I had chased people for so long trying to convince them to love me to no avail.
I wanted to be loved so much that it clouded my judgement and made me want the right thing with the wrong person too often.
I never realized that you can’t make someone love you, no matter how hard you try and how much you want them to..
I fought to win the heart of potential partners and I tried to befriend people that weren’t meant to be in my life.
It’s a very upsetting feeling to get rejected by people that you want in your life..
Until you realize that they aren’t your people.
It’s hard lesson to learn, but the moment I met someone that I just clicked with from the first hello..
That’s when I realized the truth of love.
You can’t make anyone love you that doesn’t want to ..and the ones who are your people will love you, regardless of time, distance or behavior.
Those are my people..the ones that have my back, love me unconditionally and accept me, flaws and all.
I don’t have to talk them into my being my friend and loving me..they just do.
Love will come when it is time..and nothing I can do will change that.
I stopped trying to force people into what I thought my love story should be and started just loving myself more.
I’d let my friends find me however they were supposed to and I’d love them unconditionally when they finally showed up..
I worked on me and let true love find me when it was time.
I knew that it would happen when I least expect it in the most unexpected way..
And one fine afternoon, a simple hello from a beautiful soul reminded me why all the others never worked out.
When I stopped trying to love the wrong people and started going where the love is..
Everything changed.
I was so thankful that I stopped trying to force love and let it be..
Let it happen naturally, as love has rules all its own..and what we want doesn’t always work out.
And it made all the difference, after all.
I went where the love was, and I couldn’t have imagined a happier place to be..
Now or ever.|ravenwolf
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