your virgin sharwama husband!!!

#Saimaster

Wealth Looks Like a crime in Africa

In Nigeria — and most parts of Africa — we have mastered the art of demonizing success. We equates poverty with holiness and wealth with wickedness

If a young man is rich:

“Yahoo boy!”

If it’s an older man:

“Ritualist!”

If a young woman is living well:

“Runs girl!” or “Prostitute!”

If she’s older and still doing well:

“Retired prostitute” or “witch!”

At this point, I’m wondering — must someone be hungry and tattered before we believe they are holy?

We have romanticized poverty and baptized it as spirituality — forgetting that riches, too, are a blessing from God.

Let’s flip through the Bible real quick:

Abraham was very rich in livestock, silver, and gold (Genesis 13:2).

Isaac sowed in the land and reaped a hundredfold — the man became rich, and continued to grow richer until he became very wealthy (Genesis 26:12-13).

Jacob left with a staff and returned with a nation.

Joseph moved from prison to prime minister, handling the entire wealth of Egypt.

David and Solomon? Their riches would make billionaires today look like beginners. Solomon literally made silver "as common as stones" (2 Chronicles 1:15)!

Now flip to the New Testament:

The wise men who came to Jesus brought gold, frankincense, and myrrh — expensive gifts. They didn’t come with suffering and salt.

Joseph of Arimathea, who gave Jesus his tomb, was a rich man and a disciple (Matthew 27:57).

Lydia, the seller of purple, was a businesswoman who hosted Paul — and purple wasn’t cheap back then (Acts 16:14-15).

Even Jesus Himself had a treasurer (Judas), which means… there was something to manage!

So tell me again — where did we get the idea that being rich means being evil?

God blesses those who worship Him, not only with peace and salvation but also with provision.

Wealth is a tool, not a trap — it depends on the heart of the holder.

Instead of casting stones at the wealthy, let’s ask:

“God, bless me too — and prepare my heart to carry it wisely.”

Because poverty is not a spiritual gift. And heaven is not broke.

Rev Fr Prince Chidi Philip

100 EXAMPLES OF ALLITERATION IN ENGLISH!!!

DEFINITION OF ALLITERATION AS A FIGURE OF SPEECH:

Alliteration is a figure of speech in which two or more words in a phrase or sentence begin with the same consonant sound. It is used to create rhythm, emphasis, and mood, especially in poetry and literature. The repetition is usually of the initial consonant sound in closely connected words.

