Things You Need To Understand About A Virgin

Dating a lady who is a virgin is not easy at all for men of this current generation , hence many of them choose not date one thats why if some ladies tell guys they are virgins , the guy will run away from her immediately. However some determined guys who will choose to date one here are some things you need to understand about them :

1 . They are always doubtful of your love to them because they think you only want to sleep with them so you have to learn how to love her in a very special way. Treat her with affection and don't raise your voice at her . Make sure you correct her in a mild manner.

2. They can be very clingy and always seek for your attention, they might want to cuddle with you and kiss every single second they are with you, however this doesn't mean you should touch sensitive parts of her body because you might scare her off

3. They can be very stubborn and annoying hence you need to have a high level of tolerance inorder to vibe well with them . When ever she has mood swings , just let her be for some time instead of making things worse by shouting at her

4. They might want their first time to be with right person , so take your time and let her love and trust you. Do not pressure her to sleep with you because once you do that you might lose her. So just love her and when she is ready , she will let you know

5. Asking her why she is still a virgin will annoy her because she might not want to talk about it due to private reasons and experience. So don't ever bring up that question when you guys are conversing

Secrets A Lady Will Only Tell You If She Loves You

Most times you have wondered if a girl truly loves you. Many thoughts start running through your heart that you have to ask yourself several question if she actually loves you as she claimed.

 Mr. will be sharing with you things a girl will do or tells you that proves she truly Loves you.

1) If she tells you about her challenges and setbacks.

Most women find it hard to discuss their pains and setbacks with their partners. But any woman who loves you passionately won't feel the need to hide her secret from you, she would open up to you all our shortcomings setbacks and even seek your advice.

2) If she tells you about her past relationships.

Most women hardly talk about their past relationship with their new boyfriends but any woman that loves you we gladly share her past relationship experiences with you.

3) If she tells you her hidden secrets that nobody knows of.

Inasmuch as women are known to be gossips, a woman can also hide a secret from everyone around them. They have the skills to hide secrets and most of their character from their partners. Any woman who opens up on her future plans and secrets to you truly loves you.

4) If she discusses with you about her family and their plans.

Any woman that discusses her family plans with you truly loves you. Most women don't feels comfortable discussing their family plans with their partners. If your partners tell you all about her family then she is really into you and she trusts you a lot.

5) If she opens up regarding her source of income.

This is one of the hardest things a woman can ever do or tells her partner any woman who confidently reveals her financial life status to you sort out the bank details bank account amount do you truly love you.

6) if she tells you about her interesting, embarrassing and terrible moments

These moments bring back memories she cherishes some are good while some are bad. For disclosing this to you, it shows she cherishes you a lot in her heart.

7) If she tells you your mistakes.

Most ladies are shy or scared of confronting their man face to face to tell them where they went wrong. If a woman truly loves you and desires you to be a great man in the near future she won't be scared to talk to you about your mistakes. Dear men any woman who discuss your mistakes with you truly loves you

8) If she will tell you what scares her the most.

A girl may not share her anxieties and insecurities with you to avoid being vulnerable or blackmailed with it in the future. If a lady ever entrusts such in your hand it is apparent she dreams of you and would love to amass you be a part of her life as well.

WOMEN YOU SHOULD ALWAYS CHERISH

WOMEN YOU SHOULD ALWAYS CHERISH

Generally in life it's no longer easy to find good people by our sides, but as a guy these are few things you should look out for in a woman or lady you are with, because such women are rare...

1. A woman who always pray for you: behind every successful man there is a woman doing a great job in the background..this is one of the great job a good woman will do in your life because life is more spiritual than we think so it needs to be backed up with prayers.

2. A woman who respects you even if you are broke: the thing is staying with a broke guy is never easy because a woman have personal needs that needs to be met...but finding that woman who understand that at the moment you are unable to dispense cash but you will one day be able to take care of those needs,I believe you should Cherish such woman.

3. A woman who truly loves you and cherish you: A woman who loves and cherish you,first she will never disrespect you ,and if she do love you everything about you will bother her and she will always show you love and care and will always be there for you.

