Sunday, 27 August 2023

ONLY CHEAP LADIES COMPETE FOR SPACE



My Dear lady, pay attention to what I'm about to share with you.

When a woman doesn't know her purpose, a man becomes her only priority. You become depressed when he tells you he's no longer interested and instead of facing your front, you become an excellent monitoring spirit waiting patiently for him to text and beg you so that you can be well used and discarded like a waste product this second time. 

What nobody told you about being a woman is that you will never be valued by a man if you lack knowledge of your purpose and identity. You may be educated academically but if you don't know your assignment here on earth, you will shamefully glean for the acceptance of a man who has no respect for you. 

If you desire honour from a man, then you should be completely focused on your assignment as a lady. Discover who you are and you won't even have time for time wasters and body killers. 

Premium ladies know their advantage and they don't compete with other ladies for a man. A lady who fears the lord will always dine with kings and not ordinary men. 

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Saturday, 26 August 2023

9 DIFFERENT TYPES OF SEX IN MARRIAGE!!!!!



1. RECONCILIATION SEX:- Sex is a most potent weapon for diluting and difusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If you don't use SEX to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and not maximising it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the person at fault could initiate sex as a way to make up to the other who was on the receiving side of the conflict.
2. HEALING SEX:- There are some sicknesses and diseases that are cured by good Sex I mean very good Sex.  Healing sex is gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don't rush it. Mbanu. You do it softly and it hits the bull's eye. Please Husbands, don't throw your weight on her if it's for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%.
3. PUNISHMENT SEX:- When I counsel couples, are times I hear spouses say "Since he did that, I decided to punish him by depriving him of sex", or "since she refused me, I decided not to touch her again". That is as senseless as saying "since my child failed a Test, I punished him by withdrew him from school". It's foolishness. The wise thing to do is to give your spouse more sex as punishment rather than depriving him or her. When your husband or wife misbehaves, correct them using sex. That is the best punishment. Not slapping or fighting or public disgrace. Punishment sex is very hot. ๐Ÿ˜ท
4. MEMORABLE SEX:- This is a very special kind of sex that you organise and plan for. Every couple must be doing this once in a while. Honeymoons should be organised at least once is a quarter  (once in 3 months). If you have means, do it once a month. You book a hotel for say 3-7 days and retreat to help build your marriage. A kind of Intimacy Retreat. You mustn't go to hotel if you can't afford it. Just send the kids somewhere and make it memorable. Light Candles around and..

Wednesday, 19 July 2023

THE BOY IN RAGS



A Touching Story With Morals.

A wealthy father and his son went shopping in an expensive shopping mall. On their way back to their car, a poor boy approached them. He cried. 

"Please help me sir! I don't have any more clothes to wear" 

The rich father threw a glance at the poor boy and felt compassion for him. His clothes were ripped and shredded.

"How old are you, little boy?" he asked him. 

"I'm ten, sir" he responded. 

Then the rich father said.
"Well, my son is ten too, and I presume that his new clothes would fit you" 

The father turned to his posh-looking son. 

"Jeff, don't you think it would be generous of you to spare some of your new clothes we have bought? We could still come shopping tomorrow"

The boy whispered.
"It's fine, dad"

The rich father then opened their shopping bag and took out few clothes which he handed to the poor boy. His face lit up in excitement.

The father then inquired.
"May I know where you live?" 

The poor boy replied.
"I live under the bridge, right down the street"

He expressed deep gratitude, and watched the father and his son as they walked into their car and drove away. 

Three months later, the rich father drove down the street, looking for the poor boy under the bridge. When he found him, he took him to the car and brought out boxes of clothes, shoes, bags and toys. He said.

"They're my son's belongings but I'm giving them all to you now" 

The poor boy was surprised and couldn't stop crying. He said. 

"But how about your son? Wouldn't he need these any longer?" 

The rich father uttered.
"No, because he is in heaven now. My sweet little boy died some weeks ago of terminal cancer. He had lived with cancer for three years, and we had known all along that he was going to die, so it was emotionally very difficult to watch him enter the final days of life. Do you know that on his deathbed, Jeff said to me 'daddy when I'm finally gone, could you give all my belongings to the poor boy we met outside the mall, the boy who has nothing, wears rags and sleeps under the bridge" 

The father paused for a moment, with tears in his eyes, he concluded. 