1. Young yonder yard yelled. All words start with 'Y'.

2. Red ran raging rocks. All words start with 'R'.

3. High hearts hopped held. All words start with 'H'.

4. Pink played peacefully pond. All words start with 'P'.

5. Long loudly lazy low. All words start with 'L'.

6. Kind kites kept knowledge. All words start with 'K'.

7. Great green giants grow. All words start with 'G'.

8. Fast furry foxes fled. All words start with 'F'.

9. Jolly jungle jumps joyful. All words start with 'J'.

10. Tiny tigers tiptoed today. All words start with 'T'.

11. Silly snakes slide silently. All words start with 'S'.

12. Big brave bears bounced. All words start with 'B'.

13. Naughty nurses nodded near. All words start with 'N'.

14. Dark dreams dropped deeply. All words start with 'D'.

15. Vast valleys vanished very. All words start with 'V'.

16. Wild wolves wandered west. All words start with 'W'.

17. Cold clever cats chased. All words start with 'C'.

18. Mighty mountains moved mice. All words start with 'M'.

19. Zany zebras zoomed zealously. All words start with 'Z'.

20. Quick quails quarreled quietly. All words start with 'Q'.

21. Glowing grapes grew greatly. All words start with 'G'.

22. Happy hollow hills hopped. All words start with 'H'.

23. Bright bold birds bounced. All words start with 'B'.

24. Clever clouds climbed calmly. All words start with 'C'.

25. Soft snow silently slipped. All words start with 'S'.

26. Fierce foxes fought fearlessly. All words start with 'F'.

27. Peaceful pink pandas played. All words start with 'P'.

28. Tall trees trembled tonight. All words start with 'T'.

29. Loud lions laughed long. All words start with 'L'.

30. Deep dark dreams drifted. All words start with 'D'.

31. Jumpy jaguars joked joyfully. All words start with 'J'.

32. Quick quiet queens quested. All words start with 'Q'.

33. Kind kings kept kites. All words start with 'K'.

34. Noisy nightingales nodded nightly. All words start with 'N'.

35. Violet vines vanished vividly. All words start with 'V'.

36. Witty weasels wandered widely. All words start with 'W'.

37. Crazy cats clawed couches. All words start with 'C'.

38. Hollow hills held hope. All words start with 'H'.

39. Zebras zigzagged zealously zones. All words start with 'Z'.

40. Loving lions lounged lazily. All words start with 'L'.

41. Bright blazing bonfires burned. All words start with 'B'.

42. Foolish frogs flipped fast. All words start with 'F'.

43. Daring dogs danced delightfully. All words start with 'D'.

44. Raging rivers rushed rapidly. All words start with 'R'.

45. Singing sparrows soared silently. All words start with 'S'.

46. Gentle giants gathered grapes. All words start with 'G'.

47. Mice met moonlit mountains. All words start with 'M'.

48. Jealous jellyfish jumped joylessly. All words start with 'J'.

49. Wonderful white wolves wandered. All words start with 'W'.

50. Quiet quokkas questioned quickly. All words start with 'Q'.

51. Bright blue birds burst. All words start with 'B'.

52. Lazy leopards lounged long. All words start with 'L'.

53. Cheerful children chased chickens. All words start with 'C'.

54. Dark days delivered doubt. All words start with 'D'.

55. Friendly frogs fished freely. All words start with 'F'.

56. Grumpy goats grabbed grapes. All words start with 'G'.

57. Happy hippos hopped heavily. All words start with 'H'.

58. Icy igloos isolated instantly. All words start with 'I'. (Note: Rare alliteration with vowels)

59. Joyful jesters juggled jellies. All words start with 'J'.

60. Kind kangaroos kicked kindly. All words start with 'K'.

61. Moody monkeys marched madly. All words start with 'M'.

62. Nifty narwhals navigated north. All words start with 'N'.

63. Odd owls observed openly. All words start with 'O'.

64. Playful parrots pecked pears. All words start with 'P'.

65. Quiet quokkas quickly quit. All words start with 'Q'.

66. Rowdy roosters raced rapidly. All words start with 'R'.

67. Sneaky snakes slithered slowly. All words start with 'S'.

68. Tired tigers took turns. All words start with 'T'.

69. Ugly urchins urged upward. All words start with 'U'.

70. Violent vultures veered violently. All words start with 'V'.

71. Wandering whales whistled wildly. All words start with 'W'.

72. Xenophobic xylophones xeroxed xenon. All words start with 'X'. (A stretch, but used poetically)

73. Youthful yaks yawned yearly. All words start with 'Y'.

74. Zebra zookeepers zigzagged zestfully. All words start with 'Z'.

75. Angry ants ate apples. All words start with 'A'.

76. Big balloons burst boldly. All words start with 'B'.

77. Clean cats climbed cliffs. All words start with 'C'.

78. Dizzy ducks dove deep. All words start with 'D'.

79. Eager eagles eyed earth. All words start with 'E'.

80. Fluffy foxes fetched feathers. All words start with 'F'.

81. Golden geese glided gracefully. All words start with 'G'.

82. Hungry hyenas hurried home. All words start with 'H'.

