SEX AND MOANING

1. Moaning is a vocal expression of sexual pleasure

2. Moaning encourages your spouse to keep on doing what he/she is doing to give you pleasure

3. The sweeter the pleasure, the more passionate the moaning

4. Pay attention to your spouse's moan. When you hear your spouse moan more, keep on doing that act. Moaning is a like a tip, a guide to knowing how to please your spouse

5. Don't lay lifeless, soundless, motionless in bed when your spouse is having sex with you. It communicates that you are not interested

6. The sweet names you call your spouse during love making, "Sweetheart", "Hun", "Babe".. don't be using them only during love making, use them also when sex is not the agenda. Show your spouse that you value him/her for more than an orgasm

7. Some people use colorful words during moaning such as "F*ck, that feels so good!". If you have such a colorful spouse, he/she is not insulting you, that is not the time to be a grammar police, your spouse is just feeling really good because of you. If you will use colorful words, make sure they don't offend your spouse

8. Don't copy moaning sounds in movies or try and imitate porn star moans; be you, don't act

9. Most people close their eyes when they moan. The feeling is intense

10. As you moan be aware of your surrounding. If you live very close to neighbors, watch your volume; enjoy but don't disturb the peace of others

11. As you moan, be conscious of the children if they are sleeping near. Lest they think mom and dad are having a bedroom fight

12. If you want those moments where you can unleash yourself the most and moan your loudest; occasionally book a room in a hotel that is sound proof and scream your lungs there

13. Moaning adds to the memorable experience of the love making. It is the soundtrack to the act

14. If your mind is lusting after another; you might find yourself calling that person's name while having sex with your spouse. Who preoccupies your fantasies?

15. Don't compare your spouse's moan with that of your ex/exes. Enjoy your spouse as he/she is

16. For most men, their moan is tied to their breathing. They moan and breathe louder as the pleasure intensifies. He breathes a loud "Ahhh" as he ejaculates

17. In most cases, the woman is the cheerleader during love making. Her moaning boosts the man's ego, urging him to continue

18. When your spouse moans as if he/she is about to climax, that is not the time to stop. Finish the job, keep doing that thing; take him/her there. Don't frustrate your spouse and lose momentum

19. Most people increase their moan and the passion of the moan when they are about to climax

20. After the highest moan and the climax, seal it with the words "I love you"

21. Moans are special. Only that special someone gets to hear your pleasure sounds

HOW TO APOLOGISE TO YOUR SPOUSE

1. Don't justify why you did wrong. Accept it was wrong

2. Don't seduce your spouse into sex hoping that sex will make your spouse forget the wrong you did and you can escape humbling yourself to say sorry

3. Don't blame your spouse for making you do something wrong. Be an adult. Take responsibility for your actions

4. Don't send friends, family or siblings to apologise on your behalf. It shows cowardice. Face the one you have wronged

5. Don't belittle the wrong you did as if showing your spouse he/she is overreacting. If it is a big deal to your spouse, take it as a big deal

6. Don't start listing your spouse's past wrongs when your spouse confronts you on your current wrong. Love doesn't keep a record of wrongs

7. Don't apologise on social media or put a post on Facebook or WhatsApp status hoping your spouse will see it without saying anything in private. Make your apology personal and heartfelt

8. Don't brush it off and move on as if nothing happened just because you know your spouse loves you. Don't sweep things under the carpet

9. Don't throw money and gifts at your spouse and doing good deeds without addressing the hurt you have caused and the issue. You can't buy your way into healing. Healing is emotional, not material

10. Don't apologise rudely and casually saying "Aah, OK then, I am sorry then if that will make you stop complaining" just because your spouse has asked for an apology. Show genuine remorse

11. Don't wait for when your spouse has decided to divorce you or to break up with you to let go of your ego and say sorry. You might be too late

12. Apologise as soon as possible, sincerely, acknowledging your fault, recognising how it hurts your spouse, assuring him/her of your love and commiting to do better.

THE PRAYER POPE FRANCIS WANTS US TO PRAY

Catholic News outlasts are reporting that The Holy Father in his General Audience has asked The Catholic Faithful to keep a copy of this prayer with them to invoke The Holy Spirit, using The Sequence-Prayer from The Liturgy used on The Feast of Pentecost.

“When I don’t know what to do, I say come Holy Spirit!

When I am weak or sad, or about to fall, I say come Holy Spirit!” declared The Holy Father.

“Come, Holy Spirit, come! And from your celestial home, shed a ray of light divine! Come, come, Father of the poor! Come, Source of all our store! Come, within our bosoms shine. You, of comforters the best; You the soul’s most welcome Guest; Sweet refreshment … Come,” the pope said, reciting the first half of the prayer for the pilgrims gathered in Vatican Hall.

Pope Francis added that if Catholics did not have the prayer on hand, they could simply pray “Come, Holy Spirit” — as “the Madonna and the Apostles prayed during the days when Christ ascended into heaven.”

An ardent supporter of The Charismatic Renewal in The Church, His great devotion to The Holy Spirit is well documented.

As Cardinal in Buenos Aires Argentina he met once a week with Pentecostal Protestant Pastors of Buenos Aires to pray for unity and a fresh Pentecost, and is said to be the first Pope in modern times who prays in Tongues.

One young Pastor, the late Rev.Tony Palmer became a spiritual son to him.

Pentecostal Pastor Palmer was one of the first persons The Holy Father called from Rome upon being elected Pope-

He has met several times as Pope with The Pentecostal leaders in Rome, and has welcomed a deligation of American Pentecostal Pastors Including Kenneth Copeland and James Robinson for three days of prayer and dialogue-at The Apostolic Palace, prompting Kenneth Copeland to say, “ This is a Spirit-filled man; The Reformation is over.”

