SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN

1. Rejecting food when there's an issue:

Mr husband, you gave your wife money for

food and after it was prepared you refused

to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome.

2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:

May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

3. Issuing threats:

beating, verbally abusing

your wife, issuing threats of divorce or

bragging about marrying another wife does

not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."

4. Reporting your wife to friends and family:

When your wife offends you, correct

and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.

By the way, are you a reporter answer my question ?

5. Keeping malice:

is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.

6. Not helping with house chores:

I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home when she chooses to be a full time house wife.

However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some men cannot change a simple diaper or prepare cereal meals; a big shame.

My point?

A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of depression

Don't marry Insult

Don't marry someone who you play with and they see it as insult...

Sometimes I and my wife will play and play and she won't know when she will say MUMU BOY.... it sweetens me ... But she will immediately say sorry...

I will immediately call her big head so she won't feel guilty...

Sometimes I will behave like a child... She will throw me slap...pursue me and throw me garri Turner...

I will run and come back... Scatter something and she will shout... And pursue me...

Listen leave serious people alone... Nigeria is already too strict don't add to it.

Men attend to Sex and Love and marry Stability

Men attend 2 Women for two reasons, SEX, and LOVE, but in most cases, men do not Marry for Sex or for Love, they marry for STABILITY.

A man can Love you and not Marry you.

A man can have sex with you for years without marrying you.

But immediately he finds someone who brings stability in his life, he marries her.

Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids, anything the woman thinks is fanciful.

They think that this woman can build me a home.

Women are tender, they have the capacity to receive and reproduce.

You give her groceries, she prepares a meal, you give her money, she gives you peace, you give her sperm and she gives you children.

You give it discomfort, it becomes your worst nightmare and most men know it. This is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a month, then get married.

It's the stability they want.

Sex is a pleasure, love is an affection, RESPECT is Stability.

Take Note.

THE MONEY, THE SEX AND THE RELATIONSHIP

"If you don't want to give me sex, don't ask me for Money"

"ladies want guys money in a Relationship, but they don't want to give him sex in return"

These are justifications we often hear, excuses that we are given to justify premarital sex.

Because Men think when you give a lady your money, you should get something back in return, otherwise you are a loser.

I Weep

First question

Is A Woman's Body something you Pay for?

Like she gives you sex, so you give her money.

If yes, what makes your girlfriend different from a prostitute?

Any guy whose girlfriend is giving him sex so he gives her money has a prostitute as a girlfriend.

A prostitute is someone who gives her body in exchange for monetary favors.

Even if she's sleeping with just one man, she's a Mono-Prostitute.

Dear Bachelor, when you ask your girlfriend for sex because she asked you for money then you are

Insinuating that she is a prostitute, her body is something she gives to reward a Man who gives her money.

Trying to make her a Prostitute or introduce her to it if she isn't one already.

A whore monger (someone who patronizes and deals in prostitutes)

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A Lady's body and Money are not things you compare.

NEVER say If she wants my money, she should give me her body, otherwise she should forget it.

You don't understand.

..................... MONEY is something you give someone because you LOVE Them

SEX is something you give someone because you are MARRIED to them...........

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What gives you the right over a Lady's body is MARRIAGE, not MONEY.

The truth is,

When a LADY loves a Man completely, she is actually naturally willing to give him her body even before Marriage, but God's Word forbids it, so she can't and won't, otherwise she breaks God's law.

When a MAN Loves a Lady, he actually is willing to spend his money on her, and No Law or Morality forbids such..

Only a stingy and godless Man says because his girlfriend has refused to give him sex because of her belief therefore he won't give her his money, when he is supposed to have same belief as well.

And as for a Man's money, Yes, a lady has no right to it, where a lady says no to sex (which is what it should be), even if she doesn't ask for money or doesn't need it, a Man with his head and heart in the right place will give to her, AND a lady with her heart in the right place will also give money to her Man. Giving in a relationship is a 2 way traffic. So ladies, work hard, earn and give too.

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Don't get it twisted.

A Relationship is not an excuse or license to a Woman's Body.

MARRIAGE Is!

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By Musa Gift

THE HIDDEN PART OF YOU

This is the part of you that even yourself don't know about, only God knows this part of you.

Have you heard people after marriage wonder what went wrong with their spouse?

Have you heard people say, I don't understand this part of you!

Have you ever heard couples accuse each other of PRETENDING before Marriage, just to show their real color in Marriage? This is the reality of the UNREVEALED YOU that becomes revealed in Marriage!

This is why Courtship is very important. It is why you must build Friendship before Courtship. Such discovery is subject to TIME

THE PAINS OF WRONG MARRIAGE

The pains of Marrying the wrong person is worse than your present fear of "Why am I not married"

Marriage is not a competition, take your time, fall in love, Nurse your Ambition into Maturity, Groom your Relationship, because forever is too long to be unhappy.

You don't want to go into Marriage with the Intention of divorcing in 5 years time, do you.??

Always remember, it is better you wait long than you marry the wrong person.