83. Iridescent iguanas ignored insects. All words start with 'I'.

84. Jumpy jackals juggled jellybeans. All words start with 'J'.

85. Keen koalas kept keys. All words start with 'K'.

86. Loyal lambs leaped lightly. All words start with 'L'.

87. Merry meerkats mimicked melodies. All words start with 'M'.

88. Neat newts navigated nests. All words start with 'N'.

89. Open otters observed oceans. All words start with 'O'.

90. Proud peacocks paraded proudly. All words start with 'P'.

91. Quiet queens questioned quakes. All words start with 'Q'.

92. Rapid rabbits raced rivers. All words start with 'R'.

93. Shy sheep shared shelters. All words start with 'S'.

94. Tiny turtles trotted timidly. All words start with 'T'.

95. Unique unicorns used umbrellas. All words start with 'U'.

96. Vain vampires vanished voluntarily. All words start with 'V'.

97. Wise wolves watched waterfalls. All words start with 'W'.

98. Xylophones x-rayed xenophobic xenops. Poetic use of 'X'.

99. Young yaks yelped yesterday. All words start with 'Y'.

100. Zigzagging zombies zipped zealously. All words start with 'Z'.

CAN AN IMPOTENT MAN BECOME A ROMAN CATHOLIC PRIEST?

 My Answer may surprise you…”

According to Church law, impotence is not an impediment to priesthood. Since priests are celibate, sexual function isn’t required for ordination.

But in Nigeria, it’s common for dioceses to require an impotence test before ordination. And not everyone is okay with that.

Take My friend Emeka, a seminarian in his final year. After 9 years of formation, prayer, and study, he received a letter from the diocesan office:

“All candidates are to undergo a full medical exam, including an impotence test.”

He was shocked. Why test something I’ll never use? he wondered. Isn’t celibacy enough? Emeka felt hurt — like his spiritual journey was being reduced to a medical report. 

In places like Nigeria, where priests are deeply visible figures, this step is more than medical — it’s pastoral prudence. It guards the Church, the priest, and the people of God.

So yes, an impotent man can become a priest. But in some places, the path includes unexpected tests — not out of mistrust, but out of love and responsibility.

Before ordination: Can impotence affect a man’s ordination?

Yes and No

According to Canon Law, there is no requirement for a man to be sexually potent in order to be ordained a priest.

But… in practice, it can become a concern if:

1. It’s linked to deeper medical or psychological issues

If the impotence is part of a larger health condition (e.g., hormonal imbalance, severe anxiety, trauma, or a congenital disorder), the bishop or superiors may pause or postpone ordination — not because of the impotence itself, but to assess:

Can he handle the rigors of ministry?

Is he emotionally and mentally stable?

Will he need ongoing treatment or support?

2. It raises questions about transparency or maturity

If the seminarian hides his condition or is dishonest about it, that can be more problematic than the impotence itself. The Church values truthfulness, transparency, and readiness.

3. Local customs or expectations apply

In some dioceses (like parts of Nigeria), the impotence test is a local requirement. If a candidate fails the test, the bishop may delay or withhold ordination — not because of Canon Law, but because of pastoral concerns, cultural expectations, or the potential for scandal.

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Placebo Effect

A prisoner was sentenced to death by hanging, but a group of scientists wanted to test the limits of human belief and the power of the mind. They told him that instead of a hanging, he would be killed by a venomous snakebite. 

To make it more convincing, they showed him a large, terrifying cobra. The prisoner, filled with fear, was then blindfolded. Unbeknownst to him, the scientists used a sharp needle to prick his hand in the same spot where a snake's fangs would strike, simulating a snakebite. 

As they watched from a distance, the prisoner, believing he was poisoned by the snake, began to feel the effects of venom coursing through his body. 

Despite there being no actual venom, the man’s belief in the snakebite led to his rapid physical decline. Within minutes, the man collapsed and died.

This phenomenon, though shocking, is known as the placebo effect where belief and expectation can bring about real physical outcomes. It illustrates just how powerful the mind can be. 

The mind can shape our reality, either for better or for worse. In this case, the prisoner’s belief in his fate was so strong that it caused his body to react as though the bite had truly occurred, even though it had not.

This story teaches us a crucial lesson: our thoughts, beliefs, and perceptions have a profound impact on our well-being. What we believe about ourselves and our lives can either uplift us or tear us down. 

