Tuesday 26 October 2021

WHAT IS YOUR GOAT NO 3???


It all started one lazy Sunday afternoon in a small town near Toronto in Canada.
Two school-going friends had a crazy idea.
They rounded up three goats from the neighborhood and painted the numbers 1, 2 and 4 on their sides.
That night they let the goats loose inside their school building.
The next morning, when the authorities entered the school, they could smell something was wrong.
They soon saw goat droppings on the stairs and near the entrance and realized that some goats had entered the building.
A search was immediately launched and very soon, the three goats were found.
But the authorities were worried, where was goat No. 3?
They spent the rest of the day looking for goat No.3.
The school declared classes off for the students for the rest of the day.
The teachers, helpers, guards, canteen staffs, boys were all busy looking for the goat No. 3, which, of course, was never found.
Simply because it did not exist.
Those among us who inspite of having a good life are always feeling a "lack of fulfilment" are actually looking for the elusive, missing, non-existent Goat No.3.
Whatever the area of complaint or dissatisfaction, relationship, job-satisfaction, finance, achievements, ......
An absence of something
is always larger than the
presence of many other things.
Let's Stop worrying about goat No.3 and enjoy life....
And don't let the non existent imaginary goat number 3 waste your time and happiness.
?
_What is your Goat number 3_
Think about it…..
Good morning and wishing you a success ahead

Upgrade your IQ and EQ

Marriageable Ladies, upgrade your IQ & EQ to comprehend & analyze Issues rightly.
Love feeling for a Guy must Not be ONLY reason to marry him.
Marry the Guy bcos he earns your deep Respect & tested to be responsible with understanding Godly heart to comprehend sensitive Issues then open your heart to love him.
Marital Submission is a Must if stability is desired.
Did HUBBY worth wife's submission will Not always be considered or questioned once you Marry him, especially for Christian wives.
More complicated, hardened & irresponsible Guys are seeking for Strong Ladies to carry their deficiency burdens for lifetime through Marriage.
Lady's romantic Love feelings can''t be enough to manage such weak husbands.
Unless Lady is groomed through tough life experiences for such marital burden, she may be wounded or marked with lifetime marital scars.
Divorce don't always have final answer to cure such marital mistakes in the end.
Discern your relationship choice rightly through Godly insight.*

OUR DEAR WIVES


1. If you want your husband to make love to you often, have a good attitude. No matter how sexy you look or dress, your husband will not find you attractive if you have a bad attitude.
2. If you want your husband to be eating with you, be pleasant to be around. No matter how tasty your food, it loses taste when being around you is stressful.
3. If you want your husband to be opening up to you sensitive and difficult information, learn to keep secrets and not to overreact. A man refrains from sharing too much when he is scared information will be leaked or be misinterpreted.
4. If you want your husband to be praying with you, stop acting as if your prayers are more powerful or you are closer to God than him. Allow your husband to pray his kind of way.
5. If you want your husband to be taking you out often, stop bringing drama and ruining dates with issues that should be dealt with at home. No man wants to go spend time and money at a venue where he will be emotionally drained.
6. If you want your husband to solve the issues in your marriage, stop seeing yourself as the angel and him the devil, stop attacking him or labelling him as "The agent the devil is using to ruin your marriage". See also your fault, show him you are on the same team and seek solutions, not finger pointing.
7. If you want your husband to come home early, be peaceful. The wife tends to own the home and so can easily make the husband keep off if she becomes harsh, uninviting and combative.
8. If you want your husband to be chatting with you and calling you up, be fun to talk to, make him miss you. If each time he calls you or chats you up it ends up with you starting a fight, reminding him of his wrongs or ordering him around he will avoid communication with you.
9. If you want your husband to receive your suggestions and corrections then speak to him with a tone of love. If you come at him shouting, dictating at him or manipulating him he will harden up.
Lastly, as a woman, u must discover and empower urself. Don't be too dependant on ur husband and all the 9points above will fall in place.

