Friday, 22 September 2023

Never treat anyone as an option. Options don’t last; priorities do.

 Never treat anyone as an option. Options don’t last; priorities do.

Keeping someone your priority means that the person is important. When someone is important, you try everything possible to make that relationship work.
Sometimes people treat certain people in their life as an option.
When you keep someone as an option, it means that their presence or absence doesn't make much difference, but the reason you are still holding on to them is you are afraid that if things don’t work out and you let them go, you may not have anyone to be with.
The truth is that a person can never be an option. If they are your option, you are not with them wholeheartedly. With such half-hearted feelings, you always see problems, imperfections and a reason to end that relationship, so even if you end up having that person in your life, such relationships don’t work.
In any relationship, be involved with your whole heart. If you are considering keeping someone as an option, it is better to let them go so they can be with somewhere they are valued.

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