RELATIONSHIPS YOU MUST AVOID

1. You should avoid a relationship that is based on sex alone. It has no future. It's a waste of time and destiny.

2. Avoid any relationship that has no direction, purpose or aim.

3. Avoid any relationship that doesn't add any positive impact on your life.

4. Run away from any relationship that gives you more sorrows than joy.

5. Run away from any relationship that makes you cry or gives you more tears and cry than laughter.

6. Do not stay in a relationship where you love someone but the person makes you unhappy many times.

7. When you see signs that a relationship can't work, there is no need remaining into it. Flee from it. Don't keep managing.

8. Avoid any relationship where you find yourself struggling to love your partner.

9. Avoid any relationship where you are caged or restricted from your rights.

10. Avoid any relationship that will keep you far away from God.

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BEGINNING OF THE YEAR NUGGETSDROP THE BONE!!!!!

A dog has taught me an important lesson in this encounter.

I was in a car commuting from home to my place of work. The car was speeding at about 80kms per hour.

Suddenly, I saw a dog with a bone running so fast trying to overtake the car so that it could cross the road.

I was frightened that the car would overrun the dog. I was praying that the dog would increase it's speed and cross the road safely. The car was fast approaching the dog.

Then, I realised the dog suddenly increased it's speed and was able to cross the road successfully.

Pheew, I sighed, thanking God it wasn’t hit by the car.

But, there is something I noticed that fell off before the dog suddenly increased it's speed.

I asked the driver, could you please reverse? I need to see what fell off.

When I saw what fell off, one of the greatest lessons sunk into my thick skull.

The dog let go of the BONE.

It was that SIMPLE, it reached a point where the dog had to let go of the bone in order to gain speed and save it's life.

Men, the dog is SMART… I thought.

What’s the LESSON?

Let go of the bone.

There are bones we have held on to in 2021.

If we succeed to let go of the 2021 ‘BONES’, then we will do wonders in 2022 and years beyond.

There are so many types of bones which for sure have held us back.

Let’s make the painful decision of letting go of the bone of disappointment of 2021.

- Failure to seek new thoughts or new ways of doing things is a BONE

- Doing things in the same unsuccessful manner, year in year out is a BONE

- Thinking that money alone is the source of your happiness; that’s the HARDEST BONE

- Going to work late and acting irresponsibly is a BONE

- Not worshiping God, that’s a tricky bone, even the hyena cannot handle.

- Watching our friends fail; yet we could have helped them succeed is a BONE

- BONE of anger and resentment, that is the heaviest of all and have greater consequences if we don’t let go.

These are only few examples, but the list is endless.

Let’s drop the BONE, so that we have a prosperous 2022 and years ahead.

Please tell all your friends and your loved ones to drop the BONE.

Bones drag us behind from reaching our God destined potential.

Drop your unbelief, it is a BONE.

Murmuring and complaining is a BONE

I will start it tomorrow or next week but will never take a step for one day is a BONE.

Procrastination is a bigger BONE.

Maybe you are disappointed by friends or a family member please drop the pain off you, it is a BONE.

BREAKING OFF AN ENGAGEMENT RING IS PERMITTED,

BREAKING OFF AN ENGAGEMENT RING IS PERMITTED, It's not a divorce!

Many feel guilt after this act and they feel as though they've commited a grievous offense by calling off an engagement before the actual wedding as many see it as divorce

This is why we have two rings - Engagement ring and wedding ring.

Engagement ring is not wedding ring, they are two different things.

So, it is advisable to call off a relationship heading for trouble before marriage.

This is wisdom.

Many tolerate themselves during their engagement period and eventually get married and thereafter get confused.

*I wish to see the best*

COMMON MISTAKES LADIES MAKE IN A RELATIONSHIP

I still vividly remember that fateful night as if it was yesterday. The day i thought i was doing the right thing for the guy i loved and adored….

That fateful day was February 14th of my first year in the university, and i was a simple naive virgin who knew not that a guy could go any length just to take a woman’s most cherished treasure…….

Emmanuel and i had dated for 1 Year and 3 Months prior to that particular day, and even though i felt strongly for him, i never allowed him to go beyond kissing me, and he never bothered to go further, because according to him, he valued me more than satisfying his urge, which i really fell for, coupled with his humble nature and behaviour, without knowing that i was digging my own pit……..

On that fateful valentines day, he took me shopping, where he bought few clothes which he could afford for me, before treating me to a delicious meal in ‘Sweet Sensation’, which was one of the best fast food available in our vicinity that year…. We really spent much time there, eating, joking and taking pictures. I must confess he really spent a lot on me that fateful day, which really swept me off my feet and i equally decided to surprise him with a gift of my virginity cos i thought he deserved it… (how foolish i was)

When we got back to his hostel later in the evening, i kissed him gratefully while he held me tenderly.