Friday 15 October 2021

CHANGE IN MARRIAGE BEGINS FROM ME


Many marriages are just for sleeping and waking up, raising kids and ageing together till death comes.
* Many couples hardly kiss and they only hug each other when they receive good news.
* The husband only puts food in his wife's mouth only when she is terminally ill and cant feed herself.
* If you see a man opening car door for his wife means the door is faulty.
* The only thing that makes an african man touch his wife's neck is when she complains of fever. He wont touch it again till the next fever.
* The only time he can carry his wife on his arms is when she is in labour.
* if you see them seated outside at night, dont think they are romantic. They are only waiting for the smell of insecticide to vanish.
* Many wives buy gifts for their husbands only when they are hospitalized.
* The only time they race together is when there is danger and everyone is running.
* The only time they go for evening stroll is when they want to go and lay a complain to the parents of the person that beat their child or got their daughter pregnant.
* The only time they bath together is when both are late for work.
* the only time a wife looks closely to her husband's eyes is when he complains of dirt in his eyes.
Unfortunately, some feel that any romantic man is being controlled by his wife. They will begin to spread bad rumours.
*Couples, change begins with you ooo*......
MARRIAGE IS TO BE ENJOYED NOT TO BE ENDURED
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*BUILD THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU FOR YOUR TOMORROW*


*1. Nothing Makes Life Sweeter Than Making People Happy*
*2. The People You Help Today Become Your Soldiers In The Battle Of Life Tomorrow*
*3. To Invest In Properties Is Good But To Invest In People Is Far Far Better.*
*4. Try To Make Money, But Try Also To Make People Great.*
*5. Your Greatest Trophies Are The Tears You Wipe Away From People's Faces Not The Things You Acquire.*
*6. Your Greatest Achievement Should Be Raising Achievers.*
*7. People Will Defend, Stand By You & Honour You When They Realise You Value Them*
*8. Don't Let An Ingrate Stop You From Making Others Great.*

NEED TO PAMPER 'WOMEN'*


If you choose a WORKING_WOMAN , you must accept that she CANNOT manage the house full time, her time is shared... So, help her at home.
If you choose a HOUSE WIFE who can take care of and manage the household completely, you need to accept that she DOES NOT MAKE MONEY, so, always provide enough money for her, *she is odozi aku.
If you choose a SUBMISSIVE WOMAN, you should accept that she DEPENDS on you... Submissiveness is not easy ooo.
If you choose to be with a STRONG_BRAVE_WO
MAN , you need to accept that she is STUBBORN and has her own thoughts and ways, she can be romantic & weak too, if you treat her well.
If you choose a BEAUTIFUL_WOMAN , you need to accept all the EXPENSES, beauty needs maintenance, *she is Ori aku*.
If you choose to be with a GREAT/CAREER WOMAN, you must also accept that she is HARD and FIRM, do not shout on her or force her to get in kitchen always, she is *Oso Di eme*.
If you choose a DADDY'S GIRL, get ready to pamper her and treat her like a baby, she can be very romantic, *she is apunanwu*.
NO WOMAN IS PERFECT
A woman has her own "GOOD THING" that defines who she is and makes her unique.
Go for who you can tolerate.
*NOW TAKE NOTES OF THESE*.....
Growing Breast ____ Painful.
Menstruation ____ Painful.
Losing virginity ____ Painful.
Pregnancy stage ____ Painful.
Childbirth stage _____ Painful.
Breastfeeding _____ Painful.
Stop Breastfeeding ____ Painful.
Miscarriage ____ Painful.
You wanna hear the truth ...? *..... Every woman deserve a caring Man*.
Women are indeed priceless treasures to value and respect.
God bless all mothers cum Mummies and ladies here!.
You are irreplaceable.
*Have a wonderful and Blessed day!*.
MOMMY greets you all.
Thank you Lord for blessing me with a wonderful HUSBAND.
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