Listen my son, A Woman Submits to the Man She Fears—Not the One Who Loves or Spends on Her,
You’ve been lied to. They told you that if you love a woman, spend on her, and protect her, she will respect and submit to you. But reality tells a different story.
A man who leads with love and provision alone is setting himself up for disrespect. He asks his wife for water, and she points at the dispenser, telling him she’s not his slave. Yet, when she gets to work, her boss barely coughs, and she’s rushing to make him coffee, smiling like an obedient servant.
Now here’s the irony—her husband gives her 10 TIMES the amount she makes at work. But who does she respect more? The boss.
Why? Because submission is triggered by authority, not by love or financial provision. Women don’t submit to love—they submit to power.
A woman must FEAR losing you. She must recognize that you are above her, not beside her. If she senses that you are too emotionally invested, too giving, too “understanding,” she will begin to disrespect you.
Stop thinking money and kindness will buy loyalty. Set boundaries, demand respect, and make her EARN everything. That’s how a woman stays in her place.
If she doesn’t respect you, walk away and let her chase a weaker man. But never become that weaker man.
Aklahyel Goni