Therefore, it’s essential to maintain a positive outlook, as our minds have the potential to shape our realities. Never underestimate the power of your thoughts. Choose to believe in your strength and potential, for your mind can be your greatest ally in overcoming challenges.

300 ENGLISH IDIOMS AND THEIR MEANINGS:

1. A piece of cake - Something very easy to do.

2. Hit the nail on the head - To describe exactly what is causing a situation or problem.

3. Break the ice - To initiate conversation in a social setting.

4. Cost an arm and a leg - To be very expensive.

5. Let the cat out of the bag - To reveal a secret.

6. Barking up the wrong tree - To pursue the wrong course of action or to have a mistaken belief.

7. Don't cry over spilled milk - Don't waste time worrying about something that has already happened and cannot be changed.

8. Kick the bucket - To die.

9. Jump on the bandwagon - To join a popular trend or activity.

10. Bite the bullet - To endure a painful or difficult situation.

11. Break the camel's back - To be the final straw that causes a situation to become intolerable.

12. Cut to the chase - To get to the main point without wasting time.

13. Fish out of water - To feel uncomfortable in a new or unfamiliar situation.

14. It's raining cats and dogs - It's raining heavily.

15. Kill two birds with one stone - To accomplish two tasks with a single action.

16. Miss the boat - To miss an opportunity.

17. Once in a blue moon - Very rarely.

18. Paint the town red - To go out and have a wild or enjoyable time.

19. Pull someone's leg - To tease or joke with someone.

20. Take the bull by the horns - To confront a difficult situation directly.

21. All ears - Fully attentive and eager to listen.

22. Burn the midnight oil - To work late into the night.

23. Don't judge a book by its cover - Don't form an opinion based solely on appearances.

24. Get cold feet - To become nervous or hesitant about doing something.

25. Keep an eye on - To watch or monitor closely.

26. Make a long story short - To summarize something briefly.

27. Out of the blue - Unexpectedly or without warning.

28. Put all your eggs in one basket - To risk everything on a single venture.

29. Spill the beans - To disclose secret information.

30. Under the weather - Feeling unwell or sick.

31. A dime a dozen - Very common and not valuable.

32. Back to the drawing board - To start over again because a previous attempt was unsuccessful.

33. Don't put all your eggs in one basket - Do not risk everything on one opportunity.

34. Go the extra mile - To make additional effort or do more than what is expected.

35. Hit the sack - To go to bed.

36. Kick the can down the road - To postpone dealing with a problem.

37. Make hay while the sun shines - To take advantage of an opportunity.

38. On the ball - Alert, competent, and efficient.

39. Piece of the pie - A share in something, especially profits.

40. Take it with a grain of salt - To be skeptical about something or not take it too seriously.

41. Break a leg - A way to wish someone good luck, especially before a performance.

42. Cut corners - To do something in the easiest or cheapest way, often sacrificing quality.

43. Drive someone up the wall - To irritate or annoy someone greatly.

44. Get off on the wrong foot - To start a relationship or activity badly.

45. Keep your chin up - To stay optimistic in a difficult situation.

46. Make a mountain out of a molehill - To exaggerate the importance of something small.

47. Penny for your thoughts - A way to ask someone what they are thinking about.

48. Put your best foot forward - To make a good impression by trying your hardest.

49. Save face - To avoid embarrassment or humiliation.

50. The ball is in your court - It's your turn to make a decision or take action.

51. Beat around the bush - To avoid addressing an issue directly.

52. Don't count your chickens before they hatch - Don't assume success before it's certain.

53. Elephant in the room - An obvious problem or issue that everyone ignores.

54. Feather in one's cap - An accomplishment or honor to be proud of.

55. Give someone the cold shoulder - To intentionally ignore or snub someone.

56. Hit the ground running - To start something quickly and with great energy.

57. In hot water - In trouble or facing difficulties.

58. Jump the gun - To act prematurely or before the appropriate time.

59. Let sleeping dogs lie - To avoid stirring up old conflicts or problems.

60. Needle in a haystack - Something extremely difficult to find.

61. On thin ice - In a risky or precarious situation.

62. Play devil's advocate - To argue the opposite side of an issue for the sake of debate.

63. Rule of thumb - A general principle or guideline.

64. Straight from the horse's mouth - Directly from the original or authoritative source.

65. Time flies when you're having fun - Time seems to pass quickly during enjoyable activities.

66. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush - It's better to have something certain than to risk losing it by trying to get something better.

