_The effects of peaceful marriage_

Peaceful marriage prolongs life.

Peaceful marriage enhances family and social health and peace.

It sets a good example for younger ones to emulate.

It creates a sound atmosphere for progress in life.

It brings honour and glory to God.

It is a vessel of evangelism.

A peaceful marriage brings the favour of God and His blessings on the family.

Let us therefore try all what we can, to make our marriages peaceful to fulfill the intended purpose of God for us. His banner over us is love so let LOVE reigns.

TO KNOW A MAN WHO IS SERIOUS FOR MARRIAGE

A MUST READ For Single Ladies.

Is He Ready For Marriage?

1. A man can date you for 10 years and still NOT get married to you. I heard someone say ‘God forbid.’ That’s good. Don’t let that happen to you.

2. It is sad but MANY men are NOT ready for marriage. Many are immature.This has nothing to do with love. It has to do with wanting to settle down with you.

3. Now that you are young and hot and irresistible, you are not paying attention to this article. But the truth is that you will not remain young for ever. You should therefore not allow any unserious man waste your time.

4. A man may love you but does he want you to be his WIFE? If all he wants is fun and games, he will never propose to you. May the Lord deliver you from time wasters and deceivers.

5. There are ladies who are ready for marriage but are in a relationship with jokers who are still immature. Such ladies will experience pain unless they let go of such a relationship.

6. A man who is READY for marriage will have marriage burning in his eyes. It will be in his every sentence. If you are wise and know he is God's will for you, GRAB him now. When the Lord sends a blessing your way, it is foolishness to let it slip out of your hands.

7. If you have dated for at least 6 months and he has not raised the subject of marriage, my dear sister, he is NOT ready to get married. You may grow old waiting for him to propose to you.

8. A man who is emotionally mature, financially prepared-he doesn’t have to be a millionaire- and talks to you about marriage should be taken very seriously. If you reject him, he will get married to the lady who accepts his proposal.

9. Marriage for a man is not complex. It is the most direct thing for a man who is ready. So, when a man keeps beating about the bush and evading the subject of marriage, he is not ready for you. Let him go or be ready to wait until he is ready, whenever that may be.

10. Let’s wrap this up. Are you good for each other and happy together? Is he ready for marriage? Has he asked you to marry him? If he has, don’t let this moment pass you by, seize it. And may the Lord give you understanding.

HOW TO DEAL WITH PREMATURE EJACULATION AND ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION

FOR MARRIED ONLY

1. Wife, celebrate if your husband ejaculates because of you albeit prematurely. You have the ability to make him climax quickly. The goal is, how can that climax be delayed

2. Husband, if you climax too quickly, rejoice that your penis is able to sense pleasure inside your wife to climax. You just need to work on control

3. Wife, in case your husband climaxes too soon, don't look at him with eyes of frustration and disappointment as if it is the end of the world; you will only make him self conscious

4. Husband, learn your penis. Get to know when you are about to climax; and when you feel about to cum, get out of her sweetness and change the sex position to prolong your hardness

5. Wife, it is not all lost when he climaxes soon, continue playing with him, after some minutes, his penis might get hard again. For a lot of men, the second hard on lasts longer

6. Husband, if in case you climax too soon, don't feel ashamed. Your wife is still horny, find other ways using your hand and tongue to get her to her orgasm

7. Wife, identify which sex position makes your husband climax too quickly. If you notice he climaxes faster when he sees your butt as you two do doggy, or when you are rubbing his nipples as he is on top of you; save that sex position for last

8. Husband, a lot of men climax too soon because they are too excited or they are used to masturbation. Avoid masturbation, relax when making love, don't be in a hurry, allow your spouse to pleasure you in other ways beyond your penis such as massaging

9. Wife, remember that sometimes it is not that your husband cannot sustain his erection; but that you turn him off with your bad attitude, harsh treatment or lack of hygiene. He might start off hard then the penis shrinks when he remembers how bad you treat him. Good treatment sustains an erection

10. Husband, don't overthink during love making. Sex starts and is sustained in the mind, if you over think, your penis will be confused. The penis remains hard when you have one focus: pleasure

11. Wife, a lot of men struggle to maintain an erection when stressed, especially due to finances. Talk with him, relieve his stress

12. Husband, when you are so used to masturbation, your mind will desire self pleasure than a vagina. That is why some men maintain an erection during self pleasure and watching porn but lose the erection when next to a naked and wet vagina. Avoid masturbation; relearn that true pleasure is what you get from your wife's vagina

13. Wife, the quality of foreplay sustains the penis. Find out what activities you do get your husband really hard, is it playing with his balls, pleasing the tip of his penis, licking and rubbing his nipples. Do it. Get him hard to the fullest

14. Husband, be confident as you approach your wife. Believe in yourself. You are capable of pleasing your wife. If you are shy or have a low self-esteem, you will lose your hard on

15. Wife, praise your husband sexually, make his ego feel good. Once a man feels sexually praised by his wife, he sees himself positively and the penis follows suit. The mind controls the penis

16. Husband, avoid panicking and worrying. Yesterday your penis may have lost its erection, today it will be hard like a rock for long. Worrying about what happened yesterday messes up today. No sexual session is ever the same

If it persists, see a sex therapist you two are comfortable with.

