FOR ALL MARRIED MEN

1. If you value your health and you want to live long and have a happy home, let your wife always win an argument. Trust me, it's the shortcut I know to peace of mind! Where there is no wood (fuel), the fire goes out!

2. Stop trying to figure out your wife or understand why she does what she does. It's a waste of precious time. Remember that you (Adam) were put to sleep while she (Eve) was being produced? How can you try to understand an equipment that wasn't assembled in your presence?

3. Marriage is about ACCEPTANCE, not tolerance. Make your marriage relationship-driven, not performance-dri

ven. She was NOT created in your image. Stop projecting YOU into her. Show her the need for change through leadership, not coercion.

4. While a man is rational, the woman is emotional. One (the man) processes via his head, the other processes things through her heart (emotions). One thinks things through, the other feels her way through things. Facts drive you. Intuition drives her. What she can't FEEL, she doesn't SEE!

5. When sex becomes a weapon, a duty or an entitlement, it loses its very essence, LOVE-MAKING. It simply becomes another chore like dish-washing which nobody looks forward to doing! Play with her. Flirt with her. Serenade her. Hug. Cuddle. Hold hands. Surprise her. Blow gently into her ears while she is cooking or while you are watching a movie together. Be spontaneous. Being a king-kong overlord in "ze oza room" and puffing and panting like a worn-out locomotive while she wonders what just happened can only lead to frustration. Remember, it is never about the size of the weapon but the fury of the attack! (Decode that!)

6. Go out often. Make regular, unscheduled date nights. Take a bath together. Make room for movie nights together either at home or at the cinema.

7. Remember that ONLY THE TWO OF YOU started the journey together and when the children have jumped the nest, only the two of you will remain. So, keep the bond ALL THE WAY and never drop the ball

8. Impregnate her with VISION. Allow her to dream too. Every woman loves a man working towards a future in which she can feature. Remember, woman simply means "womb man". She always wants something to incubate and nourish. You give her a seed, she incubates it and turns it to a baby for you

9. She is your wife, a companion and confidant, not a washing machine, cook or slave. You can't wear her out with chores all day and expect to 'ride' a functional "bicycle" all night! Impossicant! Partners help partners by giving a helping hand where needed, even without being told.

10. Love is not 50/50. It is 100%. God didn't say to love your wife when she is submissive. It simply says love her as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her.

11. Be PRESENT. Don't be at home married to your computer or football game. Listen when she wants to talk. Even when you don't know what to contribute to the discourse, you will soon discover that all she wanted was for you to listen. Your opinion may not even count!

12. If both of you are born again children of God, you are actually SIBLINGS!!! You have the same Father and the same father-in-law, GOD!!! Ever thought of that? Treat your wife with the dignity you would accord your blood sister. If you are fond of disgracing your wife in public and calling her all sorts of unprintable names, remember, it wasn't God who named EVE. He created a woman, Adam gave her a name. Whatever you call your wife, that is what she will reflect to you. If you call your wife a Jezebel, we need to check if your middle name isn't Ahab! Call her your Queen and she will make you her crown! It takes one to find one! When you see the glory of your Father in her, you will be a great son-in-law too! A wife you don't honour cannot bring honour to you too.

Trust me, u will enjoy your marriage till death do you part.

May your home reflect the mind of God!!!

Breaking Off An Engagement Is Permitted.

*It is not divorce,*

Many feel guilty after this act and they feel as though they've committed a grievous offence by calling off an engagement before the actual wedding as many see it as divorce.

This is why we have two rings-

Engagement ring and wedding ring.

Engagement ring is not a wedding ring.

They are two different things.

So, it is advisable to call off a relationship heading for trouble before marriage.

This is wisdom!

Many tolerate themselves during their engagement period and eventually get married and thereafter enter crisis.

YOUR HAPPINESS IS MOST PARAMOUNT.

GENERAL COUNSELLING FOR THE SINGLE MOTHER OR GRANDMOTHER

Any single mother abi grandma that is over fifty years old and decides to remarry or settle down should not attempt to hook up with a man that doesn’t know how to make use of his phone.

At this age in your life sis mi, all you need is companionship, not a man that can leave you three, four days without calling you nor sending SMS to check on you, and, at the end he will come up with epileptic excuses. No, don’t allow any man to add more to your stress. Orisha boo le gbe mi, se mi bo se ba mi.