“Hope you are happy?” he asked.

“Yea baby, I’m so so happy” i replied him.

Emmanuel really is a very tall and heavily built guy who was in his final year…….

He carried me up, kissed me again for a while, before gently laying me on his bed, and we stared at each other, while my eyes melted as his heavy gaze went all through my body which sent shivers down my spine……

“I’m all yours tonight, but please be gentle” i said to him, while he gave me a weird look.

“Hope you are sure about this?” he asked with an innocent look on his face.

“Yea as long as you promise to keep your word that you will never abandon me” i replied, while he smiled deeply,

“I swear with my life baby, i will never leave you as long as i’m alive” he swore.

“Then i’m all yours sweet heart” i said with a wink, while he smiled, and that was how he had his way with me.

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“Please stop it’s okay” i finally pleaded as i strongly held him, while he gazed into my eyes and jerked as if something had pushed him from behind, before lying on top of me. I closed my eyes as i breathed deeply and gently pushed him away.

“I’m so sorry for hurting you” he apologised as he felt my face with his palms, while i unsuccessfully tried to fight back tears which finally dripped out of my eyes. Why was i crying? I knew not, because i gave him my body willingly and not under duress, but i guess the guilt and feeling of losing my most cherished treasure which i had swore to keep for my future husband made my cry…….

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Emmanuel was very caring and comforting as he tried to appease me that night. He boiled hot water for me, made tea for me and even held me all through the night. Truthfully he really was very romantic, which equally increased the love i had for him.

Oh! he simply was an angel that night and i was deceived into believing it was all real, hmmmm who knew how he must have laughed in his mind that night!

As the whole event played back in my head, i clutched my teddy bear and cried. Even though i had gotten over our break up, i still haven’t gotten over the feeling of losing my virginity to him. How could i have known that it was just a game to him, cos he really captured my heart, stole my body and swept me off my feet with his charms…..

“Dear lord i’m now in love again please guide me” i prayed even though in my mind i knew my prayer lacked merit.

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Lesson 1: How foolish i was to have given him my precious asset with the feeling that he will forever be mine if i can give him that.

Most ladies are still making this mistakes and will keep making it, don’t be on of them!

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SPOT A WIFE MATERIAL

*TRUE/FASLE.*

1. She can leave an exam hall to prepare lunch for you.

2. She can slice a basket of onions without shedding tears.

3. She'll apologize to you after you cheat on her.

4. She can prepare correct Joll of rice with only #500.00

5. She will fry 13 rounds of plantain without even tasting it.

6. She will not complain if you befriend her best friend.

7. When she gets her paychecks, she divides it into 2 for you both.

8. She'll buy you suya and eat the onions.

9. She can stay up to fight mosquitoes while you sleep.

.10. She can buy food stuffs with any amount and keep the balance for you.

Good morning all!

FOR MARRIED ONLY: BENEFITS OF KISSING IN A RELATIONSHIP

Kissing is a sensual act that expresses love, emotions and care between a man and a woman in love and this is mostly appropriate between married couples. It goes beyond and helps to express our feelings which we can not even say verbally. In short a kiss can be an expression of love, intimacy, friendship, apology depending on whom it is coming from and his or her reasoning for the kiss.

Whilst most partners express love to their partners with gifts of all kinds, some also expressed it with hugs and passionate kisses. Because no matter which kind of kissing you give or receive it makes you feel good and loved and this sparks an uncontrollable feelings.

In my article, I would like to talk about some benefits of kissing in a relationship but more in a marriage relationship.

Kissing gives stimulation of production of saliva and it is therefore good for oral health. Therefore a deeply passionate kiss from your man or woman can help keep your teeth and gums more healthy. Not to forget that we need to keep our teeth clean and fresh for our partners to feel good when the act is done.

Kissing also goes a long way to relieves us from stress. That is when you and your spouse time up well for a kiss, it acts as a powerful stress booster and also as anti aging to keep you youthful.

One thing that lowers blood pressure is kissing because lips are made up of blood vessels so when you kiss by locking lips, you turn to dilate those blood vessels. And when dilation takes place, it allows blood to flow more freely by the taking of pressure of our organs.

To cut a long story short, kissing is good for the overall health of the human heart.

So whilst you are enjoying your feelings of kissing your spouse for your best feelings you are at the same time bringing good health to both your heart and your entire body.

Kissing promotes intimacy and arouses couples sexually and it is the most powerful and most romantic type of foreplay which makes sex a more enjoyable and pleasurable experience never to be forgotten.

Therefore if you are a married individual who doesn't know how to kiss, let your spouse confidently teach you how to do it. If not, you are losing big time.

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