Monday, 28 March 2022

BITTER TRUTH


When you hear WINNERS CHAPEL, what/who comes to mind?
When you hear MFM, what/who comes to mind?
When you hear RCCG, what/who comes to mind?
When you hear CHRIST EMBASSY, what/who comes to mind?
When you hear DEEPER LIFE, what/who comes to mind?
Jesus?
I don't think so...
What/who comes to mind is probably the Strong Men of these Churches.
Not Jesus.
We have managed to divert attention from Him to these men.
We encourage people to give testimonies like, "I used to have migraine, but when our daddy prayed for me, it disappeared! Hallelujah!"
Or, "I used to be epileptic, but when I came in contact with this ministry, it disappeared!"
We inadvertently amplify the man or the ministry, giving the impression there's something "special" and "different" here, compared to others.
John The Baptist had a challenge...
He introduced Jesus to the world and something happened.
He lost relevance!
Jesus became the Superstar (John 3:26-30).
John was told, "Bros, that guy you baptised has stolen your thunder! Everybody is going to him now!"
His response?
"He MUST increase, I MUST decrease."
But the template our churches run today doesn't decrease the Strong Man.
On the contrary, it INCREASES him.
His pictures are everywhere, on billboards, books, posters, TV - everywhere!
That's why he comes to mind in the 1st place when the ministry is mentioned.
He IS the ministry!
People are more interested in pleasing him than pleasing God.
People are more interested in being in his good books than in God's.
People seek his approval than God's.
People will rather he prays for them than they pray for themselves.
And to his followers, his word IS the trust in accordance with the scripture!
The Scripture says, "Looking unto JESUS, the author and finisher of our faith (Hebrews 12:2).
But the followers confidently say "My Pastor says..."
Do these Big Men allow their followers to look truly unto Jesus?
The Big Men have turned to idols and are busy receiving the honour and praises that belong to God
We have a problem looking unto Jesus because the Strong Man has become so BIG, he is blocking our view of Jesus.
These Strong Men have followers who are NOT necessarily following Jesus.
Ironically, there are churches who have no Strong Men like these.
And you have no idea who leads them!
That IS the RIGHT template for churches.
Until our Strong Men realise this, they're just building their Religious Empires, not God's Kingdom.
Jesus is the message and the message is Jesus.
Not you.
Not your church.
Truth be told, no matter how big your church is, YOU ARE A SERVANT!
All that efizzy and drama are unnecessary.
We're tired of seeing you sir.
Reduce your size, let's see Jesus, biko!
May God open our eyes.

20 SIGNS THAT SHOW YOU HAVE MET MR RIGHT...


1. He listens to you.
2. He admires you.
3. He is very patient, loving and kind to you.
4. He corrects your mistakes in love.
5. He is proud of you and flaunts you shamelessly.
6. He never asks you for romance, kissing, necking, petting and sex.
7. He believes in your future and will do anything in his power to ensure you fulfil destiny.
8. He supports your vision.
9. You are in his future plans. He really desires to marry you.
10. He is generous. He gives when he has.
11. You love him too.
12. You admire him -a lot.
13. You respect him and loves to listen to him and understand him.
14. You have peace of mind and joy each time you are with him.
15. His thought floods you with peace.
16. You believe in his vision and you are both actively working together to make it happen.
17. You have compassion for him.
18. You ignore other men and focus on him only.
19. You share same chemistry.
20. You joyfully look forward to being his wife.
There you go honey! Congratulations if you have found him. You are one of the lucky few who found and is getting married to their soul mate. Send me your wedding invitation as soon as it is out! See you becoming a wife soon. Momma loves you!
Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

HOW TO MAKE WOMEN FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU AND WISH TO MARRY YOU...