Some of them will not even pick their phone when you call claiming unnecessary right, given you unreasonable excuses. Ma binu, am not used to phone, ko mora ni, I left my phone in the car etc, that nonsense must stop henceforth. Don’t allow any baba corridor kan to give you hypertension.

Good morning aya mi, bawo ni night e, that alone goes a long way.

Arike, nibo lo wa, awon omo nko, it adds more to our strength.

AbeniAdeyyyyy, check account e, mo ti send owo ounje e aya mi, that gives Abeni joy through out the whole day. And the headache will disappear lesekese.

Ajike mi, bawo ni day e, so ti jeun, it calms our nerves and reminds us that we belong to someone.

NO CALL, NO SHOW IS DISRESPECTFUL, DO NOT TAKE YOUR WOMEN FOR GRANTED, DO NOT TURN THEM TO YOUR CONVENIENCE STORE.

Again aunty wa, don’t allow any man to hide you from his family, he will not pick his phone whenever he’s with them, asiri…

If he’s not ready to make you happy at this age, let him continue either with his single life or go back to his former apartment…..AYE WA DA ??? NO TIME TO CHECK TIME LORI IRO. You need to be with someone that knows your worth not daddy ojo(day) ti ile ba da, means when there’s no one at home. E gbo abeegba sister wa. Your life, your choice. Choose it wisely. Ma je ki awon baba yen so e di tanwole o, blood pressure medication is on the high side, aanidaamu……

Is better to stay alone ko gbaf’Olorun, gbe agbelebu e than to think you’re in a relationship with a man that will only appreciate you whenever he’s free to do so. …..at his own time, ko ye ko ri be.

YOU NEED TO BHAPPY AND ENJOY YOUR MIDDLE AGE…..

NOTES FOR THE SINGLES AND MARRIED

SINGLE AND MARRIED LADIES IN THE HOUSE....

KNOW THIS

1. A first class degree won't make you a first

class wife rather your submission and respect

will.

2. The woman who respects her husband is the

best wife anyone would ever have.

3. Your character and attitude will go a long way

in determining if your husband will wish he never

Regret getting married to you..

4. To be a great wife, you need more anger

management skills than nagging skills.

5. Be a leader at work, or anywhere else but be a

companion at home.. It's wisdom!

6. Don't compete with your husband; compliment

him.

7. Your strength is in humility and submission,

not in strife and contention.

8. Be tender, every man respects a tender

woman but firm.

9. Never try to punish your husband by starving

him of food or Sex, he maybe forced to get it

outside.

10. There is nothing wrong in accepting that you

are wrong when you are wrong.

11. Prepare to forgive your husband if he wrongs

you.. For a forgiving wife is better than a

vengeful one.

12. Make a decision to be a good wife, you will

need it in the long run..

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Never give anyone else the responsibility to control your happiness.

What every wife needs to read, understand and live in her marriage if she wants to build her home.

During a class at Fresno Pacific University, a speaker asked one of the spouses in the audience:

"Does your husband make you happy?"

At this moment, the husband stood up straighter, showing complete confidence. He knew his wife would say yes, because she had never complained about anything during their marriage.

However, his wife answered the question with a resounding "No."

"No, my husband does not make me happy."

The husband was baffled, but his wife continued:

"My husband never made me happy and does not make me happy. I am happy."

"Whether I am happy or not is not dependent on him, but on me. I am the only person on whom my happiness depends.

I choose to be happy in every situation and every moment of my life, for if my happiness depended on another person, thing or circumstance on the face of the Earth, I would be in serious trouble.

Everything that exists in this life constantly changes: the human being, the riches, my body, the climate, my boss, the pleasures, the friends, and my physical and mental health. I could quote an endless list.

I need to decide to be happy regardless of anything else that happens. Whether I own a lot or a little, I am happy! Whether I'm going out or staying home alone, ​​I'm happy! Whether I am rich or poor, I am happy!

I am married but I was already happy when I was single.

I'm happy for myself.

Other things, people, moments or situations are experiences that might cause joy or sadness. When someone I love dies, I am a happy person in an inevitable moment of sadness.

