Why are most people unhappy in their relationships?

A relationship is a connection. The connections that usually last are the ones that are made out of bonding with each other, not out of need.

Most people are involved in a relationship for fulfilment. They feel someone else can make them feel complete or fill the emptiness in their lives. When they love someone, and the other person doesn't reciprocate, behave or do things the way they had imagined, they end up feeling unhappy.

Love people, and enjoy your relationships but to feel complete, connect with your inner self. You will always feel happy with any person and in any relationship.

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Why are some people always unhappy with everyone else?

 

Our relationship with the self is one of the most important relationships. When this relationship is satisfying, we become calm, content and joyful.

Most people are not happy with themselves. They are either involved in something they don’t enjoy, leading a life of pretence or doing something against their conscience. When people are unhappy, they don’t see the positive in anyone, so they cannot sustain any relationship.

To create better relationships with others, you must first be true to yourself. When you lead a life with consciousness, not only do you feel happier, but you also see goodness in everyone around you.

Can hope change a person’s life?

 

Loss of hope in life means that a person has stopped seeing worth in anything. At times, all they need is to see their life from a different perspective to become hopeful again.

One of the reasons why depression and anxiety are on the rise is that when people face a tough time, and their minds become negative, they find themselves alone. If they are well supported, encouraged, and motivated, they come out of it easily and gain the strength to overcome such situations in future by themselves.

If you see someone feeling low, speak to them, hear their story, let them open their heart, be non-judgemental and show them the brighter side. You may spend only a little bit of your time, but bring a significant positive change in their lives.

How do you manage uncertain events in life?

 

No matter how well you prepare yourself, uncertain events may happen. Uncertainties in life bring many questions.

When we experience an unexpected event or come across someone that we never anticipated meeting, we try to find out the reason behind that meeting or happening. At that very moment, everything may seem irrelevant, but slowly, we realise everything in life has a reason to happen.

Keep yourself together when you face the uncertainty of life. Try to manage the best you can at that time. As life unfolds, you will realise even though it may have been hard, there was a higher purpose for every happening you experienced in life.

Are grudges keeping you away from your loved ones?

 

Differences can happen in any relationship. They become a problem when they lead to disrespect or create a distance between people.

When we enter into an argument or conflict with our loved ones, the pain is often felt deeply. As we don’t expect such painful experiences from our loved ones, we sometimes decide to keep our distance from them. At times this distance keeps us so much apart, and the ego stops us from moving closer that we ignore them and make them feel so unwanted that we only end up losing them.

Always reconcile your differences and give your relationship a fresh start. Apologise if you feel you were wrong, and forgive if they made a mistake.