Monday 29 November 2021

Got it wrong at dating

The dating pool right now is a mess. A big mess.
If you are already married, God has saved you.
If you are in a serious relationship with someone who is going to marry you, Luck is your second name. You are very lucky.
A lot of people are in relationships, but single. You think you are dating someone, but the person is not even dating you.
I feel like we really need to talk about how damaged a lot of us are. How materialistic we have become. How sex obsessed we are as a people. How about how selfish?
"I deserve the best", yes, you do. But while you deserve the best, the person getting you, is he/she getting the best as well?
Our generation is just too selfish. It is always about you. You want someone to love you and accept you, but you are a bag of negativity, and emotional liability. You are unstable.
You never look inside. You never tell yourself the truth.
Wanting people to change for you, but you not willing to change for them in return.
No sincerity.
No honesty.
No love.
Just expectations without reciprocation.

NEVER MISS A GIRL WITH FOLLOWING QUALITIES


When A Girl SAYS SORRY Even Though She Didn't Do Anything
When A Girl CRIES Because She Still Loves Or Misses U...
When A Girl Still TRIES To Get You Back
When A Girl No Matter YOU HURT HER STILL LOVES YOU
When A Girl STOPS Her Arguments With Her Guy Just To SAVE Her RELATIONSHIP
When A Girl Continuously MAKES YOU FEEL SPECIAL &TRIES TO MAKE YOU HAPPY
When A Girl Is Upset But DOES NOT Tell You As She Thinks She Is ANNOYING YOU
When A Girl Wants To LEAVE You Because Of Your RUDE BEHAVIOR But She Is Not AbleTo Do...
DON'T LET HER GO.....YOU MAY NEVER FIND A GIRL LIKE HER EVER
AGAIN.

Sunday 28 November 2021

FUNNY PERSPECTIVE OF LIFE


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--- Life is all about Perspective. The way you see a Traffic Jam is not the same a Gala & Lacasera Seller sees it.
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---- One Girl's Daddy is another Girl's Sugar Daddy.
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------ Sometimes, you will never Value Garri, until you go broke.
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- -- Somewhere in Naija, a Boo is chilling with her real Boo while another Boo is seriously trying her number.
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-----You know you're in the VIP section of Friend-zone if you always help her cream her back and nothing happens afterwards.
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----- It's always fun listening to Someone's lie when you already know the truth.
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--- Before you blame your Father for being broke, Remember he could have used you for Blood- Money, but he didn't

You are Your Truth .

Do not build a Relationship on false information, lies and deception.
A Relationship or Marriage built in the foundation of lies and half truths is a ticking time bomb, it's only a matter of time, truth always finds its way out.
A Person you can't TRUST with your TRUTH is a Person you shouldn't trust with your LIFE
A Person who can't handle your truth is a person who doesn't deserve to handle You.
You are Your Truth .
Don't lie about your past and your background.
Don't Lie about your sexual history,
Don't lie about the true state of your Finances/business and Career.
A Person you need a lie to Impress is a Person you WANT, but don't NEED. You need a Person who you can be real with and be safe with.
Remember, that truth you are hiding can find its way out all on its own. People talk, news travels, the past comes visiting, and Laboratory tests can gossip.
If they can't handle the truth, let them go, it's better NOW than TOMORROW.
Don't be a Liar. Lying constantly isn't WEAKNESS, but WICKEDNESS.
Fake nothing. Anatomically and Physiologically
Forge nothing.
Be You.
Marriage is too long a time for you to chose to be fake.
Trust me, you won't be able to keep up with fake appearances forever. And when you no longer can, their love will turn to Hate and you'll have no one to blame but yourself.
Honesty is the best Policy. Remember, no Liar will make Heaven.

WIVES ARE MOTHERS


When a man finds a wife; he has found a replacement for his mother. If his mother is no longer alive or alive but not able to fulfil her roles to her son, then his wife takes over immediately. But if his mother is alive and active, his wife should be preparing to takeover. She is going to prepare patiently by studying the relationship between her husband and her mother inlaw.
Wives are mothers, for their own husbands AND their children. That's why when children are not yet coming, a wife is still called a mother technically. Also that's why a childless marriage is still considered a successful marriage.
Almighty God in His infinite Wisdom made it to be so. Humans cannot alter this without suffering serious consequences thereof.

HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE.


1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.
2. Challenges is part of life. It is only a dead man that has no challenges.
3. There is no problem that has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are passing through.
4. The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self esteem and inferiority complex.
5. Do not mind about what people say about you. Some people are sadists. They can just say something's just to make you feel sad.
6. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges.
7. At your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favorite hobbies like reading , Learning, etc.
8. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man today can become rich tomorrow. Change is constant.
9. No matter what you are passing through today, do not give up. As long as there is life, there is hope.
10. Be very prayerful. Pray without ceasing. Prayer is a catalyst that can speed up your blessings to come to you on time.
11. Be courageous to go for what you want. Life is all about risk. If you don't take a risk, you will not get the desires of your heart.
HOPE YOU ARE INSPIRED?