Saturday, 21 September 2019

Dating a Married Person

will I be wrong to date a married person when I am not married myself😓?

While adultery isn't a crime in most countries, if you are in an adulterous relationship, your actions are morally questionable (assuming that the cheating is in secret, and not approved by the spouse). You are complicit in potentially breaking apart a family and hurting someone. You're also helping your partner to do something that is wrong - if you love someone, you should try to steer them away from doing wrong. Don't take something that's not yours!

Does a boyfriend love his girlfriend if he beats her?

Violence isn't a sign of love or lack of love. Some boyfriends who beat their girlfriends may be cold-hearted bullies incapable of true love, while others may be madly in love with their girlfriend, but have very poor anger-management issues. In any case, love isn't an excuse for violence - the best way to deal with a violent boyfriend, loving or not, is to leave.

Does a boyfriend love his girlfriend if he beats her?

Violence isn't a sign of love or lack of love. Some boyfriends who beat their girlfriends may be cold-hearted bullies incapable of true love, while others may be madly in love with their girlfriend, but have very poor anger-management issues. In any case, love isn't an excuse for violence - the best way to deal with a violent boyfriend, loving or not, is to leave.

🎀"NO MATTER HOW MY PAST HAS BEEN, I CAN BEGIN ANEW"

⏰Feast of St. Matthew (21 Sept. 2019)

📖Eph 4:1-7, 11-13; Ps 19:2-3, 4-5 (R.v.5a); Matt 9:9-13

🎤"NO MATTER HOW MY PAST HAS BEEN, I CAN BEGIN ANEW"

My dear, the Feast of the apostle Matthew reminds us again that our God of justice is also the Merciful God. He is ever ready to accept us back to himself and use us irrespective of what our past has been.

Matthew, or Levi in the Gospel of Mark (Mark 2:13-17), was a public sinner in the rating of the Jews. But Jesus went to the very source of his sin to begin his salvation.

Can you not also hear Jesus calling you from that particular sin you have been dwelling in to come out and be saved? It does not matter how dark your past has been; he is waiting with mercy to save you.

Just as in the case of St. Matthew, your conversion can also mean the conversion of many. Jesus called only Matthew, but many other tax collectors followed (cf. Matt 9:10; Mark 2:15).

Do you know that there are many people who are looking up to you as their model? Are you not going to give them the opportunity to get saved too by turning to Christ yourself?

Finally, this Feast reminds us that we are all objects of God's mercy. God has shown us mercy while we were sinners. We must also become disciples of mercy to others especially those we consider as never-do-wells in the society (see Eph 4:1-13).

May the mercy of God always follow us to lift us up and guide us along the right path to success in this life and salvation in the next. Amen.

Have a joyful day. Peace be with you.

Friday, 20 September 2019

Trying for Pregnancy

I have tried getting pregnant for few months and the results are negative always

Try, try, again! Most couples under 35 are able to naturally get pregnant within 6 months to one year of actively trying to get pregnant. Consult a doctor if you are healthy, under 35, but not able to get pregnant despite trying for a full year.

what's the meaning of RSVP

RSVP is short for the French phrase "répondez s'il vous plaît" which in English simply means, "please respond." It's usually used at the end of invitations as a request for a response to the invitation. The acronym was used in English as early as 1845 - when French was still the language of diplomacy around the world.