.Men Have Pains Too

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A woman said to me, 'It took me years to really know that men cry too. I took my husband for a super human. I see him leave the house everyday and come back providing for us. One day as I have left the house and he was at home, I remembered that I needed to take something along, I turned back and headed home. As I got home, I tried going through the back door which was closer to the window of our room. I heard my husband crying like a baby asking God to help me get a job so I can help him fend for the family. He has never complained to me before but that day, I broke down in tears realizing that my husband has held much of his pains alone"

A young married lady went to her mother and complained that her husband has not always bought things she wanted from him. The mother asked her, 'How many of those things have you bought for yourself?". She stayed quiet and said, 'But he is my husband?". The mother replied her, 'Have you ever found out the things your husband wants you to buy for him?".

Men always try to hide their pains.

A woman was invited to preach at women conference and as she was preaching, she asked all the working class women to stand out. They humbly did. And she asked them, 'When you get your salary, how much do you give to your husband as a seed?". Before your money gets to anywhere else, the priest in your life which is your husband should get something from you. Even if he is a rich man, sow seed in his life. Sometimes, we women don't know that our husbands need something from us".

Men can be financially broke and pretend to have everything.

Most men are married but they have lonely life. Sometimes, ask your husband out. Men are not always busy as women think.

You have to understand that your husband has pains and needs too. Don't judge him by things you want from him.

Men also have emotional needs and problems. Men still cry for love.

Growing Relationship

Relationship must be nurtured to keep the fire of love burning. This can be done as follows:

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1. COMMUNICATION: You must always communicate regularly with your partner. It makes relationship stronger. The more you communicate, the more you understand each other. Stop pressing phone or reading newspaper when your partner is with you. Talk and discuss together. In distance relationship, chat and call each other always and daily.

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2. TRUST: Trust your partner. If there is no trust, the relationship will be having problems. A relationship without trust is like a pool without water. It's unsafe. You may jump in but you will get hurt.

 : 3.ATTENTION Give your partner much attention or else they will pay attention to those who give them attention.

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4. SINCERITY: Do not tell lies or else when your partner discovers that you are telling lies, he/she will hate you and there will be no trust anymore.

5. MONEY: Money is very important in relationship. At least the guy or the babe must have some money. Love will not pay your bills. Love will not buy body cream, clothes and food. It is money that will do those things. But do not love because of money. Let there be true love first. Then money can be used to nurture it.

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Happy birthday to ZINNYRICH 1

 

       

You are everything I could ever want in a sister: darling, giving, and loving. There is no love like that between sisters; its the kind of love that brings forth sweet memories and fuzzy feelings. Sisters are friends for life that always have your back.

Happy birthday to someone who has only brought joy and love into my life: my sister. I hope your special day brings you everything you could ever wish for because you deserve that and so much more in life. Friends may come and go throughout my life, but family is forever. I am so grateful that I have a sister as wonderful as you by my side.

There is no one I would rather have as a sister than you. 

Ezigbo nwanne m is one unique snowflake alright. Uniquely annoying, uniquely bossy, and, more importantly, uniquely lovable. I'm glad I have a sister as remarkable as you in my life.🌹 Growing up I always looked up to you, and as we grow older, I still do. Thanks for always showing me how it’s done with style. Happy birthday to my role model!

Zinnyrich no one shines as brightly as you do. You do more than stand out in a crowd; you dazzle people with your zealous, kindness and generosity. Thanks for always bringing the sparkle into my life. I hope your birthday contains only warm, fuzzy, and pleasant memories. May it signal the beginning of a year filled only with hope and promise.! 

You are an amazing sister. Not only do you always shower me with love, but you love me for who I am. Thank you for never judging and only loving me. I am so grateful.

Moreover, when I look back at our childhood, I have only happy memories of our times together. It warms my heart to know that we have so many more years to enjoy together. Thank you for always being my support system in life. You have always been so supportive and encouraging to me, and I greatly appreciate everything you have done for me over the years.

When I think of you, I am overwhelmed by all the love I have for you. You have been such a comfort to me throughout my life, and I wish you only the very best in everything you do.

Heres to bigger, better, and brighter years ahead. May your every wish come true this year, and may you only experience happiness and love. 

Ezisco kpo kpo, you are everything I strive to be: strong, beautiful, and courageous. There is no greater compliment that I can give than to say you remind me in so many ways of Chinechendo.

Its a rare gift to have a sister as phenomenal as you. You are the kind of person who envelopes people in your warmth, and I am so lucky to be your sister.

You are a good person, a wonderful friend, and an amazing sister. The world is a better place because you are in it. Happy birthday to my dearest sister who always brings joy and laughter into my life.

Whenever I am lost or afraid I know that I can always call you, and you will take my hand and show me the way. Happy birthday to my sister who never lets me down and only lifts me up.

 Hope your birthday is chock full of moments that fill your heart with peace and love. You are a fantastic sister, and I wish you every joy on your special day. Happy birthday! I know that I am stuck with you for life, but even if I were able to pick another sister, I would still pick you. You are such a wonderful sister, and I am so blessed that we are family.

You never doubt that I can do anything, and its because you always push me forward that I have become who I am today. Thank you for always being my inspiration as well as my teacher in life.

