FROM THE GUY'S PERSPECTIVE

 FROM THE GUY'S PERSPECTIVE

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1----- People come into our Lives for 2 Reasons: To Educate or To Complicate. Each Reason is important to the all round Human Learning.

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2------ A Guy needs a Woman that will believe in His Dream and Help Him achieve it. Not a Woman that wants to Please herself all the time.

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3---- Men love their Mothers bcoz subconsciously, we know She is the only Woman that will ever Love us unconditionally and want nothing in return.

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4----- It's crazy what defines a "Real Man" these days is how much Money he has and willing to spend on a Female.

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5------- A Beautiful Woman is easy to Find. Easy to Get, Easy to Wifey. But you need more than Beauty to build a HOME.

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6------ Pain Changes People, but also makes them Stronger.

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7---- You will likely end up disappointed if you think People will care for you the way you care for Them. Not everybody has your Heart.

TEACH OUR BOYS YOUNG;TEACH 'EM NOW.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

TEACH OUR BOYS YOUNG;

TEACH 'EM NOW.

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If you are a father in this group. Be aware that we are commanded by God Almighty to teach our children how to become responsible fathers and mothers. God will hold us accountable for the attitude of the children we ought to direct properly to  serve God and humanity.

      Therefore we must stand firm on the principles of discipline and virtuous conducts whatever happens. Not minding the fierce campaign of the iniquitous. WE MUST DEMONSTRATE THE EXAMPLES TO THEM. 

     We must teach the boys to become responsible men and husbands of impeccable characters. Men who will marry in an appropriate legitimate manner and who will love their wives and children, provide for the physical, sociological, physiological, psychological and spiritual needs of their wives and children. We must raise men who will be faithful to their chosen wives even in the face of aggressive seduction by irresponsible females. Our boys must be taught from infancy to imbibe self-control and personal integrity no matter the influences of the devil's "modern world." 

     Our boys need strict orientation in order to be able to escape from the numerous immoral females prowling around looking for males to destroy while pretending to be virtuous and even holier.

     For men to sustain the leadership role of husbands and fathers, there is the need, too, to protect our boys from being exposed  to cheap sexual offers from their female counterparts before marriage.

WE HAVE TO TEACH THEM TO BE IN CONTROL OTHERWISE WE HAVE FAILED OUR GOD.

Life may break you

Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won't either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could.”

Louise Erdrich

Catrin Welz Stein

I never realized you loved ne

I had chased people for so long trying to convince them to love me to no avail.

I wanted to be loved so much that it clouded my judgement and made me want the right thing with the wrong person too often.

I never realized that you can’t make someone love you, no matter how hard you try and how much you want them to..

I fought to win the heart of potential partners and I tried to befriend people that weren’t meant to be in my life.

It’s a very upsetting feeling to get rejected by people that you want in your life..

Until you realize that they aren’t your people.

It’s hard lesson to learn, but the moment I met someone that I just clicked with from the first hello..

That’s when I realized the truth of love.

You can’t make anyone love you that doesn’t want to ..and the ones who are your people will love you, regardless of time, distance or behavior.

Those are my people..the ones that have my back, love me unconditionally and accept me, flaws and all.

I don’t have to talk them into my being my friend and loving me..they just do.

Love will come when it is time..and nothing I can do will change that.

I stopped trying to force people into what I thought my love story should be and started just loving myself more.

I’d let my friends find me however they were supposed to and I’d love them unconditionally when they finally showed up..

I worked on me and let true love find me when it was time.

I knew that it would happen when I least expect it in the most unexpected way..

And one fine afternoon, a simple hello from a beautiful soul reminded me why all the others never worked out.

When I stopped trying to love the wrong people and started going where the love is..

Everything changed.

I was so thankful that I stopped trying to force love and let it be..

Let it happen naturally, as love has rules all its own..and what we want doesn’t always work out.

And it made all the difference, after all.

I went where the love was, and I couldn’t have imagined a happier place to be..

Now or ever.|ravenwolf

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That moment you think while world is crashing on you

I know there’s days when you wake up and the whole world seems to be crashing down on your shoulders.

Close your eyes and take a deep breath.

You don’t have to have it all figured out or even know where the day will take you.

There’s always going to be those days that you can’t seem to get anything right and everything just piles up.

You don’t have to conquer it all at once.

Stop focusing on the whole weight of your world and take it one step at a time..

Baby steps, if you have to.

Every one of us is a mess sometimes, we all have moments where we just want to cry..

And if you need to, just let it out.

Tackle each thing, job and task one at a time and keep moving forward.

Some days, you’ll feel as though you can do anything and other days, you’ll put your keys in the refrigerator.

That’s just life- some good days, some bad days and the days that make you want to quit.

You’ll never be perfect, but the great thing is..you don’t have to be.

Don’t put unrealistic expectations on yourself and then let the worry of how you’ll get it all done stress you out.

Most importantly, stop being in a hurry all the time to do all the things and get everywhere super fast..

You’ll miss some of life’s greatest little moments if you’re zooming through trying to conquer life without stopping.

Never get too busy doing and forget to live along the way.

Do the things, get the jobs done, be efficient..

But more than that, notice the small things- the smell of a fresh morning dew, the beauty of the world around us, the laughter of small children playing.

That’s the stuff of memories that you’ll miss if you’re in a tizzy worrying about all the tasks and things to do.

Don’t neglect them- they’re important- but don’t neglect yourself, either.

Take the time to fill your heart and soul with the joy that replenish you with the good stuff.

So, yes, you’re going to be a mess some days, and sometimes, you’ll be figuring it out as you go..

Just keep moving forward and do what you can, how you can, when you can.

Most of all, don’t stop living and enjoying your life.

After all, what good is it to conquer the world if you don’t take the time to enjoy it along the way?

Each day is a new opportunity to start a new chapter.

Keep going..you’ll get where you need to be when you need to be there.

It just takes a little time, effort and patience sometimes.

You got this.

|ravenwolf

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I wanted to be loved

I had chased people for so long trying to convince them to love me to no avail.

I wanted to be loved so much that it clouded my judgement and made me want the right thing with the wrong person too often.

I never realized that you can’t make someone love you, no matter how hard you try and how much you want them to..

I fought to win the heart of potential partners and I tried to befriend people that weren’t meant to be in my life.

It’s a very upsetting feeling to get rejected by people that you want in your life..

Until you realize that they aren’t your people.

It’s hard lesson to learn, but the moment I met someone that I just clicked with from the first hello..

That’s when I realized the truth of love.

You can’t make anyone love you that doesn’t want to ..and the ones who are your people will love you, regardless of time, distance or behavior.

Those are my people..the ones that have my back, love me unconditionally and accept me, flaws and all.

I don’t have to talk them into my being my friend and loving me..they just do.

Love will come when it is time..and nothing I can do will change that.

I stopped trying to force people into what I thought my love story should be and started just loving myself more.

I’d let my friends find me however they were supposed to and I’d love them unconditionally when they finally showed up..

I worked on me and let true love find me when it was time.

I knew that it would happen when I least expect it in the most unexpected way..

And one fine afternoon, a simple hello from a beautiful soul reminded me why all the others never worked out.

When I stopped trying to love the wrong people and started going where the love is..

Everything changed.

I was so thankful that I stopped trying to force love and let it be..

Let it happen naturally, as love has rules all its own..and what we want doesn’t always work out.

And it made all the difference, after all.

I went where the love was, and I couldn’t have imagined a happier place to be..

Now or ever.|ravenwolf

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