4. A house keeper: A woman who is a house keeper should always be cherished in ur life. A woman you that can manage ur resource,manage ur kitchen and be able to make a meal out of nothing much should be kept,I'm talking about a woman that keeps ur house clean and in other, a woman that isn't extravagant.

5. A woman that sees beyond your today: when I talk about a woman that sees beyond your today,I'm referring to a woman that is not myopic.A woman that understand that life is a process and that the fact that you live in a one room apartment,tomorrow you might be a landlord. I'm talking about a woman that is positive about your tomorrow..A woman that speaks life to your tomorrow.

These are women you should always keep close to heart with, if possible(Marry them) live with them forever.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO DEAR ONYINYECHI.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ONYINYECHI

Happy birthday to you ONYINYECHI, you are always in my dreams and in my thoughts even until now. Every second I was with you was pure happiness I can just appreciate now, even though things may have changed between us, but my feelings of affection toward you haven't.

Keep living a life that I know you will be proud of, I still wish you all the best in this life.

                                           

Oh!!! How can I forget a birthday I celebrated for few years? Here's a toast to all your lovely birthdays that we've celebrated together. It doesn't matter whether I am still in your life or not, I will always wish you many more splendid birthdays to come.

 I was so lucky to be with a lady like you. Youll always have a place in my heart.

As I close my eyes to bring back all the lovely memories of the times we've shared together, a smile comes to my face. You're an amazing person, never forget that! Ill never forget all the wonderful times we spent together. We always had an amazing time, heres hoping you will continue the tradition. You deserve the best on your birthday, I have seen you turn into a more mature and beautiful person with every passing birthday. May this one also bring you lots of happiness and wisdom. You will always be an amazing woman, regardless of your relationship status. I've seen you grow into a stronger woman every year. This year, may you add one more feather of success in your cap. Im honored to have been your friend for the time that I was 

                 

Nevertheless, life and times move on, but the happy memories of times spent with you will remain permanently etched in my heart. I have no regrets about our past and wish you all the best moving forward. Although we are not together anymore, I have no qualms in accepting that I spent the most beautiful moments of my life with you. Despite the time that has elapsed since we separated, I always remember your birthday. Maybe its because we were happy days or because we never stopped enjoying these anniversaries of yours. Were not together anymore, but I remember you dearly. I wish you the best.

Furthermore, I hope it is a beautiful day for you. 

It was very much that I loved you, and I know it because I had trouble forgetting you. What an important person you became at the time for me. The truth you still are, because I constantly remember your way of being, and that helps me solve some questions that life poses. Thank you for sharing a piece of your life with me. I always remember you. When we were together, we had no chance to celebrate your birthdays. It was a shame, but this important day for you remained on my calendar. That moment has arrived, and I want to tell you, even if we dont share our lives, that I wish you a happy day in the company of those who love you. Enjoy!!! Never stop being happy. I wish you a great and unforgettable birthday. 

The experience of being a couple was truly exceptional for me. Because I learned so many things from you, a strong and valuable woman, and that wisdom, fortunately, remains within me. You were a wonderful time in my life, to which I occasionally return with love because that is the privilege of the mind, return to the past if necessary. 

Once more, Congratulations, may this and all your birthdays be dates of bliss for you. Kisses and hugs. Our love relationship is behind. I want you to have a happy birthday and be happy next to your family and those who love you. Enjoy!!! That life is one and you have to be happy. How nice it is that two people who have loved each other can, after overcoming the relationship, remain friends.

Saddened, Our relationship indeed came to an end, but at your side, I have beautiful memories of all the time we live. As time passes, it is more difficult for me to remember those reasons that led to our separation because everything was so beautiful between the two. I would like to wish you a very happy birthday next to the people you love. I cant complain about the time I spent with you because you gave me your love unconditionally.

You are a great lady, and on your birthday you deserve the best. I remember that at some point we promised to love each other forever, but that promise has remained in the past. I hope you have a pleased birthday and never forget me. 