DANGERS OF SEXUAL SINS ..

 I AM WRITING THIS LETTER TO THOSE WHO ARE GENUINELY BORN AGAIN, BUT THEY ARE STRUGGLING WITH SOME SECRET SINS... BECAUSE, I WAS ONCE THERE! .... There is something glorious about your future God will show you, you will not need your pastor to keep preaching holiness message to you daily... When you see a girl singing in the choir, yet, from the choir, she keeps sexual appointments, check that girl, she has not seen anything yet about her future... When you see a young boy who dresses to church, to seduce those small girls to bed and his mates will be clapping for him, check that boy, he has a spiritual eye problem... He hasn't seen anything about his future yet... If you do it again and again and again, God will forgive you again and again and again... But, while He is busy forgiving you, angels are busy searching for some one else heaven will use to replace you ... What separates men before God is not how long they can pray or how much scriptures they know... The value God places on people is not determined by the position they occupy in the church... But how much they can bear for His Name sake... Some times, He allows your salary to be delayed, to know if you will start stealing in your office... Sometimes, He allows some lose ladies to start suggesting sex with you, to know if you have grown... But unfortunately, you still fall again .... Yes, He will forgive.... But, you will still remain in the same class in the school of glory... Decision separates men... There is an OIL that comes with separation... The weight of a man is buried in the decisions he makes when no one is watching him ... Many times, God allows you to be lonely so that you can be holy... Forget this public revival messages all of us are preaching... Many are still behind in the school of glory... Not because they chose to, but because they still don't want to pay the price of separation... If it takes a man to be married to be responsible, we will not have many married irresponsible men scattered all over the place who are renting houses for their girlfriends, while their wives are still at home.... When a man is due for marriage, he should get married... But don't tell me to get married because you want me to escape fornication... Marriage is not an escape route into a responsible life... What you cannot control when you are single has the power to control you even when you are married ... No matter how beautiful your wife will be, you will still see other beautiful ladies.... Teach me how to die to flesh sir... Teach me that I can live alone in a house alone and yet, I will not think rubbish thoughts... Joseph was not married before he ran away naked from Portiphar's wife bedroom ... It was not a marital ring on his finger that made him refuse that gesture.... But because he knew the future God has planned for Him will be messed up by a single decision.... God wants to raise a generation of young boys and girls that will love God where no one is seeing them ... God wants to raise a breed that doesn't appear holy only when they see their parents or their pastors... This holiness by dressing is sending people from choir seats to hell fire... They are dying in secret sins, yet, they have none to cry to, because, once they confess, they will be stigmatized... Consequently, we are raising a generation that is speaking in tongues on their way to hell... Sister, singing in choir doesn't confer value on men before God, but decision... Stop attaching your spiritual growth on night vigils where you go and flog enemies ... God is waiting for you when no one is there... If you can succeed there, you will be a commander of the supernatural... The greatest tool against the end time church is the adulteration of the message of grace... They teach you that God will forgive... But they will not teach you that God will not promote you to another class... No matter how you love your child, you will not give him your car key to use when you know he has not perfected his driving... As long as that child is finding it hard to drive perfectly, he will keep trekking to school... There is someone reading this posts now, heaven is saying that you are due for manifestation, but you have not made a decision yet... You are still afraid of hunger.... You don't want to starve.... You are ashamed of what people will say when you stop sleeping with men for money to pay bills... They have even told you that there is no young person like you that doesn't have sexual partners... That human beings were wired by God to fall and rise again... Several times, you have made moves to delete all those phone numbers that connect you to your vomits... But you have been afraid of the days of loneliness... You don't want to miss those cuddles... You don't know if you can ever look into his eyes and tell him: "No more sex"... Even if he accepts, you are afraid that you might never cope... Sister, don't let weekend orgasms rob you of eternal value... Your enemy is no more that witch in the village.... But any man that is making you comfortable in a place of rebellion with God ... Don't be in church singing in the choir and God will go to the nearest hotel and catch a prostitute, wash her, clean her and fill her with His power... I know you have been trying to make amends ... You have answered altar calls several times, yet, you still fall back, even more deeper ... Some of us were there not too long ago... Singing in choir, leading in powerful prayer sections, yet, battling with addictions... Worse of all we were afraid to tell anyone... Because, people around would never have understood how much we were trying to be better ... We bought different anointing oil, from different men of God, yet, we were not free... We even afflicted ourselves with fastings... Yet, nothing changed ... Until we encountered the Word of God..... When Jesus said that " We are made clean by the Words that I speak unto you..." We began to read and study the Bible... Like Job, we began to esteem God's Word above our necessary food... Gradually, addictions began to lose its grip... God began to change our appetites... Until today, the darkness is past, the true Light now shineth ... Brother, I want to recommend you to the Word of God.... The Word of God will settle that lust issue... Don't go and rush into marriage if you are not ready, because you want to avoid temptation... The spirit of lust does not respect wedding ring... Especially now that our sisters who are still in Babylon even prefer having it with married men ... There are still single guys who are serving God in spirit and in truth... 5 chapters of the bible every day and 1 hour prayers or more... You will see that your mind will stop going to those thoughts ... Jesus did not say it is easy... But He said that with God all things are possible ... Your heart is beating faster now as you are reading this... You are wondering if you will ever get free from the things you are struggling with... Friend, that God that did it for us, He will show up on your case... Receive grace to feast on the Word from now.... In Jesus Name...please teach the young ones in your church and God bless you. There is no obligation to share. No whips or curses if you don't share. But we both know that when you share this, it goes a long way to help someone. So I'm asking you to help someone . .. Thank you for reading God bless you

