Most Men want to marry a Woman younger than they are..
One of the reasons they give is that Women naturally age faster than Men, pregnancy and child birth bearing the blame.
But the truth is, aging process can be HASTENED or SLOWED DOWN in any person, irrespective of gender or natural processes.
As a Man, you marry a Woman, you expect her to cook, pound pounded yam as breakfast and dinner for you, wash, sweep, with no labor saving devices in the house to help her with these chores
You won't lift a finger to help her either, and there's no body else to assist her.
She still goes to work like you, comes back to prepare meals, bath kids, get them ready for bed, for school, you'll still wake her up at night for oza business, daily, monthly and yearly.
At this rate, if you like marry a toddler, she will age as fast as fast food.
3 major things destroy a Woman's beauty after marriage.
1) STRESS
2) NO MONEY FOR MAINTENANCE and
3) LACK of PEACE OF MIND.
A woman you married that was fair Is now dark.
Skin that was shining is now dull and wrinkling after just 5 years.
She was plumpy when you took her from her father house, now she's almost disappearing.
No, it's not pregnancy, it's not nature.
Na suffer aka sapa.
She is suffering..
Have you seen Genevieve Nnaji at almost 50? She looks 20.
Some Men are stress producers.
They can even wake Madam up by 12 midnight to go and cook beans for them. Plus all the shouting, emotional, verbal, financial and physical abuse.
Why won't she age? If it's you, won't you age? Talk true.
Truth is, Women are naturally beautiful, give them the right environment and atmosphere, reduce the stress and increase the care and money, and see BEAUTY that defies age.
Dear Brother. as you marry, know that how quickly your wife begin to show signs of aging, how beautiful she will look per time, also depends on how well you take care of her. Not just on her age.