It's something more permanent and to be handled as such. You can't have the best of all. You either pick one after proper thinking, evaluation and settled down with. Marriage was meant to be enjoyed and celebrated.Remain single if you can't handle marriage according to the purpose it was established.
Thursday 20 April 2023
LOVE COMES FROM THE HEARTAND LIKE COMES FROM THE EYES.
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His wife looked at herself in the mirror and asked her husband:
Do you still love me.?
The man replied: Oh yes! But is my body not the same as when we first met?
No, I did not notice, the man replied.
She put her hand on her stomach and
said,
look my belly is much bigger and heavier,
My legs are not smooth anymore.
She came to him with tears in her eyes and asked, "Why do you
love me like this?"
The man replied:
Look, when I touch your body, I feel
your love,
I see your kind heart,
I see your beautiful figure,
I know it's a perfect shape,
I love you.
Don't be mad at the way you look,
enjoy the way I see you,
And the way I still feel you.
I fell in love with the sensuality
and kindness of your soul, not with
the bustle of your body, and through
tears I drew a smile on her face,
which shines again.
To Every woman who work hard to sustain the family.
Laboured through thick and thin, whether it's convenient or not. Who wiped their tears and pressed forward, even when there were no words of gratitude from where you expected.
Who distinguished themselves in their career.
Who made a choice to discipline their appetite in other to set up a great future.
Who stay awake all night to ponder where the next meal is going to come from.
Who raised an altar to position their children in great places.
Who stood as support for the men whom God has given in their care.
Who defile all odds against them and stood up again in spite of past humiliation and defeat.
Who decide to see good in her future, even when the society was trying to define her by your failures.
Who fought with all they had to regain their lost and stolen identity.
To the woman who met many obstacles, pushed to the wall, with no visible options but decide to jump over the obstacles.
To the woman her husband shoots blank and yet blamed for not being able to bring forth.
To the woman raising fatherless daughters and praying history doesn't repeat itself.
A GOOD HUSBAND IS MADE
When a story of a well behaved husband is told, many people will applause, praise, bless and admire with comments but when an advice on how to encourage such conducts in husbands are given, the same persons will scorn and claim that no matter the conduct of a wife; that a husband will never do well. Some will say it is impossible to have a good husband while others claim 99% of husbands are not good.
Even teenagers argue that they know the character of most men🤣
These conflicting comments and conducts place the intentions of many in doubt, thereby scaring away numerous young people from going into marriage. Consequently too many are left single, even at middle age.
A good husband doesn't just happen, he is motivated and sustained by a good wife whose conduct touches his soul and strenghtens his conscience.
A real wife brings out the best in her husband but a woman who married out of necessity rather than love will not understand nor accept the role of a real wife.
All of the Holy Books of known Religions confirm this.
My husband is yet to understand the woman he married.
After our wedding, he told me not to work, that he will be paying me a monthly allowance, which he actually was doing.
Along the line, he started insulting me, calling me names and no longer respects me.
Normally, I wouldn't have accepted the insults, but I accepted just to be getting my allowance.
I opened my business without him knowing and put my 2 sisters to run the business for me.
I also created my business page online and was also selling online.
During this quarantine, hubby continued with his insults, but I kept quiet.
The climax was the day I brought food for him, the next thing he said that I'm supposed to be kneeling down to serve him.
I quickly sat him down, and just showed him my business account, which is already running in millions.
Guy man was shocked, and couldn't say anything.
Guess who served me breakfast the next day???
I was very surprised that my husband woke up and made breakfast for me, served me breakfast on bed.
I'm so happy typing this.
A woman shared the above story, I'm so happy to read her story. I love the fact that she isn't lazy.
Who else is excited about reading this story?
Please I will like to hear your views
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HOW TO INDUCE FAITHFULNESS IN YOUR HUSBAND
Constantly focus on what your husband do well, give him applause and DO NOT EMPHASIZE on what he failed to do or what he did wrong, then watch what will happen.
Unconsciously you will be motivating him to do better in order for him to earn more applauses because a man's ego is always in search of feedback in order to make progress. If you do this for a few years, it becomes a good habit and the tradition in your home, so your marriage will be on the road to excellence.
NEVER LET OTHER PEOPLE'S NEGATIVE OPINIONS AND EVEN BAD EXPERIENCES SHAPE YOUR OWN MARRIAGE THROUGH YOUR MIND. Such is a manipulation.
Many wives applause what other women's faithful husbands were able to do without realizing that such fidelity was only possible through the encouragement of their own wives. Many wives who lack the ability to encourage fidelity in their husbands are most vocal in condemning infidelity but the first to praise the fidelity of others' husbands.
When a husband receives applauses from his wife for the things he has done right, he will automatically work on any action he has taken that did not earn him an applause from his wife even as she is completely silent about it. This is not so with a wife who criticises everything her husband does even when criticism is not necessary.
It is unnatural to expect fruits where nothing was planted.
WIVES AND WOMEN WHO ARE VULNERABLE TO THIS CONDUCT WOULD HATE TO READ THIS TYPE OF ARTICLE 🤣🤣
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