Maybe we dont finish in the best way but remembering all the moments we spent together it is impossible for me not to feel sympathy for you. Have a happy birthday, and make your dreams come true. When we were together, I didnt have much experience in love, and maybe thats why I made many mistakes, but I want you to know that I still remember you with much appreciation. Today is your birthday, and I cant forget this special date, so I wish you a happy day. There are times when I miss you, so much that I would like to relive those days, but its a shame it cant be All the decisions we make have consequences, and that is why our present is the fruit of the time we spend together and our separation. I wish you could enjoy your birthday.

May you see wonderful and joyous times ahead.

  

Happy birthday Dear OnyinyeChi

From,

Anthony. 

Spirits that delay marriage in guys

By George Ben

1.FEAR OF COMMITMENT : This is one reason why some guys are scared of getting married. They think this way, "how can I give all my love and affection to just one woman for the rest of my life? "

"I can't be eating only egusi soup for the rest of my life." "Variety is the spice of life."

Some say "I can't imagine myself waking up beside the same woman in bed every morning". Let me enjoy life alone some more.. That's how some guys suddenly became "Manchelors". People are now confused whether you should be in the church men's fellowship or youth fellowship.

2. I'M THE FIRST BORN IN THE FAMILY: The position of being a first born in the family certainly comes with responsibilities, no doubt.

Some guys feel they have to be the Lord and Savior of the family by solving all the problems in their family. My brother, you can't solve all your family problems. As you solve one, another problem is already in the queue waiting for you.

3. FREE SERVICES/MINISTRATIONS: Some guys don't think about getting married because they are already enjoying the benefits of marriage. They say "why should I get married now when I have a girl friend that offers me free sex. She comes to my house to cook for me and she does all my laundry work".

"why should I buy the whole Cow when I get steady supply of cow milk?".

I blame the lady that offers such free ministrations in a bid to prove wife material 1000 yards.. May that milk not purge you as you drink it, my brother.

4. BEING OVERLY SELECTIVE: No Lady is ever good enough for some guys. She is not educated enough. She speaks scattered English. She has tribal marks. She has k-legs.

I want a lady that has pointed nose, flat stomach, long legs, massive waist, and golden eyes like that of a bird.

She has an OND, I'm a masters degree holder, she's not my class. Bro, hope you know you are not some other person's class too?

She must be a working class lady when you are jobless.. "OLE"..you are not working, yet you want a working class lady that will be footing your bills. she will foot you down my brother.

5. MUMMY'S CHOICE: Some guys are not yet married or find it difficult to get married because they want to meet the specifications of their mother.

If his mother doesn't approve of the lady, he calls it a quit with the lady. Such guys have moms that insist they must marry from their village. The girl must be from the same tribe with you.

We were born into Assemblies of God Church, and the lady must come from Assemblies of God, so we remain assembled. Well done, brother. It's your scattered mind you need to assemble, my brother.

6. I MUST BE A MILLONAIRE FIRST: It's not by your power and strength that you become a millionaire, it's by God's favor. If you have waited for the money for long and it's not coming, will you keep waiting? Not everyone is destined to be a millionaire as a bachelor. Some become millionaires after they got married. So choose your choose, my brother.

7. THE LADY'S MAN: You are feeling young and fresh because of your good looks. You feel you are doing any lady that comes your way a favor by dating them. They are the ones chasing you, and your shoulders that have puffed up 50 50 shoulder pads are almost exploding with pride.

All of a sudden, you wake up one morning to realise you are 40 years old and still sagging trousers feeling young. Bro, you need to have a meeting with yourself and by yourself. You will not always be a bobo forever.

8. LORD OF THE RINGS: This spirit tells you to engage ladies with rings here and there, and they hold on to the rings for 10-15 years, yet no marriage. You even know the family of the lady, but you know in your heart of heart that You are not ready, yet you scare away other suitors from her.

You make the ladies feel you have made a commitment through the rings, alas those rings are nothing short of key holders and handcuffs.

You are that spirit husband people are talking about.. 😀😀😀

Stop giving people's daughters handcuffs and key holders in the name of engagement rings.

We loose every chain holding marriages from taking place at the right time in Jesus name.

May you recognize true love when you see her