SEX IS SWEET

DEAR UNDEFILED ,

Sex is sweet but have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady's sexual opening? It is a thiny membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina. It is called the "HYMEN". Why would God our maker put a breakable tissue full of blood at the very door of the sexual opening of the female? Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance, why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken?

It was God who set that blood filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening. Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It's a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the blood shed on that day. This is God's way of saying, 'whoever plunges into this woman shall only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be joined to her for the rest of his life, from that point onward. That's why sexual intercourse was designed by God to take place only in marriage.

Sex: yes it's your right but you don't have to steal your dinner for breakfast. God who created the body said the body is not for fornication. There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural process that takes place in a lady's heart to the first guy that enters into her especially at that particular time when the hymen breaks. Sex is not just sex. It's a covenant and that's why a girl finds it difficult to let go of a guy who deflowered her no matter how badly she's been treated.

There is no covenant without blood: that's why the membrane contains enough of it. The first time a lady has sex is not just sex but an immersion and a bathing of the man with her hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is highly recognized in the spirit realm of both light and darkness!

Many have washed useless boys with that hymen blood. Many have struck irreversible covenants with men that have nothing to do with their destiny. Many have shared their hymen blood with demon possessed men. If only they knew, many girls who carelessly allowed themselves to be deflowered in a bid to be among the so called big girls would never have done so. Do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot through sexual activity is one with her?

This is why many girls are not yet settled & stable. Their spiritual composition is already shattered and imbalanced, because they have mingled their souls with that of different men.

Dear singles, know today that there is a definite proportion of your virtue that leaves you each time a man enters into you and when that man leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how much of yourself would be lost each time a man enters into you without any marriage bond. Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to another. All of these things have strong and terrible spiritual implication. A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of the man that broke it, and any other spirit whatsoever that may have mingled with that man's spirit (vice versa). Sex is a gift for marriage not an audition for dating.

Being a virgin till you're married is not old fashion. It Is called old wisdom, and wisdom last longer than fashion. We are living in a world where people in love are Free to touch each other's private parts but can't have access to each other's phones because they're private. Ladies go into marriage with an already dug well between their legs & that's one of the reasons we have so many failed marriages. Because after allowing boyfriends to dig the well, they will be looking for husbands with big fetching bucket to fetch it well. When a woman is beautiful without sense, her private part suffers the most.

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*RELEVANCE THROUGH IMPACT*

Luke 10:17.

And the seventy returned again with joy, saying, Lord, even the devils are subject unto us through thy name.

You will not understand the joy of living until you understand the joy of impact.

Your relevance in life is tied to your Impact on men.

Joy and fulfillment is a function of your Impact.

Our lives and Impact can influence and motivate others to become impactful in their space thereby building chain actions of Impactful men and women.

This is how to live. You will not understand the joy of living until you understand the joy of impact and influencing others to live for Impact.

The grace to impact other people is released on you in Jesus Name.

1. Make up your mind to lift someone up today.

2. Contribute to the success story of people and motivate others to live for Impact.

*PRAYER*

Father I receive the grace to lift people in life. Help me Lord to impact the lives of people and influence others to live for Impact in Jesus Name!!! Have a glorious weekend!!!

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