"You may be poor, but you have no idea how blessed you are to have life, something that money cannot buy. I could have bought a hundred lives for my son if it was possible, but no. You may have envied my son's lifestyle, but I'm sure you didn't know about all his struggles and health challenges. That's how life is. We often compare our lives to others, forgetting that life doesn't come with perfection, reason why everyone goes through difficult times. So, instead of envying others, we should focus on watering our own grass and building our own path, for as long as there is life, hope follows. And always remember the story of the poor boy who didn't have clothes to wear, but was gifted clothes by a rich boy who didn't have life ahead of him.

Author: Chima_Dickson Official

Saturday, 15 July 2023

RELOADED FEELINGS



1 ๐Ÿคท------   There's really no shortcut to forgetting someone. You just have to endure missing them everyday until you don't anymore. 

2 ๐Ÿ’˜------   Once we have feelings for someone, it will always be there. We may not like them anymore, but we still care. 

3 ๐Ÿ’”-----   The Partner we want are so hard to get, but the ones we don't want are so hard to get rid of. 

4 ๐Ÿ’-----  So many ways to say "I love you", but not enough words in the world to say how much. 

5 ๐Ÿ’------   Be careful who you take for granted , someone else is waiting to appreciate them. 

6๐Ÿคฆ------    If things are meant to happen, it will happen... just be happy and expect less so that in the end, you'll be able to stand again. 

7-๐Ÿ’”----  Pain makes you stronger, tears makes you braver, heartbreak makes you wiser, so thank the past for a better future.

EMOTIONAL ACCESSIBILITY

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1๐Ÿคท__ They say you  should never give up, but the truth is, you should give up on things or people that aren't worth it. 
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2๐Ÿšถ__ Sometimes, you just have to move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. 
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3.๐Ÿคฆ__ Sometimes, People play hard to get to make sure that person's feelings are real. 
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4..๐Ÿ™‹__ When you say Goodbye it doesn't end there. Feelings remain, memories linger. When it's True Love, no one really ends it completely. 
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5..๐Ÿ’__ Psychologically, one of the most painful Goodbye is when you know that next time you meet, the "Hello" won't be the same. 
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6..๐Ÿ™Ž__ Life is super frustrating when you always respond to what people say about you. 
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7..๐Ÿง–__ Just because you care about someone, doesn't mean you'll do everything to make them happy. Don't make them take you for granted. 
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__ The funny irony of life at times, the things he will never remember are things she will never forget. 
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__ Never close your lips ๐Ÿ’‹ to those whom you have Opened your Heart ♥ to.

๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฐ ๐—ฃ๐˜€๐˜†๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ด๐˜† ๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐˜€ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ž๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ง๐—ผ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—น ๐—”๐—ป๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป.


1. When someone answers your questions partially. Wait. Don't interrupt.

Chances are high that they will complete the answer when you say nothing

2. When you want to get something from someone, frame it as an offer/opportunity instead of a request.

Anyone will be ready to accept an offer/opportunity.

3. When you meet people, notice their eye color while you smile at them.

Don't mention anything about it. It's a good way to make sure that you really look them in the eyes.

4. A person's name is the sweetest sound in the world to that person.

To make a person feel very special, remember and repeat their name.

5. Have zero expectations when you are first trying something new, it prevents disappointment.

6. To judge a person's character, notice the way they treat people - who can't do anything for them.

7. After you state your position in a negotiation.

Wait for a while. If you continue to speak, you are not speaking in your favor.

8. Chewing gum while doing nerve-racking things calm your brain.

It somehow gets your brain to calm down.

9. When you are learning something, teach someone about it.

You will remember it easily and explore more in the process of teaching.

10. Most people's favorite subject to talk about is themselves.

If you don't know what to talk about, or have awkward silence, just ask them questions.

11. Emotional expression causes emotion.

If you force yourself to smile, your mood will actually improve.

12. Stand up straight. It makes you look more confident and you will actually feel more confident.

13. With kids, frame things in a way that always gives them a choice. It makes them feel like they are in control.

For eg., "Do you want to wear red shirt or blue shirt? "

Either way, they know it's time to put on a shirt.

14. When asking for favours use the world "because". No matter how simple the reason.

The word "because" makes them think it must be okay because there is a reason.

Thank you for reading.

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