To bring a quick end to your singleness as a man, have women at your beck and call, make them drool over you and get a big YES to your proposal, here are the things you need to do...
1. LOVE GOD WITH PASSION: Women are naturally attracted to God chasers! Godly men are so regal, so handsome, so cool, so fatherly, so tender, so deep, so enigmatic. They unconsciously ooze sweetness, coolness, freshness, royalty and dignity! Women found themselves so drawn to Jesus, He was sweetness personified. He was regal, glorious and kingly, he carried God everywhere. Women love God cariers!
2. BE HARDWORKING: Women love hard working men who know how to make money. Argue with this from now till Jesus comes, a woman wants a man who can take care of her. It is in born. We are made that way, when you are hardworking and does something that has a great future, women will fall in love with you.
3. GENTLE SMILE: Women love men who smile gently at them; not the fiery, rude, playful smile that makes you look like a play boy! Learn to smile sweetly, gently and lovingly at women, it makes you look irresistible.
4. BE NEAT: Personally, rough men turn me off! Women like men who dress neat, match colours appropriately and iron their clothes before stepping out. A woman may be forgiven for not ironing her clothes but not men, please! Never step out of your house without ironing what needs to be ironed!
Deal with body and mouth odour please. Some men will open their mouths and saliva will be drooling on the lower lip! It is not spirituality, it is simply demonic! Satan resides in dirt, so get rid of satan and uncleanness completely out of your life! Shave what needs to be shaved and always appear sparkling clean! Have your hair cut when necessary and trim off unnecessary facial hair! Neat men turn women's head! You don't need to be a Brat Pitt to make women admire you, neither do you need to have Hrithik Roshan's 6 pack body to make women weak on their kneels, just looking neat makes you look handsome, attractive, and completely irresistible!
5. BE A GIVER: Generous men don't lack women's attention. Stingy men need to tear heaven apart before a woman will agree to date him.
Be generous to people. It's not about the size of what you give but in the largeness of your heart. Give to your parents, give to your Pastor, give to those in need, give to the poor, when a woman sees how you take care of people, she will be convinced that you will take good care of her in marriage and will find it difficult saying NO to your proposal.
6. DRESS SMART: Over sized clothes can make you look like her ancestors and you get a straight NO to your marriage proposal!. Your clothes speak volumes about you! Wear something that fits your body frame; not too tight, if you don't want to be seen as gay, or too big that makes you look like her great, grand uncle! Learn how to combine colours! An orange shirt on brown trousers with a blue tie and green socks makes you a clown! Please, know what to starch and what not to starch! Always appear presentable and well groomed, women will trip over themselves to marry you!
7. TREAT YOUR MOTHER AND SISTER WELL: It tells a lady how you will treat her in marriage.
8. BE FRIENDLY: Friendly, smiling men don't lack females' attention. Some guys are so holy, they will never greet any sister talk less of smiling at them and wonder why every lady turns down their proposal. Learn to smile brother, be fun to have around, be friendly. Relax with people, crack clean, pure jokes, learn to make people laugh. Be free with people. Be real, be down to earth human!
9: BE HUMBLE: Proud, arrogant, cocky men are a big turn off! One of the reasons I fell madly in love with my darling and he got a straight, no wasting of time YES to his proposal was his humility. It knocked me off my defence and won my heart. I tripped off balance and allowed him to carry my heart away!
Women love Jesus! He was humble to the bone and marrow! Humble men don't lack women. Nay, their problem is not how to get a woman to marry, it is how to choose a woman to marry!
Be humble brother! Treat people with respect. Honour women, submit to authorities, respect your parents, honour your Pastor, treat all classes of people equally, serve others. Help the less privileged. Oh my, women will be begging God in the corner of their rooms to please make you propose to them. You will never lack admirers!
10: LEARN HOW TO COOK AND DO CHORES: It's a sign you will assist your wife and won't turn her into a slave in marriage. Cooking men are super sexy in marriage. Your wife will love you, adore you and cherish her marriage to you till forever!
11. BE CHASTE: Sexually pure men are simply irresistible. Saying NO to sexual advances, maintaining your integrity and keeping off dirty jokes, lewd words, flirty messages and outright fornication makes you a hot cake for godly women!
12. PURSUE YOUR VISION: Women like men who have a great vision for their lives beyond their paid job and are doing everything daily to get there.
There you go brother! These and more are the quality you need to possess if you want to marry fast and settle down as soon as possible. Virtuous women are not cheap and easy to get. You must be a man of valour if you are to attract one and these are the qualities you must have to attract the woman of your dreams.
Nevertheless, you need to pray against delay. Some delay are just not normal. Deal with ancestral curses, covenants, soul ties, spiritual spouse, etc while practicing all those things listed above. I see you getting married gloriously soon in Jesus' name.
Don't forget to send me an invitation. I look forward to attending your wedding soon in Jesus' name. FEEL FREE TO SHARE. God bless you, cheers!
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Monday, 21 February 2022

