8 reasons why parents are responsible for their children's waywardness :

 1.) Parent who give their children everything they ask for: _Their children will grow up thinking they have a right to whatever they want._ 

 2.) Parents who laugh when their children speak foul language against others, especially older persons: _Children grow up thinking disrespect is normal and fun_ .

 3.) Parents who do not reprimand children for bad behavior: _Their children grow up thinking that there are no rules in_ _society_ .

 4.) Parents who cover up their children's misdeeds: _Their children grow up thinking they can do and undo with impunity; that they won't have to give account of their misdeeds._ 

 5.) Parents who stop watching television because their children cry when they change channels: _Children will grow up without a sense of respect for older persons_ .

 6.) Parents who let their children listen to music that objectivizes women, encourages sex and violence? _You can't sow thorns and reap cotton, can_ _you_ ?

 7.) Parents who give their children money whenever they want: _Such kids will grow up thinking money is easy and would steal when they can't get it_ _correctly_ .

 8.) Parents who always decide everything in favour of their children, whether they are right or not: _Their children will grow up thinking that every correction is_ _persecution_ .

📢 Please post this in groups. There are many parents in various groups who do not know these things🔈🔈

SOMETIMES WE LET GO

.1 ---- Sometimes, you need to Let Go, bcoz you will Never Find the Right Person if you are still with the Wrong one

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2 ----- Sometimes, Some People think You will be around Forever regardless of what they do, and that's where they mess up

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3 ---- Sometimes, We need to be Hurt in order to Grow. We must lose in order to Gain. Sometimes, Life's Lessons are learned through Pain

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4 ----- Sometimes, We can't ask Why. Sometimes, We will never Know Why. Sometimes, We just need to Move Forward and Stop Regretting the Past

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5 ---- Sometimes, Life Gives You The Test Before You've had Time To Learn the Lesson

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6 ---- Sometimes, We just don't Appreciate Those People Who Really Care for us until They Leave Us or Until We Lose Them.

STOP BREAKING WOMEN'S HEART

Please, this message is only for the wise women and men who don't want to suffer at the end.

Considering the level of imbalances in some homes nowadays,

Operating polygamy is preferable to monogamous relationship.

I know that some women and men, who always see it as problem because of the initial challenges/problems would disagree with me; and possibly react but I'm speaking from experience.

How many of us are not hearing words like:

"I can't kill myself because of a man,

"Do you want me to cut my head to satisfy you,

"Is it food, what is your problem?,

"Afteron, you will end it up in marrying another person (with all my efforts.),etc.

✓It means, women see it as PUNISHMENT from men when we propose or achieve marrying another wife.

Please men,if we are capable financially,healthwisely and spiritually;

1.Let us do the right thing by marrying more than one LEGALLY

2.Stop breaking the hearts of the women by making promises you cannot fulfil (or making move when they failed to give you the expected satisfaction;lawfully or unlawfully)

3.Stop cheating on them by taking Short-cut to satisfy yourself outside (as youcmay cause another problem for your family)

4.Stop putting your life at risk being a womanizer outside.

5.Stop causing death for yourselves at young ages.

PLEASE,LET THESE WOMEN UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING BY MARRYING ANOTHER PERSON IN A PROPER WAY.

Please,stop breaking women's heart,

✓"THEY ARE OUR MOTHERS AND WIVES WHO CAN NEVER PLAN EVILS FOR US"

✓"PLEASE,TAKE THE NECESSARY STEPS AS ALLOWED BY ALMIGHTY GOD- TO MARRY MORE THAN ONE,IF YOU CAN(instead of pretending and causing untimely death or bringing problems physically or spiritually)"

✓"STOP BREAKING WOMEN'S HEART, THEY HAD UNDERSTOOD"

✓"PLEASE,IF YOU ARE SATISFIED AND CAN NOT COPY IN POLYGAMY, IT'S NOT BY FORCE"

DO NOT COPY ANYBODY(YOUR FATHER OR FRIENDS); YOU ARE YOURSELF.

