THOSE WHO CROWN KINGS DO NOT LOOK LIKE KINGS; BEWARE !!!

By Chukwuma obiagauzo

There was this poor man who wrote a book at the age of 40 and decided to launch it on his birthday.

He had no money to fund the launching and so, he decided to seek help from a millionaire in his community.

He made a visit to the Millionaires home and after they exchanged pleasantries, he told his host what brought him.

The Millionaire told him to take out a piece of paper and pen.

He said, " I will give you a test. If you pass it, I will give you the money you need and if you fail, I will still give you the money"

He then told him to write down the names of 10 people who could give him 10k each for his book during the launch.

Surprisingly, the man could not write even 3 names.

Now, take a glass of water and let me tell you something..

It is not enough to have talent and skills. You must understand the power of building valuable relationship.

It was a wise man that said, your network is directly proportional to your net worth.

_Relationship is a currency ._ Relationship is a stream of income.

Everything in this life actually reproduces on the basis of relationship.

See eh, Who likes you in this life matters.

_Men are lifted through men_ .

Many of us are talented but we lack a cup bearer to tell the King that there is a Joseph that can interpret dreams.

Who you know matters a lot in this life. Don't say it doesn't matter. It does.

There are heights and opportunities you will never attain if you don't understand *the power of Keeping Valuable Relationships* .

When they say, *turn and greet your neighbour in church,/ mosque at times, you don't even know who you are talking to* .

That might be the CEO of a company. But sometimes, *we despise people based on their outward looks and judge them wrongly.*

Have this wisdom am sharing with you.

That person you sit with in class, or the colleagues at work that you look down on, may be the ones that will lead you to your destiny helper because you have no idea who they know.

Sometimes, it takes just a recommendation to change your story.

Don't despise men in Life. You will need them one day.

Sometimes those who crown Kings don't look like kings and may never become kings but they can help you wear the crown.

Again

Shut the door of relationship gently you may need to use it tommorow

Enjoy a Blessed life full of God's favour.

Amen!

Don't say I didn't tell that person you are riftrag in your street may know somebody that knows the president, never look down on anybody

that cleaner sweeping your toilet

that house help you keep insulting all the time

That your gate you keep shouting upon, may be your life saver tomorrow or your helper, never looked down on anyone

Mike Tyson use to be Donald Trump boss before, But Donald Trump emerge as the president of United States, I hope you learn some lesson there

GOD is a time changer and he may decide to turn table arroud for that person you are calling riftrag

maintain standard relationship with everybody No matter what.

God bless you.

RULES IN COURTSHIP

By Dr OkweChi

1. Don't go into it if you are not ready for marriage in the next 2 years!

2. End all relationships with all your EX and focus on your fiance/fiancee. If you can't end all past relationships then leave your partner alone and marry all your EX. Ex means extinct. Let your relationships with them especially if it had been sexual/romantic go into extinction!

3. Talk, talk, talk! Courtship is for talking. Talk out your past, your differences, marital expectations, vision, dreams, goals.

4. Know their weaknesses, see if you can cope with them in marriage.

5. Ladies, learn how to submit to his leadership.

6. Guys, learn how to lead with love and by example.

7. No romance is allowed, you are not yet married.

8. No sex, unless you are looking for serious trouble.

9. Don't do his house chores, you are not yet his wife. Don't empty all your bank account to please her, you are not her Automated Teller Machine (ATM).

10. Always pray and study the word together, they help you grow spiritually.

11. Be proud of each other. Flaunt each other shamelessly. Celebrate, admire, praise and prize each other above others. No pet names please, they will turn you on.

12. No meeting in the dark or behind closed doors. You don't put goat and Yam in the same room o.

13. No clubbing and partying.

14. Avoid all form of sin in your courtship.

15. Stay holy, pure and heaven bound.

May the Lord grant you understanding. Thanks for reading. God bless you.

*The 10 Enemies of life*

(1)Fear

Prevents you from seizing opportunities.

(2)ignorance

Prevents you from making good decisions.

(3)Anger

Prevents you from seeing clearly.

(4)Envy

Prevents you from focusing on yourself.

(5)Ego

Prevents you from learning from others.

(6)Doubt

Prevents you from believing yourself and taking risk to follow your dreams.

(7)Hate

Prevents you from becoming a better person.

(8)Lying

Prevents people from trusting you.

(9)Unforgiveness 

Prevents you from living as free person.

(10)Pride

Prevents you from seeing and learning from your mistakes.

#work on yourself

#humble yourself

#seek God's help

Thanks for reading.

*THE EFFICACY OF COUPLE'S' PRAYER*

By Rev Dr Okwechi Iwunze

*1.* It is always difficult to hold the hands of someone you are not happy with in prayers.

*2.* The power of praying together is hidden from many couples.

