KISS A FOOL, FOOL A KISS

 

You can kiss a fool or be kissed by a fool but never allow a kiss to fool you. Always have a 2nd and 3rd look at every 1st impression. Some things are not GOLD, they only GLITTER. Those who mistake OIL FARM for OIL FIRM are already blaming themselves. There's nothing bad in falling in love but make sure you know where you're landing. Don't give your heart where only your body is required and don't build a house where you suppose to put a tent. Never put a temporary person in the permanent position of your life. Of course when the heart is desperate for something the eyes and the brain become powerless. Be very careful what your heart desire because many heart desire can lead to life disaster. Ts hard for anyone to sit on your back if you're standing on your feet. No one can waste your time without your consent.

 

A promise is nothing without commitment. Pay more attention to a person's actions more than their words and when actions contradict the words you're in the wrong place. Never allow your emotions to take over your thinking. Ignorance and endurance are never the same. Be honest with yourself. Love is not a favor, never beg for it. Never beg for something you will need forever otherwise you may end up being a permanent love beggar . Anything you acquire through begging may require begging to maintain. Of course, it's very hard to let go when you're deeply in love. But it's more painful and miserable to keep holding on when you have to beg and fight for love alone. You can never keep what you don't have. Pray to GOD about your relationship but never ever use prayers where common sense is required. Once you realized that a relationSHIP is not taking you anywhere, don't be the last person to leave....

PHILOSOPHY ABOUT TOO MUCH

1. If you speak too much, you will lie

2. If you think too much,you will be depressed 

3. If you cry too much, you will lose your sight 

4. If you love too much, you will be lost

5. If you care too much,you will be taken for granted 

6.If you play too much, You will not be taken serious often

7.If you trust too much, you will be betrayed 

8.If you work too much, You will die of stress 

9.If you eat too much,  You will be obsessed 

10.If you sleep too much, You will be idle

11. If you spend too much, You will have no future

12.If you wear make up too much, You will lose your beauty 

13.If you look too much, You will lose your focus

14.If you pursue life too much, you will lose everything. 

BUT..........

* When you pray too much, You will have everything 

*When you have too much patience, you will have the whole world

*When you invest too much, You will have your future guaranteed 

*When you let go too much, you will have peace of mind 

*When you are careful too much, you will be saved of many evils.

*When you serve God too much, you will receive unlimited and unspeakable reward and testimony.

GOD BLESS YOU 🙏❤️

Loving the wrong person.

 So many people are suffering in relationships today because they refuse to let go of the person they are currently in a relationship with.

 They know the relationship isn't working, but they refuse to leave because they feel they might be able to change the person.

 They believe they are willing to go to any length to ensure that the person continues to "love them".

 The hardest aspect is that they are doing everything in the hopes that the person would change, even when the person has no intention of changing in the first place. 

 If you're in a relationship right now where the person is causing you more grief than happiness, then it's time to let them go. 

 Accepting that things aren't working is the best approach to avoid getting hurt more in this type of relationship. 

 It's crucial to admit to yourself that the relationship is in disrepair.

 I see so many people that are suffering in their current relationships because they refuse to face the reality of its true nature.

 If your current relationship isn't working, do me a favor and don't force it, the more you force it, the more you will end up hurting yourself in the long run. 

 Nobody can take your happiness away if you don't want it taken away. Your happiness is in your hands; your happiness is dependent on you.

 If you don't want others to continue to mistreat you......you have the power to stop them. 

Take my advice and have the courage to leave the table when respect is no longer being served.

~ Cody Bret

ONLY CHEAP LADIES COMPETE FOR SPACE

My Dear lady, pay attention to what I'm about to share with you.

When a woman doesn't know her purpose, a man becomes her only priority. You become depressed when he tells you he's no longer interested and instead of facing your front, you become an excellent monitoring spirit waiting patiently for him to text and beg you so that you can be well used and discarded like a waste product this second time. 

What nobody told you about being a woman is that you will never be valued by a man if you lack knowledge of your purpose and identity. You may be educated academically but if you don't know your assignment here on earth, you will shamefully glean for the acceptance of a man who has no respect for you. 

