Saturday 4 December 2021

WHEN YOU MATURE...


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1. You have no time for drama
2. You become very selective with your friends and the environment you allow yourself to be in
3. You want work that does more than pay bills, you want work that brings you fulfilment
4. You desire more than sex, you long for intimacy and companionship
5. You blame other people less and take responsibility more
6. You don't get caught up in arguments just to prove you are right
7. You don't blindly follow society. You choose your own path
8. You don't just want to merely exist, you want to build a legacy
9. You become more selfless and mentor others more
10. You learn to say NO without apologising for it

*True love is scarce*


If you have someone who understands you, who is patient with you, who loves you genuinely, who cares about you, who respects you, who is proud of you, who doesn't take a day without calling or texting you, who never fails to fix time for you, who fears to lose you. Please love that person with all of you!.
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Don't take his/her care and love for granted because such people are very rare to find these days. Don't let such a person slip off your hands over minor disagreements. If you are the one at fault admit and ask for FORGIVENESS, don't allow pride kill your relationship!
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Handle that person with care. Be there for him/her.. Be open to that person, there should be no secrets at all.. Don't be so nagging to such a person. Be trustworthy, faithful and appreciative... Do whatever it takes for the both of you to last forever because if you lose that person, you may never get another like Him/her.. My Brothers and Sisters; True Love is Scarce these days oooh!.. May God help us.

ADDITIONAL FACTS ABOUT SEX:


1. SEX IS A UNIVERSAL LANGUAGE
2. SEX IS A LIFE WIRE TO MARRIAGE
3. SEX IS THE ONLY MEANS OF PROCREATION
4. SEX UNITES THE COUPLE
5. SEX BRINGS HEALING TO THE SOUL
6. SEX IS A SUPERIOR FOOD TO THE HEART
7. SEX IS NEEDED BY BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE
8. SEX IS ONE OF THE BEST MEANS OF SETTLING CRISIS IN MARRIAGE
9. REGULAR SEX DESTROY LUST AND TEMPTATIONS
10. SEX CAN DESTROY THE DESTINY OF AN UNDER AGE PERSON
10. SEX BRINGS HEALING TO MARRIAGE
11. SEX IS ORDAINED BY GOD
12. SEX STARTS WITH FEELINGS
13. WE WERE CREATED FOR SEX FROM SEX
14. ALL ANIMALS DO INDULGE IN SEX
15. LACK OF SEX IN MARRIAGE CAN LEAD TO FRUSTRATION
16. SEX IS IRREPLACEABLE
17. SEX IGNITES AND ENERGISES LOVE IN MARRIAGE
18. SEX MAKES THE MAN A PLANTER AND WOMAN THE VINE
19. IN SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP, THE MAN HOLDS THE SEED AND WOMAN OWNS THE LAND
20. SEX IS AN AGREEMENT BETWEEN THE MAN AND THE WOMAN TO PLANT A SEED
21. SEX IS AN INWARD EXPRESSION IN AN OUTWARD MANNER
22. ALL WEATHERS ARE SUITABLE FOR SEX
However, sex is enjoyable when both husband and wife participate in it. That is why it should not be one sided action.
Beloved, do not be numbered among those who have lost their spouses to other people and begin to blame the devil for what they refuse to do at the right time.
I see you on top and in charge of your marriage. God bless.

YOU CAN'T KEEP


You can’t keep fighting to be with someone who isn’t fighting to be with you,
You can’t keep holding onto someone who is not holding onto you,
You can’t keep planning your future with
someone who doesn’t plan theirs with you,
You can’t keep running back to someone who is running away from you,
You can’t keep loving and caring about someone who shows that they no longer love you,
And you can’t keep taking someone as a priority yet they are taking you as their option.
Trust me it’s a waste of time, money and energy. No matter how hard and hurting it is, you have to let go of such a person and open up a new chapter. You deserve to be happy, loved and cared for not to be sad all the time, to have sleepless nights, to cry and plead for someone’s love. Think about it.
Love is a Beautiful Thing!.

YOU CONTRIBUTED TO IT


Most Men want to marry a Woman younger than they are..
One of the reasons they give is that Women naturally age faster than Men, pregnancy and child birth bearing the blame.
But the truth is, aging process can be HASTENED or SLOWED DOWN in any person, irrespective of gender or natural processes.
As a Man, you marry a Woman, you expect her to cook, pound pounded yam as breakfast and dinner for you, wash, sweep, with no labor saving devices in the house to help her with these chores
You won't lift a finger to help her either, and there's no body else to assist her.
She still goes to work like you, comes back to prepare meals, bath kids, get them ready for bed, for school, you'll still wake her up at night for oza business, daily, monthly and yearly.
At this rate, if you like marry a toddler, she will age as fast as fast food.
3 major things destroy a Woman's beauty after marriage.
1) STRESS
2) NO MONEY FOR MAINTENANCE and
3) LACK of PEACE OF MIND.
A woman you married that was fair Is now dark.
Skin that was shining is now dull and wrinkling after just 5 years.
She was plumpy when you took her from her father house, now she's almost disappearing.
No, it's not pregnancy, it's not nature.
Na suffer aka sapa.
She is suffering..
Have you seen Genevieve Nnaji at almost 50? She looks 20.
Some Men are stress producers.
They can even wake Madam up by 12 midnight to go and cook beans for them. Plus all the shouting, emotional, verbal, financial and physical abuse.
Why won't she age? If it's you, won't you age? Talk true.
Truth is, Women are naturally beautiful, give them the right environment and atmosphere, reduce the stress and increase the care and money, and see BEAUTY that defies age.
Dear Brother. as you marry, know that how quickly your wife begin to show signs of aging, how beautiful she will look per time, also depends on how well you take care of her. Not just on her age.

THE LOGICAL SIDE OF ROMANCE ,


1 ----- Follow your heart, but take your brain with you.
2 ----- You don't just wake up one morning and decide you love someone... your mind wakes up and realizes what your heart has known all along.
3 ----- No one can promise they'll never hurt you because at one time or another, it will happen.
4 ----- Love is just a word until you find someone to give it a definition.
5- ----- The bad thing about a girl with a broken heart is that she starts to hand out the pieces to anyone who comes around.