I learn from past experiences and I live those that are eternal like loving, forgiving, helping, understanding, accepting and consoling.

There are people who say: Today I cannot be happy because I am sick, because I have no money, because it is very hot, because it is very cold, because someone insulted me, because someone stopped loving me, because I don't know how to love myself, because my husband changed, because my children do not make me happy, because my friends do not make me happy, because my job is mediocre and so on.

I love my life not because my life is easier than anyone else's, but because I have decided to be happy as an individual. I am responsible for my happiness.

When I take this obligation from my husband and anyone else, I free them from the burden of carrying me on their shoulders. It makes everyone's life much lighter.

And that's how I've had a successful marriage for so many years."

Never give anyone else the responsibility to control your happiness. Be happy, even if it's hot, even if you're sick, even if you do not have money, even if someone has hurt you, even if someone does not love you and even if you do not value yourself.

THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO AS A PASTOR'S WIFE

MANY SEEKING TO BE A PASTOR'S WIFE

- Being a pastor's wife is not easy, you don't just marry pastor because you want to be addressed as mummy, first lady, or spiritual mother. Marrying a pastor is a calling with brutal responsibilities. All eyes are on you, people want you to fail, some want to take your place, even when you are right they will condemn you. You are always afraid of losing your husband to the church especially NOWADAYS that ladies are fighting to be pastor's favorites. To avoid all these, mummy follow my advice below!

1. DON'T BORROW MONEY FROM YOUR CHURCH MEMBERS

2. DON'T GOSSIP YOUR MEMBERS OR WITH YOUR MEMBERS

3. DON'T DISCUSS YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRETS WITH MEMBERS

4. DON'T BE EXTRAVAGANT IN SPENDING

5. DON'T BE JEALOUS WHEN LADIES COMES AROUND YOUR HUSBAND

6. DON'T BE A DIRTY MOTHER IN THE LORD

7. DON'T COMMAND RESPECT, BECAUSE IT'S EARNED

8. DON'T ATTACK OR RAISE YOUR VOICE AT YOUR HUSBAND PUBLICLY

9. DON'T SPEND CHURCH MONEY WITHOUT ASKING QUESTIONS

10. DON'T QUARREL OR FIGHT WITH CHURCH MEMBERS

11. DON'T HAVE FAVORITES IN YOUR CHURCH, EVEN IF YOU DO, PLEASE DON'T SHOW IT

12. DON'T ALLOW TRIBALISM AROUND YOU, BECAUSE IT WILL KILL YOUR HUSBAND'S MINISTRY

13. DON'T LET LADIES DO YOUR DOMESTIC JOB, EXCEPT YOU ARE TIRED OF MARRIAGE

14. DON'T BE TOO CLOSE TO BROTHERS IN YOUR CHURCH, ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN MUMMY.

15. YOUR HUSBAND'S FRIENDS SHOULD NOT BE YOUR CLOSE FRIENDS, BECAUSE THEY MAY USE YOU AGAINST YOUR HUSBAND

16. PRAY FOR YOUR HUSBAND MORE THAN YOU GOSSIP HIM

17. LOOK FOR SOMETHING TO DO MUMMY, BECAUSE TITHE AND OFFERING IS NOT FOR SHAWARMA AND ICE CREAM

18. DEFEND YOUR HUSBAND NO MATTER THE SCANDAL, MISTAKES AND WEAKNESS BUT REBUKE HIM AT HOME

19. PACKAGE YOUR HUSBAND, OR DO YOU LIKE THE WAY YOUR HUSBAND DRESSES LIKE AREA BOYS? HELP HIM TO LOOK LIKE A SPIRITUAL LEADER AND NOT A YAHOO BOY

20. DEVELOP YOURSELF, A PASTOR'S WIFE MUST LEARN HOW TO LEAD PRAYER, PREACH/TEACH, SEE SMALL VISIONS, LEAD SERVICE, BLESS THE OFFERING AND TITHES, BECAUSE MEMBERS ARE WATCHING YOU MUMMY.

These are few tips for pastor's wives, Please accept it as my contribution to the body of christ and not a criticism, because to be a pastor's wife is not easy.

GOD BLESS ALL PASTOR'S WIVES IN JESUS NAME.

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