Sister, you are always my rock in life. You have an inner strength that I admire so much, and I hope that you realize how much I love and respect you. Happy birthday!

I hope your birthday is filled with only the sweetest things life can offer, I wish you God's all round blessings. Amen.

It's well with you Ezinwanne

Happy birthday Ezisco kpo kpo

Enjoy your day Ada mummyto

More gracious life to you Zinnyrich

Have a blessed birthday Ezibobo

Things You Need To Understand About A Virgin

Dating a lady who is a virgin is not easy at all for men of this current generation , hence many of them choose not date one thats why if some ladies tell guys they are virgins , the guy will run away from her immediately. However some determined guys who will choose to date one here are some things you need to understand about them :

1 . They are always doubtful of your love to them because they think you only want to sleep with them so you have to learn how to love her in a very special way. Treat her with affection and don't raise your voice at her . Make sure you correct her in a mild manner.

2. They can be very clingy and always seek for your attention, they might want to cuddle with you and kiss every single second they are with you, however this doesn't mean you should touch sensitive parts of her body because you might scare her off

3. They can be very stubborn and annoying hence you need to have a high level of tolerance inorder to vibe well with them . When ever she has mood swings , just let her be for some time instead of making things worse by shouting at her

4. They might want their first time to be with right person , so take your time and let her love and trust you. Do not pressure her to sleep with you because once you do that you might lose her. So just love her and when she is ready , she will let you know

5. Asking her why she is still a virgin will annoy her because she might not want to talk about it due to private reasons and experience. So don't ever bring up that question when you guys are conversing

Secrets A Lady Will Only Tell You If She Loves You

Most times you have wondered if a girl truly loves you. Many thoughts start running through your heart that you have to ask yourself several question if she actually loves you as she claimed.

 Mr. will be sharing with you things a girl will do or tells you that proves she truly Loves you.

1) If she tells you about her challenges and setbacks.

Most women find it hard to discuss their pains and setbacks with their partners. But any woman who loves you passionately won't feel the need to hide her secret from you, she would open up to you all our shortcomings setbacks and even seek your advice.

2) If she tells you about her past relationships.

Most women hardly talk about their past relationship with their new boyfriends but any woman that loves you we gladly share her past relationship experiences with you.

3) If she tells you her hidden secrets that nobody knows of.

Inasmuch as women are known to be gossips, a woman can also hide a secret from everyone around them. They have the skills to hide secrets and most of their character from their partners. Any woman who opens up on her future plans and secrets to you truly loves you.

4) If she discusses with you about her family and their plans.

Any woman that discusses her family plans with you truly loves you. Most women don't feels comfortable discussing their family plans with their partners. If your partners tell you all about her family then she is really into you and she trusts you a lot.

5) If she opens up regarding her source of income.

This is one of the hardest things a woman can ever do or tells her partner any woman who confidently reveals her financial life status to you sort out the bank details bank account amount do you truly love you.

6) if she tells you about her interesting, embarrassing and terrible moments

These moments bring back memories she cherishes some are good while some are bad. For disclosing this to you, it shows she cherishes you a lot in her heart.

7) If she tells you your mistakes.

Most ladies are shy or scared of confronting their man face to face to tell them where they went wrong. If a woman truly loves you and desires you to be a great man in the near future she won't be scared to talk to you about your mistakes. Dear men any woman who discuss your mistakes with you truly loves you

8) If she will tell you what scares her the most.

A girl may not share her anxieties and insecurities with you to avoid being vulnerable or blackmailed with it in the future. If a lady ever entrusts such in your hand it is apparent she dreams of you and would love to amass you be a part of her life as well.

WOMEN YOU SHOULD ALWAYS CHERISH

WOMEN YOU SHOULD ALWAYS CHERISH

Generally in life it's no longer easy to find good people by our sides, but as a guy these are few things you should look out for in a woman or lady you are with, because such women are rare...

1. A woman who always pray for you: behind every successful man there is a woman doing a great job in the background..this is one of the great job a good woman will do in your life because life is more spiritual than we think so it needs to be backed up with prayers.

2. A woman who respects you even if you are broke: the thing is staying with a broke guy is never easy because a woman have personal needs that needs to be met...but finding that woman who understand that at the moment you are unable to dispense cash but you will one day be able to take care of those needs,I believe you should Cherish such woman.

3. A woman who truly loves you and cherish you: A woman who loves and cherish you,first she will never disrespect you ,and if she do love you everything about you will bother her and she will always show you love and care and will always be there for you.

4. A house keeper: A woman who is a house keeper should always be cherished in ur life. A woman you that can manage ur resource,manage ur kitchen and be able to make a meal out of nothing much should be kept,I'm talking about a woman that keeps ur house clean and in other, a woman that isn't extravagant.

5. A woman that sees beyond your today: when I talk about a woman that sees beyond your today,I'm referring to a woman that is not myopic.A woman that understand that life is a process and that the fact that you live in a one room apartment,tomorrow you might be a landlord. I'm talking about a woman that is positive about your tomorrow..A woman that speaks life to your tomorrow.

These are women you should always keep close to heart with, if possible(Marry them) live with them forever.