(Kenneth Copeland was responding to the monumental document of agreement signed by Lutheran Leaders and The Vatican in a joint declaration on Justification.

It was Martin Luther’s views on Justification that sparked The Protestant Deformation and 500 years of chaos and 400,000 Protestant Sects and counting)

Pentecostal Healing Evangelist Benny Hinn who has also been a guest of The Holy Father claimed two years ago at a large healing crusade in Nigeria, -quote-“Do you know that more Catholics get healed than Pentecostals?

Do you know why?

It’s because of their Eucharist!”

“While there are many mountains of theological differences to overcome, all Christians are united in Christ by virtue of their Faith and Baptism in The Power of The Holy Spirit,” offered William Timothy Lester of OLOFOB to Evening Light News.

“Countless Evangelicals are finding their way Home to The Church Jesus founded.

This is a Grace of The Holy Spirit.”

The full text of The Sequence Prayer for The Feast of Pentecost is HERE:

Let us pray:

PENTECOST SUNDAY SEQUENCE

Come, Holy Spirit, come.

And from your celestial home

Shed a ray of light divine.

Come, Father of the poor.

Come, source of all our store.

Come, within our bosoms shine.

You, of comforters the best;

You, the soul’s most welcome guest;

Sweet refreshment here below;

In our labor, rest most sweet;

Grateful coolness in the heat;

Solace in the midst of woe.

O most blessed Light divine,

Shine within these hearts of yours,

And our inmost being fill.

Where you are not, we have naught,

Nothing good in deed or thought,

Nothing free from taint of ill.

Heal our wounds, our strength renew;

On our dryness pour your dew;

Wash the stains of guilt away:

Bend the stubborn heart and will;

Melt the frozen, warm the chill;

Guide the steps that go astray.

On the faithful, who adore

And confess you, evermore

In your sevenfold gift descend;

Give them virtue’s sure reward;

Give them your salvation, Lord;

Give them joys that never end.

Amen. Alleluia.

No one is indispensible

No one is indispensable, when you start a mission prepare to an exit.

SEX BEFORE AND AFTER WEDDING

When you are single, you look forward to marriage so that you can get all the sex that comes with no guilt. You want to give your body to the right one, you keep off the hyenas who only want your sex and leave you hurting.

When you are dating, sex talk is exciting with your partner. You tell your partner, "Wait till we're married; I will sex you real good till you scream"

When you're newly married, sex is an instant activity, you spank each other, sex in every corner, experiment every position, gymnastics in bed.

When you two are starting to get deeper in marriage, and the sex becomes less frequent, you start to wonder if you love each other the same.

When the two are deep in marriage, consumed with responsibilities, sex becomes elusive and not a must. You two actually have to plan to have sex lest you forget that you have that sweet act to explore in marriage.

When the two start to go through challenges, some couples exchange insults, they struggle to find each other sexy, some unfortunately turn to outsiders for sex leading to regret; others hold on to their sex deficient marriage and eventually their marriage grows stronger.

When the two find the deeper meaning of love, sex becomes more special, faithfulness thrives and the couple can have intimacy without necessarily having sex.

When the two advance in life, children grow and life becomes more stable and predictable, sexual activity increases; perhaps because they know they have a limited time to have sex. They say a woman in her 40s is highly sexual, maybe because she is now more confident about her womanhood and needs. She's been through it all and now she is assertive.

When the two get to sexual retirement age, the couple hold each other's wrinkled hands and reminisce on their sexual encounters of yesterday.

When the two are really old, no sex because she can't get wet and he can't rise to the occasion, that's when the definition of a companion is strongest.

At the end of the day, sex is actually not such a big deal; what the human soul needs is companionship. Unfortunately we pursue multiple shallow sexual encounters and never get to enjoy true companionship. Don't let something that is not a big deal lead you to wrong relationships or make you mess up what is not important.

Sex is easy to get, it just needs two horny people with sexual organs; but intimacy and love is rare, a blessing and takes time to cultivate.

Find your soul companion and love your soul companion till death do you part, your sexiness has an expiry date but love is for life. How do you know you've found your soul companion? That person with whom if sex is taken out of the equation, you two have something special; one day sex will not be part of the equation.

Don't rush to take yourself away from where God has prepared for you. Thanks

The Crimes Many Married People Commit Against The Success Of Their Marriage*

1) Turning to many people for marital advice there by becoming confused

2) Treating visitors more warmly than family members, making family members feel unfairly treated

3) Respecting the Pastor, Bishops, celebrities and public figures more than they treat their spouse

4) Praising other children more than their children; speaking harshly to their children while speaking with a loving tone to other children

5) Working so hard for the family yet forgetting to spend quality time with the family they are working hard for.

6) Comparing themselves with other families and thus putting pressure to compete

7) Going through life without a vision for their marriage thus the marriage becomes a victim of circumstances instead of a force that shapes circumstances

Wanting God to bless their marriage yet the two choose not to do love God's way

9) Getting into debt, living a lifestyle they can't afford; thus bringing financial strain and digging the family into a hole

10) Looking at marriage as a competition between a man and a woman instead of a lifetime partnership

11) Being impatient with their marriage yet healing, love, progress, nurturing takes time

12) Failing to invest time, effort, communication, affection and honesty in their marriage yet expecting a strong union

13) Failing to put their marriage above in-laws and friends thus attracting outside interference.

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