Goodwill msg from ALLAHU-RAHMON.

WORK OF CHRIST ON THE CROSS

Surely He has borne our griefs (sicknesses, weaknesses, and distresses) and carried our sorrows and pains [of punishment], yet we [ignorantly] considered Him stricken, smitten, and afflicted by God [as if with leprosy].

But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our guilt and iniquities; the chastisement [needful to obtain] peace and well-being for us was upon Him, and with the stripes [that wounded] Him we are healed and made whole.

All we like sheep have gone astray, we have turned every one to his own way; and the Lord has made to light upon Him the guilt and iniquity of us all.

(Isaiah 53:4-6).

WHAT CAN WASH AWAY MY STAIN

What can wash away my stain ?

Nothing but the blood of Jesus !

What can make me whole again ?

Nothing but the blood of Jesus !

Oh, precious is the flow,

That makes me white as snow !

No other fount I know,

Nothing but the blood of Jesus !

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For my cleansing this I see —

Nothing but the blood of Jesus !

For my pardon this my plea —

Nothing but the blood of Jesus !

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Nothing can for sin atone —

Nothing but the blood of Jesus !

Naught of good that I have done —

Nothing but the blood of Jesus !

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This is all my hope and peace —

Nothing but the blood of Jesus !

This is all my righteousness —

Nothing but the blood of Jesus !

PRAY THIS PRAYERS

Have mercy upon me, O God, according to Your steadfast love; according to the multitude of Your tender mercy and loving-kindness blot out my transgressions. Wash me thoroughly [and repeatedly] from my iniquity and guilt and cleanse me and make me wholly pure from my sin! For I am conscious of my transgressions and I acknowledge them; my sin is ever before me.

Against You, You only, have I sinned and done that which is evil in Your sight, so that You are justified in Your sentence and faultless in Your judgment. Behold, I was brought forth in [a state of] iniquity; my mother was sinful who conceived me [and I too am sinful]. Behold, You desire truth in the inner being; make me therefore to know wisdom in my inmost heart.

Purify me with hyssop, and I shall be clean [ceremonially]; wash me, and I shall [in reality] be whiter than snow. Make me to hear joy and gladness and be satisfied; let the bones which You have broken rejoice. Hide Your face from my sins and blot out all my guilt and iniquities.

Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right, persevering, and steadfast spirit within me. Cast me not away from Your presence and take not Your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of Your salvation and uphold me with a willing spirit. AMEN IN JESUS NAME.

Psalm 51:1-12

From A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years of age.

My ex husband and I dated for 6 years.

We where best of friends.

I waited until he completed college and started work.

My family and his family then met.

We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn't control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain.

My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.

If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me.

I never wanted divorce.

I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside.

I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!

But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained.

I was asked by his family to withdraw the case.

I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.

I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone.

After two days, I

received a call that he was in the hospital.

My family told me that I shouldn't go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.

He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.

I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me.

I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared.

To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We were divorced in 2009 July.

Now, my husband is married, whilst l am here wasted!

My family members are gossiping about me.

I depend on what my ex husband gives to my son for survival.

I know I wasted my

marriage.

I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advise.

Don't be cheated, don't entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader.

Even my young sisters are much more respected than me.

Those who encouraged me to get divorced are always teasing and bad mouthing me.

Please ladies, be vigilant in your marriage.

Thought it wise to share my story to save your marriage.

There is no benefit in pride for nothing.

*SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL, IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOWED TO ADVISE YOU,SO BE WISE AND VIGILANT IN YOUR MARRIAGE*.

LOVE ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH

A marriage cannot survive on love alone. You need money, accommodation and maturity. It is only animals that have children and then look for how to feed them. As a human being, you are supposed to prepare and marry, not marry and prepare. Love is good. But love does not pay the bills. And where the bills are not paid, love begins to fade, gradually, until it turns to something you do not recognise. You see, there is a thin line between love and hate. That is when you will greet your wife good morning, and she will ask you ‘what is good about the morning