67. Blood is thicker than water - Family bonds are stronger than other relationships.

68. Don't put the cart before the horse - Don't do things out of order.

69. Get a taste of your own medicine - Experience something negative that you have inflicted on others.

70. Have your cake and eat it too - To want more than is reasonable or possible.

71. Keep your fingers crossed - To hope for good luck or a favorable outcome.

72. Make waves - To cause trouble or disruption.

73. No pain, no gain - You have to work hard and endure difficulties to achieve success.

74. Play it by ear - To handle a situation without a definite plan.

75. Rome wasn't built in a day - Great things take time to accomplish.

76. The early bird catches the worm - Those who act promptly and decisively will have an advantage.

77. A penny saved is a penny earned - It's wise to save money rather than spending it needlessly.

78. Actions speak louder than words - What someone does is more important than what they say they will do.

79. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater - Don't discard something valuable while getting rid of something undesirable.

80. Get your act together - To organize yourself and start behaving in a more responsible or effective way.

81. Have a chip on your shoulder - To be easily offended or to hold a grudge.

82. In the same boat - In a similar situation or predicament.

83. Kill time - To pass time idly.

84. Make a silk purse out of a sow's ear - To turn something of low quality into something of high quality.

85. Put the cat among the pigeons - To cause trouble or upset a stable situation.

86. Sleep like a log - To sleep deeply and soundly.

87. Take the cake - To be the most outstanding or remarkable.

88. Wear your heart on your sleeve - To show your emotions openly.

89. All bark and no bite - To act tough or aggressive but not follow through with action.

90. Burn bridges - To damage relationships or opportunities to the extent that they cannot be repaired.

91. Cut the mustard - To meet expectations or perform satisfactorily.

92. Fish or cut bait - To make a decision or take action one way or another.

93. Go down in flames - To fail spectacularly.

94. Have a frog in your throat - To have a hoarse or strained voice.

95. Keep something at bay - To keep something under control or prevent it from happening.

96. Make a clean breast of it - To confess or admit to something.

97. Put the kibosh on - To put an end to something or to prevent it from happening.

98. Save the day - To prevent a disaster or resolve a difficult situation successfully.

99. Take the wind out of someone's sails - To deflate or undermine someone's confidence or enthusiasm.

100. You can't judge a book by its cover - You can't accurately assess something or someone based solely on appearance.

101. Bury the hatchet - To make peace or end a conflict.

102. Catch someone red-handed - To catch someone in the act of doing something wrong.

103. Drive someone round the bend - To annoy or irritate someone greatly.

104. Every cloud has a silver lining - There's something positive to be found in every negative situation.

105. Give it your best shot - To make the maximum effort to achieve something.

106. Hit the jackpot - To achieve a great success or win a large prize.

107. In the same boat - In a similar situation or predicament.

108. Jump through hoops - To go through a lot of effort or difficulty to achieve something.

109. Keep something under wraps - To keep something secret or confidential.

110. Live and let live - To accept other people's differences and beliefs without interference.

111. Make ends meet - To have enough money to cover expenses.

112. No stone left unturned - To make every possible effort to find or achieve something.

113. Pay the piper - To face the consequences of one's actions.

114. Queer the pitch - To spoil someone's plans or efforts.

115. Rub someone the wrong way - To irritate or annoy someone.

116. Take a rain check - To decline an offer or invitation but suggest that it could be accepted later.

117. Under the thumb - Under someone's control or influence.

118. Variety is the spice of life - Diversity and change make life interesting.

119. Weather the storm - To survive a difficult situation.

120. X marks the spot - A phrase used to indicate the location of something important or hidden.

121. Zip your lip - To remain silent or keep a secret.

122. A penny for your thoughts - A way to ask someone what they are thinking about.

123. Back to square one - To return to the starting point or to start over again.

124. Cut and dried - Something that is settled and unchangeable.

125. Devil's in the details - The important or critical aspects of something are found in the details.

