1) UNRESOLVED ISSUES/QUARRELS
It's difficult to desire to hold someone or be intimate with someone you have an issue against in your heart.
While Some Men/Women actually use the refusal to touch or have anything to do with their partners intimately as a way of punishing them for a perceived wrong (foolishness)
2) UN-FORGIVENESS
Malice, Resentments can make a person desire less and less of their partner physically and intimately.
3) EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS
When he has a side chic outside.
When she has a side guy outside.
Someone who has eaten to his full outside will always reject the food prepared at home.
4) CHANGE IN APPEARANCE
When the Wife starts PUTTING ON excess avoidable weight and stops PUTTING IN effort to look good and attractive,
When your appearance leaves nothing to be desired, what do you expect?
Body Odor
Mouth Odor
Armpit Odor
Dirty, bushy and smelly private Part
How can you as a married Man or Woman have odor in your private part? Don't you have conscience?
Time for oza room activities, you pull cloth and it's as if they opened a pit toilet.
Do you want to kill somebody with odor?
5) MEDICAL ISSUES
This angle should also be looked into before accusing one's spouse of cheating.
Certain medications/drugs or medical conditions can affect mood and desire for intimacy in both Men and Women
Age for example can affect too. And there are drugs that can help to bring back someone's sexual appetite from wherever it went.
6) SPIRITUAL ACTIVITIES.
Like Fasting.
At such times, there may be a decline in their desire for physical intimacy. Don't over do it.
7) REFUSAL TO BE INTENTIONAL ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE
Every flame left to itself without someone to feed and fan it will naturally go out
If left on its own, with time, the DISTRACTIONS of work, bills, children, family, neighbors, church, will push out the CHEMISTRY between any couple and replace it with HOME ECONOMICS.
STRESS
A Man who works two different jobs, my sister by the time he gets home, if you like be naked, the only thing such a Man can see and desire at that time is SLEEP.
And vice versa for a stresses woman.
Some People simply Hustle too much and it's killing their Marriage.
No time for Wife/Husband, All work, no play.
A workaholic nature can make you kill the intimacy in your Marriage.
Couples should learn to run their homes in such a way that the demands for luxury are not hyped to the point they become MONEY CENTERED, as this can affect the intimacy in their marriage even if they do get the financial gains from such a lifestyle..
HUSTLE OH, but don't forget your MARRIAGE OH
