Choice

Choice🛡

Sometime ago, A friend of mine was so much in love with a girl, and that was his dream girl😍 

She gave him hope and taught him alot about life that he never seen. She showed him the true meaning of love and friendship. She opened a way for a better living for him and showed him God and taught him how to pray. 

 He saw his life revolving around the girl. Nothing, I mean life is nothing without her, me too saw it😁

The girl was loved and welcomed by his family.  They (family) were waiting for him to introduce her to them as his fiancee. 

One day, the girl called him on phone, telling him they needed to see. When they met, she broke the news that she'll be getting married to someone else soon. That was the sickest news and worst heartbreak of his life. He couldn't feel himself anymore, all of his body was shaking as he was speechless. 

He came back and told me everything with tears. I was seeing a man in pain, losing what he cherished most. I felt like crying with him but I couldn't. 

He said to me: Junior, I will fight for love this time. She can't marry him. I will stop the marriage. 

Wow... He was ready to lose any other thing but not her. I asked him to calm down first, but he say that he can never find a girl like her again. It was a hell for him to let her go in his heart. We talked severally before he understood that she made her choice and that's the best for her. 

At times, things doesn't go as we plan, but that doesn't mean the doors are close. 

That you were not chose doesn't mean that you are not good enough or she was not making her choice right. 

All of us knows what is better for for ourselves. You don't have to convince someone they'll accept you. 

 

There are things you don't have to fight for. Ask yourself, is it worth fighting for? 

Is what am fighting for truly mine? 

Yes, she can be the queen of your heart but her throne is in another person's heart. Don't give yourself to someone who doesn't deserve you because you feel you so much love him or her. 

Do you know that someone can feel pity for you as she or he is dating you and you assume it as love. 

Bro, you don't have to lie about your business before she accepts you. You don't need to pretend to show that you love her. You don't need to get the whole world to her feet to prove your love for her to give you green light. You don't have to wear expensive clothes before she finds attractive. Be the better man you have to be. 

A President's daughter can choose a barrow pusher over a billionaire. It's just choice of heart. A good man doesn't beg for love, his own loving heart attracts love. 

If someone doesn't see as that person for him, even if you give your life him he will still blame you for your death. You have to check if you are truly needed.

Choice must be made no matter what. As they say; Good things never end. What is yours will come and you won't even struggle to have it. 

The man said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh... ~ Genesis 2:23

This is a man that found peace and what he asked from God. Adam knew it that this is the real and right thing for him. 

~ Ifeanyi Valentine Okeke 

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