RELOADED FEELINGS

1 🤷------   There's really no shortcut to forgetting someone. You just have to endure missing them everyday until you don't anymore. 

2 💘------   Once we have feelings for someone, it will always be there. We may not like them anymore, but we still care. 

3 💔-----   The Partner we want are so hard to get, but the ones we don't want are so hard to get rid of. 

4 💝-----  So many ways to say "I love you", but not enough words in the world to say how much. 

5 💁------   Be careful who you take for granted , someone else is waiting to appreciate them. 

6🤦------    If things are meant to happen, it will happen... just be happy and expect less so that in the end, you'll be able to stand again. 

7-💔----  Pain makes you stronger, tears makes you braver, heartbreak makes you wiser, so thank the past for a better future.

EMOTIONAL ACCESSIBILITY

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1🤷__ They say you  should never give up, but the truth is, you should give up on things or people that aren't worth it. 

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2🚶__ Sometimes, you just have to move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. 

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3.🤦__ Sometimes, People play hard to get to make sure that person's feelings are real. 

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4..🙋__ When you say Goodbye it doesn't end there. Feelings remain, memories linger. When it's True Love, no one really ends it completely. 

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5..💁__ Psychologically, one of the most painful Goodbye is when you know that next time you meet, the "Hello" won't be the same. 

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6..🙎__ Life is super frustrating when you always respond to what people say about you. 

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7..🧖__ Just because you care about someone, doesn't mean you'll do everything to make them happy. Don't make them take you for granted. 

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__ The funny irony of life at times, the things he will never remember are things she will never forget. 

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__ Never close your lips 💋 to those whom you have Opened your Heart ♥ to.

𝟭𝟰 𝗣𝘀𝘆𝗰𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗼𝗴𝘆 𝗛𝗮𝗰𝗸𝘀 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗦𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗞𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗧𝗼 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗹 𝗔𝗻𝘆 𝗦𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.

1. When someone answers your questions partially. Wait. Don't interrupt.

Chances are high that they will complete the answer when you say nothing

2. When you want to get something from someone, frame it as an offer/opportunity instead of a request.

Anyone will be ready to accept an offer/opportunity.

3. When you meet people, notice their eye color while you smile at them.

Don't mention anything about it. It's a good way to make sure that you really look them in the eyes.

4. A person's name is the sweetest sound in the world to that person.

To make a person feel very special, remember and repeat their name.

5. Have zero expectations when you are first trying something new, it prevents disappointment.

6. To judge a person's character, notice the way they treat people - who can't do anything for them.

7. After you state your position in a negotiation.

Wait for a while. If you continue to speak, you are not speaking in your favor.

8. Chewing gum while doing nerve-racking things calm your brain.

It somehow gets your brain to calm down.

9. When you are learning something, teach someone about it.

You will remember it easily and explore more in the process of teaching.

10. Most people's favorite subject to talk about is themselves.

If you don't know what to talk about, or have awkward silence, just ask them questions.

11. Emotional expression causes emotion.

If you force yourself to smile, your mood will actually improve.

12. Stand up straight. It makes you look more confident and you will actually feel more confident.

13. With kids, frame things in a way that always gives them a choice. It makes them feel like they are in control.

For eg., "Do you want to wear red shirt or blue shirt? "

Either way, they know it's time to put on a shirt.

14. When asking for favours use the world "because". No matter how simple the reason.

The word "because" makes them think it must be okay because there is a reason.

Thank you for reading.

#psychology

#mindset

#ahgulany

AH Gulany

EMOTIONS VERSUS COMMONSENSE.... ...

1 💭.. Falling in love and being in a Relationship are two different thing. 

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2 💭..  Females like it when you're overprotective,  NOT Possessive.  There's a thin line➖ 〰 between the two. 

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3 💭..  True love it's not Love at first sight, it's feeling the same at every sight. 

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4 💭...  It's not hard to find someone who tells you they Love you, it's hard😢 finding someone who actually mean it. 

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5 💭..  Falling for the wrong person doesn't makes you stoopid👎.  At times, the Wrong person says🗣 the right thing from the beginning of the relationship. It's hard not to fall when that person pretend to be everything you wanted. 

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6 💭.. A Real man only lies to his woman when he want to surprise her

*WHY A MAN FINDS IT DIFFICULT TO FORGIVE A WOMAN WHO CHEATED ON HIM*

Forgiving a cheating woman is an argument that has been raised for many years and different people have come up with different reasons why they feel most men don't really want to forgive their woman when they cheat on them. 

It is very rare for a man to forgive a woman who cheated on him but you can find a good number of women who have forgiven their man after he cheated on them.

_Why do most men find it difficult to forgive a woman who cheated on them:_

*MEN ARE GENERALLY POSSESSIVE*

Men are naturally possessive, protective and extremely jealous of anything that belongs to them, men hate to share especially when it comes to something they love. So, when a woman cheats on them, the woman loses his possessiveness, without which he wouldn't want to have anything to do with her anymore. 

*UNFORGIVENESS*

Most men don't have forgiving spirits, especially men in Africa, immediately a woman cheats on them forgiveness is far from their scripture. They immediately close up their mind and soul towards her. 

*SOCIETAL AND UPBRINGING*

In most part of the world women are seen as inferior, the society teaches men to understand that they are superior and that a woman is their property and if she cheats she has lost her rights in the family. So, men are raised with such mentality that even if he is willing to forgive her the society would see him as a weak man for doing so.

*MEN CAN'T TAKE OFF THE PICTURE OF ANOTHER MAN SLEEPING WITH THEIR WOMAN OFF THEIR HEAD*

A man is naturally moved by what he sees, If man catches his woman cheating on him, it's very difficult to get the memory out of his head, he would always vitualize the incident anytime he is with the woman, this would make him angry all the time, so most men feel like it's the best to let the woman go.

*THE AVAILABILITY OF OTHER WOMEN*

The consciousness that there are thousands of women out there for him to pick up is another reason .

EMOTIONAL ACCESSIBILITY..

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1🤷__ They say you  should never give up, but the truth is, you should give up on things or people that aren't worth it. 

.

2🚶__ Sometimes, you just have to move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. 

.

3.🤦__ Sometimes, People play hard to get to make sure that person's feelings are real. 

.

4..🙋__ When you say Goodbye it doesn't end there. Feelings remain, memories linger. When it's True Love, no one really ends it completely. 

.

5..💁__ Psychologically, one of the most painful Goodbye is when you know that next time you meet, the "Hello" won't be the same. 

.

6..🙎__ Life is super frustrating when you always respond to what people say about you. 

.

7..🧖__ Just because you care about someone, doesn't mean you'll do everything to make them happy. Don't make them take you for granted. 

.

__ The funny irony of life at times, the things he will never remember are things she will never forget. 

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__ Never close your lips 💋 to those whom you have Opened your Heart ♥ to.