1) THEY ACCEPT YOU.
They may want you to be better, offer advice, encourage you to DO BETTER, but first, they love and accept you for WHO YOU ARE.
They accept your smile, how you laugh, how you talk, your past (where you are coming from), your present (where you are currently) and your future (where you are going).
2) THEY NOTICE AND REMEMBER THE LITTLE THINGS
KEEPERS usually want to know YOU
PLAYERS usually want to know your BODY and your ATM PIN.
A keeper wants to get into your HEAD (Ideologies) and HEART (Emotions), to know your dreams and aspirations and how that fits into theirs.
While a player wants to get into your PANTS or your WALLET, or both.
Keepers will remember the little details about you that you told them, they'll notice little things about you because they actually pay attention to you.
3) THEY DO THINGS TO MAKE YOU FEEL SPECIAL.
When they go out of their way (sacrifice) to do things for you, they are Keepers and worth keeping
They get you gifts, celebrate your wins, give you their attention whenever you desire it, listen to you, and value your opinion.
4) THEY MAKE EFFORT TO BUILD YOU IN WAYS THAT MATTER
A Player didn't come to BUILD you, they came to USE you.
A player Wants you to go partying with em all the time, wear skimpy clothes, look sexy and have sex with them at their demand.
To act like an harlot, and send them Nudes
To spend on them like an Idiot.
They don't mind even if you are not growing.
A Keeper on the other hand encourages you to be better spiritually and otherwise,
They encourage you to go for seminars, to read, to save, to invest, to know, to aspire to be more financially, spiritually and otherwise.
A person worth keeping is a person that makes your life BETTER.
5) THEY TALK ABOUT THE FUTURE.
Players avoid the "Where is this headed?" question with passion, they'll quarrel each time it's brought up.
Players don't discuss about their future with you because you're not in it, all they want to discuss is your breast, your waist, your nudes, your account balance and when you're sending the money.
Keepers on the other hand, they're interested in your plans for your tomorrow they talk about the deep stuffs.
What type/size of family you want, etc, to see if you are compatible.
6) THEY TREAT YOU AS AN EQUAL.
When they talk down on you, treat you with contempt, abuse you, they walk around you with an air of superiority.
Even if they want to keep you, don't keep them.
7) THEY LOVE GOD
Anybody who has no interest in God and the things of God, miss them oh. Miss them.
Even if they want to keep you, they are not worth keeping,
Anybody that doesn't fear God, who are you that they will fear? Please miss them and let them miss you.
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You'll come across many People in your life time
It's your job in conjunction with the Holy Spirit to determine who should be in it.
By Musa Gift
