Difference between Weak erection and low libido

Weak erection is having a semi turgid, semi flaccid phallus that is not strong enough to penetrate a woman or falls out during love making 

While low libido is when your partner has no urge to want to be intimate with you. Some lasts for months or years . 

A man with low libido might not have weak erection, the desire is not just dear while a man with weak erection might be rustling with desires but the tool is doing break-and-quench.

When it comes to low libido issues, due to childbirth, hormonal imbalance issues and mood swings from other failed relationships, women suffer low libido more than men. 

Most times during love making some married women just serve themselves rather than actually being fully involved.

What do women want?

This is a very interesting story and a lesson for MEN

(To men) Please take time to ponder.

(To women) Just enjoy the story.

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighbouring kingdom.

The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death.

The question was:

*What do women really want?*

Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man. And to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.

He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the priests, the wise men, and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.

Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would have the answer. But the price would be high as the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.

The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but first he would have to agree to her price.

The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table, and Arthur's closest friend. Young Arthur was horrified.

She was hunch-backed and hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc.

He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life. He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden.

But Lancelot, having learnt of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life. And the reservation of the Round Table. Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered.

Arthur's question thus:

"What a woman really wants?"

She said, "A woman wants to be in charge of her own life."

Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth, and that Arthur's life would be spared. And so it was. The neighbouring monarch granted Arthur his freedom. And Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.

The honeymoon hour approached and, Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him.

The most beautiful woman he had ever seen was sitting by the bed.

The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened. The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, she would henceforth become her horrible and deformed self only half the time, and be the beautiful maiden the other half.

"Which would you prefer?" She asked him. "BEAUTIFUL during the DAY... OR at NIGHT?"

Lancelot pondered the predicament.

During the day, he could have a beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch!

OR,

would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day? But by night a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous moments with?

(If you are a man reading this) What would YOUR choice be?

(If you are a woman reading this) What would YOUR MAN'S choice be?

And Lancelot's choice is given below...

BUT, please make YOUR choice first before you scroll down below!

OKAY?

Knowing the answer the witch gave to Arthur for his question, Sir Lancelot said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself.

Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time, because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.

Now, what is the moral to this

The moral is...

1. There is a 'witch' in every woman, no matter how beautiful she is. It's how a man manages it

2. If you let a woman decide on her own she gives u d best. but if u force her with ur decisions she becomes a witch.

Hmmmm

What do you think ?

So, be careful how you treat a woman, especially your wife in other to have long life, rest of mind, and happiness.

What causes painful sex with an average penis?

It's is because you are not not aroused, sex lubricant will help

Around 17% of women aged 18-50 experience problems with vaginal dryness during sex, even before the menopause takes place. Many women may experience vaginal dryness during sex because they are not sexually aroused, this is often caused by insufficient foreplay or psychological reasons such as stress.

LIBIDO BOOSTING DRINK

 INGREDIENTS :

▪Tigernut/aya(dry one)

▪Coconut

▪Dates/dabino

▪Ginger

Tigernut milk is one of d most powerful ancient food source known to humanity and used traditionally to stimulate sexual arousal, treatment of week erection, premature ejaculation in men and boosting of breast milk supply in breastfeeding mothers.

This drink is a libido booster in both men and women. It gets you or your man in the mood for sex.....so I will say if you are not married, please copy and save the recipe till then but if you a married try it, it works like magic.

If your husband is the quicky type, no wahala give him this drink daily, don't even tell him the work just prepare yourself and be ready for action.... in fact, hmmmmmm! 

PROCEDURE 

1.Soak the dry tiger nut in a generous quantity of water for about 24 hours or overnight.

2.After the soaking, wash the nuts very well and sort out the bad ones.

3.Soak the dates for like 10minutes to soften it and remove d seed inside

4.Add coconut, ginger and tigernut

5.Put them in a blender and blend till it is smooth

6.After blending use a cheese or chiffon cloth to sieve the blended mixture

Serve chilled

*THIS IS FOR THOSE OF YOU THAT DOSE NOT HAVE URGE FOR SEX*

There are many factors dat mks a woman nt to hv urge for sex, some of them are 

* Low libido

* Dry vagina

* Hormonal imbalance

* Oral contraceptives 

* Medical problems like depression, fibroid,hyroid disorder etc

* Medication u tk like antidepressants,blood pressure drugs etc

* Age: blood level of androgens falls continuously in women as we age there by causing lack of urge for sex

* How one lost vaginity 

* Ur man nt knowing how to mk love

Lack of romance (dat is nt touching u at d right places until u becum wet, him just focusing in penetrating) 

* Not loving Nd having feelings for ur partner etc 

The first Nd best way to tackle lack of urge for sex is to know d cause of it nd handle it. 

If is medical aspect of it like hormonal imbalance, medications,oral contraceptive,fibroid etc u seek medical help for it but if not then u need to work on urself Nd ur partner . 