No one was born to sell Vegetables

No one was born to sell Vegetables at the Market no one was born to wake up every morning to go stand next to the traffic lights and sell newspapers , nobody wished to be a cashier at Shoprite or Spar and nobody wished to be a security guard . . We all have dreams and goals... do you think the guy who makes noise in the taxi park wanted to live that life? Do you think those women who stand with boards looking for females to change their hairstyles in Portharcourt wanted to do that? . The guys you see every morning on your way to school/work at the Taxi park selling snacks... They too never wished to do that. Even the women who voluntarily cooks for kids at schools because they got no better Jobs never wished for that. . But because they don't let Pride come in their way of putting food on the table. They do it with a passion, they appreciate the little they can do for their kids to smile at the end of the day. They don't wake up in the early hours of the morning to steal from anyone. . They understand that not all of us will be Qualified Doctors, Lawyers or Engineers. Men and ladies for as long as you don't do criminal activities to make money... May God bless your hustle.. AMEN

THE PREGNANT DEER


In the forest a pregnant deer went near a flowing river in search of a good place to give birth, it finds the area safe. Suddenly labor pain begin!
At the same moment the dark cloud fall and the lighting strike cause fire in the forest, when the dear turn left it saw a hunter creeping with an arrow pointed towards it, when it turns right the deer saw a hungry lion coming towards it, in front of the deer there where the flowing river was.
What will this deer that is in pain do?
Will she survive?
Will she give birth to the fawn (Young deers)?
Will the fawns survive?
Will the fire consume them?
Will she die from the hunter's arrow?
Or will the hungry lion tear her to pieces?
The fire, the hunter, the lion and the river all surrounded her,
What will she do?
The Deer has nothing to do so it focuses on giving birth to a new life.
This is what happens as the deer give birth to the fawn
_The lightning strike and put darkness in the eyes of the hunter.
_He releases the arrow and it miss the deer and hit the hungry lion dead.
_It starts to rain heavenly and the forest fire went off totally
And the deer give birth to a healthy fawn
In life, there are times we are confronted with so many difficulties that confuses our mind and give us negative thoughts and impossibilities, some of the thoughts are so powerful that it overcome and overwhelm us. Maybe we can learn from the Pregnant deer.
The only thing that was on the mind of the deer at that time was to give birth to a baby. The rest wasn't in her hands, so any action or reaction that would have changed her focus that moment would have resulted in death or disaster.
Ask Yourself, Where is your Focus?
Where's your Faith or Hope?
In the midst of the storm, keep focus on your Creator always, he will never ever forsake or let you down,
NEVER
Remember, your Creator never make mistake(s), neither does he sleeps.
A strong person always keep their focus, even with tears running down their eyes, they always say I am OK with a smile .
I want you to be strong and keep the faith, so share it on your time line that someone can read it too and be strong.

RELATIONSHIP ADVICE TO MARRIAGE PILLS LADIES.


Always Give Him Space.
If he doesn't call you for 2 weeks that shouldn't stop you from not calling him.
Manage to call him even if he doesn't.
Be Loyal.
Always be loyal to him, if he forgets your birthday - buy him a gift on his birthday.
Be Patient.
If you don't learn to be patient, then you have no business been in a relationship with a man, because once he noticed you are not the patient type, he take to his heels.
By the time 10 men run away from you in quick succession, on one would tell you how to adjust.
Don't Ask For Things Your Dad Can't Afford.
This sounds funny.
Please, don't ask for things your dad can't afford- all those ice-cream, ShopRight, Shawama, Re-charge cards, Brazillian Hair, even Teddy Bear, should never be demanded from a man.
The moment you start demanding, be rest assured that he will gassing out from that relationship.
Don't Nag.
The minute you start nagging, he would leave you no matter what.
As far as he doesn't cheat to your face or take her calls in your presence, don't complain, manage it because your next might not be the best.
Be proud of him, even in his present predicaments.
It's well!
Pray for him.