The relationships you should hold on to are the relationships that add value to your life.
It's time we sit down and evaluate the people who are closest to us. What value have we been able to impart or get from knowing this person?
Am I making any progress mentally and otherwise?
There are so many reasons why somebody would decide to stay with you, it could be as a result of what they are getting from you, financially, spiritually, emotionally...but you need to figure out what they actually enjoy from your company.
What are you giving out in making your relationship fruitful? We have all been so busy that we hardly spend or create time in building a lasting relationship. Modern technology has helped in widening the gap because communication is mostly on phones.
No relationship last without both parties playing their roles effectively. It's not one-sided. Be the reason why someone wants to always be in your company,not only because they enjoy it, but because you have so much to give, in adding value to their life.
A wake up call to all and sundry, including myself.
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