126. Eat humble pie - To admit one's mistakes or faults publicly.

127. Fly by the seat of one's pants - To act without a clear plan or preparation.

128. Go off the deep end - To become irrational or extremely upset.

129. Have a skeleton in the closet - To have a secret or embarrassing past.

130. In the nick of time - Just in time, at the last possible moment.

131. Jump on the bandwagon - To join a popular trend or activity.

132. Keep something at bay - To keep something under control or prevent it from happening.

133. Like a bull in a china shop - Clumsy or reckless behavior that causes damage.

134. Make hay while the sun shines - To take advantage of an opportunity.

135. Not playing with a full deck - Not mentally or emotionally stable; lacking intelligence or common sense.

136. On cloud nine - Extremely happy or euphoric.

137. Paint oneself into a corner - To put oneself in a difficult or inescapable situation.

138. Quick on the draw - Very quick to react or respond.

139. See eye to eye - To agree or have the same opinion as someone else.

140. The apple of someone's eye - Someone's favorite person or thing.

141. Turn over a new leaf - To start anew or make a fresh start.

142. When pigs fly - Something that will never happen.

143. You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours - Mutual cooperation or assistance.

144. A wolf in sheep's clothing - Someone who appears harmless but is actually dangerous or deceitful.

145. Bells and whistles - Extra features or embellishments that are not necessary.

146. Cry over spilled milk - To lament something that has already happened and cannot be changed.

147. Donkey's years - A very long time.

148. Get bent out of shape - To become excessively upset or angry about something minor.

149. Have a heart of gold - To be kind, generous, and compassionate.

150. Keep your powder dry - To be prepared for future challenges or opportunities.

151. A dime a dozen - Very common and not valuable.

152. All in the same boat - Sharing the same situation or circumstances.

153. Behind the eight ball - In a difficult or unfavorable position.

154. Bite off more than you can chew - To take on more responsibility than one can handle.

155. Cut to the chase - To get to the main point without wasting time.

156. Devil is in the details - The important or critical aspects of something are found in the details.

157. Eat crow - To admit that one was wrong or mistaken.

158. Fish out of water - To feel uncomfortable in a new or unfamiliar situation.

159. Green thumb - A talent for gardening or growing plants.

160. Hit the nail on the head - To describe exactly what is causing a situation or problem.

161. In the same boat - In a similar situation or predicament.

162. Jump on the bandwagon - To join a popular trend or activity.

163. Keep your nose clean - To stay out of trouble or avoid causing problems.

164. Let the cat out of the bag - To reveal a secret.

165. Money talks - Wealth has influence and power.

166. Not a spark of decency - Lacking basic manners or morals.

167. On cloud nine - Extremely happy or euphoric.

168. Pull someone's leg - To tease or joke with someone.

169. Rock the boat - To disturb the status quo or cause trouble.

170. Shoot the breeze - To engage in casual or idle conversation.

171. Spill the beans - To disclose secret information.

172. The early bird catches the worm - Those who act promptly and decisively will have an advantage.

173. Turn over a new leaf - To start anew or make a fresh start.

174. A wolf in sheep's clothing - Someone who appears harmless but is actually dangerous or deceitful.

175. Add insult to injury - To make a bad situation worse.

176. All ears - Fully attentive and eager to listen.

177. Back to square one - To return to the starting point or to start over again.

178. Cat's out of the bag - The secret has been revealed.

179. Devil's advocate - Someone who argues against a popular opinion or belief.

180. Elephant in the room - An obvious problem or issue that everyone ignores.

181. Get the ball rolling - To start or initiate something.

182. In the same boat - In a similar situation or predicament.

183. Keep your chin up - To stay optimistic in a difficult situation.

184. Let sleeping dogs lie - To avoid stirring up old conflicts or problems.

185. Make a long story short - To summarize something briefly.

186. No harm, no foul - If there is no damage done, there is no reason for blame or punishment.

187. Out of the blue - Unexpectedly or without warning.

188. Penny for your thoughts - A way to ask someone what they are thinking about.

189. Play it by ear - To handle a situation without a definite plan.