U can prepare libido drinks to put u in d mood,( I will send d preparation later) eat fruits like banana, avocado pear, tiger nut, coconut etc 

Avoid stress Nd have enough sleep

Prepare ur mind Nd body for sex Nd u will see d urge flowing 

Flirt wit ur man, send him flirty sexy sms like darling I need u in me dis nit😊,baby I want it deep,hard, Nd fast dis nit 😎, baby I want to to tk me to heaven Nd bring me bk dis nit😍, all dis flirty text will mk d man prepare for u Nd want to gv u d best, Nd it also mk u to prepare Nd be in d mood for good love making 

Tell ur man to romance u, tell him d places u want him to touch u, let him tk tym in sucking ur breast, touching ur clitories, kissing u, sucking ur earlobes(I like dis one so much😋it tickles me🙈) he can even gv u a head(lick ur pussy 😳yes) 

U d woman should also put ur man in d mood to mk him perform well . Men likes it when we tk tym nd romance them. Kiss him, suck his breast, tickle him wit ur fingers, lick his earlobes, gv him a bj(if he is d type dat likes it) 

I believe good romance will mk u both to be in d mood Nd mk u wet Nd u will beg him for penetration lolxx😂😂

Pls don’t think of any other thing during sex just focus Nd put all ur mind into d act. Good sex is a thing of d mind 

            Good sex will mk u have multiple orgasm 😋😋 nd d feelings is heavenly 😂😂. Good sex mk ur lifespan longer Nd keeps u looking young 😃

TIPS FOR WOMEN TO EXPERIENCE ORGANSM

Achieving female orgasm can seem elusive. But all it takes is time, tenderness, and knowing how to stimulate ur sweet spots.

Bringing a woman to orgasm has nothing to do with penis size or pornographic skills. The key is spending more time on foreplay and learning about the two spots that, when stimulated, can lead to a female orgasm.

It also doesn't hurt to understand which sexual positions provide the best chance of u achieving orgasm.

1. *Spend More Time on Foreplay:*

Your husband may be pretty much ready to go from the minute u gives him a sexy glance or after he sees you in that bra he likes. But you as the wife, on the other hand, may need plenty of physical and emotional stimulation to become aroused, lubricated, and primed for an orgasm. That's why foreplay is so crucial.

The key is to emphasize the "play" in foreplay. It's shouldn't be rushed or treated like an obligatory task. In fact, foreplay can begin hours before sex actually occurs, and every minute of it will prepare you as a lady for an orgasm. Here are some tips for getting both of you in the mood:

1. Your husband should Use a tender touch on you.  Caressing you gently can create sexual tension even before you've started making love. He should Hug you hold ur hand, or touch ur thigh. Female orgasm is more likely to happen if, when he is  kissing  you , you let his hands roam to more erotic regions of ur body. (Another hint: Yes, the breasts are erogenous zones, but they're not the only one! Try stroking ur back or ur thighs, or sliding his fingers into your hair.)

°Take kissing to the next level. Kissing is essential to foreplay. Discovering new places to kiss that turn you on is both fun and rewarding. Tell him to kiss the back of ur neck or ur shoulders for starters.

°Whisper sweet nothings. Don't forget to talk to him during foreplay. Women tend to be more verbal, and hearing how good she's making you feel can help her open up and have fun.

2. *Know Her Sweet Spots:*

There are two places on the body that are critical to female orgasm. Here's how to tell ur husband to  stimulate them so  you can achieve orgasm.

° *The clitoris* : This tiny organ contains a high concentration of nerve endings and can be found near the top of the vagina. The clitoris is covered by a little bit of skin called the "clitoral hood," which keeps it from being stimulated all the time, so ur husband may have to coax the clitoris out by touching or licking it. Once ur aroused, the hood will draw back and the clitoris will become slightly erect.

The "G" spot. This other orgasmic area is located inside the vagina. It's a bundle of nerve endings about two inches up from the pubic bone on the inner, upper wall of the vagina. To find the G-spot, Tell him to gently slide his finger inside ur vagina with his palm facing up, then curling his finger up in a "come hither" motion. Be warned — some women love having their G-spot directly stimulated, while others prefer less pressure on this sensitive area. Explore different techniques and then as a lady choose the one u likes best.

3. *Try Female-Friendly Sexual Positions*

°Given what you've just learned, you can pretty much guess that the best sexual positions for female orgasm involve those which provide maximum stimulation to the clitoris or G-spot (or both!). These positions include:

Woman on top. This position provides some of the best stimulation of the G-spot, given the angle of the penis. You also can move ur body in a way that stimulates ur clitoris.

°Rear entry. This position isn't so great for clitoral stimulation, but provides excellent penetration and stimulation of the G-spot. Either of you can reach under during sex to rub the clitoris.

Sitting. 

°Having you sit on your husband lap allows for both deep penetration and good clitoral stimulation. It also provides plenty of intimacy