How do you deal with diminishing motivation?

Motivation is needed to achieve anything in life, but when our effort doesn’t seem to yield the results we want, we feel we are incapable, our motivation starts to fade away, and we decide to give up.

Many times we begin something with great enthusiasm, but after a while, we either become slack, feel unmotivated or do not see it as our priority. When the mind becomes negative, it loses its enthusiasm. This is why only a few make it to the end.

To keep yourself motivated, you need to stay positive, have a clear vision, rest your mind, analyse yourself, involve in activities that you enjoy, and surround yourself with positive people. The more positive you are, the more motivated you feel

Why should you never feel disappointed with yourself?

Why should you never feel disappointed with yourself?

Having strong self-esteem is essential to overcome any challenge in life. When the mind becomes doubtful about its abilities, it easily loses hope and gives up on itself.

Sometimes, when we are unable to achieve what we want, we feel incapable. If people around us are unsupportive and bring up our weaknesses, it can further create self-doubt in us; we may feel unworthy and just end up giving up on ourselves.

Believe you can do it, accept your weakness but look into ways to improve yourself. As long as you have your own support and you work on making yourself better, you can make anything possible

How do you deal with mental fatigue?

An effort is needed to achieve anything in life, but when our effort doesn’t seem to yield the results we want, we feel more tired than we actually are.

When the mind is tired, it loses its capacity to think, plan and perform. To replenish our minds, we need to allow a period of rest. Rest doesn't cause delay; rather improves our ability, so we can do things efficiently.

Allow yourself to rest. For some time, take your mind away from what you want, involve yourself in activities you enjoy, and surround yourself with positive people. After you rest, begin with a fresh mind and think that you have just started; your enthusiasm and motivation will also return

The Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed (02 Nov. 2022)

The Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed (02 Nov. 2022) 

Isa 25:6-9; Psalm 27:1, 4, 7-9, 13-14 (R.v.13); Rom 5:5-11; Mark 15:33-39; 16:1-6

"I AM THE RESURRECTION AND THE LIFE" (John 11:25)

Our celebration of today beckons on us to reflect deeply on what death should really mean to us who are believers. One of the Prefaces that we use at funeral Masses says that for the faithful, at death, "Life is changed not ended." And we are sure that the change is for better since, as St Paul noted, Christ died for us even when we did not merit it (cf. Rom 5:8), how much more now that he already paid the price and cleared our debts.

The events that surrounded his death give us even more cause to be hopeful. With the tearing of the veil of the Temple (Mark 15:38), the old Temple that is built by human hands gave way to a spiritual temple, which introduces a new covenant. That veil symbolizes the veil which the prophet Isaiah had told us, in the First Reading, that the Lord would destroy.

This new covenant accepts and gives life to anyone who believes that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God (John 20:31). Hence, the centurion becomes the first member in that new covenant; the last became the first (cf. Mark 10:31).

Do you care for a further proof of the benefits of the death of Christ for us? He makes our passage into eternal life very easy. Mary Magdalene and her group were still wondering on how they would move the stone covering the tomb but Jesus had already made it easier for them to walk through (cf. Mark 16:3-4). 

Compare their relief at seeing that the stone had already been rolled away to the disappointment of the disciples who rather went fishing when they caught nothing (John 21:2-3). It pays more to remain with Jesus and follow him faithfully.

Those who are able to follow him thus, he leads into the great banquet of fat things and choice wines in his place, where he will wipe away all tears and all would rejoice (Isa 25:6-9).

But we also know that there are those who would not follow faithfully as Mary Magdalene and would rather derail like the apostles that went back fishing. Since the Lord did not abandon these to get loss in hopelessness, we have hopes that our prayers can assist the souls who, out of human frailty, have not found their way into the banquet hall of the Lord.

May our hope, which is built on nothing less than Jesus' blood and righteousness, not fail us. At the moment when the darkness of death would seem to hide his face from us, may his grace sustain us, and his light lead us in the right path. And may that light shine upon the souls of the faithful departed who are yet to see the face of God, that they may enter into eternal life. Amen.

Have a memorable celebration today and a great and fruitful day ahead. Peace be with you.

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Why does physical appearance don't matter when we like someone?

Why does physical appearance don't matter when we like someone?

We like people we connect well with. This likeness comes from a person's behaviour, attitude and personality and overshadow's a person's outer appearance.

Sometimes we meet people and get influenced by the way they look. Even though we may admire them, if we don't feel connected to that person, the admiration doesn't last. While some people make way to our hearts in such a way that we become so fond of them that we see nothing else except beauty in them.

Admire people for their appearance, but if you have to make any relationship, connect with the heart. These are the relationships that will always last.

Do you appreciate your own efforts?

Do you appreciate your own efforts?

Most of us rely much on other people's appreciation. As not many people notice or find worth in our efforts, we never feel we are doing well enough.

Whether it is your household or workplace, managing important aspects of everyday life takes effort. People around us don’t always acknowledge our efforts; some may even criticise us for not doing enough. You may feel hurt and unable to express how hard you try. This shouldn't stop you from giving yourself a pat.

Don't always rely on others for appreciation. If you know you have done your very best, appreciate yourself.