190. Rain on someone's parade - To spoil someone's plans or celebrations.

191. Save face - To avoid embarrassment or humiliation.

192. Take a rain check - To decline an offer or invitation but suggest that it could be accepted later.

193. Under the weather - Feeling unwell or sick.

194. You can't judge a book by its cover - You can't accurately assess something or someone based solely on appearance.

195. A fish out of water - Someone who is out of their element or uncomfortable in a particular situation.

196. All bark and no bite - To act tough or aggressive but not follow through with action.

197. Break a leg - A way to wish someone good luck, especially before a performance.

198. Catch someone's eye - To attract someone's attention.

199. Don't count your chickens before they hatch - Don't assume success before it's certain.

200. Every cloud has a silver lining - There's something positive to be found in every negative situation.

201. Fish or cut bait - To make a decision or take action one way or another.

202. Go down in flames - To fail spectacularly.

203. Have a frog in your throat - To have a hoarse or strained voice.

204. Keep something at bay - To keep something under control or prevent it from happening.

205. Make a clean breast of it - To confess or admit to something.

206. Put the kibosh on - To put an end to something or to prevent it from happening.

207. Save the day - To prevent a disaster or resolve a difficult situation successfully.

208. Take the wind out of someone's sails - To deflate or undermine someone's confidence or enthusiasm.

209. You can't judge a book by its cover - You can't accurately assess something or someone based solely on appearance.

210. A fish out of water - Someone who is out of their element or uncomfortable in a particular situation.

211. All bark and no bite - To act tough or aggressive but not follow through with action.

212. Break a leg - A way to wish someone good luck, especially before a performance.

213. Catch someone's eye - To attract someone's attention.

214. Don't count your chickens before they hatch - Don't assume success before it's certain.

215. Every cloud has a silver lining - There's something positive to be found in every negative situation.

216. Beat around the bush - To avoid addressing an issue directly.

217. Don't cry over spilled milk - Don't waste time worrying about something that has already happened and cannot be changed.

218. Elephant in the room - An obvious problem or issue that everyone ignores.

219. Feather in one's cap - An accomplishment or honor to be proud of.

220. Give someone the cold shoulder - To intentionally ignore or snub someone.

221. Hit the ground running - To start something quickly and with great energy.

222. In hot water - In trouble or facing difficulties.

223. Jump the gun - To act prematurely or before the appropriate time.

224. Let sleeping dogs lie - To avoid stirring up old conflicts or problems.

225. Needle in a haystack - Something extremely difficult to find.

226. On thin ice - In a risky or precarious situation.

227. Play devil's advocate - To argue the opposite side of an issue for the sake of debate.

228. Rule of thumb - A general principle or guideline.

229. Straight from the horse's mouth - Directly from the original or authoritative source.

230. Time flies when you're having fun - Time seems to pass quickly during enjoyable activities.

231. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush - It's better to have something certain than to risk losing it by trying to get something better.

232. Blood is thicker than water - Family bonds are stronger than other relationships.

233. Don't put the cart before the horse - Don't do things out of order.

234. Get a taste of your own medicine - Experience something negative that you have inflicted on others.

235. Have your cake and eat it too - To want more than is reasonable or possible.

236. Keep your fingers crossed - To hope for good luck or a favorable outcome.

237. Make waves - To cause trouble or disruption.

238. No pain, no gain - You have to work hard and endure difficulties to achieve success.

239. Play it by ear - To handle a situation without a definite plan.

240. Rome wasn't built in a day - Great things take time to accomplish.

241. The early bird catches the worm - Those who act promptly and decisively will have an advantage.

242. A penny saved is a penny earned - It's wise to save money rather than spending it needlessly.

243. Actions speak louder than words - What someone does is more important than what they say they will do.

244. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater - Don't discard something valuable while getting rid of something undesirable.