*3.* Prayers can solve any problem, it can bring down any mountain in marriage.

*4.* The couples that stay connected in prayers live happier and healthier.

*5.* Never joke with prayers in your marriage!

*6.* There are types of prayer:

a. Personal prayer

b. Congregational prayer.

c. Family prayer

d. couples' prayer etc.

*7.* Family prayer is different from couples' prayer. So many marriages observe family prayer but neglect couples' prayer.

*8.* Couples' prayer involve only the husband and the wife. Don't assume family prayer for this please.

*9.* You need to be alone with your spouse in the place of prayer, don't be too busy for this.

*10.* You have not won the battle of quarrelling, nagging, unloving, lack of respect etc because you have not been holding hands together in prayers.

*11.* Put aside every resentment and join hands with him/her.

*12.* Don't wait till your spouse instigate it, make the first move by calling on him/her for prayers.

*13.* End every argument in prayers. Prayer has enough power to melt away hurt. Any time you are seriously furious or hurt, tell your spouse to pray together.

*14.* Couples prayers is a serious prayer but it can be spiced with some activities to foster the bond, for examples:

a. Hold hands together

b. Join hands together and walk around

c. You can pray by standing chest to chest (don't back each other).

d. Hold each other tightly.

e. Placing hands on each other's shoulder.

*15.* Don't be too rigid when you are together with your spouse in prayer, you are husband and wife, you can be in any form to pray.

*16.* Don't always stay afar from each other during couples' prayer.

*17.* The secret of couple's prayer is, be willing and ready to pray with him/her regardless of of the heaviness of your heart.

*18.* Love and respect for each other is the outcome of couples' prayer.

*19.* When you pray together as couples, you will have emotional security and confidence in each other.

*20.* I will encourage young couples to grow together in prayers. Difficult issues of life and marriage can be solved through couple's prayer.

*21.* Also, my admonition goes to "about to wed" couples/parents, don't be carried away with the joy of the wedding, start the couple's prayer right from the night of your wedding . strengthen the prayer life between you and your spouse.

Daalu

*THE VOICE IN MARRIAGE!*

By Dr Okwechi

*Voice 1*

Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his/her strength.

*Voice 2*

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

*Voice 3*

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

*Voice 4*

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

*Voice 5*

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

Ignorance

Prayerlessness

Unforgiveness

Third party influence

Stinginess

Stubbornness

Lack of love

Rudeness

Laziness

Disrespect

Cheating

Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

*Voice 6*

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

*Voice 7*

God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience

*Voice 8*

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

*Voice 9*

Marriage is not a contract. It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

*Voice 10*

Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

So today let us pray for our marriages. Send to those you care about because you never know who you may be helping. May God bless us all.

*ATTITUDES OF A GOOD AND GODLY HUSBAND*

If you desire to be the husband every woman would respect and willingly submit under his authority then you must work hard to possess these qualities as a good husband.

*GOOD LISTENER*

He should be concerned about her thoughts and stories. A woman wants a husband she can open up to. An emotional companion

*KEEP QUIET*

He should know when to hold back his tongue to prevent things from escalating especially when she is moody.

*COMMUNICATE*

He should learn the art of communication; face to face and over the phone. Learn to check up on her, to engage, to chat her up and keep loneliness away

*GIVE DIRECTION*

He should learn to give direction. Where are they going as a couple and family? He should offer confidence, vision and leadership

*STAY FAITHFUL*

He should show commitment to the vision of their love through faithfulness. Leading from the front publicly and privately. Keeping off other women.

*PURSUE*

He should date his wife no matter how long they have been together. Make her feel special, compliment her, flirt with her, pursue her, romance her, excite her heart, treat her like a queen.

*BOOST SELF ESTEEM*

He should make her believe in herself more, drowning her doubts, allaying her fears, reminding her who she is when she forgets, lifting up her spirits when she feels low, making her feel sexy and beautiful when she does not feel all that.

*PRAY & TEACH*

He should cover his wife and children in prayer, a prayer warrior in the spiritual realm, committing his family to his maker, putting on the full armour and going to war, accessing the spiritual blessings meant for his family.

He must develop his wife with scriptures which is spiritual food so as to grow up together as deep will always search into the deep.

*COMFORT*

He should be a shoulder to lean on when she cries, the person she runs to when this world overwhelms her. Her cover.

*SEXUALLY AROUSE*

He should make her feel desired and wanted. Turn her on like crazy. Open her tap of wetness. Know which buttons to push to give her sweet highs.

*PROVIDE*

Whether she earns more than him or not, he should play his part in meeting the needs of the family and seek ways to get more provisions and investments.

*ENCOURAGE*

He should be her voice of reason. The firm voice that counters her negative voices or the storms that shake her. He should be that man who tells her “I believe in you honey. You can do this.

God bless you!