If you desire honour from a man, then you should be completely focused on your assignment as a lady. Discover who you are and you won't even have time for time wasters and body killers. 

Premium ladies know their advantage and they don't compete with other ladies for a man. A lady who fears the lord will always dine with kings and not ordinary men. 

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9 DIFFERENT TYPES OF SEX IN MARRIAGE!!!!!

1. RECONCILIATION SEX:- Sex is a most potent weapon for diluting and difusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If you don't use SEX to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and not maximising it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the person at fault could initiate sex as a way to make up to the other who was on the receiving side of the conflict.

2. HEALING SEX:- There are some sicknesses and diseases that are cured by good Sex I mean very good Sex.  Healing sex is gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don't rush it. Mbanu. You do it softly and it hits the bull's eye. Please Husbands, don't throw your weight on her if it's for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%.

3. PUNISHMENT SEX:- When I counsel couples, are times I hear spouses say "Since he did that, I decided to punish him by depriving him of sex", or "since she refused me, I decided not to touch her again". That is as senseless as saying "since my child failed a Test, I punished him by withdrew him from school". It's foolishness. The wise thing to do is to give your spouse more sex as punishment rather than depriving him or her. When your husband or wife misbehaves, correct them using sex. That is the best punishment. Not slapping or fighting or public disgrace. Punishment sex is very hot. 😷

4. MEMORABLE SEX:- This is a very special kind of sex that you organise and plan for. Every couple must be doing this once in a while. Honeymoons should be organised at least once is a quarter  (once in 3 months). If you have means, do it once a month. You book a hotel for say 3-7 days and retreat to help build your marriage. A kind of Intimacy Retreat. You mustn't go to hotel if you can't afford it. Just send the kids somewhere and make it memorable. Light Candles around and..

THE BOY IN RAGS

A Touching Story With Morals.

A wealthy father and his son went shopping in an expensive shopping mall. On their way back to their car, a poor boy approached them. He cried. 

"Please help me sir! I don't have any more clothes to wear" 

The rich father threw a glance at the poor boy and felt compassion for him. His clothes were ripped and shredded.

"How old are you, little boy?" he asked him. 

"I'm ten, sir" he responded. 

Then the rich father said.

"Well, my son is ten too, and I presume that his new clothes would fit you" 

The father turned to his posh-looking son. 

"Jeff, don't you think it would be generous of you to spare some of your new clothes we have bought? We could still come shopping tomorrow"

The boy whispered.

"It's fine, dad"

The rich father then opened their shopping bag and took out few clothes which he handed to the poor boy. His face lit up in excitement.

The father then inquired.

"May I know where you live?" 

The poor boy replied.

"I live under the bridge, right down the street"

He expressed deep gratitude, and watched the father and his son as they walked into their car and drove away. 

Three months later, the rich father drove down the street, looking for the poor boy under the bridge. When he found him, he took him to the car and brought out boxes of clothes, shoes, bags and toys. He said.

"They're my son's belongings but I'm giving them all to you now" 

The poor boy was surprised and couldn't stop crying. He said. 

"But how about your son? Wouldn't he need these any longer?" 

The rich father uttered.

"No, because he is in heaven now. My sweet little boy died some weeks ago of terminal cancer. He had lived with cancer for three years, and we had known all along that he was going to die, so it was emotionally very difficult to watch him enter the final days of life. Do you know that on his deathbed, Jeff said to me 'daddy when I'm finally gone, could you give all my belongings to the poor boy we met outside the mall, the boy who has nothing, wears rags and sleeps under the bridge" 

The father paused for a moment, with tears in his eyes, he concluded. 

"You may be poor, but you have no idea how blessed you are to have life, something that money cannot buy. I could have bought a hundred lives for my son if it was possible, but no. You may have envied my son's lifestyle, but I'm sure you didn't know about all his struggles and health challenges. That's how life is. We often compare our lives to others, forgetting that life doesn't come with perfection, reason why everyone goes through difficult times. So, instead of envying others, we should focus on watering our own grass and building our own path, for as long as there is life, hope follows. And always remember the story of the poor boy who didn't have clothes to wear, but was gifted clothes by a rich boy who didn't have life ahead of him.

Author: Chima_Dickson Official