245. Get your act together - To organize yourself and start behaving in a more responsible or effective way.

246. Have a chip on your shoulder - To be easily offended or to hold a grudge.

247. In the same boat - In a similar situation or predicament.

248. Kill time - To pass time idly.

249. Make a silk purse out of a sow's ear - To turn something of low quality into something of high quality.

250. Put the cat among the pigeons - To cause trouble or upset a stable situation.

251. Sleep like a log - To sleep deeply and soundly.

252. Take the cake - To be the most outstanding or remarkable.

253. Wear your heart on your sleeve - To show your emotions openly.

254. All bark and no bite - To act tough or aggressive but not follow through with action.

255. Burn bridges - To damage relationships or opportunities to the extent that they cannot be repaired.

256. Cut the mustard - To meet expectations or perform satisfactorily.

257. Fish or cut bait - To make a decision or take action one way or another.

258. Go down in flames - To fail spectacularly.

259. Have a frog in your throat - To have a hoarse or strained voice.

260. Keep something at bay - To keep something under control or prevent it from happening.

261. Make a clean breast of it - To confess or admit to something.

262. Put the kibosh on - To put an end to something or to prevent it from happening.

263. Save the day - To prevent a disaster or resolve a difficult situation successfully.

264. **Put your best foot forward** - To make a good impression by trying your hardest or presenting oneself in the best possible way.

265. Take the wind out of someone's sails - To deflate or undermine someone's confidence or enthusiasm.

266. You can't judge a book by its cover - You can't accurately assess something or someone based solely on appearance.

267. A fish out of water - Someone who is out of their element or uncomfortable in a particular situation.

268. All bark and no bite - To act tough or aggressive but not follow through with action.

269. Break a leg - A way to wish someone good luck, especially before a performance.

270. Catch someone's eye - To attract someone's attention.

271. Don't count your chickens before they hatch - Don't assume success before it's certain.

272. Every cloud has a silver lining - There's something positive to be found in every negative situation.

273. Beat around the bush - To avoid addressing an issue directly.

274. Don't cry over spilled milk - Don't waste time worrying about something that has already happened and cannot be changed.

275. Elephant in the room - An obvious problem or issue that everyone ignores.

276. Feather in one's cap - An accomplishment or honor to be proud of.

277. Give someone the cold shoulder - To intentionally ignore or snub someone.

278. Hit the ground running - To start something quickly and with great energy.

279. In hot water - In trouble or facing difficulties.

280. Jump the gun - To act prematurely or before the appropriate time.

281. Let sleeping dogs lie - To avoid stirring up old conflicts or problems.

282. Needle in a haystack - Something extremely difficult to find.

283. On thin ice - In a risky or precarious situation.

284. Play devil's advocate - To argue the opposite side of an issue for the sake of debate.

285. Rule of thumb - A general principle or guideline.

286. Straight from the horse's mouth - Directly from the original or authoritative source.

287. Time flies when you're having fun - Time seems to pass quickly during enjoyable activities.

288. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush - It's better to have something certain than to risk losing it by trying to get something better.

289. Blood is thicker than water - Family bonds are stronger than other relationships.

290. Don't put the cart before the horse - Don't do things out of order.

291. Get a taste of your own medicine - Experience something negative that you have inflicted on others.

292. Have your cake and eat it too - To want more than is reasonable or possible.

293. Keep your fingers crossed - To hope for good luck or a favorable outcome.

294. Make waves - To cause trouble or disruption.

295. No pain, no gain - You have to work hard and endure difficulties to achieve success.

296. Play it by ear - To handle a situation without a definite plan.

297. Rome wasn't built in a day - Great things take time to accomplish.

298. The early bird catches the worm - Those who act promptly and decisively will have an advantage.

299. A penny saved is a penny earned - It's wise to save money rather than spending it needlessly.

300. Actions speak louder than words - What someone does is more important than what they say they will do.