Is your company adding worth to someone's life?

Having a good companion can change the whole experience of life. Even the most difficult times appear like smooth sail.

Most people do have a companion in their lives. It could be a friend, partner, or any other loved one. Having a companion means that you have someone trustworthy walking with you in your life's journey. Such people add much strength to our lives because we know that we are never alone in any situation.

Be a companion that your loved one can always rely upon. If you have such a companion in your life, make sure you appreciate them.

How do we know if we have chosen the right people in life?

People around us can make us rise or fall in life. Choosing the right people can be hard because we can never know what’s in a person’s heart.

Sometimes, we are with someone, but every time we want to do something, they create self-doubt and pull us down. They criticise our ability to achieve, find faults, and belittle us. These are the people we want to keep our distance from.

Be with people who increase your self-confidence. If someone is true to you, they will always support, encourage and strengthen you. You can trust them because all they want is for you to succeed

LOVE IS ABOUT FREEDOM AND NOT CONTROL

 

Does love make people possessive? 

Love is about making someone feel liberated, but when it takes control of someone's life so that we think they should follow what to do or how to live, it becomes bondage and loses its essence.

When we feel deeply for someone, we fear losing that person. At times, that fear can make us so possessive that we even neglect our loved one's wishes, and we call that insecurity our love for them. If you truly love someone, you will put their desires and wishes first, and you will support them rather than hold them back.

Never try to capture anyone in your emotion. Protect them, accompany them, but let them explore their dreams.

By Dr Bhawna Gautam

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You may have to try several times but that one attempt when you succeed will make every attempt seem worthwhile

 

How can we stay motivated when we have to try repeatedly?

 

Goals are not always achieved in one go. Some may require a few attempts, while others may require several attempts.

When we have to try something over and over again, it can be very discouraging. Not only does it create doubt within us, but we also tend to lose interest and enthusiasm.

See every attempt as a step closer to your goal. With every attempt, learn and improve so that when you attempt the next time, there is a greater chance for you to succeed. 

 

By Dr Bhawna Gautam

Why does giving joy to others make us happy?

 

Whenever we do anything that connects us with our inner being, we feel fulfilled. This inner fulfilment is what gives us true joy and peace.

When we do anything to help someone, we intend to make them comfortable and add joy to their lives. Good intention is a great driving force in life. The goodness we hold in our hearts always comes back to us in bigger and better ways. 

Always try to add joy to other people's life. You will find even more reasons to smile.

Does the onus of our success belong to some other people too?

 

Success is never achieved alone. There are always people behind us who help us to get where we want.

Sometimes, when people achieve success, they feel so powerful that they find everyone else too small. They don't acknowledge that what's making them feel powerful is not their success but the power of the people who had supported them. This power stays only when we acknowledge their guidance, wishes and presence in our lives.

Acknowledge and appreciate those who have helped you in your life. You will create success that will last.